First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - BONUS - To Catch A Cheater - Ruby & Patrick - Unfinished Business

Episode Date: May 8, 2025

Think your partner might be up to something shady? The Jubal Show has you covered. In this explosive segment, The Jubal Show helps suspicious lovers uncover the truth by setting up the ultimate loyalty test. We call their significant other, posing as a grocery store’s floral department offering a free bouquet. You know.. a War of the Roses. The catch? Who they choose to send the flowers to—and what they write on the card—could reveal everything. Will it be a romantic gesture for their partner or a shocking betrayal? Get ready for twists, surprises, and jaw-dropping confrontations as we help our listeners get the answers they deserve. Subscribe to The Jubal Show's To Catch A Cheater / War of the Roses.➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy. I finally was like, what am I waiting for? And I did it. And I'm just so glad that I did. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating.

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But now she thinks that something might be going on, so hopefully we can help her out. Ruby, what's up? Why do you think Patrick's cheating on you? Yeah, I mean You know, he's kind of like he's kind of been one of those like puppy dog type of guys You know, I mean like he just kind of does everything he makes sure I don't need anything when I get home You know, he's like cleaned my apartment for me Like he makes sure, yeah, like, it's been sweet. I gave him my keys so like, he'll just do things, make sure they're ready when I get back from work.

And yeah, so he's been really cool, but like it's sort of stopped really suddenly. Like he was going really, really hot and it's been, you know, like about 14 months now. And all of a sudden it just like stopped really suddenly. And you notice that when that happened. Of course. Do you think that it was an intentional stop? Like, are you being thankful for all of the things that he does?

Like, does he feel not appreciated or do you think that it has to do with something else? Oh, yeah, like, I mean, I feel like I've always been really appreciative of it and I don't try to like force it. And it's not like I'm telling him like, quit my apartment. You know, I don't do that, you know, and he's he's allowed to just, you know, like, it's not like I tell him I want him with me all the time. He's free to go wherever and do whatever. But, you know, he's,

he's choosing to do that. And, and now it's like, he's choosing to be really distant. He's choosing to like, go out with his friends every time I come home, instead of being there. He's, and then when he is there, he's like on the phone all the time. Jubal, you're kind of the puppy dog type too. So what would make you stop doing things like that? Would it be because you're doing it for somebody else? It would probably be the not appreciated thing. That's what I would think. But is there anything else going on, Ruby?

I mean like, so I feel like that's enough. But like I did have this moment where he was home and he was on his phone, he's texting somebody and I go in the room behind him and so I can see like it's a girl's name, I can't remember what it was, but it was a girl's name. Then right when I'm about to say something to him, she texts him an a**pick. Oh!

What? This is a different story. Yeah, yeah. What'd you do? Well, I immediately was like, oh, excuse me, right? And so I said that immediately and he turns around

and he's giving me this whole story about, this was a friend of his and she was messaging him, like trying to hook up and he was taken and he was going to message her right then and tell her that and it's innocent and he's trying to tell me all that. I mean I feel kind of dumb now saying this but like I saw him texting her right when he said that but like I didn't go and like read it.

And I probably should have. Well, you want to be able to trust him, but if your gut is still telling you, that's kind of strange. I mean, 14 months is a long time. You would think by now she would know that he was with somebody. That's a good point.

Yeah, I mean, he was trying to say like, like she was like a new friend so like they hadn't gotten to that point where they were talking about that stuff yet or whatever. Seems a little weird. A lot of questions about your new female friend. Yeah. All right, well we'll play a song, come back and then call him and do the usual. You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards card member at so we'll pretend

to be from the grocery store and say that every month we choose one rewards member who gets a free gift from us And it's flowers delivered from our floral apartment to anybody that you want and we'll see if he sends those to you or to somebody else Okay, cool. Great. Thanks. All right, we'll get you to catch a cheater next Yo keep up this is your boy bomb Han and I'm bringing you something epic Introducing the k-factor the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-pop. We're talking music reviews, exclusive interviews, and deep dives into the industry like never before. From producers and choreographers to idols and trainees, we're bringing you the real stories behind the music that you love.

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before she finds the right guy. Connie didn't meet her right guy until you were what, 50, Connie? How long have you guys been together? Yeah, no, 52. 52. I adopted my son as a single mom because I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy, no, 52. 52. 52. I adopted my son as a single mom because I kept thinking, oh, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy, I'm going to meet the guy.

I finally was like, what am I waiting for? And I did it. And I'm just so glad that I did. I want to change the narrative about single parents and also help to create a community for single parents so that they can not feel alone in it. One of the big things is it's so hard, especially for women, to ask for help. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app,

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so in a second We're gonna call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at and say that he's this month's Lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral apartment and we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend Ruby or to somebody else But before we do that Ruby, why don't you break down your situation for us one more time real quick. Yeah. Um, so we've been together over a year and he's been really, really good, really nice to me doing all these things for me.

And all of a sudden he's just completely switched. Um, he's not doing things for me anymore. He's on the phone all the time. And lately I saw where a girl sent him a picture of her ass and he seemed to have a good excuse for it, but I don't know. Yeah, it's weird. Saying it's a new friend that didn't know that he was in a relationship.

That is weird. Yeah, especially after 14 months. Are you ready for us to call him now? Oh yeah. Okay, here we go. for us to call him now? Oh yeah. Okay, here we go. (*phone ringing*)

Hello? Hi, this is Corbett calling from ****. I was looking for our rewards card member named Patrick ****. Yeah, I'm Patrick. Patrick, hi, please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations.

You're this month's lucky winner. Thank you so much for being a rewards card member with us. You're clapping for you here in the offices and everything. So what does that mean? Maybe you don't know every single month we choose one rewards card member who gets a free gift from the store just for being such a valued customer. And this month, it's free flowers delivered from our floor department to anybody that you want within the 50 United States of America absolutely free.

Oh what kind of flowers are they? Well good question it's 36 long stem red roses a box of candy or chocolates and a card. Okay yeah okay. Okay great so the first thing I would need would be the first and last name of the person and then we'll get anything you want to put on a card and then the address and we should be good to go and you'll get confirmations on all this stuff. Okay, yes, the name is Regina. Got that. Okay. And anything you want to put on the card? Yeah, I do. Roses for my baby. Thank you for believing in me.

Great. Then I will get the address from you...never. I don't understand. Well, Patrick, this is actually the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. Yeah. Hi, Patrick. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. We do a segment on our show called To Catch a Cheater

where if you think your significant other might be messing around, you see who they send flowers to to and your girlfriend Ruby's on the phone and probably wants to know who Regina is. Ruby? Well, you Ruby set this up? Yeah, Ruby set this up. Yeah, hi. Real quick, I'm so sorry to you guys because I knew more than I said I knew.

But yeah, I absolutely knew if he was cheating on me. Absolutely, because who completely ghosted me and ducked my calls? What? Yeah, like he's been gone forever. Like I absolutely know. Like there's somebody else, come on. I've been busy with work and I told you

that I was gonna be doing a project and that I wasn't gonna be around. I told you that. Are you in a relationship? I'm in something. And that I wasn't gonna be around I told you that Are you in a relationship? I'm in I'm in something which wish woman Ruby or Regina I I'm not even talking to people on the on a radio about this okay Well, I mean you don't think about the radio part just a question Look, I'm I'm doing my music right now, okay

I don't know what's funny here. Yeah, okay. I said I've been busy with work. I'm working on what work. What's what work? He does not have a job. Is Ruby your girlfriend, Patrick? Ruby has been a girlfriend to me. Okay.

What is she now? Ask her. She said you're her boyfriend and you've been cheating. a girlfriend to me. Okay. What is she now? Ask her. She said you're her boyfriend and you've been cheating. Ruby, is he your boyfriend or did you lie to us about that part? Up to this moment, I still considered him that even though I knew that he was fooling around on me. Because I was hoping to call him out on some bulls**t here and it sounds like he's really

full of it today. So what kind of work do you have? So we've never we've never like walked around with like an official title because we both have always just been in something with each other. So you're a situation ship? Yeah, that's what you want to call it. Yeah, that's what we've been. Yeah, okay.

The problem is that I mean, look, Ruby doesn't believe in anything I do. She doesn't care about anything that I care about in my life. It's always been what, who I am to her. So whatever I am to her is, is the first time in life for her. So, okay. So like if you want anything to me, then like how come I gave you a key to my apartment and how come you took a bunch of my stuff with you when you took your stuff out? Because you like the food that I make

and I take care of the area. You took pencils with you, you took all your stuff with you and you took my external hard drive with you. What? So it sounds like he moved out or he broke out. But you never moved in. Yeah, it's been like this for the last two months.

I let this man move into my apartment two weeks after I knew him. He has been mooching off of me for over a year, free rent, free place to stay, free place to work on the music that he supposedly has some kind of work with or whatever, which is a laugh. Take my stuff with him when he leaves and say that I'm the one that was in it

for stuff. You gave me that hard drive by the way. You gave, you told me, I didn't talk to you. Look, this is the way situationships work. You know that something's over, but you, we still hooked up a couple of times, but we both knew that this was done. I moved out. The stuff has been separated. And now you're wondering if I'm talking to somebody else.

Yes, I'm talking to somebody else who believes in me and who supports me and who's interested in what I do. And I'm interested in what you do. It's called a mutual respect and a mutual support. Okay. What does she do? Support you as well? That's what I just said. Yeah, yeah, that's what I thought. Okay.

Well, it sounds like you guys have been broken up for a minute anyway, Ruby. So, I don't know... You're confirmed. ...what you're trying to do. Well, now that I know that you're cheating, you know what? We are broken up. Because I'm breaking up with you. That's it. We are so done. You have all the space in the world now. That's fine. I broke up with you two months ago No, we were together and I'm breaking up with you because you are a freaking cheater

I said this is not working And because it's not on your terms. You know, I just told you just now that it was not working. I told you it wasn't working. And then you come in with the whole like, it's not working. Yeah, because I just said that you could like. Yeah, you know what? You know what? Official record.

You broke up with me. I'm going to let you have it. OK. Fantastic. Now give me my drive back. What? You broke up with me. I'm going to let you have it. Okay. Now give me my drive back. What? Today. See, now you're being, this is what's called being better. You don't have anything on that drive. You have like, there was two files on there and there's no data on there.

You're saying that because it's better damn well still be on there because my brother has no problem going back to jail. Oh, I will give you your drive back later this afternoon. Okay. Between five and six. I will put it in your mailbox tonight when I get done offloading all of my music. So you're going to wait a few hours.

You can do that and I can get my lawyer. Oh, wow. Okay. You can do that and I can get my lawyer. Oh wow. Okay, good luck with that. This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Connie Britton is here. I think you should encourage your friend to go ahead and not be holding out for any man to have her babies. She could be waiting another 10 years before she finds the right guy.

Connie didn't meet her right guy until you were what 50 Connie 52 52 I kept thinking oh, I'm gonna meet the guy. I'm gonna meet the guy. I'm gonna meet the guy I finally was like what am I waiting for and I did it and I'm just so glad that I did Listen to dear Chelsea on the I heart radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. I Found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly. I collect my roommates' toenails and fingernails. Those were some callers from my call-in podcast,

Therapy Gecko. It's a show where I take phone calls from anonymous strangers as a fake gecko therapist and try to learn a little bit about their lives. I know that's a weird concept but I promise it's very interesting. Check it out for yourself by searching for Therapy Gecko on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo Kpop fans are you ready? It's your boy BumHun

and I'm bringing you the K-PAC-ter. The podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind the scenes K-pop stories. Plus, you're the fans, you're part of the show. And you can get a chance to jump in, share your opinions, and be part of the conversation like never before. And trust me, you never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K Factor starting on April 16

on iHeartRadio Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. This isn't just a podcast, it's a K-pop experience. Are you in? Let's go. I want you to ask yourself right now, how am I actually doing? Because it's a question that we rarely ask ourselves. All of May is actually mental health awareness month.

And on the psychology of your twenties, we are taking a vulnerable look at why mental health is so hard to talk about. Prepare for our conversations to go deep. I spent the majority of my teenage years, of my 20s, just feeling absolutely terrified. I had a panic attack on a conference call. Knowing that she had six months to live, I was no longer pretending that this was my best friend. So this Mental Health Awareness Month, take that extra bit of care of your wellbeing. Listen. Listen to the psychology of your 20s on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.