First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Bria & Jason - The First Date That Fell Apart Over… Dessert?

Episode Date: December 4, 2025

Bria thought she nailed her first date homemade dinner, real conversations, major chemistry. So why did Jason suddenly vanish afterward? In this unhinged episode of our First Date Follow-Up, we dig into the moment that turned the night upside down… and trust us, it’s not what you think. Was it the intimacy? The vibe shift? A bizarre dating “rule”? Or something even pettier?We call Jason to get the truth, and the reason he gives sparks one of the wildest arguments we’ve ever had on the show. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Get the big short now at pushkin.fm slash audio books or wherever audio books are sold. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. Brea is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him

and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Brea, how long has it been since you heard from Jason? It's been at least, oh, God, like a week that he hasn't responded to me. Okay. Yeah, I reached out a couple days ago and, yeah, nothing. What did you say to him when you reached out? I just was like, hey, love your date when I got out again.

Oh, and then nothing. Yeah. So how was the date? I got it went really well. you know um before the day we talked for a while on the apps and i don't know it's just kind of like real conversations really vibey stuff not not just like surface level you know um we talked about how much i love cooking and he seemed like he was in the bat and so then he came over for dinner so i could make him dinner and i know i know it was the first day that was at my place which was

super scary and risky but like i was going to clarify like wait what he came over okay bold i love that yeah but i think i'm good at reading people so i think it's fine you know okay and so i made him a saffron chicken herb rice and a cucumber yogurt salad and yeah he ate everything and poured a lot more wine and it was getting like super romantic and then we went to the couch and with the line and um i don't know i was trying to figure out how to get to the next step you know and i remember this guy friend that i had mentioned that uh if you want to tease the man you just blow on the back of his neck so i did and then i jumped up and freaked out like i tasered him yeah if that happened yeah it might it might shock me too i was just going to say jubel is that

a turn on uh if you just we were like i was eating and you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of blew on the back of my neck and probably I'd probably jump yeah we weren't eating anymore we but the wine did get everywhere oh no were you guys like making out before you did it or you just

kind of just leaned over and blew on his neck I did kind of just lean over and blow okay yeah maybe that was a shock I feel like you gotta give people grace though right like right when you start to talk to somebody new you got to feel them out so a little neck blow hopefully

wouldn't do it, but it is a little surprise. I said sorry and I explained like this is something the friend told me to do and he laughed it off but then immediately said he had to go. Oh. And like I don't know. I thought we had chemistry and

he asked me a lot of questions as like people don't do, you know? He asked me about my childhood my favorite books and like I cannot remember last time a man asking a question. Well that's good. On his way out did you guys kiss again to say goodbye or was he just like

oh yeah I got to go and then he was just gone you was just like I got to go and then he was gone and like it sucks it sucks because I don't just bring anyone to my space and I don't really safe with him and like I don't know I know that that was a weird choice didn't feel like a deal breaker you know yeah there's one moment out of the whole

evening right well let's see if we can figure it out for you we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe you a second date, okay? Okay, great. All right, we'll get your first date follow up next. Right in the middle of your first date, follow up, and if you're just joining us, Bria is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason, so we're about to call

him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But, Brea, before we do that, why don't you recap your date for us again real quick? We had a great time. He came to my place. I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided to blow on his neck afterwards to get things going, and he did not like that. And you think maybe it was the neck blowing that kind of creeped him out, and that's why he's ghosting you? It's got to be.

It's got to be. Well, are you ready to go? Call him right now. Yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, man. Speak to Jason, please.

Um, this is me. Hey, Jason, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Jason. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal.

How are you? Whoa. Okay. Hi. How are you doing? Good. Have you listened to the show before? Yeah.

I think I know what this is about. Is it about Brea? Yes. Oh, it is. He does listen to the show. First-day follow-up. Yep, you went out with Brea and you're ghosting her, so she emailed us to see if you'll tell us why you're ghosting her.

Do you mind talking about it? Okay, wow. All right. Well, look, the dinner was incredible. Like, easily top five meals I've ever had. Wow. There's no doubt. But there was no dessert.

She said she tried to, you know, have a little, like that kind of dessert. You know, like, so my grandma raised me, and she always said, real woman sends her man off with something sweet. And that night I kept waiting, but maybe it was like chilling in the fridge or something. Oh, like, you're talking about food. Oh, yeah, you're not, you actually mean dessert. Yeah, literally, like, dessert. And it's not just like, you know, dessert. It's like this principle of, like, completing the meal, you know.

Like, she nailed the savory, but there was no sweet. it wasn't balanced and I just kept like waiting for the meal to end and it like never did That's why you're ghosting her is because The food was good But it did not include a sweet treat at the end Yeah it was just weird

Like I was just like I didn't want to ask But I just kept waiting And it was just like my palate was all confused And it was like I don't know What? Dude you have dessert every night Is that something that? you do?

I mean, not if I'm just, like, you know, eating on the go, but like for a meal, you know, like part of like a meal. I don't know. It's like, it's not polite. It's not polite to, like, not serve the dessert. You know what I mean? Okay. All right.

Well, thank you for being honest with us. Yeah. No, that's how I felt about it. And Jason, Brea is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Okay. You've got to be kidding me. You've got to be kidding me. not polite you know what you know what else is not polite ghosting someone oh my god are you

serious right now also what is this 1952 I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm pie to tuck you in at night like it's not about you got to be kidding about like thoughtfulness you know like I don't know I mean it's not 1952 but my grandma knew how to take care of people oh okay oh oh good good so it sounds like to me, like, you don't want a girlfriend. You want a grandma with benefits, right? Oh, that just sounds weird. I don't like that visual.

Try to seduce me with a ghost breeze to the jugular. Like, that's not care. That's confusion. A ghost breeze? Okay, I was trying to give you something sweet, and you should have like been an adult and said something. You ghost me over a cake. It's not a gig. It's just like my grandma's principles, you know? Like,

that's like yeah it's the fact you don't get the cake you know i'm i'm so sorry i'm not your grandma i'm sorry i'm not your grandma i'm sorry i'm not your grandma i am too honestly so i really thought you were cool but i'm not getting grandma vibes it's just like you know it's too bad you're looking for a grandma you're looking for grandma characteristics in your woman um i mean in a certain way i guess yeah you know you got to tick that box as well, you know? This is ridiculous. And, yeah, I'm sure you can go to a nursing room bingo night to find the woman.

Jason, would you like a second date with Brea? We'll pay for it. I think I'm going to pass. No dessert, like no direction. Oh, what? Great. You and your grandma can go bake cookies and have to sleep over together then. How dare you?

My grandma's a beautiful woman. Seriously, how dare you are? She must be so proud. She's an amazing woman. She's beautiful. And honestly, it's too bad you didn't get a chance to meet her because you could have learned a lot from her, Maria. I know he has a reputation, but it's going to catch up to him.

Gabe Ortiz is a cop. His brother Larry, a mystery Gabe didn't want to solve until it was too late. He was the head of this gang. You're going to push that line for the cause. Took us under his wing and showed us the game, as they call it. When Larry's killed, Game Must Untangle the Dangerous Past, one that could destroy everything he thought he knew.

Listen to the Brothers Ortiz on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, everyone, it's me, Katie Couric. Did you know that I recently joined Substack? Very exciting. It's where I'll be sharing my unfiltered. conversations with the people everyone's talking about. I'll also tell you what I'm reading, what I'm watching, what's making me crazy, and what's giving me hope. If you like deep dives,

hot takes, and real talk, you're in the right place. Search Katie Couric on Substack and hit subscribe. I'll be there reporting live, most likely, in my pajamas. See you there. Hi, I'm Danny Shapiro. We were in the car, like a Rolling Stone came on, and he said, There's a line in there about your mother. And I said, what? What I would do if I didn't feel like I was being accepted is choose an identity that other people can't have. I knew something had happened to me in the middle of the night, but I couldn't hold on to what had happened. These are just a few of the moving and important stories on my 13th season of Family Secrets.

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