First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Brooke & DJ - Spain

Episode Date: November 22, 2024

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and Brooke is on the phone today, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named DJ. So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But Brooke, first, how long has it been since you heard from DJ? It's been like two weeks.

Okay. Okay. Have you reached out to him in that time? Well, I reached out a couple times right after the first date, just to like, you know, hey, how's your day? And like then I sent him like a cute pic and he responded, but he was really short. And then I was like, oh, you know, let me just wait and see, you know, let him reach out to me.

And he hasn't said anything to me in like two weeks. How's the day? Why don't you tell us about that? How did you guys meet and stuff? Well, so we met on hinge and um you know he seemed really nice he was very polite um respectful and we started chatting about like travel and stuff like that and we both had taken trips to spain so we kind of bonded over that we were sending pictures back and forth and um you know know, then he was like, hey, you know, let me take you out. So I was like, okay, so we ended up going to this nice little Spanish restaurant where we had some tapas. And, you know, it was like we were kind of experiencing a little bit of, you know,

Spain and we were chatting and we really hit it off. We drank, we danced, we danced really close and um we kind of ended up going back to my place and um we didn't have the ultimate fun but we did have some fun okay you know we we had some like pillow talk and you know talk about hopes and dreams and you know but was like, hey, before this goes any further, maybe we should end the night here and you should get going. Well, it seems like it was going well to get to that point. Yeah, we had great chemistry, great conversation, and I felt like there was definitely attraction on both parts. So I'm not really sure.

I don't know what's going on. Was there anything that happened on the date that could have been kind of a clue well a couple times when we were dancing I kind of like I kind of like redirected him a little bit you know because his rhythm was kind of off and I mean I was polite about it but and then

you know I guess a couple times back at my place I was kind of like giving him a little bit of direction you know, in the bedroom, so to speak. I mean, good for you, though. I don't know, would that be a turn off to a guy? I don't know.

Those guys that I know say they like that. I mean, I know I do. I appreciate it because I'm like, it's your stuff. I don't know how to use it. Right. I thought guys liked having like, you know, women say, hey, this is what I want kind of thing. But I don't know. Maybe that turned him off.

Like, I honestly don't know because I thought we hit it off so well. I mean, the alternative to the people liking it is the like, oh, now I'm like less of a man because I couldn't do it by myself. And so if you make me feel less than then I'm not going to feel good in the situation. I always feel like more of a man because it's like I'm listening. Tell me where. Oh. I'm a good listener. That's a good job, Sue. You should be rewarded

for listening. I'm really confused, you know. I figured, you know, we were even talking about like, oh, we can't wait to go out on another date together. Like that conversation came up and then you know, now it's like, okay, just

straight ghost. The last thing you sent him was a picture and he didn't respond to it he did but he was like just really short like oh cute and then that was it and i haven't heard a word from him since the reaction i would have liked in other words yeah i can't figure out like i want wish i knew what he was thinking but i I almost feel like a little embarrassed at this point like I send you a pic and you know nothing so I'm like I don't know I don't know what to think we'll see if we can figure it out for you we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get to another date

okay all right okay thanks guys okay we'll play a song, come back, get your first aid, follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki,

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situation um just basically i met a guy on hinge and we hit it off really well we bonded over travel we both saw have gone to spain went and had a great dinner, had a wonderful time together. Definitely got a little heated and in a good way. Yeah. He did in a good way. Not like arguing. All right. Are you ready for us to call him? Yes, I'm ready to find out what's going on. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to DJ, please?

Yeah, this is him. DJ, hey man, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, DJ, the whole show is are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, DJ. The whole show is here. I'm Nina.

Hi, and I'm Victoria. How's it going? Pretty good. How are you? Yeah, I'm good. Yeah, I'm great. Have you ever heard of The Jubal Show before? Yeah, I don't listen, I'll be honest.

So I'm a little thrown here. But yeah, I've heard of you guys. Well, if you don't listen, I'll tell you, we do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That means if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Uh-huh.

Okay. Okay. Is it Brooke? Yes, it is yeah that was quick this is is this an intentional ghosting then um no i mean i feel bad i mean it's intentional in the sense that like i don't think there's anything there uh moving forward but i like i would i wasn't meaning to be like rude or whatever i just i think i think i just kind of uh i guess i moved on i probably should have i don't know i always i'm not very good about that part i should have been more clear with her or whatever but i yeah i just didn't

you're just not interested i mean there's no specific reason oh no i mean she was great i just um it was just kind of disappointing because I, oh, it's awkward. I guess I'm kind of old fashioned because I'm really looking for like who I'm, like somebody I'm going to marry. You know what I mean? So like, it just became clear that like, she's probably not going to be that person. And so I was just kind of like, well, just kind of. Why though? How do you know that?

Well, she's like, I'm looking for someone very specific, like in my head, like just I've really wanted to. OK, so I really wanted to marry somebody who's Spanish. Like, I just have this dream of like getting married in Spain to a Spanish person. And then like I thought she was spanish and she's not she's like german or something so okay did she say she was spanish like what made you think that she was like all my algorithm stuff that i i put in on the app is like looking for a spanish person and like she was even like it was like spanglish she's been to spain she looks spanish to me

i just it's my fault like it's my fault because i went back and i looked more closely at her profile and like she has a picture of herself with a cross like no no jesus you know what i mean protestant uh oh and so like that's the first thing you ask because i really need i really need to marry a spanish catholic that's very specific. Yeah, that is. How do you know she's not Spanish? Did you ask her? Have you seen her family tree?

Yeah, I did actually look her up. I looked up the name and I was like, oh, that's German. That's as white as you can get. Okay. I mean, I guess if that's what you want and you're not willing to settle for anything but a spanish catholic woman yeah i mean there's so many things i don't know about my life but that

that part i have figured out you know sure thank you for being honest with us i appreciate that and dj now i have to let you know that brooke is actually on the phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. So you, we hit it off. We had a great time, and you basically ghosted me because I'm not Spanish? Yeah, I'm sorry. Or Catholic. But yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah.

And you just assumed that I'm not Catholic. Okay. Sorry. Yeah. Okay. I mean, just, you I'm not Catholic. Okay. All right. Yeah. Okay. I mean, just, you know,

the cross, like I like, so, so remember I was talking about the Sagrada Familia and you can actually get married there, but like somebody, one of the, one of the two people has to be Catholic. And so like,

I'm looking for somebody who's Catholic. I was hitting it off all the conversation that we had, the great time that we had. Okay. It was such that we had. Okay. It was such a good time. Okay, you know what? You were an amazing, yeah. No, I'm just, like, you should know, like, you did nothing.

It's my fault. I apologize. Like, I misunderstood. And I, like, you're an amazing person. Oh, you misunderstood more than you think. But that's okay because the joke's on you because i actually am spanish so my grandfather on my mother's side is from outside of madrid plot twist yikes i'm not all german i do have german but but that's okay no problem i mean if that's true we should

oh my god would you like to go out with brooke on another date we'll pay for it yeah you'll pay for yeah for sure i mean yeah i mean i mean that i could probably um we should try i mean we did hit it we had a lot of chemistry to think about it oh we did yeah that's that's unfortunate for you um yeah hard pass on the second date, but thanks, guys. I appreciate it. Not after finding out how superficial you are. Here's the thing. I'm willing to admit when I'm wrong. I was wrong.

I was wrong. You're right. That was superficial of me, and maybe I'm just afraid to open up. This is a stretch. Just give me another shot. Just give me another shot. And then I think you'll see that we actually do have a future. Oh, my God.

I mean, what would you guys do? What do you guys think? I don't know, honestly, because he had his heart set on this one type of person. He obviously didn't. He doesn't have his heart set on a person. He has his heart set on getting married at the Sagrada Familia. To a Spanish Catholic woman. Right.

So who cares who she is? Insert Spanish Catholic woman. Victoria enters the building. I am down to get married in Las Sagradas Familia. No offense, DJ. That's what you are, Brooke. So now, like, it makes, I mean, I guess you're what he wants. Yeah, but it's not me.

So I feel like it's, yeah, it's a lost cause at this point. I'm definitely not interested anymore. But the thing is, I was wrong. wrong it is you it is you because you are spanish and you could i mean you could i don't know if you're cat you could be you could convert and then just the pictures would be so beautiful like just imagine the pictures oh no No. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,

right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions,

the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove. Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season. But, you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations we've had so far. I mean, we talked to A. Marie, Johnny Marr, E., Jonathan Sheckner, Billy Porter, and so many more. Look, if you haven't heard these episodes yet, hey, now's your chance.

You gotta check them out. Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.