First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Bryce & Alyssa - Perfection

Episode Date: October 17, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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named Bryce. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Alyssa, how long has it been since you heard from Bryce? Oh, my gosh, you guys. It's been, I want to say, two weeks. Okay. Like, that's legitimate. I gave it a week and I was like, okay, maybe he's just, like, super busy or got, like, late COVID, you know? Sure, yeah, it's possible.

Okay. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt. But, like, now it's been too long you know and i just i i really really liked this guy a lot and i thought we had a really you know strong connection but like then just to hear absolutely nothing i'm just kind of like okay like i need to find out what happened you know yeah yeah did you try to reach out to him to like instigate the conversation or anything well it's just like I don't think anything went wrong you know um I like maybe something on the date might have scared him off

like I I just I'm not sure because like he was so adamant about reaching out to me and like you know wanting to stay close and connected and then for him to just drop off a cliff like that I'm like okay something's going on you know like now I'm playing detective you know and we actually we first met and like clicked over Instagram because um we have Frenchies, very specific type of dog lover. It's a lifestyle choice, you know, so we're part of a small community of Frenchie lovers. And, you know, we just like bonded over our adorable dog children. And, you know, after a couple of weeks, like chatting back and forth uh I invited him to go with me to an Italian cooking class oh that's fun that's really fun yeah so it was like

super romantic um I was supposed to go with a friend who bailed and I was like oh my god this is perfect like it's not gonna be awkward we have an activity you know like we're not just gonna be like sitting across from each other like what if you know, like we're not just going to be like sitting across from each other. Like what if, you know, like if you meet someone online or like you're just texting, it could be weird when you finally meet in person, you know, but right. So you don't know. But when I met him, I was like, oh my God, I'm like totally floored.

Like he's so cute. He's so fun. And like we were flirting, like getting really like, you know, touchy feely and the pasta was like, it was a good excuse to like accidentally touch each other. You know what I mean? It was like major rom-com vibes. Like I was living my best Kate Hudson life, you know, this is amazing. Right. And he's like so funny so charming and he impressed the whole

class like it was just anyway like i said i really liked him that's why i'm now very confused and you know it was just like a perfect date so that's why i just can't i'm like going back in my mind trying to think of anything that i said or that he said that was like I don't know something I missed is there anything you can think of I mean I don't honestly like we were like making out by the end of the class like outside you know I was just like got real spicy um like super fun and I honestly if anything I mean it was like too perfect so I don't know um like can it be too perfect and then that's the problem like so I don't know like maybe he's also or there's just something he didn't tell me you know um and maybe he's afraid to tell me so I just am trying to

figure out um and it's weird because like now I'm checking his Instagram. I feel like a mini like low key stalker, which I'm totally not normally at all. Like I don't even date that much. So it's kind of weird. You don't even have to explain yourself. Yeah. I would do the same thing because I'm like,

are you alive? Two weeks and it's a perfect date. Did you die? What if he's in the hospital? Like, what if I should be concerned? You know? Right.

Like, should I be worried at this point? Hopefully not. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. Okay. Okay. Thank you.

All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. Ugh. Thank you. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. We're in the middle of your first date follow-up and if you're just joining us, Alyssa is on the phone

and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Alyssa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce so we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date but before we do that Alyssa why don't you catch us up on your situation real quick okay so perfect date met on Instagram initially um when we met in person it was like over the top like chemistry super amazing um making out by the end of the day, and then just like nothing for two weeks. So I'm like almost concerned at this point because there was no indication of anything that went wrong, you know, and it was almost too perfect.

So I'm like, what is going on? Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Bryce, please? Yeah, this is Bryce. Bryce, how you doing, man?

My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, Bryce Hull Show's here. My name's Nina.al, and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, Bryce Holshows here. My name's Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? Hi. Okay.

Have you ever listened to the show before? I'm sorry. No, I haven't. Okay. That's okay. I do apologize for it. Just try to do better in the future. Well, we do a segment on our show called The First Aid Follow-Up. What that is is if you go out on a date with someone and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

OK, so you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us. Do you have any idea who that would be? Yeah, I do. OK, what do you think it is? I think it is? I think it's probably Alyssa. You are probably correct. Alyssa emailed us and told us about your date, and she's confused, so would you mind telling us why you're ghosting her?

Um, okay. No, it was a great day. I didn't expect it to be that great actually. And she was kind of amazing. Um, and we, we did, we really hit it off. We got, I mean, we got along, we connected on, you know, a lot of important things like that are in our life. I mean, obviously our, our, our dogs, I'm sure she probably told you about that being, you know, being a French, a Frenchie dog owner, you know, is, kind of a whole thing. And no, it was great. It was a lot. It was kind of one of the,

I just had this moment afterwards of like thinking like, Oh, this isn't going to, I don't know how casual this is really going to be. It didn't feel like this is just going to jump a lot of steps, you know? And I don't, I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm ready for that. I just moved here, um, not that long ago. And I started with a new company and saw it. A lot of my time is focused on that. You know, when we went out, I kind of was one of my first free nights in a long time. And I just, I don't know if I really have the space in my life right now for like a serious relationship, which I think is probably where this is going to go. And I don't want to,

you know, string it out longer and, you know, let's get a lot more emotions involved and then, you know, just have to, you know, break it off or disappoint her,

you know, because then I'm like, I'm not available or, you know, all kinds of things. But does it feel like you just skipped a lot of steps, like thinking about the future before you even go on a second date? I mean,

I understand, like, I guess i kind of get fear like i think there's always fear involved when you date somebody new but how do you know that you're gonna disappoint her you know what i mean unless you're planning on it i'm okay no i'm not i'm not planning on it but i just she just seems she's just really great you know and i that's great all that and i just i just i don't i don't want to you know and i that's great all that and i just i just i don't i don't want to you know and i just came into town i don't want to i guess i don't want to get a bad reputation already you know and have an enemy you know why because you think you're gonna date other girls or it's just like you don't have time for her i'm just worried yeah i'm worried that you know i'm just i'm gonna end up not actually having time for her and she's you

know i'm gonna make it seem like we can get invested. And I don't really have that availability. Yeah, I don't really know what to say. Are you just worried that you're going to fall in love too quickly? I mean, I think that's pretty cool when you meet somebody special. I mean, yeah, but it's like, you know, I just got here and it's like, is this really happening? It is scary. And maybe I am overthinking it's like you know I just got here and it's like is this really happening like it is scary and maybe I am overthinking it you know I kind of almost want to ask like are you sure you don't just like want to be

single for a little bit like it kind of sounds like you moved to a new city you just want to play the field hang out I mean there's a bit of that but I'm also like at an age where it's like you know I would like instability I would like somebody to kind of share my life

with but yeah no I did just get here so it's like am I already making that step you know with somebody when I just got here so well thank you for being honest with us I appreciate that and now I'll let you know that Alyssa's actually been listening to this conversation she's on the phone and wants to talk to you oh my gosh hi

hi sorry not trying to like make it weird um maybe too late um but thanks for answering that question like i was definitely curious um you know what happened um because i thought i was like okay this is like too perfect you know, what happened. Um, cause I thought I was like, okay, this is like too perfect, you know? And, um, it's definitely not me. Sorry. No offense. Like I was just like, okay. Like just because we had so much fun and there was so much chemistry and like, you know, I had no idea that you were going through so much on your own but we can take things slow it doesn't have to be like you know this runaway train that like i'm not like rushing to the altar like tomorrow i mean i would i love it like i'm down um but i also know, don't necessarily want to get married by Elvis.

So, but we can like chill, you know, like I'm totally down to hang out more and, you know, like just kind of get to know each other better while you're still kind of learning the ropes of, you know, like a new place. And it can be a lot all at once once but it's more fun if you're hanging out with someone that you like i mean yeah it's just if we if you're if you can understand and like want to take it slow because i mean that date was uh we got pretty fast but um i mean yeah we can just take it slow i i think for you, I can give it a try. Bryce, will you go on another date with Alyssa?

We'll pay for it. Oh, well, yeah, I can pay for it. Absolutely. Congratulations. Wow. We're the winners of a second date. It's my dream come true for today. Jubal's first Date Follow-Up.

Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want.

And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Consider this is a daily news podcast and lately the news is about a big question. How much can one guy change?

They want change. What will change look like for energy? Drill, baby, drill. Schools? Take the Department of Education, close it. Health care? Better and less expensive. Follow coverage of a changing country.

Promises made, promises kept. We're going to keep our promises. On Consider This from NPR. Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job.

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