First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Bryce & Crystal – Hot Sauce to the Eye and a Murdery Vibe?

Episode Date: June 25, 2025

Bryce thought his date with Crystal was going great—wings, darts, laughs, and even a kiss. But when he accidentally got hot sauce in her eye and followed it up with a dark joke, Crystal went ghost. Now she's back to explain why she got major true crime red flags. Was it just a spicy misunderstanding or a one-way ticket to Dateline? One awkward joke might have been enough to send Crystal running… until we stepped in. Can Bryce clear his name and score another date? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So we're about to call her in a few minutes to see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him but first got to find out about the date. Bryce how long has it been since you heard from Crystal? It's been a week. What was your communication like leading up to the date? We met on hinge and we started messing each other and like for a good while I'd say like a week, week and a half. We had like a pretty good rapport, we were messing each other and like for a good while, I'd say like a week, week and a half, we had like a pretty good rapport. We were messaging each other back and forth. I asked her out to wings because she said on her profile

that she's a wing lover. And we played darts, ate wings and we talked like a lot. And even like we're jokingly very friendly, competitive with each other. Um, I thought she was really cute and I thought we were vibing a lot. And I liked that she was kind of shy. She said she was shy at first and then she started opening up and like the conversation kept flowing.

So I was like, Oh, she's comfortable around me. This is good. Um, I'm making her smile. It felt really good. And she'd actually really get a darts too, which like, oh, she's comfortable around me. This is good. I'm making her smile. It felt really good. And she'd actually really get a darts too, which like, you know, made fun and we even kissed. So after all that, I'm kind of very confused because like what happened?

Yeah, a week does seem like a long time not to hear from somebody after all that. Definitely getting ghosted, sorry. And it seemed like she really, she was into it. I mean, did anything happen where it got awkward at all? No, not at all. Like, that's what I'm confused about is like, I keep replaying them that night.

And I felt like we were vibing a lot and there were no like red flags from either side. Never thought she felt uncomfortable. Like quite the opposite. I felt like we, I felt like, yeah, never thought she was uncomfortable. Like quite the opposite. I felt like we were like, yeah, we got along really well. But did anything happen? You think that maybe made her feel uncomfortable outside of the conversation? Well, it was OK.

So at one point, I feel like I did get, I got hot sauce in her eyes from the wings. How? And I reached. Yeah, it was an accident. And I reached over to move the hair out of her face as she was taking a bite. And I must have had sauce on my finger and I got it in her eye.

She was a good sport about it though. Like she took it like a champ. She went to the bathroom, washed it out. That hurt. That does hurt. Yeah. Yeah, I could tell she was in pain just for a little bit. And she joked about it.

And she joked that I did it on purpose to throw her off her dart game. And I think we laughed. Yeah, we laughed a bunch about it. And do you think maybe that was what it was? Ah, probably the reason to ghost someone, but at the same time, oh, yeah, that's going to hurt. That hurts a lot. I feel like I don't. the reason to go someone but at the same time. Yeah, it's gonna hurt. It hurts a lot Maybe yeah, I mean maybe was she more hostile She was shy so I can't imagine how a shy nice person would handle having hot sauce in their eye on a date Make a joke about it

Victoria did her mood change after you sauced her eye? Um, only for like a little bit I thought. Okay. Just a little bit. Like she was obviously, I mean, tears were flowing because of the hot sauce. But she was like, she was in such a good sport about it. So I doubt, I doubt that's what it was. But if that had to put one thing on it, like it could have been that. And if it's just a hot spot, there was an accident. I feel like I deserve another chance.

Okay. All right, man, we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay. All right, play a song, come back, get your first date follow up next. Just like great shoes, great books take you places. get you another date, okay? Okay. All right, play a song, come back, get your first date follow up next.

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of follow-up, Bryce is on the phone and he went out on a date with a woman named Crystal. We're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Bryce, why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Crystal? What happened? Bryce We met on Hinge. We messaged for a while in person. We went out for wings because she likes wings and we played darts. There was good vibe,

good conversation, a lot of chemistry. And then I got hot sauce in her eyes accidentally. And, uh, yeah. her eyes accidentally. Yeah. And you think you deserve a second date despite the hot. It was an accident. You didn't spray hot sauce in her eye on purpose. No, no. For some people that could be a red flag for other people that could be a turn. All right, man.

Well, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah. Okay. Here we go. Hi, may I speak to Crystal, please? This is she. Hey, Crystal, how are you? My name is Jubal and this is a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Crystal. The whole show is here. My name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Hi. How's your eye? Um, I'm so sorry. You just really caught me off guard. This is a radio show? Yes. We do a segment on our show. It's called the First Date Follow-Up.

What that is is if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you. Oh, geez. From who? Well the reason I asked about your eye was because when you were on the date with them, they got hot sauce in your eye.

Is this from Bryce? Yes, unless you went, yeah, you got it in your eye. Oh my God, oh my God, you know, okay, this is creepy. This is freaking me out. Okay, so I don't really know what I don't I don't know what he told you. I don't know why he called a radio to try to get me to contact him again. So okay, I'm just gonna come right out with it. That guy gave me surreal serial killer vibes. Serial killer vibes? Yeah. What? Yeah.

Like how? I know that's like really harsh to say about somebody and I don't even usually talk this frankly about anybody but I watch a lot of like true crime shows and listen to a lot of podcasts so I like to think that I'm pretty you know alert when I see red flags. And so during the date, it was going fine, whatever, we were playing darts and I was winning. And I don't think he liked that very much because by accident, he got hot sauce in my eye. Okay. You don't think it was an accident? No, no, no, because as you know, you're eating wings, you wipe off, you play

your dodge, you eat wings, you write your fingers off, but for some particular reason, when he goes to, to, to wipe hair away from my face or my eyes so that I could see better for my turn, he happened to have a huge glob of hot sauce on his thumb and went right into my eye. And then it was weird. But then he said something that really freaked me out and he kept laughing too about it. Like I was you know he was laughing laughing which I thought was rude because I was obviously uncomfortable. But he says to me at least it was just hot sauce you You should see the other guy I played darts with, like the guy I last played darts with. And I'm thinking, I don't know what that means. Did you ask? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,, you know, call it a night and go home and just, you know,

wash my face off properly. Yeah. So yeah, that was my date with Bryce. You think it was a joke or like he really meant it? Who knows, who knows? I didn't want to stick around long enough to find out. But if he had a glob on his finger, that makes me feel like it's intentional.

But if it was just, it's easy to accidentally get hot sauce in your eye. I've done it a lot. Not on purpose. My own eye. My own eye. Yeah. I've gotten hot sauce in my own eye a lot too, but I don't think I've ever rubbed it in someone else's. No. Well, let's ask him Crystal, because he's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. What? Oh great. Okay. Bryce, are you still there? Hey, hey, Crystal. Hi, Bryce. Um, hi. Um, one, I'm sorry I came up as a serial killer, but I promise I'm not.

OK, that's very, very convincing, Bryce. Very convincing. I think most serial killers would probably promise they weren't at first Laughing is that's just not anything I expected to hear today. Yeah. No, I don't even like killing bugs and I put on a lot of chapstick and had a nervous tick about it and It's because I wanted to kiss you so if that behavior made you feel like I was a serial killer, it wasn't because of that. It was because I was just nervous.

And I could tell you were shy. So I wanted you to feel comfortable. You could even have me professionally profiled. Okay. I have one. Yeah. How do you do that? I'm sure we I have one. Yeah.

How do you do that? I'm sure we can find one. Yeah, we can figure it out. Google it and figure it out. Hey, if the radio station that you had called me this morning can help me professionally profile you, then I'll be happy to go on another date with you. Before we agree to the profiling, Bryce, what happened to the other guy that you played darts?

Yeah. Oh, he was just a sore loser. That's all. Like I was just trying to impress her. That's it. And what happens to sore losers? Nothing happens. They just lose and they go on with their life.

They're not hiding in my mom's basement. Yeah, you made it sound like you stabbed him with a dart Try to come up. It's cool clearly that didn't work Crystal would you like to go on another date with Bryce? We'll pay for it I don't know if we can find someone to profile him if he's a serial killer or not But we can work on it if you're serious. Yeah If you're going to pay then then I'm down down I'm done, but I have one request for Bryce I have one request is that next time you put your chapstick on don't stare at me weirdly while you're doing

Will be good, okay One request to leading up to our day I would like it if maybe you laid off the true crime Okay, maybe this time I'll get the hot sauce in your eye. Oh, okay. I got one request too. Leading up to our day, I would like it if maybe you laid off the true crime, maybe watch a rom-com or something, you know, like a rom-com. Definitely maybe another good rom-com. Oh, but those aren't factual. Wait, I have a request too before this next date. Crystal, make sure you share your location with somebody.

Oh, just in case. Oh, absolutely. I'll let you know. Congratulations. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Just like great shoes, great books take you places. Through unforgettable love stories and into conversations with characters you'll never forget.

I think any good romance, it gives me this feeling of like butterflies. I'm Danielle Robay, and this is Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club, the new podcast from Hello Sunshine and iHeart Podcasts, where we dive into the stories that shape us, on the page and off. Each week, I'm joined by authors, celebs, book talk stars, and more for conversations that will make you laugh, cry, and add way too many books to your TBR pile. Listen to Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Sophia Bush is here. Tell me how that feels to be a hot, considered a hot lesbian. Quite an honor. You know what's funny? When you're actually more fluid with your sexuality,

the swing goes from nobody gives a shit who you're sleeping with to you better identify exactly who you are so we can figure out what name to call you. And it's like, has nobody been paying attention to like all the hot girls I've been kissing on camera? Hi, I've always been here. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

On the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, I sat down with Jasmine Crockett, Democratic representative of Texas. She's holding out the fork for her party in one of the most conservative states in the union. I think that ultimately who will become the Democratic nominee for president will be someone that has been out there and has shown that they won't allow themselves to be punched and just say thank you. Like they will punch back. Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Couric on on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You know who it is, Brandon Kyle Goodman.

But this Pride Month, call me Messy Mother. On my podcast, Tell Me Something Messy, I'm diving into all the juicy stories and sizzling hot tea that'll make you want to live your life liberated and free. Nothing is off the table for our messy kikis. Plus, I'll be joined by star-studded guests like T.S. Madison and dragging messy stories out of guests like the one and only Katya.

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