First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Cal & Teresa - Glamping, Gaslighting, and the Great Bug Escape

Episode Date: August 8, 2025

Cal thought he planned the perfect first date — wine, s'mores, a cozy glamping tent, and a binge session of The Bear. But now Teresa won’t return his texts, and he wants answers. Was it the swarm of bugs? The tent mishap? Or maybe… something she caught him doing during the show? This wild First Date Follow Up takes a surprising turn when a seemingly harmless white lie sends everything off the rails. If you’ve ever been ghosted and wondered “was it really that bad?”, you need to hear this. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Cal is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by Teresa. So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Cal, how long has it been since you heard from Teresa? Well, it's been like 10 days since the last time we talked. Okay. Oh, yeah? So what was the exchange the last time you talked? Or is it on the phone or was it when you saw each other?

Well, so we went glamping. Yes, glamping, like not real, like for real camping. She made that very clear and it was actually my idea. But she was super into it. And it wasn't overnight. it was just for the scene for our date, you know. Like we could have stayed if we wanted to. We had that option, but we just wanted to do something different.

She did like a camping trip sort of. Yeah, we're just out in nature. I brought my projector so we could binge on the bear inside of the thing. Okay. I actually love this. Stars, you know, romantic, right? I thought it was great. Yeah.

So watch a little TV and then look at the stars. And then, but you weren't staying over. overnight? No, but we did have this little fire going. We made spores. We drink some wine out of these big old mugs I brought. She let me play my harmonica playlist, which is like not me playing. Okay. She, she humored me and let me play it for the vibe. You big harmonica fan? Is that it? I love listening to it. I could never play it though. Okay. Okay. Cool. But no, like I, she's just really hilarious and kind of like, scary smart you know what i mean

she kept correcting the cooking terms and the bear out loud and i loved it and it was a great night and we kissed sort of like a word blah yeah it was hot and smorey okay

this date sounds X what could have gone wrong I don't know but she made me feel calm but excited at the same time and that's pretty rare and she made me forget to check my phone for like six hours. Do you understand what that means for me?

That's a big deal. For any ball. Yeah. Yeah. And how did everything end with her? Good. So I went on, I've been on plenty of days and she, like, she felt like an actual person. And it ended great.

But there was like a bug situation. Okay. I'm talking like full-winged invasion style bugs out of no. and there was a swarm of something, I don't know what, don't ask me, but it started circling around us. She was screaming. I panicked, but

I was like aggressively zipped, like, zipped her up into the tent to protect her, right? So I handled it. Spicy. When I let her out, the zipper got stuck or I was trying to let her out and I know that was really frustrating and I joked

and I was like, well, this will be a story to tell our grandkids one day and I don't think she was amused by that at all the whole that situation and so basically the date was over oh okay was she not amused by not being able to get out or by the grandkids comment maybe the worst choice of words at the moment i don't think they'd helped that she couldn't get out of the tent yeah that was that might have been too much too soon and i get that maybe okay maybe i think the tent part would be frustrating, but I don't know if you would ghost somebody. It's not your fault that

you got stuck in the tent. No, I didn't I shut her in there to protect her. Right. Yeah, so you're kind of being a hero. That's a weird reason to ghost you, but maybe. That's what I was going for. All right, and you've heard nothing from her since your date.

That's been like almost two weeks. All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date if you still want one, okay? All right, cool, thanks. All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Before we call her, though, Cal, why do you tell us about your date again real quick? Yeah, well, so we went glamping, not real camping, had a great night watching the bear in our tent. And everything was fun. There was a little bug issue, temporarily got stuck in the tent, and maybe have made a bad joke about it. But otherwise, she was amazing, and the night was great. Okay. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, yeah.

Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, man. Speak to Teresa, please. Yeah. Hey, Teresa, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Teresa. I'm Nina. I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? Good. Wait, like, what is this?

Like, are you about to tell me I want a trip or something? Well, no. Also, I'm not sure it could end up in a trip someday. Teresa, we do a segment on the show. It's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you.

Oh, no. Are you in a wild? Are you ghosting somebody? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Is his name Cal? Yes. Okay, well, Cal is the person who emailed us, and we talked to him by your date. And he said he really liked you.

You thought you were awesome, but he cannot figure out why it's been about 10 days, and you still have not gotten back to him. Would you mind telling us? Because he's a liar. A good one, but I caught him. He's a liar. liar? Whoa. What do you mean? Okay. Well, he watched

the finale of the bear before our date, then rewatch it with me pretending he hadn't seen it. Well, how do you know how I know? Well, yeah, I was going to ask. How do you know? Yeah, well, he quoted in line before it happened. Okay. Okay. Could he have seen that something? Wait, wait, wait. That's why.

That is why. Teresa, that's Cal. He's actually on the phone listing and wants to talk to you. What? Yeah. Oh, my God. Well, Teresa, I'm on. No, that's not a lie. That's not a lie. No, you're a liar, and you shouldn't be surprised that you're trying to do this to me. Didn't think that mattered at all.

I wanted to spend time with you, not spoil it for you. I was trying to make it feel like a first-time thing again. Oh, so thoughtful. Gas-finding you with a projector and a s'more. Did you actually watch the finale, Cal? Had you seen it before you? you guys sat down to do that? Yeah, well, actually, like, leading up to the date, I actually binged the whole thing

because I'd honestly never seen it before, but I liked it. It's really good. So you lied about telling me that you've seen it before also? Okay, I'm sorry. I, the only reason I did it was because I really liked you. I didn't know about the show and I wanted something to bond with you about and know what was going on. I just honestly did it because I wanted to have a good time with you. Uh-huh. You're lying again. It's not a lie.

That's the truth. Why does it make you so mad, Teresa? I feel like it's kind of cute, like that he watched all of it because you liked it. Well, if you want to date a liar, just fine. Go ahead if that's good for you, but, you know, for me, I can't do that. I'm not a lot. That's not fair. Are you mad because he lied or because he's good at it?

Oh, actually. That's a really good point. Who's got are you on? I'm just curious. I'm trying to understand because this seems to be a real like pressure point for her, which tells me something in her life happened with liars. So she doesn't want to deal with that again. Well, it's going to lie about that.

Like, how would I know you're not going to lie to me about other things? Like, is Cal even your name? What? Oh, seriously, please, you got to forgive me. I'm sorry. I am really, really sorry. I apologize. I will never lie again.

I solemnly swear to never lie again. Please forgive me. I'm sorry. Well, be sorry alone. Whoa. She just hung up, Cal. Whoa. Seriously?

Yeah, Cal, that sounds like you said that you don't even want to deal with. Yeah. I don't know what just happened. Yeah, I think this is deeper than you, Cal. I don't think this is even about the bear. Well, at least now I know that she's got trust issues and the bear's not a bad show. That's a good takeaway. I'm so sorry, but.

I binge watched 28 episodes for her. 28. Whoa. Oh. Somebody will appreciate that. Sorry. Cal. Yeah, thanks. Y'all did me a favor, actually.

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