First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Caleb & Naomi - Ghosted After the Hot Sauce Challenge?

Episode Date: August 5, 2025

Caleb thought his pottery date with Naomi was going great — until the infamous hot sauce challenge went sideways, and now he’s getting ghosted. What really happened after the tacos and the playful pottery antics? Join us as we call Naomi to get the inside scoop on why she disappeared, the spicy mishaps, and a surprising twist about a fired-up mug (literally). If you love awkward first dates, hilarious relationship fails, and candid confessions, this episode is for you! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Caleb is on the phone today for a first day follow-up. He's getting ghosted by Naomi, so in a few minutes. We'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, let's talk about the date. Caleb, how long as it been since you heard from Naomi? Like a week, probably. Okay. Have you been trying to hit her up? Yeah. Not that much, but yeah. Okay, good answer, actually. hesitation there. Let's talk about the date. How did that go? I thought it went well. I mean, we went to those, you know, one of those DIY pottery places. Oh, that's fun.

Yeah, yeah, you know, it was romantic, creators, a little messy. Oh, what is that? Like that ghost scene, that movie ghost where they had the pottery thing? Oh, yeah. Did you guys get to use the wheel? No, we didn't. Yeah. I would have liked to.

Next time. So how did it go with the pottery? I had a great time, you know. I mean, we were teasing each other, joking around, and I just, thought it was nice. Did she not think it was nice? I don't know. She doesn't talk to me.

I mean, I might have gotten a little too into it, you know? Because, like, I totally did the ghost behind the back move. That's hot, though. You did the what? Where, yeah, I kind of put my arms on, like, from behind her, like, you know what I mean? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. There was no wheel, but just that.

So you got behind her and put your arms around her and made a mug out of pottery? Okay. Well, and you put it like that. Exactly. Okay. Did she like that? Was she laughing about it or did it seem weird to her? I thought she took it well.

I thought she took it well. You know, she's kind of, you know, sarcastic. So it could go either way, right? But I like it. You could say maybe she liked it and this is a totally different reason that she'd go see me or she totally thought I was weird. I don't know.

So did you guys just do pottery on this date? Or did you guys go anywhere? afterwards before uh no after we got some tacos and uh you know wait nine tacos good times there was even a kiss you know not like fireworks and over doing around but well that's not a good sign i could see i could see going somewhere you know potential you know things could ramp up a little bit with another date or two or whatever did it get weird at any point i mean it's great that she went with you after pottery to get tacos that should be a good sign I mean, I dared her to try the firebom sauce at the taco place.

And she did, and then, like, almost died. And I was sort of laughing. I don't know. Like, I didn't know it was that serious, but, like, she just wouldn't stop coughing. You know, someone takes, like, hot sauce to the dome, and it's like, okay, they're coughing. Fine. But, like, she just kept coughing and coughing. And I was laughing at first, but then all of a sudden it was like, oh, no, probably not.

Probably not a funny moment. Is that the reason you think she's ghosting you? Because you made her try hot sauce and it was too hot for her? I mean, it wasn't too hot. Like, she was, like, not doing well. Like, her face turned color, you know? So it's too hot. Yeah, but I've had too hot.

There's, like, too hot, and then there's like, oh, okay, excuse me, I need, like, I need to go get tons and tons of rice. Okay, so you put her mouth on fire, so that could be why you're getting ghosted. Possibly. What's the last thing that she said to you? I don't remember. Good night.

Sounds like this is a really great date. A lot of awkward moments. All right. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. I'm still trying to figure out what happened on your date, but we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and see if we can get you another date, okay?

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wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of today's first date, follow-up. If you're just joining us, Caleb is on the phone, and we're about to call Naomi and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. It's been over a week, and he hasn't heard from her since their date. Before we do that, Caleb, why don't you break down your date again for us real quick one more time? Yeah, so we did some mug painting, making painting at the DIY pottery spot. I thought she was super funny and, you know, dry,

and she actually laughed at my jokes, which, let's be real, is very rare. And we got some late-night tacos. I dared her to try the hottest sauce. I thought it was hilarious, but then it got weird. She was actually not doing well. And you're laughing at her while she's having some sort of crazy reaction to the hot sauce. Yeah, yeah. But we did get, there was a good.

good night kid and she said good night and but since then she hasn't responded my text all right you ready for us to call her yeah okay hello hi is this Naomi this is hey Naomi how are you this is the Jubal show it's a radio show hi I'm Nina hi I'm Victoria and I'm Jubal how are you Oh, wait, wait, what? Is this real? Because I kind of thought these were just staged for, you know, YouTube or something. No, they're not. This is for real, yeah.

How are you? So I guess you know what this is? Yeah, I mean, I've, uh, a little bit. I've heard it here and there, but I, I honestly just never thought it's this, like, real thing. Like, somebody wrote it up or, you know, I don't know. I've honestly just never thought I was going to get a call like this. I'm a little unprepared. Okay.

So are you cheating on it? anybody. Start there. Wow. Way to just like dive right in. I mean, I'm not like cheating on anybody. I was sort of seeing someone for a minute.

Oh no. Yeah, no, I'm just asking because we do a few different things on this show. I didn't know if you know exactly what we're calling. This is a first day follow up. So if you go out on a date with somebody and ghost that person, that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Okay, is this about Caleb?

Yes, it is about Caleb. He said he liked you a lot. He told us a little bit about your date, but he's confused. Okay, you know what? I don't know how to say this nicely, so I'm just going to say it. Caleb is a minute. A menace? What?

Yeah. Okay. Why is he a menace? So the day was actually a lot of fun, and I did have a good time, but there was this incident with, like, hot sauce, and I genuinely could not breathe. It was so horrible. And aside from the fact that it was killing me,

people were, like, staring at me. It was so embarrassing. He told us about that, actually. He said he felt bad because, like, he thought, you know, it was just too hot for you, but then he realized after he was laughing at you that it was a really bad situation. Yeah, I was bad.

I had a way to bring me milk and honey. And then Caleb is over there making, like, a joke about some sort of spicy. see relationship. Well, I'm literally feeling my throat closing up. It was genuinely awful. But wait, wait, wait, wait. To be fair though, Naomi, you did survive and a joke

was pretty solid. Naomi, that's Caleb. He's actually on the phone listening. I want to talk to you. Why do I feel like this is how the date went? Yeah. Oh my God, Caleb. Are you seriously put me in this situation after everything you just

pulled with me? Seriously. Like, I cannot believe that I'm even speaking to you on the radio right now. Clearly, if I'm not responding to you, then that should have been, like, your first time. Yeah, but see, but you kissed me, so I was really confused. Here's the thing.

You know what? Honestly, I do regret that kiss, but I think in some retrospect, maybe just in some way I'm thinking about this, maybe the kiss had more to do with I was hoping my mouth was still on fire, so maybe you could actually feel what I was paying. So is the hot sauce the only reason that your ghost?

him. You know what? I think it would have been really nice if you had like actually took action when you saw how much pain I was in. You literally just sat there and were cracking up about it. Like it was honest. You should have seen your face on. I'm just laughing at it. Oh my gosh. I mean, you know, there was also this other incident at the pottery place we went to. Also embarrassing. And I actually had the manager call me about you specifically.

What? What? Yeah. And the manager called, how did they have your phone number? Well, I had to make a reservation to go. So why did they call, though? What did he do?

Okay, in line with him being a menace, apparently what Hala thought would be funny to do would be to etch on the pottery, help I'm trapped in this mug. That's funny. before they fired it. And they weren't in use. And what did you say after that, Naomi?

Basically, I, again, in shock that I'm having this company call me about Caleb being a jerk. And they didn't like this. Like they thought it wasn't funny. They, you know, they took it very seriously. And, you know, I actually had to speak to the manager. And the manager's being a total caring to me. And I was being so nice. And I had to make sure that they didn't ban us from that shop.

Naomi, the joke is actually funny, though, because all of these. people on the radio just laughed at it. Yeah, I thought it was kind of funny. I think they are being kind of parents about it. Oh, also, they told me that you drew a dick on. Okay, so it wasn't what he wrote

on it, it was probably that. The art. Oh, wow. You can't draw down to me anymore, can you? Oh, my God. You're being really ridiculous right now. Like, you might think this is all funny, but you're

a freaking adult. That's a great story, though, being banned from a pottery place. No, we didn't get kicked out of the bar. We got kicked out of the, we got 86 from the DIY pottery box. Sorry, guys. We party too hard. Honestly, that's more pathetic than getting out of a bar. The fact that you can't even understand, that just shows your level of maturity.

Hey, Naomi, would you like another day with Caleb? We'll pay for it. oh yeah absolutely i am so ready to go on another date with him listen Caleb you might actually think you're a funny guy and maybe in some areas you are but you're also the kind of guy who would be trashy enough to get us kicked out of applebee so i would never eat at applebees first of all i have taste okay fine you're not as funny as i thought anyway but oh yeah did they still have my penis mug.

Seriously. Honestly, this is what I'm talking about. You're just a disgusting person. I think you need to grow up a little bit. And let's be real, you've got a bunch of people on air laughing alongside you. You're really not that funny. People are trying to wake up. They're trying to have some laughs.

And all you are is some pathetic person on the line. The best part of waking up is a in your song. Oh, my gosh. I'm gruel's first day follow-up. Who cares about truth when the lives more entertaining. Welcome home. I'm Angela Ryd, co-host of the native lamb pod with Andrew Gillum and Tiffany Cross, and we want y'all to survive and thrive in this political moment.

We're having the same debates that American households are having all over the country. I'm terrified that in our rest, we're going to miss the moment. You want me to stop resting. What specifically are you asking me to do? Stay informed and take action. Listen to NativeLampod on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Noah and I'm 13 and I started this podcast because honestly adults don't ask the right questions. Now you know with Noah DeBarrasso is a show about influence.

Who's got it, how they use it, and what it means for the rest of you. It's not the news. It's what the news should be if someone Gen Z or Gen Alpha made it. Politics is wild and I'm definitely not here to payment. But I'm here to make sense of it. Listen to Now You Know with Noah DeBarrasso on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Summer's here, and with the kids home and off to camp,

it's easy for moms to get lost in the shuffle. On good moms' bad choices, we're making space to center ourselves with joy, rest, and pleasure. Take the kids to camp. You know what? It was expensive. But I was also thinking, if you have my kid, this is kind of priceless. Take her, feed her, make core memories. I don't have to do anything.

Main thing, I don't have to do anything. To hear this and more, listen to Good Mom's Bad Choices from Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. On the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, I sat down with Jasmine Crockett, Democratic Representative of Texas. She's holding out the fork for her party in one of the most conservative states in the union. I think that ultimately, who will become the Democratic nominee for president will be someone that has been out there and has shown that they won't allow themselves to be punched and just say thank you. Like, they will punch back. Listen to next question with me, Katie Couric on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast.