First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Can The Jubal Show get Charity a second date in this First Date Follow Up!?

Episode Date: May 10, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Charity isn't getting a second date despite her super awesome and "punny" name! Will the Jubal Show get her a second charity date!? Fins out in another First Date Follow Up!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Charity is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's not getting a call back from a dude named Mark. It's been three weeks since their date, and according to her email, she's heard nothing. So, Charity, thank you for listening to the show. Thank you for your email. Hope we can get you another date. Hey, yeah. No, I'm not actually like a listener, but my friend told me about the Jubal show, so I just thought I would reach out.

Well, cool. I'm glad you reached out to the Jubal show. We love the Jubal show. My name is pronounced Jubal, but it doesn't matter. It's fine. It's the Jubal show. I'm so sorry. No, it's fine.

It happens all the time. Can you say it one more time? Because I think I'm confused now. Yeah. It's Jubal. Like, kind of like you're puking. Jubal. Okay.

Jubal. Like you're puking. That's how you say it. That's how I've described it to people, if you don't know how to say it. It's sort of like you puke it. Right. Jubal. Jubal.

I can't get what you mean. Yeah, no, that's, I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to mispr you don't know how to say it. It's sort of like you puke it. Jubal. Jubal. I can't get what you mean. Yeah, no, I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to pronounce it right. Trust me, I'm not offended at all. I just coached my nine-year-old stepson's flag football with another dude. That guy called me Jabal the whole time. I never corrected him.

So for weeks, he's calling me Jabal. I don't really care. Did you finally correct him? Nope. Yeah, it was weird. I'm like, why didn't you? I'm like, I don't care enough

the kids were trying to yeah the kids were like his name's not Jabal it's Jubal I'm like whatever kid don't worry about it anyway it's not about

it's not about Jubal it's about charity right now and you said you went out with a dude named Mark and he hasn't called you back in three weeks how many times

have you tried to reach out to him in those three weeks? I mean, I texted him three times, like only once a week. So let it don't seem like too crazy, but I did think about this a lot. So like maybe I am crazy. I don't know. Okay. And what did you guys do for the date?

I mean, we went to dinner. It was amazing. I mean, it was the best date I've ever been on. We talked about family and retirement, which is funny because we're both in our 30s. So there's a long way to go, but the date was incredible. Okay. Incredible for you or incredible for both of you. I mean, I thought it was good for both of us, which is why I'm confused. Is there any reason why you think that he's not calling you back? Well, honestly, I'm kind of, I think I offended him. How were you calling the wrong name?

His name is Mark. I don't know how you got that one wrong. Mac. No, I know. I'm, I'm, so I'm actually really health conscious. And at the moment I'm trying to limit my sugar intake. But after dinner, we went out for ice cream and go on a walk. And at the time I didn't say I don't need ice cream because it seemed like the perfect way to end an

amazing night but like when I told him I didn't want ice cream when we got to the stand he looked really upset. Really? I mean that would kind of upset me if someone didn't want ice cream. Really? It would just be awkward at that point. Yeah. Just to let loose for one night? I don't know. I mean I feel bad a lot

because I don't really like sweets. I do like a little taste here and there of sweets, but I feel bad. Alex and I are married, if you didn't know that, but she wants to get dessert. I like to get dessert, right? I don't necessarily want to eat it, but I love the act of getting dessert. Right. But I also want to enjoy the cheesecake with her, so I'll have a bite of cheesecake. I'm also lactose intolerant.

Not a good idea, but either way, I do feel bad sometimes. But to get mad about that, it seems kind of weird. How did he get mad? Well, I mean, it was more of his whole mood change. He was just ice cold after that, and it just sucks because I feel like if that's what offended him, I've been really diligent about my routine, and I could have explained that.

This has been a long-term thing, and I've had a lot of success. I don't know. I just would have liked a chance to like explain myself. Other than the ice cream, is there anything else that you did wrong on that, on your date? I don't know if necessarily. No,

I mean, I thought, like I said, I thought it was a great date. I thought we had a lot of fun. I, it was, he seemed really interesting.

He seemed interested at me in me until like we got to the ice cream and then I was just, I just, well, that's a weird deal breaker to have, but I just really need ice cream. And then I was just like, oh, it fell off. Well, that's a weird deal breaker to have, but. Yeah, I just really need you to help me because I think this guy's perfect for me. And I had such a good time.

So how did the date end? Well, I mean, he gave me a hug and we went to our cars and that was that. I mean, nothing about a second date, nothing about how much he enjoyed the date, nothing. So like, I mean, I'm just, yeah, the end was, I don't know. Did he initiate the hug? Yeah, he did. Okay. That's not great.

Oh. Yeah. Something happened. It sounds like. And the only thing you can think of is that you didn't want ice cream. That's it. Okay. All right.

Well, we'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if that is the problem. And if we can get you another date next. Okay. Okay. All right, it's a Jubal show. In the middle of today's first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Charity is on the phone

and Charity went out with a dude named Mark. And she said it was one of the best dates of her life. She had a great time and she doesn't understand why it's been three weeks and she hasn't heard anything from him. The only reason that Charity can think that she's not getting a call back is that they went for ice cream after

and Charity's been working out and trying to eat right, all that stuff. So she didn't really want the sugar, didn't want any ice cream. And that's when his mood changed and he seemed really cold. She thinks that not ordering ice cream is the reason he's not calling back.

So we're about to get him on the phone and see if we can figure out the scoop. Yes. I just dropped the mic. Should we see what you did there? Thank you. All right, Charity, are you ready to call him and see if that is the reason he's not calling you back?

Yeah. I'm honestly, I'm just hoping you guys can get me another date and I really liked him. So I'm just fingers crossed. All right. Well, here we go. I'm going to dial this phone number. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mark, please?

This is Mark. Hi, Mark. My name's Jubal. My name's Alex. My name is English Evan. I'm Christian Gray Snow. And this is a radio show called The Jubal Show. Oh, okay. All right. Yeah. How can I help you guys? You've heard of the show before? Yeah. Did I get picked for a contest or something? No. Well, yeah, not really. So if you've heard the show before, have you heard of a first date follow-up? Have you ever heard one of the first date follow-ups? Uh, yeah. So you already know that's a segment that we do where if you ghost somebody, they can email us and then we can get you on the phone and go,

Hey, what happened? Why did you ghost? Let's say their name is charity. For example, why'd you go to charity? Oh, yep. Yep. Charity. Yeah. So like, let's say, name is Charity for example why'd you go Charity? Oh, yep Charity. Yeah so like let's say, I don't know I'm going to do another hypothetical. Let's say your name was Mark and you were on the phone with us and it's been three weeks since you reached out to a girl named Charity who you went on a date with

we'd call you and ask why that's the kind of segment I'm talking about so why aren't you calling Charity back? Okay, yeah. Charity, alright. This is weird. If you want me to be completely honest, she was boring as hell.

It was like watching paint dry. You said boring? Yeah, like so freaking boring. That's kind of rude. We talked to her. She didn't sound super boring, but it's hard to tell. She also said that the date was like the best date she's ever been on.

And she thinks the reason you're not calling her back is because she didn't want ice cream. Oh my! I knew that was going to be a thing. I knew it was going to be a thing. Okay, so yes, that was like it wasn't just that, but it was just like everything on top of that.

OK, so we had dinner and she was just so freaking dull. And then when she went with the ice cream, I was just like, OK, you know what? Like, this is so ridiculous. She had no personality. And so, like, I just go to her because I didn't want to waste my time. I don't want to waste her time either. You know, but it was just like this. I just don't see this going anywhere.

She's the most boring date I've ever had. So it wasn't just the ice cream, but she was a little too vanilla for you. Yeah, it was like just so dull. Like there was nothing to her. I have a question, Mark. If the date was so boring, why did you ask her to go to ice cream after? Because I was trying to save it.

I was like, well, if this date's going to go south, I'm at least going to get some ice cream. That's funny. He's a smart guy. Yeah. All right. Well, thanks for being honest. I appreciate it. I don't know if Tiffany or Charity, I don't know if Charity would appreciate it, but either way.

See, she's so boring, you don't even remember her name. Oh, my gosh. Poor Charity. Charity is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, you think I'm boring? You didn't talk for the entire date. Mark, I am not boring. This is the best date you've ever been on.

I'm scared to think about how your other dates have been. If this was your best date, how bad were your other dates? I don't understand because we were speaking about family. We were laughing. I had an amazing time. What are you talking about? I asked about your family, and you were like, yeah, mine's good. And that was it.

And, like, you said nothing else. You just, like, looked at me. You were like, yeah, that's it. And like, you said nothing else. You just like looked at me. You're like, yeah, that's it. And then you just stared at me. I was like, okay. And that's like every conversation that we had. Like,

I'm not even surprised that you didn't want ice cream because ice cream's fun. And you're absolutely not. Oh, gosh. Okay. I can be fun. You can be. Yeah.

Like, no, I was responding. I was just, I was like, sometimes I get nervous and I thought, no, I was responding. I just, sometimes I get nervous, and I thought I was talking enough. I also worried that, like, I was over-talking,

and then, like, maybe I just didn't, like... No, over-talking was, like, the least of your problems, alright? Like, you did not engage at all. I mean, maybe that's true, but, like, I was trying. No, there's no name charity. Like, you were just like, yep, uh-huh,

mine's good. Yep. That's it. Okay. Maybe she was just listening to you. Yeah, she's an avid listener. She's not listening now because I'm trying to give her a hint. She's not picking it up. Maybe she wasn't not talking. Maybe you were just talking too much. Yeah. Oh. I was

asking questions the whole time. I was like, so tell me about your work. And she's like, all right. I can remember it is what it is. See, I'll give you like the perfect example. Hey charity,

are you there? Yeah. Okay. Did you not hear like the, the thought processing, the answer, and then the awkward silence. That's how the entire conversation was.

See, it's been a few minutes and she hasn't even said a word. I forgot she was already there. Well, gee, who can get a word in edgewise when you won't shut up? I got the point, dude. I heard you.

I'm just going to spare her of this and I'm not going to call her. And then you keep texting me. Then all you have to do is respond and just let her know that you're not interested exactly yeah little communication goes a long way mark that you're right you're right you know what i should have just called her up on a radio show and and pulled her all out on public i think so i also want to ask you mark would you no okay i'm gonna hold on hold on mark you don't even know what to say would you like no i already know what you're No. Okay. Hold on, Mark.

You don't even know what to say. Would you like... No. I already know what you're going to say. The answer is no. Can I just... Okay, Mark, can I just say it, please? Would you like to go on another date with Charity?

We'll pay for it. Okay. You know what? You know what? You know what? Fine. I'll do one more date. Really?

No. Sike. Get off your nose. You are a total jerk. Jeez, man. All right, so, Charity, I'm sorry that you didn't get another date. It sounds like you're going to be better off, though.

Yeah. You'll find someone who doesn't get boring. Honestly, like, I feel bad. I wasted your guys' time. You turned out to be kind of an ass. No, it wasn't a waste of time. I probably should have said more during our date,

but, like, I don't know. It's all good. You guys aren't meant to be. Yeah, you'll find someone who likes the way that you communicate, whether you're saying words or saying nothing at all. Well, I mean, like, at least I found the Jabal show, so I got something good to listen to. Yes, you did. So check out the Jabal show,

and thank you for your email, and now you can be a listener to the Jabal show. Appreciate it. The Jabal show, on demand. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs,

friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends, like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.'re also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee

and Charlemagne the God we're going to take some viewer questions as well I mean isn't that what democracy is all about check out our new season

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