First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Charlotte & Henry - Friendzone Delusion

Episode Date: October 23, 2024

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online at advocateslaw.com. Charlotte is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Henry. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Charlotte, how long has it been since you heard from Henry? it's been a couple weeks since i've heard from him which is weird because we were friends before this and we definitely texted now and again um so i'm just a little thrown i'm curious and maybe a little hurt too. Yeah, understandably, especially since you guys knew each other before. Yeah.

What was your last interaction with him like? So I actually planned on this whole day of events because it was kind of our first actual date because we've been friends for a long time and I've had a crush on him for kind of a while. And so I planned this day of dates. It wasn't too intense, but it was, you know, a bunch of different stuff. We went on a mini hike and then we got brunch at this place that I know both of us like. And then we recovered from brunch separately.

We kind of split up for a while and then we met up for a concert in the park. So, and, you know, it was fun. I feel like we both had a really good time. So I just don't know what's going on. I mean, we didn't look at the end like we didn't kiss or anything. So I don't know if I'm supposed to read into that. But nothing bad happened. And so I just don't understand why I haven't heard from him at all.

Yeah. So when you guys decided to go on a date, was he also understanding that it was not a friend hangout and that it was a date? Did you guys have that conversation where like, oh, let's explore taking this to another level? I mean, we didn't like have that conversation, but I think it was pretty clear based on, you know, the way we were talking about it. And we've never hung out just the two of us that like for a whole day like that. I mean, we have hung out the two of us, but not very often over the past several years. I mean, definitely not at this level, you know, I think, and he didn't ask. I think it was clear for both of us, you know? I mean, that's what it feels like i've had a crush on him and i feel like probably he could tell at this point you know and so it just seems like we both knew and we both

went out and we had a good time i really i really wanted to work with him because i've just had feelings for him for for a while and he's just kind of a special person to me you know he makes me laugh and he's he makes me feel safe and stuff but also he's like a guy's guy you know so I feel it's just a good balance and we get along really well you really like him I can hear it in your voice you really like him yeah like how many times you texted him or tried calling him um well i i texted i try not to overdo it you know i've texted him a couple times over the past couple of weeks but we used to i mean before this day we would text pretty regularly like at least two or three days a week you know we're we're i mean we've been in contact, you know,

we're friends and we've watched some of the same shows and stuff that we talked about that. Um, but I just haven't heard from him. And like, it's been, it's been over two weeks now. So I just feel like it's not normal and I just don't know what happened. I mean, maybe look, I don't know if I messed up, I guess after brunch, like I had, I had a few mimosas and I didn't think I was acting weird or anything. And I just know that when I got to the park for the concert,

you know, to get some drinks before the show, like he seemed maybe a little annoyed because I was late. I wasn't that late, but I was a little late. But I asked him if he was annoyed and he said no. He was just tired because we had already had like a whole day, you know. So I don't know if it was that. I'm not sure. Okay.

Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay, thanks. All right. We'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists,

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if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her but before we do that charlotte why don't you refresh our memory on your date with henry yeah so henry and I have been friends for a while, for a few years, and we definitely texted regularly over time. Um, and we finally took it to the next level and went on a date, but it was kind of a whole day of stuff, a hike and brunch and the show. Um, but I haven't heard from him since then. And it's been over two weeks and and that's weird because we usually do text during the week so i don't know if something happened but i'm feeling nervous about it and i just want to find out what's going on you can't think of a reason why he'd be ghosting you no i mean like i said i was i said i was a little bit late for the concert but he i even asked him

if he said it was an issue and he said said no, he wasn't annoyed about it. So that's kind of the only thing I can think of, really. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yeah, I guess so. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Henry, please? Yeah, this is he. Who's this? Henry, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Hi, Henry. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? What's up, guys? I'm good. Do you listen to the show at all? Not really. No worries. We're calling you because somebody you know does listen to the show and they email us about you.

Okay. We do a segment called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them. Really? Okay. I have ask you why you're ghosting them. Really? Okay.

I have no idea who you're talking about. Have you gone on any dates recently? Well, kind of personal, but yes. Was it Kelly, by chance? No, it's not Kelly. Okay. Donna? No.

You want to keep trying or do you want me to tell you? Anybody else? No, I mean, that's really kind of it. I honestly don't know. Yeah, please tell me. You didn't go to brunch or like a show with somebody? Okay, yeah, but you mean Charlotte? Yes, Charlotte emailed us and she wants to know why you're ghosting her.

Okay, I don't think I'm ghosting. I had no idea that was even a date. Like, what? Because we're friends. I've known her for years. That was not a date, was it? According to her, it was. She thought you were able to tell that she has had a crush on you for a long time. Wow, no.

I thought we were just doing, like friend hang thing all day to be honest like and we spent the day which was super fun it was fine i had no idea she was interested in me though does that change things for you yeah i think so i i mean i she's definitely cute i never thought of her like that like you know what i mean we never really went went that way. We had sort of like boundaries, like friendship boundaries. And like I said, we hung out that day. It was totally fine. I just thought it was just a friendly hang.

I didn't know she had more feelings. This is like crazy. Okay. She reached out to you, though, after you guys hung out that day and you didn't respond to her. Yeah, like most do. I mean, I caught up at work or like when friends text, you don't get back to them right away. I didn't think you didn't respond to her yeah like most do i mean i caught up at work or like when friends text you don't get back to him right away i don't think it is another okay okay well she definitely thought it was a date and henry she's on the

phone right now and wants to talk to you oh my god what's up um wow hey, this has been very much a roller coaster. I'm, like, kind of embarrassed, honestly. But also, Henry, like, really? You really didn't know? You really couldn't tell? I really couldn't tell. No. Such a dude thing.

It was super obvious. We didn't kiss or anything. So there was no... I know you didn't kiss me while we were flirting no oh my gosh honestly like i thought it's been so obvious recently that there was no way that that you would have ever not thought that was a date like we haven't hung out that that much like i mean like it sounds like would do you want him should it be a date should we i mean what do you want him? Should it be a date? Should we? I mean, what do you think? You don't have to tell me right now.

Oh, my gosh. You don't have to tell me right now. I just, I had fun, and I don't know. Well, I mean. Oh, my gosh. Tell me something. I'm so nervous. No, you know, this is crazy.

This is totally crazy. I mean, so you're, yes. I mean, if you want to go out like a real date like make an official like a day yes hell yeah i'm into it um you are i mean do you want to not just me do you want to i do want to yeah and i feel like an idiot for like not even realizing this i'm like super stoked at like because i thought you were super cute too but like i never wanted to cross that friendship line and oh my gosh yeah of I never wanted to cross that friendship line and once you cross that friendship line

and someone's not into you then you look like an idiot and now you're embarrassed and the friendship is wrecked and you have to call a radio station to call them I'm so glad that this is so cute though oh my gosh this is crazy yes I'm super excited

yes yes yes I'm in totally totally okay, yes, yes. Like I'm in. Totally, totally, totally. Okay. I didn't even need to ask, but I have to because that's what happens in the segment. So Henry, would you like to go on another date with Charlotte? We'll pay for it. Hell yeah.

Yes, of course. Well, congratulations, Charlotte. You got another date. Wow. Thank you. This is amazing. And maybe I'll need a copy of this in the future. So I might ask you for it.

To play at your wedding. Okay, but not to put pressure on it. Just a little advice. Right when you guys get together for that next date, just kiss right away because it'll take away all the anticipation and all the awkwardness just do it right away. I mean, it just breaks the tension.

You know, yeah. Jubal's first date follow-Up. Ugh. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too. Be more you this year, and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation.

So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. Welcome to My Legacy. I'm Martin Luther King III, and together with my wife, Andrea Waters King, and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilberger, we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives. Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David Oyelowo,

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