First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Chloe & Ethan - Hummer

Episode Date: January 29, 2025

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Chloe is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan. So in a little bit, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she still wants one but first Chloe how long has it been since you heard from Ethan? Oh my gosh it's been two weeks and I you know am just so nervous about it because I really liked him he was such a great guy and I'm hoping I didn't overdo it, but I keep playing this in my head because everything went so well. Tell us about the date. Yeah.

I wasn't expecting anything on this date, but even came like a gentleman. He showed a lot of chivalry. He was just, it was just like so refreshing because it was just like out of an indie movie. I mean, we went to a vintage bookstore and then I was like, oh good, he can read. You know, he's very articulate. We grabbed some coffee and then we played cards in a quiet park.

I mean, it was a dream. And then, you know, we didn't even finish the card game because we got a little distracted. Oh, okay. the card game because we got a little distracted. Oh, okay. Um, yeah. So basically we had a major makeout session under the tree and he was just like the best kisser ever.

I mean, uh, it was just like, we were made for each other. So this is why it's really confusing because my God, it just felt so electrifying. And so that's why I'm super confused. I mean, he made me laugh and he made me he was listening to me. I felt seen. I felt so respected, like he was just very polite, but also very sexy and handsome. And I was in disbelief that this is a guy that I'm dating, but he was also into me, at least that's what it felt like and

so I Have text him like two or three times You know trying to spare it out because I don't want to be that girl who's constantly stalking him But at the same time it's been two weeks Yeah, and I just don't know what's going on I Want to text him again. I'll admit that I text him this morning because he's like been on my brain. And so when I see something funny, I want to like share it with him.

And so I text him this meme because I knew he would like it. And so I just need a little help on like why or figuring out why I'm having here from him. I'm assuming he's busy, but it's been two weeks and he could be that busy. I'm hoping he I hope he's okay. That's the other thing. It's like, what if you got in an accident and he couldn't call me? I mean, I, I have been, I tend to overanalyze a lot. And so I just want to like calm the nerves because,

oh my God, that would be so like it that I meet someone perfect and then something happened to him. And so- Wait, how did you leave it? Oh, he, you know, he kissed me good night. It was almost like he didn't want to leave. And then he said, okay, we'll see you again.

And so I took that as, I'm going to see you again. And you never heard from him again after that No, and so I'm thinking did he lose his phone? Did he break it? Did he get an accident? Did he not make it home? Anything happen that you can think of that would be a reason to get ghosted or for him to go? No, I mean I have been replaying this over and over. I mean, okay maybe he got turned off by I have been replaying this over and over. I mean, okay, maybe he got turned off by, I have a really big laugh. And so, you know, I mean,

I saw the first time he was taking it back and I, you know, try to rein it in, but other than that, I was thinking, well, he wouldn't have kissed me like he did if he didn't like me. I mean, what guy does that? Right. Well, yeah. Yeah, it can happen.

I'm not trying to say that's what happened, but I mean, yeah, you think maybe it was your laugh I mean I hope not because I really liked him we had so much in common like I said it was uh I have never kissed someone like that he was so great like I just I just want to see him again and I hate the fact that I already miss him. I've already missed, you know, only gone on one date. Yeah, that's a pretty fast connection. We'll see if we can figure it out for you. Okay, thank you.

Play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and get you another date if you still want one, okay? Okay, thank you. All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get your first day follow up next. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

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Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. Right in the middle of your first date, follow up if you're just joining us. Chloe is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. But first, Chloe, why don't you catch us up on your date with Ethan?

Yeah. So I haven't heard from Ethan in like two weeks. Um, but which is really confusing because we had such a great time. I mean I haven't been on a date like that in like forever and I've gone on a number of dates. But he was such a gentleman, showed chivalry, was so kind, polite, listening. He made me laugh like I haven't laughed before. And then you, we went on this date that was like from an indie movie. We went to a vintage bookstore, grabbed some coffee, having great conversation and laughing. I couldn't, it was very surreal.

And then he took me to a park and to play cards and admittedly we didn't finish the game. We got a little distracted and yeah, so we had this incredible make out session. Like I haven't kissed anyone like that. He's such a great kisser. And so, you know, when we left it, I just felt like, you know, we had such a great time and you know, he kissed me good night and said, I'll see you soon. And when I thanked him for the date that night, he didn't text back. And so I thought, okay, well, hopefully he got home safe.

And so I waited a few days and text him again. And immediately he's been on my brain and I haven't heard from him. And so I'm just wondering what happened. Like, I hope he's okay. I tend to overthink things. we just had such an incredible date, and I don't know what happened Are you ready for us to call him? I hope he's okay

Hello hi, may I speak to Ethan please? I'm speaking. Ethan, what's up? How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Hi, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, my name is Victoria.

How are you? I'm doing okay. We do a segment on our show called the first date follow up. What that is, is if you go out with someone and they end up ghosting you, you can email us to get that person on the phone and ask why they're ghosting you. We do a segment on our show called the first date follow up. What that is, is if you go out with someone and they end up ghosting you, you can email us to get that person on the phone and ask why they're ghosting you.

We do a segment on our show called the first date follow up. What that is, is if you go out with someone and they end up ghosting you, you can email us to get that person on the phone and ask why they're ghosting you. We do a segment on our show called the first date follow up. What that is is if you go out with someone and they end up ghosting you you can email us To get that person on the phone and ask why they're ghosting you so you went on a date About two weeks ago with somebody named Chloe Yeah, I definitely did yeah and Chloe emailed us and she told us all about your date She thought you guys really hit it off, but you haven't talked to her in two weeks

And she was wondering if you would tell us why. Well, the day was really fun and I had a good time and Chloe has some good energy and uh, it's the humming. She hums. Like, what do you mean? Like why is she just sitting there or in conversation? She hummed like the whole time like at the bookstore during the card game. Even when we were kissing she hummed. Like a tune or just hmmm? I couldn't really tell what she was humming. Just humming, you know. It was okay in the beginning but but every five seconds, it would just continue to start.

And then it started bothering me a little bit. Did you say anything to her about it? Like, Oh, just really got that song stuck in your head, huh? Yeah. So at one point I asked her, are you, I used to humming Sabrina Carpenter's latest song and she said, Oh, I didn't even realize those. Huh? Some people do that. My grandma used to do that. Huh.

Or maybe she was nervous. Like I did have a good time with her. It just struck me as odd that like we couldn't acknowledge that there was a lot of humming going on. It's like sensory overload. It was weird. Like at the beginning I was like, what's going on? Is it her? Then I started thinking started thinking can't be humming this long, you know fairly long

Girl I was out there with yeah, I'm gonna sound like a mumble rapper I started thinking about it and I was just like not sure like I'm a sensitive sleeper and I Really don't like the idea of humming his white noise when I go to bed Like just thinking with idea of picking up and just humming the whole time That would be weird. All right, that would yeah that would throw me off a little bit Well, thank you for being honest with us. Now Ethan, I'll let you know that Chloe is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. Hi.

Oh my god, Ethan, I'm so sorry. I didn't even realize I was humming that much. Was I humming that much? Yeah, you pretty much hummed since the moment you walked into the room. You know, right into that bookstore, it was humming and even when we were making out, it was humming. I got a little bit worried. Everything was okay. I was humming when I was making out. Oh my God. It was a bit distracting if I'm being honest with you. No, I totally get it. I I'm so embarrassed that I just, you know, you just made me really nervous because I really liked you.

And I, and I didn't think anything of it. Like I said, when you asked me in the car, I, I didn't realize I was, I was humming like I don't even know that I'm doing it. And obviously I was super nervous if I was humming that much, but I'm mortified. But you know, and if you just tell me because I've had a friend tell me, I, and I do recognize it's a problem that I'm humming again. Like they, one of my friends even said I could never be a ninja because they would know that I'm coming. I can definitely turn it off because my friends have told me this. So you're saying if Ethan were to tell you that you're humming, then you could stop it?

Oh yeah, I would be able to stop it because I really do want to go out on a date with you and that would be on my conscious don't hum. Make sure I don't hum. Make sure I don't hum while we're making out. Ethan, would you like to go on another date with Chloe? We'll pay for it. She says that she can stop the hum Absolutely, I will take requests from you All right, it's kind of cute now that you said that you're nervous that makes a little bit more of a Keep thing then we can acknowledge instead of being

Yeah, I'm in, I'm in. We're from Cougs. You're real fast. Congratulations, Chloe. You got another day. Yay. Oh, thank you. Jubel's first date follow-up.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B. As we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation.

Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. We all have a moment that splits us wide open. On my new podcast, Wide Open with Ashlyn Harris, I'll sit down with trailblazers from sports, music, fashion, entertainment, and politics to explore their toughest moments and the incredible comebacks that followed. Listen to Wide Open with Ashlyn Harris, an iHeart Women's Sports production on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports.

Hey, you guys. I'm Catherine Legg. I'm a racing driver who's literally driven everything with four wheels across the planet. And I've got a new podcast. It's called Throttle Therapy. This season, I'm competing in some of the world's most notorious racing events. Tune into my new podcast, Throttle Therapy, with Catherine Legg, an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find us on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Presented by Capital One, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, and to welcome the new year, my podcast, The Happiness Lab, is releasing a series of happiness

how-to guides to help you in 2025. I'll distill the wisdom of world-class experts into easy to digest, actionable tips. Struggling with tough emotions? We have a How To Guide. Worried that you're not enough? We got you. Self-obsessed and want to get over yourself? There's a guide for that too.

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