First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Christian & Kat - A Golf Date That Went Way Off Course

Episode Date: August 18, 2025

Christian thought he planned the perfect first date—18 holes of golf, laughs, and even matching dance moves on the green. But when his date Kat suddenly ghosted him with nothing more than a single thumbs-up emoji, he was left confused. Was it the flashy golf shoes, the endless cart rides, or something else entirely? In this episode of First Date Follow Up, we call Kat to get the real reason behind the ghosting—and her answer might surprise you. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So that was our first date. I took her to play golf. And, I mean, I thought the date was cool. I thought it was fun. We had gone and we played, I was about like 18 holes, I guess. Oh, does she like golf? Yeah.

That's what we had talked about before. So I thought it was good I even got us like one of those Little golf cards too So we didn't have to walk everywhere And she was laughing You know drinking a little bit And look great in her golf clothes

By the way So we made up good You know some dances Swing dances Every time one of us made a good shot We would have this whole dance That we would do And that was cool

Yeah it was like we were in our own little world Just enjoying everyone that was behind us playing um and i had texted her probably like the next day and i was just like you crushed that part you know can't wait to dance in the green with you again like that's sort thing and all she did just thumbs it up oh yeah just a thumbs up huh yeah this is super passive aggressive that was ghost mode well what could it happen that's kind of weird I don't know. Like thinking about it, I think I might know why,

but I'm just kind of kicking myself for it. Because at the time, you know, I thought it was impresses. And I wore these limited edition Jordan golf shoes. And I might have brought them up, you know, a few times, or four or five times. I mean, they're sick. Wait, I'm looking these up, Lord Jordan. I was blowing kisses to them.

I was reminding everyone that they were limited edition, but I was meaning it to be funny, you know, like, look, I'm good because of my shoes without them on trash. Okay, okay. But I'm sure that, you know, I was more annoying than endearing. And then we were supposed to go to dinner after the golf date, but Kat decided to call it a day after the 18th hole. and

maybe she just got tired and maybe she didn't want to play golf again you know because that's a long time and then when you text her can't wait to get back on the green maybe she's just like that was too long

right I don't know I mean because these shoes look pretty cool I mean like everything else went really well I've never seen Jordan golf shoes before she had you know like I said we didn't really eat or anything

but like she had some drinks and she seemed to be okay. But maybe she got, like, sick from not eating and all the drinking. So maybe you're in the clear. I don't know, but I just thought we really hit it off. And it was kind of disappointing when I just got the thumbs up because we had just spent all that time together golfing. And then that's all I got, you know?

Yeah. All right. We'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. maybe get you another date, okay? Oh. All right. We'll get your first day, follow up next.

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IHeart radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Welcome home, y'all. If you're just joining us for today's first date, follow-up, Christian is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Kat, so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But before we do that, Christian, why don't you break down your date again for us? Yeah. So Kat and I went out on that date. We played golf because we're both into that. And it was an 18-holler. And everything was going good. We were laughing, drinking. And I think something must have happened during the date. I think maybe because I had been kind of drawing attention to my new limited edition

shoes. And I don't know if that was a turnoff. Maybe it was annoying. I don't know. I didn't think so. And then I just got a thumbs up on a text the next day. All right. Well, you're ready for us to see if we can figure out what that thumbs up is all about? A little nervous, but yeah, let's do it. All right. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Kat, please? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? I'm good. Sweet. Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, but.

I'm a little confused. Well, then maybe I can clear that up for you. We're calling you today because we do a segment on the show called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and ghost them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an email about you from somebody. Is this about Christian? Oh. Yes, it is.

Christian said that all you did since his date was give him a big thumbs up and that's it on your text. Whatever does feelings a little bit. Well, this is hilarious. I'm so glad you think it's funny. What happened? Well, so, okay, he took me on a four-hour outdoor date in the sun with no snacks. We were food. It was just vibes.

We were living off of vibes and golf balls. And I was basically two tequila shelters deep by whole six. and I nearly ate one of those divvets. Oh. Did you tell him you were hungry? Oh, I told him I needed food twice. And he goes, we'll eat after golf takes focus. And I was like, bro, I'm not Tiger Woods.

I'm hungry. And then I'm like, what kind of man thinks that four hours of day drinking doesn't require snacks? Yeah. But to give him the benefit of the doubt, he actually tried to take me to dinner after playing golf but honestly I was just ready to punch him in the face and eat a burrito.

Oh, the hangar really got you. I needed to get out of there. So that's it because you were angry? Yeah, I was starving. I mean, it's fair. All right, well, hey, thank you for telling us why are you ghosting him.

Christian is actually on the phone, by the way, listening and wants to talk to you. Wait, Kat. You're telling me what's about the snack? Christian, it was about the complete absence of snacks. I was borderline feral by whole 12. Well, I thought we made after. You said you were down for golf?

I was like... But I didn't know golf was a hunger game. You planned a date that was four hours in the sun, and all you gave me was seltzer. Okay, okay, but I mean, it was good, selter. I mean, it was top shelf. Oh, delicious. Nothing pairs with Electro-like loss like carbonation

and regret Okay, well, I didn't think that I was responsible for your snacks I figured you were an adult And you know, maybe that was my bad Like we didn't talk about it before But I just don't think that I should be I don't know

You could have brought a granola bar Or something like that, right? Okay. Okay, so hold on. If I have to pack a survival kit for our date, absolutely not. And I'm sorry, but are you insinuating that I'm a toddler, that I need snacks? You're not, so, okay, hold on, because you were the one that was driving the golf cart around, like it was a power wheel and the driveway showing off your shiny shoes to anyone that would look at them,

you know, like, woo, and blowing kisses. But yeah, cool, I'm the one that needs taken care of, and I'm the one that's a toddler. okay well I mean you went four hours without having a snack and now you're throwing a fit I mean and I don't know you're in the sun drinking yeah all I'm saying is when I was driving the golf cart around you were whooping and screaming and you looked like you were having a good time I was whooping and screaming for help sounds like someone else is a toddler for me I don't know that's absolutely unacceptable that you did not properly plan that date at all. Who goes, who goes drinking outdoors in the sun and doesn't bring

any type of food? Okay. Well, next time, if I were to go golfing with you, I would be sure to bring some milk in an app square. That's what you need? No, but thank you. But a little bit of advice, just make sure to feed your future dates. Okay. Well, my future dates will be adults and they'll bring your own snacks, so nice to be a better. And my future dates will be adults who don't overcompensate with their shoes. Well, I haven't asked a question yet. Kat, would you like to go on another date with Christian? We'll pay for it.

Absolutely not. I rather iron my socks before going on a future date with him. Ouch. And I'd rather eat a heart than go out on my second week. Oh, wow. Jubel's first date follow-up. Hey everyone, it's me, Katie Couric. Did you know that I recently joined Substack?

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