First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Christopher is ghosting Andrea. But he thinks we are trying to catch him cheating?

Episode Date: February 17, 2025

Andrea gave The Jubal Show a call and asked if we could help her find out why Christopher is ghosting her. But, when he realizes it's The Jubal Show calling, it goes a little but sideways. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to My Legacy. I'm Martin Luther King III and together with my wife, Andrea Waters King and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilburger, we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives. Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David Oyelowo, Mel Robbins, Martin Sheen, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, and Billy Porter. Listen to My Legacy on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is my legacy. First date follow-up powered by the advocates,

injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Andrea is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Christopher. Andrea, thank you for your email. Before we get into your date and stuff, how long has it been since you talked to Christopher? I, it's been a couple weeks. A couple weeks and how many times have you tried to reach out to him in that couple weeks?

I've only texted him two times, but like I feel like that's enough that somebody should write back. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely. Do you think there's a reason for that? Did anything happen? Uh, well, let me tell you about the date first, because like, I thought everything went really well, like the dinner was amazing,

but then we also, we did sleep together, so I don't know, maybe it was like too fast for him? I don't know. I don't know. I don't, does that still apply? Jubal, do you think that that's still a thing, if somebody hooks up too fast and it was like too fast for him. I don't know. I don't know. I don't does that still apply Jubal do you think that that's still a thing if somebody hooks up too fast and it's like, oh, okay Bye. That's always been a plus for me It's never been a problem for me like I even if you're thinking about future dating it's never been a thing, you know Cuz I was like, hey, I would do the same thing So I don't judge like I just based it on the person.

Right. But for some people it is. Okay. So then how did you get to that point? Why don't we go back to the very beginning and see where it goes? Okay. Well, I mean, first of all, he has a really good job, which is like, you know, it's a really good sign on a date, like somebody is reliable and they made it to having a

good job, they have ambition, you know? Yeah. And, um, and also he was like really hot. Okay. And, and we hit it off. Like we were like cracking jokes, talking, you know, I just, you know, that's why I fell for them. I was like, great, this is great.

She's trying to get pregnant. I mean, you got a good job. Keep him around for a while. Maybe he sniffed you out, girl. He wasn't ready. like great this is great. She's trying to get pregnant. I mean you got a good job. Yeah. Keep him around for a while. Maybe he sniffed you out girl. He wasn't ready. I hope not. Did he stay over or did you guys do your thing

and then he went home right away? He stayed over but he had to leave really early in the morning. So he like left. We didn't really hang out in the morning. That's better anyway. And how was the goodbye? It was sweet, he just like gave me a kiss and said he had to go.

I mean, could that have been all that he wanted? Yeah, maybe, I mean, he's a guy. I don't know. Yeah, but I think sometimes you get more of a vibe because you obviously want to talk to him again though. So like what about him made you feel aside from his job, you know, aside from the fact that he's hot, was there anything else that was like that drew you to him? Well, he's just really easy to get along with and it just felt like everything was happening

really organically and like, I don't know, there's a lot of chemistry and it was exciting. It was like, it felt like, you know, like a heightened experience. Yeah. Okay. And the only thing you can think of is maybe you hooked up with him too quick. Yeah. Either I guess like you're saying, maybe, maybe that's all he wanted. I don't know. But then like, why not go on, like go to a bar? You know what I mean? Why go on a date before? It's like, I don't know.

Well, Andrea, do you have a good job? I have a pretty good job, yeah. Cause you know, I don't know if he's the one with a really good job and if maybe he didn't feel like it was an equal situation, then maybe, I just want it to be something other than then that's all he wanted because it's just so predictable people.

If you're gonna hook up with somebody, then at least call them back, period. It should be a rule. Right? I mean, I think so. You know, and I've found to communicate that if that's all you're looking for, just say it. Because I've done that before when I've been dating

and I've been like, I'm not interested in anything, but tonight. And usually it's better because they're like, cool, thanks for clarifying. Let's get crazy. Yeah. You know? Yeah, I mean, yeah, I wish you would have said that And usually it's better because they're like cool. Thanks for clarifying. Let's get crazy. Yeah Yeah, I mean, yeah, I wish you would have said that if that were the case Yeah, see we can figure it out for you will play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell Us why he's ghosting you and maybe give you another

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We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. First date follow-up powered by the advocates, injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up and Andrea is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Christopher. She has no idea why she thinks maybe it's because she hooked up with him too quickly

Because they went on one date and then they hooked up as for the rest of the day Andrea refresh everybody's memory before we call Him on your date with Christopher. Yeah, he just we got along really well You know we have a dinner He has a great job. I like him. I you know, it's been two weeks. I've texted him twice. I haven't heard anything. I'm hoping it's just something happened with his phone service or something. I don't know. It could be. It's a tech issue. Maybe.

Alright, well, we'll see if we can figure it out. We're gonna get him on the phone right now and ask him why he's ghosting you and then see if you still want another date after you hear the reason. Here we go. Hello, I speak to Christopher, please. Yeah, speaking. Hey, man, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Christopher. I'm on The Jub? Uh, yeah, speaking. Hey man, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.

Hi Christopher, I'm on The Jubal Show too. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How's it going? Hey, what? Yeah, no, I listen to The Jubal Show all the time. Yeah, what's up? Oh, you do?

Well, then if you listen all the time, have you heard of a first date follow-up before? That's the second where you guys like call up to see like somebody's cheating on like their girlfriend or their boyfriend or something like that. No that's to catch a cheater. We do that though. We do do that yeah.

This one is the one where if you ghost somebody after going on a date they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay and that's what this is. So wait, this isn't the cheating thing? No, this is not. This is a first date follow-up. So you went on a date with someone and you're ghosting them and they want to know why. Oh. Hello. Hello. Did he hang up? Yeah, he just hung up. What?? Are you ghosting all of us now? What the heck? Maybe his phone got disconnected.

Yeah, maybe. Is there a solar flare? Oh my god. Yeah, that's really weird. It sounded like he was about to say something and then he hung up. Yeah. Yeah.

Maybe, well maybe it did drop then. Maybe he didn't hang up. I'm gonna try and call him back, okay? Okay. Hey guys, I really can't talk. What? I want to know if you hung up on us. Yes, he did. Again? He's gone again.

Dang. What? Man, he's a professional goaster. Okay. Call him again. Yeah, I'm going to try him back again. Hey, listen guys, I'm married. I can't do this.

What? And he's gone again. What? Okay. Oh my God. What? I guess we know why he wanted to know if it was a to catch a cheater segment and also why he's ghosting you.

Hey, we just got a twofer. Married. He took off his ring. Oh my God. This is crazy. What? Are you serious right now? He didn't have a ring on or anything when you guys met?

No, no, definitely not. Like I always check people's hands. Like I'm always checking like are they in or like, I never want, I'm really against cheating. And like I've been cheated on before you know like I would never do that oh my god where did you meet him was it on an app or was it in person it was on an app oh whoa okay yeah well wow now you know your answer yeah I mean yeah I guess I do he should have made up an excuse for real I know he just came out with it right there. I would have said something else.

No, I'm going lay. Exactly. All of a sudden, hey, you know what to go on another date with Andrea? We'll pay for it. Christopher? He's gone again. Sorry Andrea. Andrea, I'm so sorry. That is so frustrating.

I think that there needs to be a rule and we could start a petition for all dating apps to have a place where you have to answer yes or no. Are you married? Oh, so then people have to say, I mean, I'm sure people will lie, but at least maybe it'll catch some people that have a little bit of a conscience. It's a good idea because some people wouldn't mind, right? They're like, cool. If you want to cheat, right?

Some people would mind. Exactly. I guess that's why they have Ashley Madison Well, that's what you yeah, that's the cheating website. Did you say who I'm sorry? Well, Andrea, it's not your fault. You know, you didn't know he lied to you But hopefully at least you had a good time that one night that sucks. I'm sorry Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I think I should try to find a way to tell his I don't know. I mean, I think I should try to find a way to tell his

Wife about this. What do you think? I don't know like almost at this point. I mean you feel like yes, but he's on apps. It's gonna happen again Do you really want drama in your life right now? Yeah, cuz I mean, yeah girl code I don't lie if it comes up, but just do you want to invite that? It's a lot of time and energy to spend on something to attract on his wife and then Tell her and then have to get involved in their drama when you only met him one time. But if she pops up, you tell her everything, you know? Andrea?

Andrea, are you there? She just went to go find the wife. I think so. Jubal's first date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney online at advocateslaw.com. Welcome to My Legacy. I'm Martin Luther King III and together with my wife, Andrea Waters King and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilburger, we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives. Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David O'Yello,

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