First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Connor & Lisa: She Hooked Up With the Waiter… During Her Date 😬

Episode Date: March 27, 2026

This First Date Follow-Up gets awkward fast when a surprising past connection shows up mid-date… and doesn’t stay in the past. Lisa thought everything went great—until she got ghosted. But when we finally get Connor on the phone, his reason is something nobody saw coming… and it spirals into one of the wildest conversations yet. Was it something she said… or something way deeper? 👀 Listen now to hear how this unforgettable date turned into a chaotic showdown filled with ego, honesty, and a twist at the end you won’t believe. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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so in a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Lisa, why do you think you're getting ghosted? I think I'm getting ghosted because I sort of hooked up with the waiter. Like, well on the date? Okay. No.

You want to explain that a little bit? Oh, okay. I was going to be like, girl, that sounds like that's it. Yeah. Bullseye. No, so he took me to dinner. And when the waiter came up, it was this guy. I was like, I feel like I remember him.

And then it clicked. I had gone on a date with him and hooked up with him like a few years ago. Oh. So awkward. And then, you know, whatever, I guess he kind of saw it. And he asked how I knew him. and, you know, I just said, yeah, I told him the truth. Like, yeah, we've been on a date.

And, you know, we did end up hooking up, but he was not fine with it. This is the thing that confused me. He was still fine with it. You laughed it off and, you know, the date was great. And, you know, we kissed on my way home and it's all that, right? So that was great. And then I texted him, but I got no response. And I'm like, bro, what's that?

Yeah. How long has it been? I think it's like a week. Yeah, a little over a week. Okay. I feel like you didn't need to tell him that you hooked up with that guy. Like you could have just been like, I went out with him once. Yeah, I don't think you needed to.

I mean, we're here now. So just for future reference. I'm too honest. I mean, I respect that for sure. That could be the reason. Could be. I know what to say. I really didn't know what to say because I thought, and he caught on my face.

I was like, what the hell is going on? At the end of the day, you guys. guys kissed and stuff did he say anything about like he wants to see you again anything like that yeah absolutely he he mentioned like wanting a CB and i said i'll text you and i did and nothing so i don't know what happened maybe he was mad because you didn't hook up with him as quickly as you hooked up the other guy maybe he really messed up all right well we'll see what it was we're about to call connor a guy who's been ghosting her for about a week and a half and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.

But before we do that, Lisa, why don't you break down your situation for us again real quick? Yeah, so I went on a date with this guy, and it turned out that when the waiter came, he was the guy that I dated before. I went on the date with before, like a couple of years ago. And we had hooked up, and I ended up telling Connor, like Bruce about that. Such a good soul. And everything else was great, but I don't know.

He's been ghosted me. All right. Well, we'll see. That is the reason. Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay, here we go. You talk to Connor.

Hi, Connor. How are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. I'm sorry, Connor. You really caught me off guard. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victor.

And my name's Jubal. How are you? Oh, wow. I'm great. A lot of people calling Connor now. That's right. We are. Yeah.

I've seen you guys on TikTok. Oh, cool. Okay. Have you ever actually listening? listen to the show? You know, I've seen the clips. Did you see me on TikTok? Is that why you're calling?

No, but we'll check you out, man. Oh, you're good, man. We're calling today because on the show, we do a segment that's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them,

and we got an email about you from somebody. tight tight that's cool any idea who would email us like are you ghosting anybody that you know about I don't know who who which one what I throw out a name Connor

surprise us who do you think it could be uh Jamie it is not Jamie her name is Lisa Lisa Lisa M or Lisa C? I don't know.

I'll refresh you. Oh, you're playing. Okay. I think I know what you mean. Okay. Yes, Lisa emailed us, said she went on a date with you. It's been about a week and a half and you haven't gone back to her and she's really confused and wondered if you'd tell us.

Do you mind? Oh, right. Well, I mean, sure. I just, I don't know if she was really realizing how lucky she was, honestly. Excuse me? What do you mean by that? Like, you don't realize, if she didn't realize how lucky she was? Yeah, I mean, listen, I took her out.

We had a nice time. She texted me like once after, you know. And this girl just seems like she doesn't really get it. What was she supposed to do? You didn't respond to her. So why was she going to text you again? Like one little text. It's not really a lot of effort.

You know what I mean? It's really not, trust me. She is not the only girl I went out with last week. Oh. Okay. So you're ghosting her because she just texted you once? Yeah. I mean, listen, one time kind of a turnoff, nothing too much in it either.

Not really saying that she's that appreciative. And she should have been, man. You're a piece of word, bro. I don't want to, I don't want to oversell it, but I'm a catch. All right? Sometimes you just got to know. the quality that you're working with. And if the female's not going to recognize that,

it's not my job to educate her on it. She could enjoy and appreciate, or if not, there's others who will. Okay. Does this work for you? Wait, what? I'm sorry, I didn't realize it was on a baby. You can't, you b' b' fag.

Hey, Connor, that's Lisa. She's actually been on the phone. and listening and she wants to talk to you. Oh, she can. What the hell is this? All right. What? Hi.

Follow up. Look, you've gone through the effort of calling the radio. You got me on. Let's talk now. Wow. So, Connor, you're into this now. Yeah, I mean, this is fun. This is different.

Wait. Why wasn't texting you enough? I just need you to figure this out. Listen, we can make this pretty simple and straightforward. It's mathematical at the end of the day. I am like at least a nine and a half. Lisa, you're not bad, but you're like a seven and a half. What?

Maybe what's the difference there too? So maybe like twice the effort. Wow. Are you serious? Dude. I'm good. The math ain't math. Okay.

Wow. I don't know where you went to learn your mathematics. You say you're nine and a half. Okay. Well, you're a dry-in-law. I'll give you that. But your personality right now is making you a five. Oh, that's another attitude.

Maybe even lower than that. Look, look, look. You went on the date with the champ. You didn't treat him like a champ. What happens sometimes? The arrogance is crazy. Is that. Is that.

What is this? How are you? I'm surprised you're not losing your mind right now. I'm Connor, baby. That's who I am. You know who you're in our room? Whoa. Oh, my God.

Okay, so you're just, you're ghosting her because she's not idolizing you like you'd want. Oh, like she should. Oh, wow. Okay, so if she did put you on a pedestal, would you feel more into this? More into it, yeah, that's right. You try. How nice of you. Connor gives.

I'm a giver. I'm a winner. I'm a winner. I'm a giver. Connor gives, baby. Okay. Well, Connor, would you like another date with Lisa? We'll pay for it.

Now we're talking. Yeah, I'll give this girl a chance. You're paying. Oh. Wow. Hey, Lisa. It's there if you want to. If you want to go out with Connor again.

Sure. What? What? You're serious? Why? Why? This is what the women do. I can't.

I can't. This is what the women do. You're really going to go out with them again, Lisa? Are you sure? Girl, it's been a while and whatever. The dumb ones are always great in bed anyway. Joubles' first date follow up. I'm Lori Siegel, and on my new podcast, mostly human,

I'll take you to some wild corners of the tech world. I'm about to go on a date with an AI companion at a real world cafe right here in New York City. There's no playbook for what to do when an AI model hallucinates a story about you. Mostly Human is your playbook for how tech can work for you. Anyone can now be an entrepreneur. Anyone can build an app.

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Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg, a lesbian. Michael Mancini. My mind was blown. I'm Stephanie Young. This is love trapped. Laura, Scottsdale Police. As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences.

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