First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Corey & Sebastian - The Office Romance with a Shocking Twist

Episode Date: September 5, 2025

Corey thought she’d found real sparks with her coworker Sebastian after a fun night of tacos, margaritas, and laughter. But when he started ghosting her at work, she called The Jubal Show for answers. What Sebastian finally admits will leave you stunned. Don’t miss this First Date Follow Up — where office flirting, secret dares, and unexpected honesty collide. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at Advocateslaw.com. Corey is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sebastian. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Corey, how long has it been since you heard from Sebastian? You know, it's been a little bit.

I thought that he would get back to me right away, but he didn't. Okay. So have you tried to hit him up like multiple times? I've texted, but he didn't reply. And the thing is, so Sebastian and I worked together.

Oh. And the next, yeah, so the next day at the office, I saw him, he, like, avoided eye contact with me. So, I mean, it's, it's, there's clearly something. Okay, so he's avoiding you at the office. Yeah. That's the worst. You can't go somebody you work with. Like, you're not going to disappear.

I'm so sorry, Corey. Well, why don't you tell us about your date and how you escalated from coworkers to this situation? Sure. So, we would always flirt a little when we were getting caught. coffee in the office and finally he asked me out and we went to happy hour at this little place near the office and at first like I was terrified but honestly he made me laugh right away we got margaritas and tacos and he kept telling me these like ridiculous office stories like one time he spilled cold brew all over the company's printer and I was like oh my gosh it

It was, yeah, it was a good time. Well, were you guys, like, flirty, too? Do you feel like it was going in that direction? I think so. I mean, we stayed way longer than I thought. I honestly thought I'd be home by, like, eight. But suddenly it was almost midnight, and we're still talking. We talked about travel, music, even books, which honestly, I didn't think he was into,

but he had actual opinions on books. That's funny. Yeah, you don't find. that and you know you i didn't expect it okay so did you guys like touch i don't know how to ask the question did you kiss did you hold hands and he hug you did he grab your butt like what whoa yeah i just wanted to know how far we got i know i'm sorry but not really um well when he walked me to my car he hugged me and he said we should definitely do this again and honestly after that i kind of flowed at home.

Yeah. So he actually is the one that said we should do this again, but he's ghosting you. Yeah, exactly. Is there anything that you can think of that happened? I don't know, because, you know, he was genuinely curious about me. It felt like maybe there was a spark.

I don't go on dates very often, and it didn't feel like a small talk thing. It felt different, I guess. Okay. So nothing happened? Like, was there an awkward moment? I mean, I don't know. I know I'm shy and maybe a little different, I don't know, like, at one point he asked me, oh, my God, if you could live anywhere, where would it be?

And I froze, instead of saying something normal like New York or Paris or whatever, I blurted out Moonvale from the Chronicles of Ashmir, and it's not even a real place. Yeah, it's just a book I've read 12 times probably. I mean, I would think that was cool I'd be like, what's Moonvale? Yeah. I mean, he laughed, he laughed, but it was more of like a, I don't know, you were so weird kind of laugh. Like, I keep her playing it in my head, wondering like,

oh, was that the moment he realized? Like, I'm too strange to be taken seriously. Like, I don't, ugh. I'm, like, I'm, like, cringing just thinking about it. Well, I hope not. I mean, I would think that was a dope answer, honestly. Yeah. But then again, I'm weird, so, you know.

We love weird. Weird is so cool. Well, we love weird, but does he love weird? Yeah, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back. I thank you. And call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. And maybe get you a second date, okay?

Okay, thank you so much. All right, we'll get your first day follow up next. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the okay story time podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his, young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that

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Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Welcome home, y'all. Right in the middle of your first date, follow up. If you're just joining us, Corey is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Sebastian. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But before we do that, Corey, why don't you break down your date again for us real quick? Okay, so Sebastian and I work together.

We flirted a lot. He asked me out. We went for tacos and margaritas. I thought we'd be there to eight. We were there to almost midnight. He gave me a hug at the end of the night. He told me we should do it again sometime. I think maybe I was a little weird.

I don't know, maybe a little awkward. He asked me if I could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? And I blurted out Moondale from the Chronicles of Ashmir, which is not a real place. So maybe he thinks I'm really weird. You sound so sweet, of course. It's a pretty cool place.

But yes, I texted him like the next day. I said, thank you, no reply. And when I saw him at work, he just, like, avoided me and went in the other direction. So, I don't know. I'm out of my comfort zone. I don't get it. I thought he liked me. I don't know.

All right. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yes. Thank you. We're here with you. Okay. Here we go. Thank you.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Sebastian, please? Speaking. Hey, Sebastian, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Sebastian. I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. What's up? What's happening right now? Am I getting prank? No, it's not a prank. Have you ever listened to the Juble show before? I'm sorry.

I haven't. That's all right. But we do a segment on the show, and it's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody, and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting. And so we got an email about you, Sebastian. Yeah, this is about Corey, isn't it? So you are smart.

Yes, it is about Corey. Why? Why are you ghosting Corey? Do you mind telling us? Oh, yeah. Okay, so it's just going to sound awful. But at first, I asked her out on a dare. my buddy in sales

Wait what? Hey man Yeah no I know I know Seriously listen and I'll explain I'll explain it I'll explain it like literally this guy who I work with He was like hey nobody can get to her a Corey Intouchable and I was and I was just joking that you know like oh dude I can So I did end but then you know it she really turned out to be like just incredible Like sweet funny quirky and now I don't know what to do because I don't want her to find out about the dare

because she just deserves so much better than that. Yeah. So the dare was because people feel like she's unattainable? Yeah. Like nobody could actually, like, actually ask her out on a date or actually, like, get her to, you know, grab a drink or grab coffee, you know, whatever. Nobody could get that kind of side of her. It was always business, business, business, you know what I mean?

Oh, okay. Okay. And so you actually did like her? Yes. So you feel bad because it was about a dare and you don't want to continue things because if she finds out that it was a dare. Hurt her feelings. Yeah. Exactly. I really, she, I don't know, there was something there that I just don't want to hurt her.

And I think that she would just, she might crumble if I told her that. Or like, it wouldn't go any further than that because it started someplace so thin. and you don't know that. Like you would have to explain it to her and see, you know, how she responds. Yeah, I mean, I could try that, but. I think you should. I'm sure. Okay, cool.

She's on the phone right now, Sebastian, and wants to talk to you. That part. So you only ask me out because of some sort of dare? Okay. Yes. Like, it was, but then it wasn't. Because you're not a challenge. You're, you're, I.

Then what am I, what am I? Why do people think I'm so, like, untouchable? Just because I don't, like, oh, like, hang out by the water cooler with everyone. Like, maybe I'm just not interested in that kind of stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. That's what I realized. You're not closed off. You're so much more intentional than that.

And that's, that's so, that's so rare. And I screwed up. And, but when we were together, it wasn't a dare anymore. And it was literally the best night I have had in forever. So what? No, I'm supposed to believe you suddenly caught feelings for me in the middle of all of this, in the middle of your little dare? Yes, because you make me like sound like this, Corey, like you're,

you are hilarious and kind and you don't even, you don't even realize how amazing you are. Like I ghosted because I was scared, not because of you, people, but literally because of me. and if you found out that I was an idiot like I didn't want you to I don't know I didn't want you to find I'm an idiot well you really you really are an idiot yeah yeah you are no I totally am because like but like I don't know am I'm an idiot who deserves a second date I don't in a way it's kind of a compliment all these people thought you were so impressive Corey that nobody would be able to touch you it's not like it was a dare like ew yeah no not at all it was like ooh corey i'm scared and sebastian wasn't scared he stepped up to the plate i mean i don't find myself very scary i i mean i i spend a lot of time in libraries so i'm not even told that you're intelligent sometimes like extreme intelligence and women is scary for some men not all so i mean yeah you're intimidating but like in a really like well-worded really fun deep like I could listen to you for

hours kind of way like oh man what cool adventure am I am are we about to go on in this conversation like and you have no idea how nervous I was to like even get up the nerve to ask you out like it was it it took two coffees and a lot of positive self-talking sounds like he hit the bathroom right afterwards. Well, Sebastian, would you like another day with Corey? We'll pay for it. Yes, I would. I mean, this is a lot to take in.

I'm going to be honest. I did not expect to hear that I was just a dare. I can't believe I'm about to say this. But, yes, I will give you one more chance. Just one. One. You're never living down the dare thing, though. Like, I'm not going to just forget about that.

Nope. I am a total idiot, and you're the most amazing person I have ever met, and I will never live this down. Thank you. I think is excited, Corey. Sounds like it. Well, wait, hold on. I have a question, though.

So what are you going to tell everyone in the office? That I am a total Duke. this-faced idiot and um that you you are the most fantastic wonderful person i've met my entire life wow that's really cute okay thank you brutal honesty i like that and honestly here i thought you're just going to try to save face so i'm i'm on board with that well congratulations everybody everyone needs to know how lucky i am so make that noise at the water cooler yeah i knew you like me. Thank you. I feel a little bit better. I was to know that I wasn't

wrong. Aw. Joubles' first date follow-up. December 29th, 1975, LaGuardia Airport. The holiday rush, parents hauling luggage, kids gripping their new Christmas toys. Then, everything

changed. There's been a bombing at the TWA terminal, just a chaotic, chaotic scene. In its wake, new kind of enemy emerged. Terrorism. Listen to the new season of law and order criminal justice system on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota,

luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Who cares about truth when the lives more entertaining.

Welcome home. I'm Angela Ryde, co-host of the native lamb pod with Andrew Gillum and Tiffany Cross, and we want you all to survive and thrive in this political moment. We're having the same debates that American households are having all. all over the country. I'm terrified that in our rest, we're going to miss the moment. You want me to stop resting? What specifically are you asking me to do?

Stay informed and take action. Listen to NativeLampod on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Lauren came in hot. From viral performances to red carpet looks that had everyone talking. The podcast, the latest with Lauren the Rosa, is your go-to for everything being made. We'll be right here breaking it all down. I'm going to be giving you all the headlines, breaking down everything that is going down behind the scenes, and getting into what the people are saying.

Like, what is the culture talking about? That's exactly what we'll be getting into here at the latest with Lauren the Rosa. Everything being amazed. To hear this and more, listen to the latest with Lauren the Rosa from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the Iheart Radio at Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcast. This is an IHeart podcast.