First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Damon & Hazel - Angry Pizza

Episode Date: April 9, 2024

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But first, Damon, what's up, man? How long has it been since you heard from Hazel? It's been a week. It's been almost like six days now since I heard from her. Okay. Man, Hazel, we met on instagram um one of her paintings came up on my for you page and i slid in her dm you know i saw the paintings and i went on her page saw her he's very beautiful woman so slid her dms and acquired about a few paintings for

an event that i was going to have you slid into her dms but acquired about a few paintings for an event that I was going to have. You slid into her DMs, but you didn't tell her straight up it was because you thought she was pretty. Nah, you know, I wanted to see if she would respond first. So, you know, I kind of just asked for a couple of pictures, some paintings to hold at my event, you know, just for some aesthetics. But unfortunately, the event never happened. But that didn't stop me. No, it didn't stop me from asking her out.

You had a legit event, though. You didn't make up an event, just talk to her. Yeah, no, it just it didn't happen. It wasn't able to happen because of scheduling a conflict with the building. OK, I had to cancel it after canceling it. You know, I still reached out to Hazel and see So I had to cancel it. After canceling it, you know, I still reached out to Hazel and said she wanted to go out and she agreed. So we went to,

she mentioned something about a painting sip. She wanted to, like she said, she wanted to see how I could handle a paintbrush. And, you know, but we ended up going

to get pizza next door through the painting set and there it was a great evening you know we we was touching she you know laughing joking and i think towards the end the pizza was making a stick so i called up uber you know to get her home we kissed we you know laughed she said she had a great time with me i texted her and i haven't heard nothing back in six days man so i'm kind of just like wow and i was just trying to see why she ghosted me though yeah i think it might have been because you know i got a little anger issue and the young man at the pizza shop, I kind of had to yell at him. Why? Because, you know, he just couldn't get the order right.

And so I got a little frustrated and kind of yelled at him. But I hope that Hazel didn't see that. When you say kind of yelled at him, like how big was the yelling? I popped off a little bit, you it was i popped off a little bit you know i popped off a little bit on him um he told me to get his act together okay it was only pizza that he was he was taking the order for um so you know but you know i kind of lost and i feel like that might be the reason because i kind of lost my last relationship because of that that's kind of alarming especially on a first date.

I think he was high. You know, lazy eyes. Eyes was red. You know, a little sleepy. So I'm like, you know, I get the benefit of the doubt, though, because I'm like, okay, it's 10 o'clock at night. Probably was tired. But I don't know. You know, but he probably was high. Okay.

I mean, how did she react after you, you know? Hopped off. Yeah. Well, I don't know if she really seen it because we sat down right after and ate. Like I say, the night ended great. We kissed. Before she got on her Uber, she said she had a great time. And like I said, I texted her and I haven't heard nothing for six days now.

Okay. Definitely not something that I would think that not heard from a person for six days after a night like that. I mean, she could have been. I really thought this was the one. I mean, she could have been buzzed. She could have needed the pizza to absorb it.

She could have just wanted to get out of there. I hope not for your sake, but. Yeah. I mean. We'll see, man. We'll play a song, and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us and maybe get you another date. OK?

OK, man. Great. All right, man. Play a song. Come back. Get your first date. Follow up next. Hey, everyone.

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He said that he had a great date with her, and he doesn't know why, so we're about to call her in a second, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Damon, why don't you catch us up on your date with Hazel? Yeah, man, so the date was great. I met Hazel on Instagram. I saw her on my For You page, reached out to her about some paint-ins for an event that never really happened for me. But we still ended up going out to a paint-in trip and went and got some pizza.

The night was going great. I had to pop off a little bit, got a little angry at the waiter. He seemed inebriated. So it was really frustrating but like i say the date ended very well we embraced we gave each other a kiss and you know order an uber and make sure she got home safely but i just haven't heard from her in six days okay man well we're gonna call it right now see if she'll tell us okay you ready yes sir all. Here we go. Hello?

Hi. May I speak to Hazel, please? Yeah. This is she. Hey, Hazel. How are you? My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Gang's all here, Hazel. My name's Nisa. What? My name's Nina. Also on this show. And's all here, Hazel. My name's Nisa. What? My name's Nina, also on this show. And I'm Victoria. Okay. Yeah, I'm sorry. You're calling me from a radio station? What's up, girl? What's going

on? Well, we do a thing on our show. It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them so we got an email about you from a dude named damon oh yeah this is like my worst nightmare right now you guys i swear i've been thinking about this for days and days the date is your worst nightmare talking to us no this no first of all i feel terrible i really didn't mean to like let it go on for so long i guess it has been almost a week now i guess it

is ghosting i was gonna say like that seems like too strong of a term but but honestly all i've been trying to do is kind of like work my own uh like feelings out about this i guess okay i'm getting nervous like what happened yeah okay so i have i have a thing it's called misophonia do you guys know it's called what misophonia it's the sensitivity to to sounds okay and and uh like auditory stimuli. And it is a lot of times triggered by things that most people would consider normal, like chewing. I did have a wonderful, wonderful time with Damon. And we have definitely a lot of chemistry. I was so excited to meet him and find out that he was so much everything I had sort of hoped he was and then also things I didn't even think to hope for. And when it became time to actually, you know, sit down and have dinner.

Oh, my God, the chewing. Like, I have a pretty good handle on, you know, getting ready to expect like okay there's gonna be human chewing sounds I'm gonna be okay but oh you guys it was next level his chewing is too loud for you is it next level for you or for anybody no it's for anybody because I understand my predisposition to feel like oh my god this is terrible but it was like it became not just auditory and also visual because there was so much like open and and down chomping like uh i i could not i didn't even know how to tell him he's like taking tiny bites and then just chewing them so big and so much and it's so splashy i could i couldn't i could not even like focus anymore

and it ruined the whole thing for me and i felt so embarrassed i was like by the time it had gone on for so long i'm like i can't tell him this now i usually don't tell people about this like right away because i don't want them to feel self-conscious and it's something that I have a pretty good hold on um usually I'll bring it up after a few dates or whatever but I just I've never had like such an intense problem like this and it just felt too late to tell him oh okay I feel awful and I've been trying to figure out like how do I address this with him how do you talk to somebody about this after it's already happened I regret it I feel I have like a problem with I don't know confrontation or and it didn't have to be confrontation right I just needed to be direct but I I just like I don't know what happened so

fast and I couldn't think of a way I was too disposed to having a reaction and I was afraid that in the middle of a reaction I wasn't going to be able to say it in a way that was thoughtful enough or kind enough and also just how do you tell someone that yeah I don't I don't know how you would tell somebody that especially in a thoughtful way because it's just like bro shoot with your mouth what are you doing with your tiny little mouth this sounds so stupid and I can't I feel so embarrassed that you guys are like even involved in it now and that I haven't just dealt with this like an adult on my own. But I honestly, this has just never happened to me before. Damon, do you know that you chew that loud? Wow. Wow.

I you know, my mom used to yell at me all the time about the way I ate. I just thought she was picking on me. No one else ever said anything to me about it. Okay, wait. He's on the phone? You have him on the phone? Yes, that's Damon. He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Okay, wow.

I'm really sorry, Damon. Hi. I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to talk to you about this. How you doing, Hazel? In my defense, the pizza was really good, wasn't it? It was really good. It was worth chewing loud for. Wow.

I do, however, I feel very embarrassed. It's something I should have listened to my mom tell me a long time ago. Learn how to chew with your mouth closed. But, you know, I would really love a second chance with you, you know, just to be able to go out with you and show you that, know i'm not this obnoxious you know chomping mom cookie monster eating with his mouth open you know letting food run everywhere um that's something that you know i definitely will work on uh because it's you know i want my friend back you know i want to be able to see how you're doing well hazel would you like to go on another date with damon we'll pay for it. Guys, I feel so bad. And, and, but also thank you. I really needed to just say this. I can't even tell you like how sick I felt to realize what was going on. And then now just to be like,

I can't believe it could have been over this easily. Um, yeah, I definitely want to go on a second date. Um, I had such a great time. I really, really did. And in the future, well, now that I know, Damon, that you can be so open to this feedback, I guess I just feel so much more comfortable and I won't let it get to this point anymore. It's going to get picked up. Good. Well, you know what? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Can't wait to go picked up. Good. Well, you know what? Thank you.

Thank you, Hazel. Can't wait to go out with you again. I'm actually about to go get on YouTube right now and look at a couple of videos of mice eating and see how those guys do it. He's like, what the hell? I definitely don't want this to happen to me. All right. So congratulations.

Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and

Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

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