First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Daniel & Reese - When a First Date Ends in a Name Fail

Episode Date: August 28, 2025

Daniel thought he had the perfect first date—shared tapas, sparks in the alley, and even a little kiss. But now Reese won’t return his calls. In this episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, we find out the real reason she’s ghosting him… and let’s just say it’s more unforgettable than he’d hoped. If you’ve ever worried about making a cringe-worthy mistake on a date, this is one you need to hear. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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See you there. First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at Advocateslaw.com. Daniel is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Reese. So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But first, Daniel, how long has it been since you heard from Reese?

about a few days I think Okay All right Honestly it's probably been a little bit longer I've messaged her within the last few days Okay Okay let's talk about the date Why do you want to get to hold of her so bad

Well yeah so we went to this new You know tapas place downtown It's like you know one of those places where they serve you guys Like a bunch of little dishes And you get to share them Which is I think perfect for a birthday Because you get to see if the person likes to share or doesn't It's a pretty classic first place

state move. I like it. Yeah, you know, we split a dessert. We had churros with chocolate sauce and I thought things were going really well. Like, uh, like we're literally, you know, sharing a dessert. So like, I don't know. I thought that was a good sign. Yeah, I mean, you don't just share desserts with anybody, you know what I mean? It's kind of true. You know, after dinner, we kind of wanted around and there was like this alley near the restaurant and things got a little heated in the moment, you know, a little handsy. In the alley? Hot. What? Did she enjoy that?

Yeah. I know it's kind of weird, but it's just like there was like this spark right away, you know, and like, you know, we weren't just talking about small stuff. I felt like we were really connecting, so she was easy to talk to. How crazy did you get in the alley? You know, I guess you could say we got pretty caught up in it, you know. And, you know, she's absolutely gorgeous. So, yeah, like, it, It got definitely got a little heated. Why do you think she's ghosting you?

Honestly, you know, I really don't know, but I will say when we were in the alley, like I bit her lip a little, and she gave me it a little bit of a like, you know, be gentle. And, you know, at the time, and I think it was like a big deal. Like, you know, I thought it was something maybe she'd be into, but, you know, maybe she thought I was coming on to a death or something. How hard did you bite her lip? Not too hard. It was just a little, you know.

A little nibble. Yeah. Okay. So then after she was like, no, be gentle and you were gentle, was she responsive or did she feel kind of like, I don't know, worried about being bit again? No, after the little warning she gave me like it was like right back at it, honestly. Okay. Okay. So then how did it end?

How did your date end? You know, I took her home and, you know, I thought I'd see her again and that was, you know, that was about it. I mean, that, I mean, that was kind of the climax of the night. there in the alley but okay and that's it and that's the last thing you heard from her I mean what's the last thing she said to you honestly offhand I can't really remember but like usually she was like very responsive you know she usually has her phone on or even at work or something so like usually when I master she answers right back within you know moments and then just like out of nowhere it was just kind of um nothing so she you felt like she wanted to see you again at the end

of that yeah okay well we'll see if we can figure it out for you then we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she tells why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Awesome, thanks so much. All right, your first day follow up is next. Who cares about truth when the lies more entertaining. Hey, everybody, I'm Angela Rye,

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and maybe get him another date. First, Daniel, why don't you catch us up on your date again? Yeah, basically it was one of the best first dates I've ever had in my life, if not the best. And, like, you know, we went to the great tapas place I told you about. And then, like, a few lizards were looking earlier. I kind of explained my experience we had in an alley that was very nice. You chewed on her lip.

Well, mine is that part. That was a little awkward. But other than that, yeah. And since then I haven't heard from her. Do you think the little lip bite is the reason that she's not calling you back? I sure hope not. But, like, I just really don't know what else. Yes, it is.

Well, I feel like it wouldn't have been that little of a bite if this is why. Yeah. Like, maybe you better harder than you think. I hope not. All right. Well, we'll find out. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah.

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, is this Reese? Speaking. Who is this? Hi, Reese. How are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. How are you?

Hi, I am great. Sweet. Have you ever heard of the show before? Yeah. Awesome. Well, guess what, Reese? We got an email about you from somebody. You don't see. You don't sound very surprised. Yeah, we do a segment called the First Day Follow-up. This is where if you go on a date with someone and you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask, why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would email us?

Oh, man. Seriously. Yeah, I know exactly who it is. It's Daniel, right? Yes, it is. Daniel emailed us. He said he really likes you and thought you guys had a great time. Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?

Yeah, I'm ghosting him because he couldn't remember my name. What do you mean? Like, the whole time? No, okay. Like, okay, so we had a great time at dinner. Uh, the makeout session was pretty great too. Um, after we kissed, et cetera. He, uh, literally looked at his phone before saying goodnight to me. Like, it was super obvious. He had to check to see what my name was. So he like saying good night and looked at, look down at his phone and saw your name was like, uh, good night. Uh, Reese.

Yeah. Like, how many people are you seeing that you can't keep track of like, like, come on. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I know your name. He resets, Daniel. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Of course, he is. I know your name. Come on now.

I just was caught up in the moment. Caught up in the moment, really? Like, you got to be caught up to remember my name. That's like, wow. He's so impressive. I swear to God, like, I was just nervous, okay? You're just really cool, and, you know, I didn't want to mess things up, all right? So you looked at your phone?

Yes, he did. He needed a phone to remember who he was talking to. Because, I mean, I must be exhausting to remember things like that. Like, do you use it to remember how to tie your shoes? Like, come on. You know what? Honestly, you know what? Time choose isn't kind of hard when you got a brain like mine.

You see, I'm just, you know, I'm using it all day at work. And, you know, you got to save brainpower for the important stuff. Am I right? Well, then that mean you would remember her name? Yeah. I guess, you know, my name doesn't make the cut, you know, of the whole, seriously. I don't remember. You know what?

What's your middle name? Tell me that. And I promise to remember your first and middle name. And I don't know the middle name for anyone else. She's not talking about right now. She's talking about when you were on the date. Yeah. I'm not telling you my middle name, but like, thanks, though.

Have you ever forgot somebody's name on a date, Jubal? Yeah. I just didn't say their name again Okay And then the number was in my phone Just says their number And I just never called them Okay

No that's not helping the situation at all You know I didn't forget your name And it was just like I pulled out my phone Because it was like I don't know Like it was time to take a night And things were a little awkward And it just I don't know It's just a tick I guess I have it

You know I just checked my phone Like it's a big deal Kind of a moment of disconnect When you pull your phone out While you're on a day with somebody literally like as you were saying good night uh good night pulls out your phone and then just like looks at it uh oh good night reith like how many other girls are you dating that you don't have the memory space to remember a one syllable name reese are you dating other thing i got a no like i like i like i don't

have a girlfriend or anything like that but like honestly yeah like you know meeting people online and stuff it kind of sucks like you go on a ton of first dates and like none of them are as good as like our first date so it's like oh poor you i'll be honest so you did forget then it's like i didn't know her name i just maybe i stumbled on it but it's not like i didn't know her name or like thought she was somebody else like rase would you feel better if he admitted yeah a little bit i wouldn't feel better but at least he could be honest i don't know i think to me there's a difference of like not knowing your name and like, you know, just kind of having a brain fart after, you know, being nervous and stuff.

Like, it's like sometimes you forget your own birthday. Like, if you ever had that happen, like, you're like, oh, or you don't know what year it is. Like, come on now. Like, that kind of stuff happens to everyone. First of all, I didn't forget your name, but, like, I remember tons of stuff about you. Like, I know that you're going to school to be a vet tech. And I remember, you know, your birthday, like, right before Christmas now. And how it sucks to have, like, a birthday so close to Christmas.

And, like, I remember, like, all kinds of stuff. Remember, and plus I'm not even going to school to be a vet tech. I completed school, but I'm in marketing. You see you guys? You see why I ghosted him? Yeah. Yeah. Daniel, you need to like ginko baloba.

Is that the one that you're supposed to take from memory? Oh, who would I go on a date with? I wanted to be a vet tech. Whoa, Reese, would you like another day with Daniel? It might be a whole new first date for him. We'll pay for it. You know what, you know, if you can't remember who you're talking to or, you need your phone to remember someone's name, I think I'm good. Like, plus, like, when we were kissing, he, like, bit my lip way too hard.

So the fact that he can't remember my name and he bites hard, I might need to go see. I might, I might, I might, I might, no, no, that wasn't the reason. I might be to go to the vet tech you're talking about because I might have to leave me. What's that, Daniel? I told you guys it was about the lip-biting this has not even do about my memory like she said she got to go to the vet tech it was about the lip-biting thing oh my god if you ever remember that

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