First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Dante & Lola - Double the Count

Episode Date: March 21, 2024

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Online at advocateslaw.com. Lola is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by Dante. So we're going to see if we can get him on the phone in just a few minutes, ask him why he's ghosting her, and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. But first, Lola, how long has it been since your date with Dante? It was like a week and a half, almost two weeks ago. We met at this bar close to where I work. It was happy hour.

Real quick, have you tried to get a hold of him in that time? Or have you texted him since your date? Yes, I've texted him a couple of him in that time? Or have you texted him since your date? Yes. I've texted him a couple of times and literally no response. Like the first time he was like, hey, I'm busy. I'll hit you up in a little bit. Then never heard anything. I waited, you know, a couple of days.

And then I tried again and nothing. And then I tried once more last night and still nothing and that's why I called y'all what is it about him that makes you want to talk to him so bad because don't you just kind of want to be like well screw you then bro I didn't like that's part of it now but it's like I'm I've been ghosted before I've ghosted before like I've just never I've always known why like you know what I mean like where you can look back and you're like oh it was probably this or it was probably that yeah like this night everything seemed to go so well I think that's part of it is just like what did I do like is it me is it him I don't know if he's married i you know he's like i don't know what i don't know what

the deal is i just kind of it'd be nice to talk to him again or see him again but more than anything i just kind of want to know like what's up like why because everything was so nice that night there's not anything you can think of that could have been an awkward moment or anything like that no like we were we were at this bar and like i've seen him before and always drew my interest but i never approached or anything like that and then i i was there um for happy hour with a couple of friends after work and he came over and started talking to us and then my other friends kind of like walked away and it was just the two of us and it's this cool place they have like board games and plants and it's just a like chill vibe

you know and um so we played a couple board games played played battleship i haven't done that in like forever it's like a fun place it was it was really cool and i was trying to like just trying to see where he was. And he like started, he found my battleship and kept, you know, hitting, hitting. And I was like, sir, are you hitting on me? And like, that like broke the tension and we both started laughing. And then that's when like, we just started like really talking and we were doing that question game, you know,

that starts with like, Oh, who's your favorite band? Uh, then things get, you know, a little, a little more intense.

It's like, uh, you ever run from the cops like in college or whatever? You ever catch your parents? Did your parents ever catch you? That kind of stuff. Yeah. The weirdest one was

body count who asked that question he asked he asked on the first date like not even a date really like we're just chilling right and uh i guess that is a weird question to ask on the first date how many people you've been with or whatever but i could see it in that moment being like you're playing a fun game so you don't i wouldn't even think about it then i would say it i'm like oh probably like a crunchy question to ask her okay so then how did how did you react to that well i i turned it back on him i was like well what's yours and so then he answered and i was like okay well his is his is more than mine and so i said it i i gave my honest body count and it didn't seem like it was a big deal.

We like, you know, kept hanging out and kept drinking. He even, you know, he was like, Hey, should we go somewhere else? I was like, I was like, Oh, I've got it. You know, I've got to work tomorrow. And, um, I didn't want to leave, but like, I didn't want to, it was just such a good night. I didn't want anything more to ruin that. So we said our goodbyes.

We exchanged numbers. And that was it. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he answers. And if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. And then maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay? Absolutely. Thank you, guys. All right, play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

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and she has no idea why. Maybe it's because she sunk his battleship. Not sure, but we'll find out. Literally. Before we give him a call to see why he's ghosting you, Lola, why don't you kind of recap your date for everybody? We met at happy hour after work, hung out, played board games, battleships, had great conversations, played questions game, drank a little, said goodnight, you know, everything seemed cool. And then he's literally ghosted me.

Are you ready to call him and ask him? I think so. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Dante, please yeah this is dante dante what's up man how are you my name is jubel and i host a radio show it's called the jubel show hi dante the show's here too i'm nina hi and i'm victoria oh so this is a bunch of people calling me yes it is dante i'm doing i'm doing pretty swell, but, uh, why are you calling me?

We're calling you because we do a segment on our show. I don't know if you've heard it before, but it's called the first day followup. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can have us call you and ask why you've been ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody named Lola. Uh, well, I really want to talk about that one. from somebody named Lola.

Well, I don't know if I really want to talk about that one. Really? Can you? Why? I mean, she said it was a good time. I mean, I had a general good time. Things were pretty good, but I could tell that she wasn't really truthful to me. What does that mean?

Well, what it means is when you ask someone a direct question, they just kind of like, you could tell they don't want to answer it. And then when they finally do answer it, they don't tell you the truth. Okay, so back up. What happened? No, it's just my intuition. Okay, explain the situation you're talking about. Well, we're playing games.

We're having a generally good date. We're playing games and we're playing games we're having a generally good date playing games and we're asking questions about each other and i just didn't feel like the answers i was getting were were really what it was so you know how it is once you finally kind of determine you you don't want to really be there anymore you just kind of go with it and things things stay on a good note but then once you're done you're just done um kind of i just feel like there was some mixed messaging with the exchanges of numbers and stuff yeah well let's put it this way i was just asking and i started asking her questions and i wanted to know some things because

it gives me a good gauge on kind of person i want to be with and i asked her how many people she's she's slept with before does that question usually go over well for you? I mean you can find pretty quickly whether or not you want to continue something because I have my own threshold for me if I find that a girl has more than me then I don't necessarily want to be with that girl. Why? I don't even know that it's about the number Dante I just think the question is a little bit presumptuous I don't even know that it's about the number, Dante. I just think the question is a little bit presumptuous. I don't know if that's your business right away. Everyone has their own priorities when they date. I just find that to be one of mine. And when she answered, I could tell she didn't want to give me an answer.

So then once I actually got her to answer it, I think she just set a number below mine and it was very clear that she wasn't really telling the truth. Okay, so you just think she was lying about it. Yeah, and I have a standard for dating that I want. One of them is don't be too obvious with your lie. And the other is don't sleep with more men than me. What? What about you and the more women you sleep with?

Do you get degraded? I don't think it's equated to the same thing. Oh, my gosh. We cannot have a conversation right now. I just am not. I did not have enough coffee for this. First of all, Dante, I did not lie to you. Your question was out of pocket, and I didn't want to answer because everything was going so well,

and I didn't want to go this direction because I worried about like this exactly Dante that's Lola she's been on the phone listening yeah of course of course I've got to talk to her too now that's okay we get an answer for you and you finally stop calling me yeah the good news is you won't ever have to talk to me again. What I did with my body before I met you is none of your business. Literally none. It is though. I think it is everyone's business when someone's trying to start a relationship with somebody in general, just when they're dating, when they're trying to start something, they want to know the history of the person.

History of people matters. The fact that I'm a grown woman who's literally, and I'll tell everybody, I don't care. The fact that I'm a grown woman who's literally slept with five men in my life. That is too much for you. Five, that probably means 10, if not more, because women just cut those numbers in half. Because they know they don't want it heard by everybody. He just makes up his own rules whoever's going to date dante needs to show up with a diary explaining everything that's happened in their

lives prior to saying hi nice to meet you sorry if only it was like that it'd be so much easier dating i'm sure you believe that i'm sure you do this is like two different dudes the guy i met that night and this this guy because i wouldn't I wouldn't have wasted my time on this guy. That's because I already made my mind up against you. All right. Well, I hope that all those women that were part of your number, that's the part that tripped me out is like you go ahead.

You slept with twice and more than twice as many people as I had. If your number is even correct, if you've got this formula, then that means that you probably use it too yeah i mean if we're talking about dude math don't they cut it in half and like divide it by something like that so if you said 15 really we're talking about like what 45 exactly actually whatever the dude says it's usually half of that because half of them are virgins. They never get sex. It's so much harder for guys to actually get it.

So they're trying to portray macho more so. This is interesting. You're an interesting guy, Dante. Very interesting. Yeah, I know I am. That's why I've already slept with 20 women. Gosh. Wow.

Wait, this is a prize? So then we divide that by two? I don't know what's the math thing on that anymore. Dante, would you like to go on

another date with Lola? We'll pay for it. No, I don't think I do. Cool. Yeah, not only

do I not want to go on another date, I'm going to Venmo you for the drink you bought me and I don't ever want to

see you again. Oh, great. I get a refund. Nice. I wouldn't even bother, though. Keep your money, girl.

Yeah. Yeah, I'm just sorry. I think we're good. Well, this battleship just got sunk. Oh, yeah. Maybe it. Yeah, you sunk it when you suck. What? Whoa.

Jubal's first day follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.

I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to... The hottest party in professional sports. I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party, your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing, and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club.

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