First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Dating the Elderly in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: June 7, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Stephen is not getting a call back from a guy named Tony! The Ghostly becomes the ghosted! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world.

And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. When my mind do run around, with my ear up to the ground, I'm searching to behold the stories that I told. First day follow-up. Oh, the misery Everybody wants to be my enemy Spare the sympathy

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No way My enemy I swear I'll never be a saint Look out pizza The new hits 106.1 First day follow up You know it's serious when you get an email into the show And the subject line is just please please, please, please, please, OMG, help me, please.

With a few exclamation points. And that's the email that we got in for today's first date follow-up from a guy named Steven, who isn't getting a call back from a dude that he wanted to date with named Tony. And I guess he's very upset about it and needs help urgently. All caps, please, please, please, help me, OMG. What's up, Steven? How are you? Hey, not that good, actually.

You're not getting a call back from this dude named Tony. And first of all, before we get into the reason why and why you're freaking out, it sounds like your email looked like you were freaking out. Yeah, I just thought we had a connection. We had a really good date and I just haven't heard back from him at all. So I'm just like, I'm freaking out. Yeah, I just thought we had a connection. We had a really good date. And I just haven't heard back from him at all. So I'm just like, I'm freaking out. Like, it's not Gucci at all that he's not calling me back.

Like, I don't know what happened. It's definitely not Gucci. Okay, well, first of all, tell us a little bit about Tony. How'd you meet him? So we met on Grindr and we had like a connection right off the bat. And that's where, yeah, that's where we first met, you know, through the app. Okay. Who messaged who first?

So I thought his pictures were really attractive. So I was the first one to message him. Okay. And then where did you guys go on a date? So we went to this bar that had a sip and paint night. So that was like, you know, really fun. A what night? Paint and sip night.

So basically at this bar, they do these like really cool things where you like can sip a glass of wine and they give you like pictures. You could do like a little painting. It's a fun activity. So it's a low key, like really good date night. I've heard of that. Do you think maybe he's not calling you back because your painting was terrible? Oh, no, definitely not. Mine was way better than his, actually, anyway.

Way better. What did you actually paint? Just curious. It was, like, fruit in a bowl. So, basically, just a standard painting that you would see on your grandma's wall. Yeah. That's kind of what they have you paint at these things. But after that, he just got kind of cold, and I don't know what happened.

Okay. And you can't think of any reason? I don't know. It was just like, I felt like we had such a nice time, and I got really good vibes from him. He was funny. We just hit it off from the beginning, and I was really attracted, so I didn't see anything wrong.

So I'm just like, oh my God, like what happens? We hear this all the time, though. People are always like, I have no idea what could have gone wrong. Why am I not getting a call back? They always leave out something, I feel like. Yeah, I feel like they're kind of unaware. I mean, if I was on a date and somebody wasn't calling me back, I think I would probably know why. Yeah, definitely.

Yeah, it's like, I don't know why they're not calling me back. I mean, I did punch the server in the face for no reason because they brought my salad late, but I don't know why they wouldn't be calling me back. They're like French kissing their dog. Yeah.

Okay, so yeah, sorry. We got like off track, but tell me about how the date ended. Was there like a hug or kiss or anything? You know, not every date ends hot and heavy, but this was definitely not hot and heavy. It just ended with a handshake. Oh, a handshake. Okay.

That is formal. There was nothing else that you think could have gone wrong? Like, there's nothing that you did? Yeah, like, I don't know. Like, I thought I had a good time. I thought he had a good time. Normally when I'm on dates, like, I'm the one that usually goes to people, so like I'm not used to this.

Okay. Okay. It's weird territory for you to be in. All right. Well, we'll play a song. Like what the heck? We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if we can figure out why he's not calling you back.

Okay. All right. Sounds good. Thank you guys. All right. Hang on one second. Are there one of those situations where the ghostie becomes the ghost dead. We get a lot of these for the first eight follow-ups where people are always like, I don't know.

Normally, I'm the one who blows people off, but this time I'm getting blown off and I don't know why. And that's exactly what happened to Steven, who's on the phone right now. He wants us to call a guy named Tony. They met online, went out, and Tony thought that they had a wonderful time. Tony even described it as, you described it as a lit time, didn't you? Or Gucci time or something like that. Yeah, like I thought it was Gucci.

It was great. Didn't wheel. Yes. Alright, well, Stephen doesn't know why Tony's not calling him back. They went out to one of those paint and sip nights where you drink some wine, do a little painting, and Stephen thought that they were bonding until the end of the night when Tony gave him a handshake instead of a hug.

Yeah. Instead of a hug. Yeah, it just was weird because when we first met up, Tony gave me a hug to say hi. Oh. Oh, okay. You didn't say that yesterday.

No, you didn't. That's weird. It actually went downhill. Yeah, something changed. Yeah, and like, oh my God, like what could have happened? I don't even know. Well, we'll find out.

We'll give him a call right now and see if we can figure it out for you, okay? Okay, dope. Thank you. Yep. Hold on one second. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Tony, please?

Speaking. Hey, Tony, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. Oh, with the radio guy? Yeah. Do you have any idea why we're calling you, Tony? I have no idea why you guys are calling me. All right.

Well, I'll tell you then. How about that? It's a first date follow-up. Have you heard one of those before? No, I don't think I've heard that. Okay. Well, I'll tell you what it is. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody

and you don't call them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And you recently went out on a date with a dude named Steven. Oh, yeah, that definitely isn't a good one to review. He emailed you? Is that what this is all about?

That's why you're giving me a call? Yeah, he emailed us because he said you guys went out on a date and you didn't call him back. And he's a call. Yeah, he emailed us because he said you guys went out on a date and you didn't call him back and he's wondering why. Yeah, actually, first online when we met on Grindr, he seemed like a nice guy and everything and

he mentioned about going to this sip and paint and I'd never been to one of those before and it sounded like something fun to do. Is it because you didn't like his painting? He told us about your date and I assumed it's because he's a crappy painter, but then he said you were a crappy painter. Ooh, Schultz fired.

No, he was actually, he was a pretty good painter, you know, but it seemed like the more he got a little bit of wine in him, he just, I don't know, very immature acting, you know, this young lingo these days, you know. Young lingo these days? Wow, how old are you, like 90?

I am probably about, I'd say like about a good 10 years older, you know. So you just didn't like his vocabulary? No, it was just kind of embarrassing because we were, you know, there and people were around. And it just seems like when we ordered the drinks, you know, just the way he spoke, you know, everything was lit, you know, was lit you know low-key dope i mean it kind of reminded me of my nephews it just like you know like i was in there with a you know younger kid he just seemed very immature i gotcha okay and uh i mean i was like really ready to leave early just kind of worked the whole date people were leaving looking at us and he was kind of making kind of an ass out of himself you know wow so you you were you wanted to bounce in the middle of the date?

That's how much he was annoying you? Yeah. I mean, just like I said, I felt embarrassed. I felt like I was with, you know, some little high school kid almost. And I mean, he is a grown man. He's a little bit younger, but he's just very silly, very immature, real loud. And like I said, it was just lingo, you know, like a little kid, you know. Everything was Gucci.

I don't even know what the hell that means. And even at the end of the day, you know, we go to pay and he's like, hey, do you have any cheddar? And I'm like, cheddar? What the hell do you mean cheddar? And he's like, yeah, I don't have any funds. I don't have any money. And I'm like, I mean cheddar. At least I know what that means now, you know. And that was even a turn off.

I mean, the guy had no money. Oh, yeah. Not okay. So basically you don't want to go out with him because you think he's young and dumb. Yeah. I mean, I don't want to go out with him because you think he's young and dumb. Yeah. I mean, I don't mean to be mean. I wouldn't want, you know. But it's the truth.

I mean, yeah, there's just no way, man. Okay. Well, thank you for telling us the truth. And now I need to tell you the truth because the truth is that Stephen is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What? Tony, we had such a good time. Like, what do you mean I'm acting younger? Okay, fine.

I didn't have tons of money. But like, are you kidding me? Like, we had such a good time. Like, what do you mean I'm acting younger? Okay, fine. I didn't have tons of money, but, like, are you kidding me? Like, what the hell? What are you doing here? Are you setting me up, even? Like, you think I'm the young one? Like, first of all, like, I don't even know, like, what you're thinking, because this never really happens to me. Also, not to even let me know.

Like, yeah, okay, fine. I'm the younger one, Tony. Well, no, I just thought you would get the point me not calling back i just didn't want to go out again i mean i'm sorry you're just quite a bit younger and i just don't think we're going to really be able to make it you know well that's fair oh you know you're you're not a kid you're not a high school kid no i'm actually not i'm 21 and like sorry i didn't know i was going out with the elderly well you're the one trying to still go out with the elderly so you're the one trying to still go out with the elderly,

so you're the one trying to get me to go out with you. Yeah, but, like, also, you look, like, hot in your pictures, which is why I wanted to go out with you, but I, like, try to be nice, but when you showed up, you, like, honestly, looked like you have, like, a dad bod. Oh, no. Steven, you're changing your tune now.

You were into him before, and now you're not? No, after hearing what he had to say, I'm just, like, pissed. Well, at least he didn't lead you on.? No, after hearing what he had to say, I'm just like pissed. Well, at least he didn't lead you on. He could have said that he didn't have to ignore you, but at least he didn't lead you on. I mean, he would just have to stop talking to me.

Yeah, that's true. I just thought she would know what it meant to be ghosty. It's called ghosted, you f***ing old man. Alright, well well real quick before I let you go Tony would you like to go

on another date with Steven we'll pay for it no I'm sorry I there's just no way yeah I figured

I said that coming surprise whatever I don't even want to go on a date with him anymore anyway okay well alright but you were

all about it at the beginning though you did email us You did email us. You did email us and your email said, OMG, OMG, please help me, OMG, or whatever. Yeah, but that was before I knew you. You was like 80 years old or something like that. Oh, well. All right.

All right. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean,

isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more.

Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.