First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Deacon & Charlotte - Ghosted After a Perfect Date? Kayaking, Gummies & Serial Killer Vibes!

Episode Date: October 13, 2025

Deacon thought his first date with Charlotte was flawless—a sunny kayaking trip, laughter, and even a few candid photos. But two weeks later, he’s getting ghosted. What went wrong? Was it too many gummies, seaweed shenanigans, or “serial killer vibes”? On this episode of The Jubile Show, we call Charlotte to get the real reason she vanished and see if Deacon has a shot at a second date. Tune in for laughs, awkward moments, and a first-date follow-up you won’t forget. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First day to follow up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. Deakin is on the phone today for a first day follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Charlotte. So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosted. him and maybe get him another date but first deacon how long has it been since you heard from charlotte dude she's been ghosting me for two weeks now oh okay that's a good amount of time yeah yeah yeah it's a long time you know we had a really really great date so i'm not 100%

sure what happened but we had a bright saturday kayaking date on the river perfect weather you know glassy water dragonflies skimming the surface bird singing like they had a soundtrack deal it was really great it was a great date so how did you guys get to like talk to each other did you feel like she was into you i mean it sounds like a picturesque date but like what was the vibe i really liked her quick wit uh she rocked this great sun hat that was like the way she wore it looked like Couture. She really looked model-esque. She had an easy laugh.

She snapped these candid pictures of every hair on we passed. It was really nice. She was really enjoying themselves. Okay. Did you guys take anything before that? Okay. So after you guys were on the water, did you get to, like,

did you continue the date? How did you end it? Yeah. We were on the water for a little while, and, you know, there was one moment where my paddle pulled some seaweed out of the lake. So I took that piece of seaweed off the paddle and sort of dangled it in Charlotte's face, pretending to be the locus monster. But she kind of seemed like she kind of freaked out, and, you know, I just wanted to let her know I was playing around. But in hindsight, I think that that might have been a stupid move for a first date. Might have come off sort of like a serial killery, maybe.

Yeah, you never want to come off that way on a first date, you know. Yeah, I might be getting ghosted because of seaweed. Okay. Okay. I mean, how does she react after all that? I mean, she seemed fine. I didn't get any vibes that she wasn't enjoying herself at all. it was an epic date we had sunshine snacks uh it was like a postcard it was really really amazing

yeah i mean it sounds like everything was beautiful but did she like say that she wanted to see you again was she acting a little bit different after you stuck seaweed in her face oh i mean there was a moment she seemed like it you know it freaked her out i can tell that it freaked her out so i felt bad about that but the date still ended well and she said she had a good time and we may hang out again you know we talked about that on the way out okay and then no communication at all afterwards or did you try to reach out i've sent some texts called once um or twice maybe maybe five times oh okay so that could also be a reason too maybe you've called too many times you think out i mean And I didn't really think about that as an issue, but maybe.

So not to just add pile on things, you know, and add things on. But serial killer vibes and then calling too many times could be. Is that still serial killer vibes? Is that stalker vibes? Well, if he had those before and then it's calling a bunch, then, you know, both those things hand-in-hand are really not very good. But we'll see what we can figure out, Deacon. But it sounded like a beautiful day, Deacon. It did.

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Listen to Model Wars on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of your first date follow up. And if you're just joining us, Deakin is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Charlotte. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But before we do that, Deacon, remind us about your date real quick. you know we had a great date it was Saturday we did some kayaking perfect weather the water look beautiful the dragon flies were beautiful it was like there was a soundtrack playing in the background with the birds it was you know it was really really a nice time until maybe i

pulled out some seaweed and scared the poor girl you said you may have had serial killer vibes. Right. I don't think that's usually the case, but maybe putting some seaweed on my face might come off. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's a tough one to pull off, you know. All right.

Are you ready for us to call her? I think so. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Charlotte, please? This is Charlotte, who's this? Hey, Charlotte, how are you? This is a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Charlotte. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. What's up with you? Hi, okay. Can I all be with?

Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, I think I have. It's not that long ago either. This is so weird. It's just like, did I wait? something um no well i don't know depends how you look at it but we do do a segment on the show that's called the first date follow-up that's where if you go out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them they can email us to call you and find out why you're ghosting them and so we got

an email about you from somebody yeah wow okay yeah i was not expecting that okay um sure what who is i have a feeling i know who it is not take a guess um yeah is it deacon yes it is deacon we talked to deacon uh about your date he said he liked you a lot he thought it was great and he's confused why you haven't talked to him in two weeks would you mind telling us um yeah because he's a 30 year old frat boy like all he wanted to do was be wasted and yell like bro bro bro bro look bro bro bro bro and i'm not your bro Oh, okay. So it was just fratty?

I mean, it's a little too friday, that's not enough. I just like this guy, I don't, I don't know when the last time he went on a date or hung out with another female, but it was just like he just like buddy buddy and he was being so weird and like almost gross at times. Like I just, I couldn't, he wasn't seen that we were just not vibing whatsoever. like it was just like we were at we were like going to go to a keg party after like he was just prepping before i don't know it just wasn't it wasn't the right vibe for me you know so you said he just wanted to get wasted was he getting wasted yeah the entire time like it was just wanting to play flip cup um and beer pong and we're kayaking like it's weird i don't even know how you do that i mean it'd be really hard right okay well thank you for

Telling us why you're ghosting, I appreciate that. Sure. And Charlotte, I'll let you know that Deakin is actually on the phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you. Hey. Wow. Wow, bro. What's that all about?

Deacon, hi. Yeah. I mean, I don't know what to say, but you brought us flask and gummies. And you kept trying to get me to party while we were literally. the middle of a lake and I told you I'm not the strongest swimmer and then you just kept getting more and more buzz I just felt like you were just making bad life choices that's it nothing I knew I just knew you were nervous I was just trying to like loosen you up take the edge off it's like you wanted to be stressed out is that your normal state just being stressed

all the time is that how you like to live stressed out yeah I love I love the gummies yeah normal straight okay well look at least i didn't like nearly sword fight a duck with a paddle like it was so you're i can't i'm not a good swimmer that duck was coming straight at me that duck was coming straight at me and had a thing and he was coming at me so you wore socks with bows on them i mean that's a cry for help come on the little tiny bows on your socks okay have you seen your hair have you seen your hair like you walked out of of the house looking like you got hit by a tornado and like yeah at first i thought it was kind of hot but now i just see like you're you're just a mess you're a mess my hair is my best is the best

attribute i have so how dare you you know you're great you brought enough sunscreen to coat a small yacht why did you need that much sunscreen Some people don't want to get sunburn And by the way I wasn't wasted I can drink so much more than that At least twice as much If you think great

Well look if I'm just like this big ball of stress And yacht sunscreen or whatever Like why are you trying for a second to eight weekend Why? Because I want to help you I want to help you be better I think I get it now You want to help her be better

At what? Yeah Get rid of all that stressed and sunscreen Yeah Charlotte would you like to go on another date With Deakin, we'll pay for it I mean Look

No I mean I'm just like to hear about it No I'm just not going to chance like a Lake Rager part two. I'm not oh come on Charlotte you are so

hot you're so hot I want to go out with you again I'm sorry I can't it was too many gummies again bye I'm sorry you had the great freckles the sun hat the way you

did you take some gummies now I did and you know what your socks before the comments that I made. They're cute socks. I like those socks, the bows. I take it back. I was mean. I was out of line. But you are a ball of stress. You know what, Charlotte? I guess you're just not going to have a chance to take a ride on the deep train. Deak train. Shoot, too, too. Yeah. Google's first date follow-up. Hey, I'm Jay Chetty, host of the On Purpose podcast. I had the incredible opportunity to sit down with the one, the only, Cardi B.

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