First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Deacon & Charlotte: She Thought She Planned the Perfect Date… Then Everything Went Off the Rails

Episode Date: June 30, 2026

A relaxing day on the water was supposed to be the perfect first date—but somewhere along the way, everything took a wildly unexpected turn. Deacon can't figure out why Charlotte suddenly ghosted him, so he turns to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up for answers. Was it one awkward moment, a personality clash, or something much bigger? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Deakin, how long has it been since you heard from Charlotte? Dude, she's been ghosting me for two weeks now. Oh, okay. That's a good amount of time. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, it's a long time. You know, we had a really, really great date. So I'm not 100% sure what happened, but we had a bright Saturday kayaking date on the river. Perfect weather. You know, glassy water, dragonflies skimming the surface. Bird singing like they had a soundtrack deal. Yeah. You know, there was one moment where my paddle pulled some seaweed out of the lake.

So I took that piece of seaweed off the paddle and sort of dangled it in Charlotte's face, pretending to be the lockness monster. But she kind of seemed like she kind of freaked out. And, you know, I just wanted to let her know I was playing around. But in hindsight, I think that that might have been a stupid move for first date. Might have come off sort of like a serial killery maybe. Yeah, you never want to come off that way on a first date, you know. Yeah, I might be getting ghosted because of seaweed.

Okay. Okay. Did she like say that she wanted to? wanted to see you again. Was she acting a little bit different after you stuck seaweed in her face? Oh, I mean, there was a moment she seemed like it, you know, it freaked her out. I could tell that it freaked her out. So I felt bad about that, but the date still ended well and she said she had a good time

and we may hang out again. You know, we talked about that on the way out. Okay. And then no communication at all afterwards or did you try to reach out? I've sent some texts called once or twice maybe, maybe five times. Oh, okay. So that could also be a reason, too. Maybe you've called too many times, you think?

I don't know. I mean, I didn't really think about that as an issue, but maybe. So not to just add pile on things, you know, and add things on. But serial killer vibes and then calling too many times could be. Is that still serial killer vibes? Is that stalker vibes? Well, if he had those before and then it was calling a bunch. and both those things hand in hand are really not very good.

But we'll see what we can figure out, Deacon. But it sounded like a beautiful date, Deacon. It did. Deacon is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted by Charlotte, so we're about to call her. And see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But before we do that, Deacon, remind us about your date real quick. Yeah, we had a great date. It was Saturday.

We did some kayaking. Perfect weather. The water looked beautiful. The dragonflies were beautiful. It was like there was a soundtrack playing in the background with the birds. It was, you know, it was really a nice time until maybe I pulled out some seaweed and scared the poor girl. You said you may have had serial killer vibes. Right.

I don't think that's usually the case, but maybe putting some seaweed on my face might come off. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's a tough one to pull off, you know. All right. Are you ready for us to call her? I think so. Okay, here we go. Hello.

Hi, may I speak to Charlotte, please? This is Charlotte, who's it? Hey, Charlotte, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Charlotte, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal.

What's up with you? Hi, okay. Can I all be you with? Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, I think I have. It's not that long ago either. This is so weird. It's just like, did I win something?

No. Well, I don't know. Depends how you look at it. But we do do a segment on the show that's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them, they can email us to call you and find out why you're ghosting them. And so we got an email about you from somebody. Yeah. Wow.

Okay. Yeah, I was not expecting that. Okay. Um, sure. Who is? I have a feeling I know who it is. I'll take a guess. Um, yeah, is it Deacon?

Yes, it is Deacon. We talked to Deacon about your date. He said he liked you a lot. He thought it was great. And he's confused why you haven't talked to him in two weeks. Would you mind telling us? Um, yeah, because he's a 30-year-old frat boy. Like, all he wanted to do was be.

wasted and yell like bro bro bro bro bro look bro bro bro and i'm not your bro okay so it's just fratty i mean it's a little too friday that's not enough i just like this guy i don't i don't know when the last time he went on a date or hung out with another female but it was just like he just was like buddy buddy and he was being so weird and like almost gross at times like i just like i just I couldn't he wasn't seeing that we were just not viving whatsoever like it was just like we were at we were like going to go to a keg party after like he was just prepping before I don't know it just wasn't it wasn't the right vibe for me you know so you said he just wanted to get wasted was he getting wasted yeah the entire time like it was just wanting to play flip cup um and beer pong

and we're kayaking like it's weird right i don't even know how you do that. I mean, it would be really hard. Right. Okay. Well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting. I appreciate that. Sure.

And Charlotte, I'll let you know that Deacon is actually on the phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you. Hey. Wow. Wow, bro. What's that all about? Deacon. Hi.

Yeah. Look, do I mean, I don't know what to say, but you brought a flash. and you kept trying to get me to party while we were literally in the middle of a lake. And I told you I'm not the strongest swimmer. And then you just kept getting more and more buzz. I just felt like you were just making bad life choices. That's it. Nothing about it.

I knew. I just knew you were nervous. I was just trying to like loosen you up. Take the edge off. It's like you wanted to be stressed out. Is that your normal state just being stressed all the time? Is that how you like to live? Stressed out?

Yeah, I love... Because that's why I take the gummies. Yeah, normal straight. Okay, well, look, at least I didn't like nearly sword fight a duck with a paddle. Like, it was so... I can't... I'm not a good quiver. That duck was coming straight at me.

That duck was coming straight at me and had a thing and he was coming at me. So you wore socks with bows on them. I mean, that's the cry for help. Come on. The little tiny bows on your socks. Okay. Have you seen your hair? Have you seen your hair?

Like you walked out of the house looking like you got hit by a tornado. And like, yeah, at first I thought it was kind of hot. But now I just see like you're, you're just a mess. You're a mess. My hair is my best, is the best attribute I have. So how dare you? You brought enough sunscreen to coat a small yacht. Why did you need that much sunscreen?

Some people don't want to get sunburn. And by the way, I wasn't wasted. I can drink so much more than that. Wow. Okay. At least twice as much. If you think great, well, look, if I'm just like this big ball of stress and yacht sunscreen or whatever, like, why are you trying for a second to eight weekend? Why?

Because I want to help you. I want to help you be better. I think I get it now. You want to help her be better. At what? Yeah. Get rid of all that stressed and sunscreen. Hey.

Charlotte, would you like to go on another date with Deakin? We'll pay for it. I mean, look, no. I mean, I was supposed to hear. No, no. I'm just not going to chance, like, A Lake Rager part two. Oh, come on, Charlotte.

You are so hot. You're so hot. I want to go out with you again. I'm sorry. I can't. There was too many gummies, Egan. Bye.

I'm sorry. You had the great freckles, the sun hat, the way you just shit everything. Did you take some gummies now? I did. And you know what? Your socks before,

the comment that I made, they're cute. socks. I like those socks, the bows. I take it back. I was mean. I was out of line. But you are a ball of stress. You know what, Charlotte? I guess you're just not going to have a chance to take a ride on the

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It's lemonade. This is Sweet 305. Here, oversharing is encouraged. Listen to Sweet 305 with Lele Pons on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Everyone sees me as a football player, but before anything else, I'm human. Every single day, I'm still learning how to live with problems. mistakes, relationships, emotions ever since I was born. This isn't a normal podcast.

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