First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Did She Get Him Drunk To Steal $500?

Episode Date: April 11, 2025

Is this a new First Date Follow Up or new episode of Crime Stoppers? Daniel is on the phone and is getting ghosted by a girl named Ashley. He got a little drunk and when he sobered up the next morning he saw that he was missing $500 from his Venmo account... Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Daniel, how long has it been since you heard from Ashley? I think it's been like a week now. OK, have you been trying to get a hold of her? Yeah, I sent her a few messages and

she is like this is a flat out ghost. There's no like messages saying, yeah, like short messages. This is just like, she's not really pissed actually. I'm actually, I can tell you, I mean the story if you want to hear it. Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. So, um, yeah, I'm pissed that I'm getting ghosted because like the date was really,

really awesome. I took her to dinner and drinks and I thought she's really beautiful. I thought she was awesome. She even does like guy things. Like she plays golf of all things. And I was like, Oh my God, this is cool. I love golf. Right. And Sparks flew. We had chemistry, like everything was perfect. And I, and we got, you know, a little tipsy, drunk, and I think, I think we made out. All right, so you guys got drunk where you don't remember if you made out or not? Yeah, yeah, it was kind of debauchery at the end,

but nothing like, I would have remembered something terrible. Was she on the same level? As far as drunkness, I probably drank a little bit more than her. Uh, again, I don't, I remember things. I don't black out. So there's no way that I, I would have forgotten something. I'm really pissed though. Let me tell you the piss part is because like the reason I'm, I think the reason I'm getting ghosted actually, this,

this is just my theories. Like I might be getting scammed by this person getting scammed by them Yeah, so everything went well, but then when I wake up like the next morning I found that my Venmo account at $500 of a center hers from mine. Oh $500 Yeah, and I don't think that I Sent it and maybe she I think she might have stolen it and that's why she's ghosting me because I can't think that I sent it and maybe she, I think she might've stolen it and that's why she's ghosting me.

Cause I can't think of any other reason why I'd send her $500 on them. I don't do that kind of thing. So she must've like grabbed my phone when I was drunk and sent it to her, to her, to her. People do that on first date. I never start trying. Yeah. I'm assuming people are going to start trying out if they don don't already but I mean I can see people doing something like that It's here

I can also see people scamming people just for dinner like you hear about that all the time Were you away from your phone at any time where she could have grabbed it and then motor self-money? I mean Of course, I got my own in the bathroom. I just left it on a table So, I don't know if that's not what happened. Like I definitely want to go out on another date with her. I don't want to accuse her of things that she didn't do. I really like her. Oh man, we're at a lot of extremes here. You don't remember if you made out with her or not.

You don't know how the $500 got there, but you do want to see her again if she didn't steal it. Seriously, if she did steal it, I really want to call it cost. So I really need to figure this out. Yeah, it's 500 bucks she stole from me. Have you ever accidentally or on purpose She did steal this. I really want to call it cost. So I really Have you ever accidentally or on purpose venmo'd somebody like that before and not known it no No, that's just not like me. I don't do those kind of things. It's a weird number too. It's like five hundred dollars This is go for five thousand dollars

One of the day was going so well and then now she's ghosting you, and then there's $500 missing from your Venmo, I would think that that's the reason. Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't know. Again, I just need some clarity here. Well, play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she stole your 500 bucks,

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But first Daniel, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Yeah, so I took this girl out, bought her dinner and drinks and we had an amazing time. Got a little drunk. I don't remember what happened because I had $500 missing off of my Venmo account that was sent to her. So either she stole it or I gave it to her and I'm trying to figure that out. Okay. Which neither of them makes sense, but I guess.

Yeah. Scamming part. God, that sucks. That does suck. That does really suck. Maybe she got you drunk on purpose in order to get your phone and Venmo her money. Maybe that's her thing.

All right, man, are you ready for us to call her? Uh, I don't know what to expect right now, but I'm definitely ready for the call. Okay, here we go. Ashley, how are you? My name is Jubel and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubel show. Yeah. Hi Ashley.

The show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, who's calling me? Yeah, this is the Jubel show. It's a radio show. Have you ever heard it before? I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria This is the Jubal show it's a radio show have you ever heard it before I mean, I know the name Yeah, but why are you calling? We actually got an email about you from somebody who does listen to the show. Oh Okay So we do a segment on the show It's called the first date follow-up what that is is if you go out on a date with somebody

And then you end up ghosting them that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them So you went out on a date recently and you haven't been talking to them and they were wondering if we could figure out why Okay, yeah, I think I know who you're talking about now, okay, who do you think it is? Yeah, I'm gonna say it's Daniel And you are correct Daniel emailed us and then we talked to him a little bit about your date and he's really confused He liked you a lot. He's wondering why you're ghosting him. Oh Yeah, it was pretty straightforward. I mean he disrespected me like all the way. Um He was great, you know, for most of the night.

Then he got really drunk and like completely turned into a different person. Wait, so what did he do to disrespect you? Well, he just, he spent so much time talking about money. Like he thought that that would be impressive to me and it was just gross. Like I'm not the kind of woman that needs someone to like want cash. And that's why I've been avoiding him. I mean, it's just that type of personality that, oh, oh, just it made me honestly stick to my stomach, you know, to be with a guy

that thinks money is what's going to win me over. So call him out. You know what? I just remember something else. OK, so he he got so drunk towards the end of the night and he started bragging about how much money he had, like, and he wanted to prove it to me. So he sent me, he sent me $500. On Venmo? What for? He just was like, watch this. I can do this. Yeah. I was like, look at me. Like, you know, so get something for you. Like, this will be a hot name. Yeah, dude, I make so much cash.

Let me just Venmo you 500 bucks right now. That sounds like. Yeah, here's a half rack. Go get yourself something nice. I don't even know what I would do with that. That's crazy. I don't know what I would do with that. And you took the 500 bucks.

Of course. Heck yeah. I mean, at least I'll get something out of this. I mean, you seem like such a b**** right now. That's why. All right, well, thank you, Ashley, for being honest with us. I appreciate it.

And now I have to let you know that Daniel is actually on the phone listening and does wanna talk to you. Oh God. You could have told me that, you know? Like, before I said it. Yeah, sorry about that. You just told the truth, it's okay.

Yeah. Daniel? Yeah, I'm here. Wow. Yay. the truth it's okay yeah Daniel yeah I'm here can you can you give me a recap of how that happens yeah I mean you were like blurring you was calling them the tell you tell them that I was going to call a cop. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I don't think that I don't think money is everything. I'm sorry. Like I was drunk and maybe I was like really nervous and trying to impress you. I never do this. Oh my god

Does that mean your subconscious thinks that like that's oh what you're good for maybe No, no, no, like I just said I just I guess I do block out or something because I don't remember that part and I Sorry, I'm so sorry, please Meanwhile people are like, I'll listen to you talk about how rich you are. I don't know. The whole thing was just like so not funny. It was really like a B bag move.

You know, this never happened to me before. And I don't know if I can honestly, I really don't. This is so weird. Please, please listen. I promise, I promise, I promise. I had so much fun. I'm sorry about getting drunk and being a feedback. Like I just want another date.

Just please let me have one more chance. I just want to go on another date and I won't drink a lot. I won't talk about money. And we'll go to, we'll go play golf. We'll go to a range like you want. We can go to a really expensive course. Yeah. Golf is the most expensive sport. Ashley, would you like to go on another date We'll go to a range like you want we can go to a really expensive course

Ashley would you like to go on another date with Daniel will pay for it. He sounds sincere to me. Yeah, he does to me, too Well, I mean until he got drunk he was actually super fun. So yeah, I'm up for it Okay. Yeah, you're gonna give the money back? Well, I haven't thought about that yet. You know what? He's got work to do though. Like if he wants me to trust him, he can't be an a-hole. And if I see that then yeah, I'm fine giving him the money back. I mean, Ashley, you earned it though. You sat through that stuff and you're giving him another chance. I think that's just, that's a wash now. Congratulations, Daniel. You got another date. Yeah. We'll make a bet. a wash now. Congratulations, Daniel. You got another date.

Yeah, we'll make a bet. Like who can hit the ball further? Maybe, maybe that'll be like a $500 decision. Yeah. And I already bought some bear mace with that money. So, you know, I'm not afraid to use it. What? What? Thank you.

What? Fair enough. Fair enough. Jubal's first date follow-up. We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices not from the extremes, but from the vast middle into the national

conversation. Each week we hear from ordinary Americans from all over the country. And when you subscribe to The Middle, you also get an episode each week called One Thing Trump Did that focuses on just one item from the avalanche of news. Listen to The Middle with Jeremy Hobson on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Sam Mullins, and I've got a new podcast coming out called Go Boy, the gritty true

story of how one man fought his way out of some of the darkest places imaginable. Roger Caron was 16 when first convicted. That spent 24 of those years in jail. But when Roger Caron picked up a pen and paper, he went from an ex-con to a literary darling. From Campside Media and iHeart podcasts, listen to Go Boy on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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