First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Dry Cleaner Messed Up Your Jacket

Episode Date: December 13, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jacob is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by Ava, so in a few minutes we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jacob, how long has it been since you heard from Ava? Oh, man. It's been at least a couple weeks.

Okay, have you tried to reach out to her during that time? Because it's kind of a while, right? Yeah, I tried to play it cool. I think last text I sent her, I was like, well, we met at a coffee shop. That's the last thing I told her. I was like, hey, I'll see you. I'll see you, dude. I'll see you back at our spot.

And then she didn't respond. So I'm pretty sure she's ghosting me. I haven't called because I felt like that was a step too far. But I'm running out of options. So did y'all actually have a first first date? Like was it at the coffee shop or did y'all just like randomly meet at the coffee shop? Yeah. So there's actually like this coffee shop kind of

just in the neighborhood it's not too far and i go there all the time and that's actually the first place where i met her because i ended up seeing her like three times in one week so this one day we kind of started doing a little small talk and then we actually were like, well, hey, let's meet here on purpose one, you know, next time. So that was like maybe our first date, but it wasn't really like a full date. It was more like a little casual thing. Okay. And then did you guys do something after that?

Yeah, we actually did. We really were enjoying the conversation with each other. So I invited her to like come to my house because we both like reality TV shows. So I was like, Oh, well I've never seen love is blind.

She hadn't seen it either. So let's say, let's go to my house, grab some popcorn or some snacks and we can just binge the whole show together. Um, she was a little, you know, a little hesitant on the going to my house thing, so

I'm hoping that's not what pushed her away, but it did take a little convincing, but she did actually come over. I was going to say, bold move for a first date, to invite somebody to your house. Okay, I like the confidence. And how'd that go? So, it actually ended up going

really well, because when she came over, I had all her favorite snacks. I was ready to go. You know, I was like, I know she loves popcorn. So I had popcorn. She likes Hershey's. So I had Hershey's. We just had a bunch of snacks.

We could just sit and watch this show. And we ended up having a lot of fun, you know, clowning on people and rooting for the people that we really thought were gonna you know really find love and we even drank a little wine too and got to know each other so did was there like a connection with the two of you i felt like there was a connection i mean it was the best date i've ever had hands down and like i'm really hoping that we can have more okay so what do you think could have gone wrong like why would you be getting ghosted oh man okay so I think we would take a break in between the different episodes and it was between I think maybe episode two and three um you know we just kind of took a little time to get to know each other right we just kind of talking and whatever and halfway through that i just i told her i was like this is the best date

i've ever been on and i'm really glad that i didn't have to spend a lot of money like yeah see i was just saying i've i was really glad that i didn't have to break the bank for us to have a good time and then she started to get all fidgety and kind of wanted to leave after that next episode. I was joking pretty much, but I'm hoping she doesn't think I'm cheap. Okay. Yeah. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay. Thanks. Yeah. All right. Play a song, come back, get your

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I told her I was real happy we had a date that wasn't expensive, and now I think she might think I'm cheap. I'm just trying to think about how that would go. Oh man, this is the best date ever. I'm so glad I didn't spend any money. How special do you feel as a person that's on that date? No offense. I'm just

trying to like, you might be on to something. Yeah, it might be the reason you're getting ghosted. Are you ready for us to call her? I sure am. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Ava, please? This is her.

Hi, Ava. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Ava. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I speak to Ava, please? This is her. Hi, Ava. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Ava. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Oh, wow. How are you? Oh, hi. I'm doing good. You ever listen to the show before? Yeah. Okay, cool. We do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up, where if you go out on a date

with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why are you ghosting them. Do you know who would email us? The only person that I've been on a date recently was this one guy, but that's probably it. And what was his name? Jacob. Okay. Well, guess what? Guess what it was.

Jacob emailed us and told us about your date. Says that you're ghosting him and he has no idea why. Would you mind telling us? Oh, goodness. Like, I have really bad luck when it comes to men. You know, our date was kind of cool. It was cute and stuff. I just have really bad luck when it comes to guys.

So, you know, I started liking him a little bit and we were watching some of the shows and you know, caught feelings a little bit and you know, I just felt like it's probably easier for me to just stop talking to him. What happened?

Everything was good. We were watching, I think it was called Love is Blind. And, yeah, so, you know, it was nice and cute at first. But, you know, they go to start talking about what they do and don't like in certain people. Now I'm looking at Jacob like, okay, what qualities I don't like about certain people now now I'm looking at uh Jacob like okay what qualities I don't like about him now but then I like him but I don't really know where it's going okay was there something specific that you didn't like about him um there was like a situation to where um when he did invite me over to his house. It was the first date,

which I went out on a limb to do. Um, everything was cute. Everything was, you know, fun and stuff like that. He just started playing around a little bit too much. Um, and I think that he just tries too hard. So it kind of was a turnoff. How so? Um, so um i'm not you know i like touchy-feely and stuff like that but i don't really like someone to you know just jump your bone i'm a 50 50 kiss type of person what does that mean did he try to jump your bone? Well, I think that when we were eating popcorn, I think he was trying to hide something from me with the bowl. Oh. Well, good for you, Ava.

Like, not in that way but like he was very happy I've had that power I've had that power over men but you know it was my first time over there and we were just supposed to be watching TV and stuff like that so then it's like

oh you're like that right now and you're hiding it with the bowl of popcorn that I'm sticking my hand in. Oh, that is weird. That's very weird. Okay. Like, did he like it? I mean, I would assume so.

Is that why I stood up? I don't know. I mean, I just think, like, you're trying to get into popcorn. And it's just like that. That would be weird. Okay. I don't know what to say with that situation. Yeah, that's tough.

I don't know either. Like, would you have wanted him to tell you or is it? Yeah, I mean, as a guy, I don't know what I would do either. Just try to hide it like he did. You can't always control it, right, Jubal? No. Sometimes it has a mind of its own, you know. I don't think he hid it really well, though. I don't know. it, right, Jubal? No. Sometimes it has a mind of its own, you know? Uh-huh. I don't think he hit it really well,

though. I don't know. No, he didn't. It doesn't sound like it. It was a pretty big situation going on. That could be, that could...

So that's why you're not calling him back? Oh my gosh, Ava. A little scared. All right. Well, thank you for being honest. And Jacob is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Oh, goodness. Jacob. Hey, Jacob. Oh, man. I'm so sorry about that. Oh, my God. I mean, look, I'm sorry. I was trying so hard.

Well, that's probably the best word. I can tell. Yeah. I'm sorry, Jacob. I didn't want to make things weird or awkward. That's why I was trying to like, maybe make it not as obvious. I probably made it way worse. I just, I really, really like you. And I love having a conversation with you. I can tell.

You're so humorous and all that. I was asking you why the popcorn kept falling on the floor. And you were like, oh, I don't know. Oh. I didn't know what was going on down there. You know? Then you didn't tell me what was going on. So it kind of freaked me out a

little bit so it's just like okay is he getting like that because we're watching these ladies on tv or is it me no definitely it's definitely the beautiful lady i had in my house you know um look i'm really sorry and i hope that's not i hope that won't keep us from being able to go back out. I just really like you. Maybe I'll do something where we're not sitting down next time. Like a FaceTime thing. Can you give him some

advice, Jubal? Because I understand that this is awkward, but I don't know how Jacob comes back from this clearly. It's kind of a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like, what happened? I don't know how Jacob comes back from this clearly. It's like it's kind of a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like, what happened? I don't know. Yeah, it comes off a little less deep. Tape?

What? I'm not sure. Ava, would you like to go on another date with Jacob? We'll pay for it and give him another shot. And the tape. He doesn't sound like he's creepy. It just sounds like he really likes you. Yeah, if he's able to double tape it down,

I might be willing to go on a date with him again. Oh, my gosh. Well, I'm heading to Staples. All right, well, cool. Congratulations, Jacob. You got another date. Thank you, Ava. Have fun, guys. Thank you, Ava. Have fun, guys.

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