First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Eating etiquette on TRIAL

Episode Date: September 19, 2023

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counting um okay i'm sorry about the ghosting but let's just get right into it can you tell us about your date and what happened yeah well i mean what happened was we had what i thought was an amazing date i took her to this barbecue place also like a super fun country bar you know they got the mechanical bull line dancing bunch of great drink specials um right off the bat she and uh mia was always saying like i'm always up for an adventure and she said she loves luke bryan so boom plus not to brag too much but uh they have dancing there and i thought it would be a real good opportunity to show off my rhythm you know anywhere i can get and move how'd that go well uh i feel like you're talking about the dancing it's just the date in general because i feel like the dancing went really well well

let's start there then yeah okay well i feel like we moved really well together we had amazing chemistry on the dance floor and uh it was so good that I thought our bodies would go real good together off the dance floor. You know what I mean? Okay. Also, she ate her food with her hands. Like she wasn't afraid to get dirty.

I thought that was the best. She was so fun. Yeah, she got dirty. All right. So that's another good sign. I'd say, what are you hoping to get out of this date but i'm just um well did she seem like she was into it was she like having a good time when the dancing was going on yeah um oh yeah for sure um i think like uh

the only thing that i could maybe think of like so she was eating the ribs with her hands and i wasn't i was using a fork and a knife and like maybe i made her feel a little bad or something but i don't think so because she like teased me about it you know because i was being all proper and i was slumming it with her but i don't know i think honestly i really honestly think she was joking and just flirting but maybe that's it i i really have no idea what else it could be. How did the date end? We both went our separate ways. We didn't get a chance to test any dance theories out, but that's okay

because I want to just make sure that we have a good start to everything. As much as I talk a good game, I'm really out there to try to find someone and have something meaningful. She took an Uber home, and I took an Uber back to my place because we didn't know who would be drinking. And it was I thought it was a really nice end of the night. Did you guys text each other afterwards when you got home or was did the goodbye end before the Uber ride? Yeah. And I watched that, you know, text me and make sure you get home. OK. And she did that. And that was the last time I heard from her.

Going back to your food theory, it is kind of interesting how much pressure is put on matching your date and how they eat. You know what I mean? Like, if the person you're with is ordering a burger, like, you don't want to make them feel weird, so you get a burger. If the person you were with eats their pizza with their hands, I'd be making fun of somebody who's eating ribs or a piece of pizza with their knife and fork, too, but all in fun. So, I don't know that that their knife and fork too, but all in fun. So I don't know that that would be a deal breaker, but maybe. Did you maybe say something that turned her off

at some point? Maybe one of my jokes didn't land, but I wouldn't even be able to tell you what it was. I don't think I said anything. I don't know. We looked at each other's eyes a couple times. You know those little moments where you're like, this is,

this is going good, you know? And other than maybe joking about her eating her food with her hands, you can't think of anything else. No, I really can't. Like, I know,

like, I'm trying to be honest with you guys too. Like I, you know, I'm sure everybody says, Oh, I can't think of anything, but I really can't.

Did you guys kiss? We did not. Well, maybe she doesn't think you're into her. Did you get a hug at least at the end? Yeah, we hugged. Okay. We hugged.

I got a little rib sauce on my shirt. We'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. And then maybe get you another date if you still want one with your first date follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

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Online at advocateslaw.com. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Drew is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Mia and has no idea why. So we're about to call her, but before we do that, Drew, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about why you think you're getting ghosted by Mia? Well, we had an awesome date. Took her to barbecue. It was a country bar.

We danced, and we danced really well together. And at the end of the night, we hugged. I got a little rib sauce on my shirt, and I couldn't wait to see her again. Aw. The rib sauce was from her hands. You didn't just dip his shirt in rib sauce and walk out. Although, that would have been a move, you know you know well that may be why you're getting ghosted alright I'm gonna dial

their phone number right now you ready I'm ready alright here we go hi this is Mia hey Mia how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Mia.

My name's Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. It's a radio show called The Jubal Show. I don't know if you've ever heard of us before. I have. Hi. Okay, cool. I'm nervous.

Have you ever heard a first date follow-up before? I have. Well, you recently went out on a date with somebody and now you're ghosting them and they emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone and ask you why you're ghosting them. Oh, okay. Any idea who it could be? Well, I've only really had one date in the past couple of weeks, so I think I know. Is his name Drew? Yes, it is. Oh, okay. Can you just tell us why you're ghosting him? He really wants to know.

Wow. Well, I mean, we had, the date was actually going really well, and it was really fun. He took me to, like, this country barbecue place, and they have line dancing and stuff. And so it was, I thought, going pretty well. And he was funny and silly, which is awesome. And with the exception of there was this moment we were dancing on the dance floor and this ballad Shania Twain song came on and he started getting really emotional and started getting like but he was like also like staring into my eyes as he was crying and it was it just felt very heavy and very intense for a first date and it just seemed like there was a lot in there that I was not ready to unpack as a first date. So what song was it that came on again?

Still the one, that Shania Twain song. Oh, I love that song. That song makes me cry, too. I never cried to it. Oh, I cry to it all the time because, like, you know, I just want that one. You never cried to it on a first date? Staring into your date's eyes? No, but did you say anything to him?

Like, did you ask him if he was okay was there something stuck in his eye well i did i you know i was like are you are you okay like there was it was like so intense that i felt like i had to say something and and so i was like are you okay you're trying to like lighten the mood and he he just kind of like oh yeah yeah i'm good i'm good and and just kind of like went on you know looked away so it wasn't as weird it wasn't as weird after that I suppose but it was just like that moment was just really there was just something in there that was like really heavy and he was getting so emotional getting tears in his eyes I don't know I just felt like is this guy gonna say I love you at

the end of this first date I I was not ready for that. So was it not coming across like maybe he was thinking about an ex? It was like he was thinking about you? That's what it felt like. It felt like he was like locking eyes, like still the one, like you. Like I just met you and you're still the one. I could see that being a bit much then. Yeah, I could too.

I mean, Jubal, you get emotional often. Yes. Could you see yourself doing that? Like if you happen to be looking at somebody in the eyes while you're getting emotional, what else could it be? On a first date? Initially, I thought maybe he was thinking about a past relationship. You know, like maybe that was their song or something, right?

I definitely didn't think about the ex idea, but that would also kind of be a deal breaker like you said so let's just ask him mia mia he's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh hi hi mia hi sorry yeah i'm a little embarrassed right now so uh yeah uh i was a bit misty-eyed. It's not because I'm an ex. I was here the whole time. I just didn't know what to say. So my grandparents have been married 60 years. I'll be 61 this year. And they're just so in love still.

And whenever I hear that song, I think about my grandparents. And, you know, it's just a real soft spot for me are you that's for real drew yeah yeah i was gonna say if you're making that up on the spot that is genius i was just like well that's actually really cute and i kind of wish you just i wish you told her that i we were looking at each other, and it wasn't like a plan, like, oh, my God, I've got to get this one. But I was having a good time with her, and then I thought about my grandparents when that song came on. And I was trying not to cry, but I guess I didn't do a good job. I mean, I, of course, cried. I always do.

Yeah, I got real emotional what do you think about that Mia does it change anything Mia I mean that is a very good reason I just also felt like it was a little inappropriate to be so emotional I just didn't feel like to me that told me that like we don't match you know like i'm not a super emotional person but if one is going to be the emotional person in the relationship i would like it to be me and not the man i'm dating like i kind of want i want to rock i don't want a river you know oh wow okay you're not really into emotional uh type guys that? I just feel like it's a lot of extra work. And, you know, I am so sorry, Drew,

but I just feel like it's like a lot that I have to then manage, you know? So, I mean, it stings, but I'm glad you're being honest. That's an interesting take. I did not expect that. I really appreciate when a man shows his side. Yeah, I do too when it's like six months into the relationship but not on the first date all right well let me ask you this question mia would you like to go on another date with drew will pay for it he won't cry what if he doesn't cry um

i'm going to gracefully decline but thank you so much for the offer no problem drew i'm sorry man no second day for you you know i appreciate you guys trying it actually makes me feel a lot better just having some closure and uh while it stings i'm glad she was honest and uh yeah i guess uh that wouldn't work uh it'd be you holding me while i'm crying holding you while you're crying just be uh just crying all the time meanwhile ladies drew a single if you're into the crying type. Consider this is a daily news podcast. And lately, the news is about a big question.

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