First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ella doesn't get ghosted, she does the ghosting in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: April 14, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Ella doesn't get ghosted, she does the ghosting in this First Date Follow Up! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. Our listener Mia is on the phone today for a first day follow-up and something happened to her that has never, this is according to the email

that she sent for a first day follow-up, never, ever, ever, all caps, ever happened. What is it? She's never been ghosted before, apparently. And she's been ghosted, and that's why she's on the phone for a first date follow-up. Mia, before we get into the fact that you've never, ever, ever, ever been ghosted before, how long has it been since your date? It's been six days now.

Six days. Okay. Okay. And you said it's with a dude named Kyle. And how many times have you reached out to Kyle since your date? It's been six days now. Six days. Okay. And you said it's with a dude named Kyle. And how many times have you reached out to Kyle since your date? A few times. Nothing crazy, you know, but a few times. Okay. And at this point, I just want to know why he's ghosting me because I've never been ghosted. Like I'm not the type of person that gets ghosted. Well, I want to know too. Are you normally the ghost-ee?

The ghost-er, not the ghost-ee? Yep. There's a couple times I've ghosted some people, but yeah. I don't know. I'm confident. I was going to say you must be hot, but you're probably just a female. So. But yes, no, you're right. I'm going to say it. Yes, I'm hot

and I'm also fun. And so I just am super confused right now. Definitely picking up on a vibe from you, Mia. I like it. Yeah, so you've got some confidence. You've never been ghosted before. And so this has to be shocking for you. And I'm sorry that you're going through this.

I'm sorry for your struggle right now. Thank you. It's making me realize that it does suck to be ghosted. So if you're listening, don't do that to someone. it does suck to be ghosted. So if you're listening, don't do that to someone. It does suck to be hot too. There's so many struggles that we deal with.

We just get judged so much. That you just don't understand. Normies don't understand it. You know, the hot people understand it. Yeah, the average or normies, whatever you want to call them.

They just don't get it. They don't get it. They never will. They don't. I don't know how Jubal included himself in the hotties. Yeah, of course. What did you do for your date?

Yeah, so we went bowling and then afterwards we got some dinner. Okay, I hope you washed your hands. Yeah, sticking them in the bowls. Because bowling balls. One of the deadliest. That could be the reason he's ghosting you. Maybe he didn't wash his hands after you guys went bowling and ate a sandwich and then he's no longer with us because of the bacteria.

Tell us a little bit about it. How was the date? Was it good? Yes. The date was super fun. Did you get any strikes? Yeah, no strikes. No, I actually was almost like, what's a strike?

Because I like really don't know. I don't know anything about bowling. But it was really fun because he was like helping me with my form. So it was kind of sexy. Okay. And then afterwards, the dinner was really great. I mean, I don't know. Okay.

I don't know. I was into him and you could definitely tell he was into me. So I'm not really sure what happened. Okay. Well, why do you think he's not calling you back then? Why do you think you're getting ghosted for the first time in your life? Well, so I guess I would think that. And basically towards the end of bowling, he started to get super weird about his phone

and was like checking it, but hiding it at the same time. So part of me thinks maybe he's cheating and has a girlfriend. You were like a side piece that he was trying to see. I have to say this. I think it's rude to be on your phone, especially on a first date. Yeah.

Until you're like comfortable with that person. So maybe he just didn't want to be rude and like look like he was on his phone a lot. Yeah, that's true too. Maybe,

but that wouldn't explain why he ghosted me. Whereas if he has a girlfriend. Oh yeah, there is that. And we do know he has a phone because he was on it during your date.

Okay. So just the way he was acting with his phone makes And we do know he has a phone because he was on it during your date. That's right. Okay. So just the way he was acting with his phone makes you think that maybe he has a girlfriend and he met you and he was just trying to maybe hook up or something, and that's why he isn't calling you back. That's the only thing I can think of because, honestly, everything else was perfect. And, honestly, I know it sounds cocky, but this has never happened to me. Well, you can't say never now.

I don't want this to start. Well, I mean, maybe we find out something happened, though, right? Right. And so I won't have officially been ghosted. Yeah. I don't know. Well, it's true. I've got to keep that streak alive.

All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if we can figure it out with your first date follow-up, okay? Yes, please. All right. We'll do it next. It's the Jubal Show. Life is tough when you're hot.

We all know that. Well, not all of us. Some of us don't. I know. And some of us do know how tough it is when you're hot. Like... I wonder who. Mia, who's on the phone for a first date follow-up today. She says that she never ever, ever, ever gets ghosted.

This is the first time in her life that she's gotten ghosted by somebody. His name is Kyle and she's on the phone because she wants to find out why she got ghosted. They went to dinner and bowling. She thought they had a great time and really bonded. It's been six days and she's heard nothing from Kyle and she's confused and she's hurting

inside because she's hot and she might have been ghosted and we need to find out if she has been ghosted or not. When we call Kyle right now to see. Does her ins the outside yeah yeah all right Mia we're gonna call Kyle right now are you ready yes he wraps that up beautifully call him right now here we go Hello? Hi, is this Kyle? This is him. Hey, Kyle, how you doing?

My name is Jubal. My name is Alex. My name is English Evan. There's three people on the phone right now, and it's a radio show called The Jubal Show. Okay, a little weird, sure. We're calling you because we do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up.

And what that is is if you go out on a date with somebody and they end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And we recently got an email about you from one of our listeners. From who? Her name is Mia.

How do you know that? I'm just confused by what's happening here. Okay, well, she's confused too. So we're all confused. She said that you guys had a good time. You went bowling, had some dinner. And then you ghosted her. Yeah, you haven't talked to her in six days.

And she's wondering why. And apparently, this has never happened to her. She's never been ghosted before. So, you haven't talked to her in six days, and she's wondering why. And apparently, this has never happened to her. She's never been ghosted before. So she wants to know why. Do you mind telling us why you're not calling her back? Okay, what exactly do you want to know? We just want to know what the reason is. Why don't you want to call me back?

I mean, so I found out something about her during our date and that kind of just turned me off. Okay. What was it? Yeah. Was it something you guys were talking about, like her political beliefs or something? Family religion? You know what? It's just really not my way to air out somebody's dirty laundry.

But, you know, let's just say that she's not somebody I want to bring home to mama and just leave it at that. So you wouldn't want to bring me home to mom. I wonder what she'd... Okay, well, what is it? What does she do that you don't like so much? Why wouldn't you bring her to your mom? Does she have a dirty mouth?

We were on the date and I actually texted my friend my picture of her and I was like, Hey, check her out. Isn't she gorgeous? You know, I was kind of bragging. He's gorgeous drop dead. Right. And so he texts me back and he's like, bro, you know who that is. Right. And I was like, what are you talking about? And he sends me a link and I click on the link and I should not have opened

that link in public. Let's just say that. What do you, is she a star of some sort of video for older people? Yeah. Yeah, I mean, star is a strong word. But yeah, she has adult videos on an OnlyFans account. Wow. No way. I'm surprised she didn't tell you that.

I'm surprised you didn't know. I'm surprised you didn't meet her on OnlyFans. So she has an OnlyFans account, and that's why you don't want to date her. Yeah, I mean, just seeing what was going on in these photos, I'm sure some guys are turned on by that, but for me, it's the opposite. I'm like, yo, okay, I guess I have to see what you've done in your past versus just hear about it. Kyle, you didn't even want to give it like a trial run, though, for a week?

I mean, a lot of guys would be like, whoa, this is awesome. Sounds pretty fun to me. If you saw what was going on in these photos, you would be like, number one, no way I'm living up to that. And number two. There's not that much. No, I'm not going to show her anything new. And number two, I'm like, you know what?

Why do you need to show her anything new? Maybe she could show you something new. And that's fun, too. When you ask somebody for a test, nowadays you need a COVID test. But I would need multiple other tests from her in order to be with her. You know what I'm saying? I just don't want to date somebody who just puts that all out there for the whole world to see. I mean, like I said, call me old-fashioned

and my buddy called me crazy but I don't want to go for it. But that's past. Well, thank you for sharing, man. I appreciate it. Also, I should share something with you. She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. Hi, Kyle.

Hi, Kyle. Hi, Mia. So you were on the phone this whole time? Yeah, I was. And are you serious? I can ask you the same question. I mean, like, that's not my thing. I'm sorry, but like, that's kind of something that you tell somebody up front. No, no, no. What I'm hearing is that I'm too hot for you. That's what my thing. I'm sorry, but, like, that's kind of something that you tell somebody up front. No, what I'm hearing is that I'm too hot for you. That's what I'm hearing.

No, I'm trying to tell you that what I don't want is a girlfriend who's on OnlyFans. Like, I'm looking for a girlfriend, not just whatever you call yourself. Oh, are you trying to say that I'm a slut? Yeah, I mean, I guess I just don't want a girlfriend who's on OnlyFans. Oh, are you trying to say that I'm a slut? Yeah, I mean, I guess I just don't want a girlfriend who's on OnlyFans. Are you calling me a slut? No, I did not say that. No, no, that's not what I'm saying.

Yeah, I don't think I heard him say those words. He didn't say that. I just really want to say this other word that starts with a P, but no, he doesn't want a P star for a girlfriend. Which is fair. That's not what I am, and it just sounds like he's an asshole. That's what you told us that you do, so did you not actually see the videos? Yeah, the way you made it sound, it was like... You actually saw it, and it was really offensive to you, what you saw.

It only fans... I'm not on websites, okay? I'm on an OnlyFans. A lot of girls do that. What do you do? Kyle's pretty shocked by what you did. You can follow me on OnlyFans. No, we're not going to promote your OnlyFans, okay? We're not going to promote it. What do you do, though, on OnlyFans? I mean, people do all kinds of things. Are you naked? Are you fully not dressed?

Is it just you? Is it pictures, videos? Now I feel creepy asking so many questions, but I do want to know because Kyle made it sound like it was the worst thing ever that you're doing on it. Well, I do a little bit of everything. More like a little bit of everyone. Oh my, fuck you, Kyle.

Okay, fuck you. No, that's why I don't want to date you. No, thank you. Okay, well, I got to ask the question anyway. Kyle, would you like to go out with me on another date? We'll pay for it. Pass. You're lost, Kyle, okay?

I have many options, so. Yeah, I know, I know. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

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And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives

dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.