First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Evan & Ruby - He Sent That Text… and Then Got Caught 👀

Episode Date: March 3, 2026

On this dramatic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Evan thought he had the perfect rooftop date — flirty vibes, city views, kisses goodnight… the works. 💋🌆 But after two days of nonstop texting, Ruby suddenly ghosted him. Was it the towel selfie? 📸 Or was something else going on behind the scenes? When a friend sends Ruby a photo she can’t ignore, everything changes. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. Evan is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it been since you heard from Ruby?

It's been about four days. Okay, that's too bad. Yeah. Have you hit her up a bunch of? mentioned that time? I did try a couple times. Yeah. I don't want to overdo it, but I reached out and definitely

got nothing back. Okay. And you feel like that's weird. Like you feel like four days is a long time and did not hear from her. Yeah. We were kind of hitting it off, so it's out of the ordinary. Well, tell us about your date. Well, Ruby and I went

to a rooftop bar and, you know, it had the best view of the city. It was It was her idea, actually. It was super cool, you know. I can't really beat it for a first date. It's just a great place. We grabbed drinks, shared a chakouterie board,

and, you know, our conversation was just really easy, natural. The vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of flirty moments. She's hilarious. You know, we're making each other laughed the whole night and they were just barked, you know, the kind you can't fake. We ended up taking a walk after and because we were both a little buzzed and before we said good night. There were a few kisses and, yeah, you know, it's just the kind of date you never want to stop.

Okay. Well, why do you think you're getting ghosted then? Honestly, really confused. You know, we were texting nonstop for two days after. So things, you know, they felt promising. And then nothing. It just stopped. So wait, you went on the date and you ended up hearing from her after the date.

Yeah, after the day for about two days. And then it stopped. Right. Could it be something you texted? I don't think so. I mean, I don't think it was. I did text her a pick of me, like in the bathroom with a towel on and the T. like I thought it would be harmless.

That may have been it. Okay. Is that the last time you heard from her? Um, I believe so. Oh, I'd be tripping if I got ghosted after that. She was teasing me about having abs. Uh, so I just decided to show her, you know, I don't know, maybe it was too much. It wasn't like an A-Sid pick or anything, you know.

Do you have abs or was you like joking around me and like, check out mine, but you don't have them, you know? I have abs. Yeah. I mean, this one. to prove myself. Okay. That could be it. So was a selfie?

Yeah. I mean, if she stopped talking to you right after that, then that probably, it probably has something to do with that. I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was that bad or racy or anything, but. What did you say when you sent the picture of yourself in a towel? Nothing much. I just, I think I've put like a little blurb, like, you know, here, proof or something like

along those lines. Okay. Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So we're about to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him a second date. But first, Evan, why don't you break down your date for us one more time? Yeah, so we had a lot of great moments on our date. Marks flew. Everything was perfect.

I thought we had a connection. And, you know, two days after the date, I've not heard from her. And the last thing that you sent her was. Let's not forget this part. A picture of yourself in the bathroom and a towel. I did send her my abs. Yes. All right.

Well, are you ready to see if that's the reason you're getting ghosted? Yeah. Let's do it. Okay, here we go. I'm going to call it right now. Hi, may I speak to Ruby, please? This is Ruby. Hey, Ruby.

How are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Ruby. My name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubal. How are you?

Okay. I'm good. Sweet. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have. Dope. Thank you. Well, what if I told you that you were the star of a first date follow-up right now? Oh, God. Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting, and they don't know why.

You know who would email us? I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan. You're very smart, Ruby. Yes, it is Evan. Evan told us about your date, said that he really liked. I liked you and thought you guys had an awesome time, but you texted for a little while after, and then you just ghosted him and he wants to know what's up. Would you mind telling us?

I mean, like, look, I really, I thought Evan was great and we had an amazing time. But then after my date, my friend showed me something and it just, it kind of killed the vibe for me. Okay, what was it? Okay, so I texted my friend a picture of Evan when we were on the date because she one what he would it look like.

And then the next night, she sends me a picture of him with some other girl, like literally the night after we went on the date. And then he was at another bar and they were making out. No, no, no, no. You've got it wrong.

Ruby, that's Evan. He's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Oh my God. I mean, like, yeah. Okay. I guess I knew this is coming. Oh, man. Hi. Hi. Hi.

Look, you've got it all wrong. It's not... No, no. No, Evan, you are literally in the picture. I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you were just right there, you know? Oh, okay. Yeah. It happened, but it's not what you think.

Like, she's someone I've been hooking up with for a while, and I was going to tell her it was over because I wanted to focus on you that night. And I just, I didn't get to it yet. So you were all with someone else right after your date making out with her. Technically, yeah. At Evan, you were just with me and then you just go make out with someone else. I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it just, it felt wrong to me. I swear, I swear, I'm done with her.

I'm not seeing anyone else. I like you. I was going to tell her that the next day, but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore. You're the one that I want to date. Did you tell her that? I told her. I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of the dude that I just want an amazing date with, like messing around with somebody else. Again, like she said, I get people are dating other people.

But if, I don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either. I just would have too many questions. Yeah. Like, are you just saying that? that like you want to date me or like did you hook up with her that night? You know, that's just how it felt to me. Did you hook up her? Yeah, but it was like just one.

It was just like a last round type of thing. I swear I told her about you at that point and that was the last time. You told her after you hooked up? Yeah. Hooked up with her after you told her about me? Like, seriously? No, I told her. her about you after I hooked up with her.

That's not necessarily bad. Evan's at least truthful. Yeah. That's true. Okay, so you hooked up with her after you told her about me. Like, seriously? No, I hooked up with her and then I told her about you. But that's because things felt so different with you.

Like we've been on one date. It's not like I cheated on you or anything. I was just trying to do the right thing. I mean, it was. I mean, it would have been better if you told her before and didn't hook up with her. Okay. I get that, but it was, you know, I was just kind of desperate and sad. I didn't get to see you.

And, you know, I was just trying to break things off and it didn't go as smoothly as I hoped it was. I mean, if we were to date and you didn't see me, you can't hook up with other people. I'm not trying to do that. that I swear. It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have a point. He is trying to do the right thing. Like he didn't cheat on anybody and she's out of the picture now. Ruby, would you like to go on a second date with Evan?

We'll pay for it. I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need to know about? I mean, yeah, well, yes. I want to text them and let them know I'm not available. Via text. I'm not going to meet up with them. I will show you the text. What do you think, Ruby?

Oh. It sounds like you're serious. Yeah. I mean, like, honestly, we did just go in one date, and it was, like, a really, really good date. But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my friends send me more pictures of you out with other women, you're going to wish that I was just ghosting you.

They will be way worse. Way worse. I promise you'll never see that again. I don't want to ever meet that side of you again. Okay, sure. All right. We'll go out again. Are you happy?

Yeah. Thank you. You're welcome. Joubles first date follow up. I'm Nancy Glass, host of the Burden of Guilt Season 2 podcast. This is a story about a horrendous lie that destroyed two families. Late one night, Bobby Gumpbright became the victim of a random crime. The perpetrator was sentenced to 99 years until a confession changed everything.

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