First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - First date at a strip club? What happens next?

Episode Date: August 28, 2023

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date. ====== This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…  ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts ====== The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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No, not necessarily. So when was the last time you actually talked to her? Was it on the date or did you hit her up after? No, I mean, it was, it was, it was on the date. That's the last time I talked to her. And what was that interaction like? What did you guys say? Um, you know, she, it, it ended where, uh, she said that she would text me, uh, when

she got home and she she she didn't. So that's just kind of, you know, what what happened there? Just like describe everything. About the date? Yeah. Describe it to us. Yeah. Yeah. So I met her on Tinder and, you know, we had a great time. You know, the you know, the chemistry was there. You know, we had fun. You know, we laugh. You know, and chemistry was there you know we had fun you know we laughed

you know and it was just a a good good feeling and um you know i me the way i am you know i thought that i would you know impress her so that's that's kind of you know you every guy does that right you know i thought that um you know i show her around the city. You know, I mean, I know a lot of people. I'm also like the co-owner of a club, you know, downtown. So, you know, that's that's kind of, you know, where it is. And so what we did was took her to my buddy's bar. And as soon as I got in there, you know he owns that bar and everything and soon as we got in there he gave us free drinks some basic little bar food you know just you know the set there and everything and we just talked to me click

you know it was it was just really a good good good scenario man I mean yeah I'm still just kind of as well that I'm calling in even talking about this, but, um, so here's the thing. We left there and, you know, we kind of just kind of walked and talked and, you know, people watch, you know, that thing that you do, like, you know, on a, on a date. And, uh, so I said to her, I said, Hey, listen, um, you know, do you want to go to like another hot spot? Because, you know, I know the chef there.

And this chef that's there, I mean, this is a nice spot. I mean, it's really a cool spot. It's one of the hot spots in town. And he's been my friend since childhood. And so, you know, a lot of people try to get in there and everything. And I know people. So we go in. And as soon as we get in, you know, they seat us immediately, you know.

So, I mean, you know, that's a place that people try to get into. And so, you know, we were in there. We were, you know, talking about, you know, where we are in life and, you know, just other things, you know, talking about wanting to come home to someone, you know, just be in a relationship or whatever, but, you know, something more, but, like, not too heavy, you know you know i mean kind of keep it light um and you know we also talked about how kind of like we were both too busy uh you know for baggage and drama or whatever you know but here's the thing and this is where it really mixes me up um after after you know we ate and

everything and uh after dinner you know i started to walk her to her car and she reached out to grab my hand you know like you know she initiated like reaching out grabbing my hand and uh so we're holding hands and everything and i get her to her car and uh she kissed me you know she kissed me good night you know she said she you know had a good time and that she would text me uh when she got home like i said that was four days ago so you didn't follow up with her though just to be like did you get home okay yeah you know sometimes you forget because you're like oh my gosh i had so much fun i just washed my face night night you know i did i did send a a text message okay uh

but i didn't i didn't get anything from her, you know. At all? You know, it was just like, okay, nothing at all. Okay.

And I don't, you know, maybe she has a different phone than what I have because I can't see if she read it or whatever. I don't, I don't have her on Facebook

or Instagram or anything so I can't see if she read it. Nothing like that. It's weird, man. We'll try to figure it out for you, man. We'll play a song,

come back, and then call her and ask her why she's ghosting you and see if she'll tell us. And see if you want another date after you hear why, okay? All right, man. Thanks. All right, man. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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Joaquin is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and we don't really even know if he's actually getting ghosted. But we're about to find out if he is when we call Stephanie to see why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Joaquin, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Stephanie? Yeah, so, hey, listen, I know people in the city, man, and we went out to a friend of mine's bar. memory about your day with Stephanie yeah so hey listen I know people in the city man and uh we we went out to a you know a friend of mine's bar we had some drinks and then I took her to another hot spot uh you know where you know we were kind of treated like VIP and were seated immediately

um you know she she you know she reached out and grabbed my hand and as we walked as at the end of the date and and uh you know she you know kissed know, kissed me, you know, good night, you know, and I just haven't heard from her in four days. And, you know, it's one thing I want to say is I can't stress enough how much we click. You know what I'm saying? The stories that I was talking to her and telling her, I don't think it scared her away. I mean, it was good that somebody even gets me, you know. I mean, I just don't know. I really don't know what it is. And then the hand reaching out and kissing me at the end of the

night, that's a sign to me. I mean, you know, she's beautiful. It was a positive sign and I'm drawn to her. So I, you know, I don't know. I don't know why I'm being ghosted. Well, we're about to call her. Are you ready to go? Yeah. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Stephanie, please? This is Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Stephanie. The show's here, too. Oh, hi. That's Nina. Hi, Nina. Oh, Show. Hi, Stephanie. The show's here, too. Oh, hi. That's Nina. Hi, Nina. Oh, wow. Hi, guys. How are you doing?

Good. How are you? I'm great. I'm wondering why you're calling. It sounds like you listen to the show. I do, yeah. I do, yeah. Well, there's only a few options you have to choose from while we're calling, but we

did get an email about you from someone who you're ghosting. Ghosting? That's a strong word. His name is Joaquin. Aww. That's so sweet. I didn't think I was quite ghosting him. Okay.

He told us it's been four days since your date, so it seems like we weren't sure if you were. No, I'm not like, okay, so i guess i'm just okay i would assume that you guys already know how how the date went we heard some things yeah we heard that joaquin's pretty plugged in the city and took you to all of his friends spots so you got vip treatment yeah and you, but like, like not in a bad way. Like everyone was super nice. We got treated super well. That was great. It's just that.

Okay. So I get that. He's like, he, he owns a club and everything. And that's totally cool. He's actually. So like at first I was a little worried because I was like, okay, well, he's going to be a sleaze bag, but he actually wasn't. He's super sweet and smart and very fun to talk to.

And I felt like we had a lot in common. But for the first date, one of the places he took me was a burlesque club. Okay. Which in and of itself is fine, except it was a lot closer to like a total strip club. Like it was full nudity. And I'm like, I can't really focus on you while i'm trying to tell whether that brazilian is fresh or not yeah um it looks pretty fresh and um and i'm not like don't get me wrong like i'm not approved but i was just like i really wasn't expecting that for a first date it's an

interesting first date spot that isn't that's a choice yeah right that's what i thought i was like this is a choice this says a lot about like it was a fun show i'm not saying it wasn't good i'm just like i can't really like focus on you when i got these in my face it is hard to do that you know yeah to really be into a conversation and in the moment when that's happening yeah okay i actually really don't know how i would feel about that i don't mind being here but it was it is a choice it is i wouldn't from his perspective as a guy i would not take a first date to that because i would assume that you would think that that's all i want or you know what i mean like later like later on when we know each other, maybe, but yeah. So like, even though I had a nice time and we clicked, like, I don't know,

I just, when I got home, I was thinking about it and he texted me and I was like, and I know that's why he probably feels like I ghosted him. But I mean, I'm just sitting here and I'm thinking like, if you're so naive that you're going to take me to a strip club on our nine, the full nudity strip club on our first date like i don't that just really made me question like what happens next like yeah like where do you go from here so yeah are we going to a brothel i thought you ate dinner afterwards we did but and we had food there it's like i was second to wrong it was like overall it was nice but i don't know it just like makes you question wait like i said where does this go from here i

don't know it just threw me off yeah all right well guess you probably forgot or you did forget or you didn't forget and you were just waiting for the moment but joaquin is on the phone and let's talk to you might have been a little bit of call me. Hey, Stephanie, you know what? It was just weird that you responded to me. Maybe it was a dumb move on my part. I mean, listen,

I just really thought that it would be a good vibe to go to a sexy jazz club and I just wanted to take you to a place to impress you. They call it two different things. Sexy jazz club. Yeah. Yeah.

I mean, I listened to my chef buddy. Maybe I just shouldn't listen to him. I agree. I guess it was a dumb move on my part, you know? Um, and I won't,

if you didn't know it wasn't a dumb move on your part, if you thought it was something else, I don't know know it wasn't a dumb move on your part if you thought it was something else i don't know that it was dumb i think maybe you just should have given her a little bit of a heads up i'm definitely not trying to be dumb i'm i you're very sorry i'm literally already using one of the models that you told me about for like a new project that i'm working on so like i'm not i didn't mean to say that you're dumb i didn't i didn't mean to say that you're dumb. I didn't mean to come out that way. No, you know, listen, like I said, I'm sorry. And, you know, I want to take you out on a normal day.

I guess what traditional normal is. I mean, normal for you guys now could be really interesting. It could be. Yeah, you have a new normal. Where you eat sushi off the body. Yeah. You know, maybe if you agree, you know, maybe we can just probably go to a Brazilian steakhouse instead. I'm just going to treat you to a Brazilian.

I'm one of those Brazilians. Stephanie, would you like to go out with Joaquin again? We'll pay for it. Whatever you guys do. I'm just interested to see what happens next. You know, I appreciate your apology, and I know we all mess up. So like, I'll tell you what.

Yes, but you have to take the next big step and take me to your club. Okay. I want to see it. Okay. I mean, go wherever from there, but I want to see it.

You talked about it so much. I want to see it forever. All right. Okay, cool. Well, congratulations want to see it. You talked about it so much, I want to see it for real real. All right. Okay. Cool. Well, congratulations, Joaquin. You got another date. Yeah. And Stephanie, that's cool that you're understanding like that. Thanks, guys.

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