First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - First Date Follow-up, Following up with Chris and Shadia - Are they together?

Episode Date: August 24, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting". In this special segment we are following up on the First Date Follow UP!Chris is on the phone and he went on a date named Shadia. It has been 2 weeks and has reached out many times, but still can't get a response. The reasons he thinks he isn't getting a call back is because either his coffee order was too high maintenance, he asked for specific add-ins, or that he was on his phone a little because he kept getting work calls during their date! It has been a few months now and The Jubal Show is checking in on both Chris and Shadia to see how they are doing now and if they are together or not!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Follow-up. Yep. So, you're about to hear a short recap of their date from the last time we talked to them, and then right after we have them on the phone to find out how things are going right it's your first date follow-up follow-up right now chris is on the phone and he went on a date with a woman named shadia they actually met by her work for coffee and he says that everything was great he doesn't know why she's not calling back it's been two weeks he's reached out he's reached out to her 2,700 times and heard nothing back. Exaggerating a little bit. I want to know what you said in his text.

Maybe that's why you're not getting a call back. Well, maybe she didn't get them. Maybe. The reasons that Chris thinks he's not getting a call back could be because of his coffee order. It's kind of a high-maintenance order. And he thinks maybe that she saw his coffee order and was like, man, this guy has a lot to deal with. Or the fact that he was on his phone a little bit because he was getting work phone calls and texts and stuff like that. So other than that, Chris thinks the date went well. He thought the conversation was great. He got a kiss on the cheek that was pretty close to the mouth after

and doesn't understand why he's being ghosted. We're going to call right now and see if we can figure it out and see if we can get you another date. Chris, are you ready yeah hello i may speak to shadia please yes shadia hey shadia how are you my name is jubal from a radio show called the jubal show and my my name is Alex from the same show. And we're calling you today to say hi. Hi. Do you listen to the show at all? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, cool. Thank you. Thanks for listening. Then you might

know why we're calling. We're calling you because we got an email about you from someone else who listens to the show. Oh, really? Yeah. His name is Chris and you went on a date with him oh okay yeah yeah it's a first date follow-up you know how if you go on a if you go on a date with someone and end up ghosting them they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened so chris emailed us and said he met you for coffee he thought you had a really good time

he had a great time and you haven't talked to him in like two weeks since the date. And he's reached out to you a lot of times, probably too much. We already told him that. He says he hasn't responded to anything. So he's wondering why you're not calling him back. Okay. Okay. To be honest, the reason why I haven't called him back is while we were on our date, we were at a coffee shop by my workplace. And while we were on the date we were at a coffee shop by my by my my workplace and um while we

were on the date everything was fine um but actually my co-worker came up to me the the the next day and she had saw us on our date and she had told me uh just like just like being completely like honest with me and like you know being a good friend she just told me that she honestly thought like he was kind of like way out of my league and it kind of made me feel a little like self-conscious about seeing him again so i just decided to ghost him wait wait someone told you that he was out of your league yeah like he's too hot for you? No, no, sorry. I'm like too hot for him. Oh, okay.

You're out of his league, I guess. I'm out of his league. Yeah, sorry, sorry. I mean, well, what do you think? I mean, while we were on the date, like it felt like, like I did not find him like initially, like, like my typical typical like my usual type. But I I mean, I really did enjoy our conversation and I felt like we got along really well. But I don't know, like not I guess like after she said that, I kind of like look back at it and like kind of realize like, oh, I don't think it's really worth like hanging out again.

OK, but you felt differently until she said that yeah I mean I feel like if you like him then you should just go after like what you feel inside not what other people think yeah that's true I just like I don't know if I could like find myself to be like I just want to be with someone that I'm like really attracted to and not just like personality. Physically, you're not that attracted to him,

but you like his personality. Yeah. And I mean, maybe like that, that part could grow. Like if I did give him a second chance, which is a possibility I haven't really thought about, but.

So before your friend said anything though, you weren't feeling that way? Not so much. I wasn't really thought about. So before your friend said anything though, you weren't feeling that way? Not so much. I wasn't really focusing on that. So your friend kind of messed you up and got you all in your head about it? I guess. I mean, I feel like he was just being a good friend. I would do the same for her if I thought that.

So, I don't know. I guess I didn't think she would have messed it up. What do you think that he is on a scale of 1 to 10, if you would rate him? 7, I guess. That's not bad. What do you think you are?

I don't know. That's a hard question. Well, let's find out what Chris thinks you are, because Chris is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, my God. Okay. All right. Yeah, I mean, I did want to talk to you.

Aw. Chris. Yeah, I'm sorry, Chris. Aw. I feel really bad. Aw. Kind of bullshit. I don't know. She's, like, a really, like, important, like, co-worker of mine, and, like, I feel like she was just trying to, like,

was, like, looking out for me and, like, making was like i mean you said you liked me until your stupid little friend made some comments i mean yes i know like and i and i did like you like initially i did like you until carol said like until she put this like idea in head, I started to think about it. That's a stupid name. And how old is Carol? What does she know? She's like 32. So. I mean, it sounds pretty shallow.

Yeah. I mean, I'm usually not this shallow, but like, I just couldn't get it out of my head after she said that. Did she spell her name with a K? Uh, yeah. Why? Because this girl named Carol with a K hit me up on Tinder

and I'm pretty sure she like worked at the same place she did. What? No. Are you serious? You're joking. Did she have her eyebrow pierced? Um, yeah. Oh my god. Yeah you curious looks like you're getting swindled i think carol definitely wants me who it sounds like

all right yeah i just took a screenshot of her i'm sending it to you tell me tell me if this is her Oh my God. What? What? Is this, is he for real? Oh my God. That is insane. Whoa. It sounds like Carol was trying to,

she was trying to ruin your chances with Chris so that she could go after him. What are the odds? I mean, she was asking a lot of questions about you. All right. Alright, well, Shadia, would you like to go on another date with Chris now that you know he might be in your league and your friend Carol, actually so much in your league that your friend Carol wants to play in the same league,

but X you out. Honestly, I wouldn't go on a date with you again, okay? I feel really bad about what happened and I think I'm going to give this a shot. If you

would be willing to go on a second date with me. Just because Carol with a K wants me, you now want me again? No, no, no. I just want to see how this goes.

Will you forgive me? All right. But you got to understand that I might also go on a date with Carol with a K. What? No. Don't do that. What? Carol with a K sounds like she's no good.

She's bad news. For real. All right. I will go out with you again far away from your work and I'll go with the K. For real. Congrats, guys. Have fun. All right.

Thank you. That was the first date follow-up from a few months ago and now we have a follow-up to the first date follow-up. It's a follow-up follow-up because Chris and Shadia are on the phone

and how was the date, first of all, that you guys went on after the first date follow-up? It was great. It was good. It was much better than the first one. I'm so glad to hear. And Carol with a K didn't show up to ruin that one? No.

I actually don't talk to her anymore. Good. Yeah, we don't talk to her anymore. And we're still dating. So, yeah, it's so yeah yeah great well that's exciting to hear yeah we're actually uh kind of exclusively together we made it official on our last date that's super exciting so much so yeah well congrats guys this is a fun follow-up yeah thank you well does carol know that you guys are dating?

Yeah, she knows that we're dating and yeah. And actually it turns out that she was DMing my ex. Oh my gosh. Yeah, she's been kind of

like, she's kind of a shady bitch. Why is she obsessed with you? Yeah, she's definitely obsessed with you yeah and like i actually like messaged her the other day telling her to like you know like never talk to chris because like she's clearly just trying to mess up my like whole life and i'm just not about it to me once she did text me once asking if i was if i was happy with what I'm doing. No way. What?

You did? Yeah, I told you that. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. You finally made it official. Sounds like you might have your first fight now, too. I did not know that.

Screw Carol. Yeah. See, Carol the K is bad news. Well, I'm glad things are going well for you guys. Thank you for checking in with us. Thank you, guys. All us. Thank you, guys. Good luck, guys. The Jubal Show on demand.

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