First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - First Date Follow-Up: Great Chemistry, One Very Specific Dealbreaker

Episode Date: October 6, 2026

Brooke and DJ’s Hinge date had tapas, dancing, and undeniable chemistry—so why did he disappear for two weeks? In this First Date Follow-Up on The Jubal Show, Brooke discovers that DJ’s search for his dream wife comes with a surprisingly specific checklist. Hear the unexpected explanation, the tense confrontation, and the twist that leaves their second date hanging.  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Artists on Artists on Artists every Thursday on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. It's time for your first day follow up and Brooke is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted by a guy named DJ. So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But Brooke, first, how long has it been since you heard from DJ? It's been like two weeks. Okay. Okay. Have you reached out to him in that time?

Well, I reached out up like a couple times right after the first date just to like, you know, hey, how's your day? And like, then I sent him like a cute pick. And he responded, but he was really short. And then I was like, oh, you know, let me just wait and see, you know, let him reach out to me. and he hasn't said anything to me in like two weeks. How's the day? Why don't you tell us about that? How did you guys meet and stuff?

Well, so we met on Hinge and, you know, he seemed really nice. He was very polite, respectful. And we started chatting about, like, travel and stuff like that. And we both had taken trips to Spain. So we kind of bonded over that. We were sending pictures back and forth. And, you know, then he was like, hey, you know, let me take you out. So I was like, okay, so we ended up going to this nice little Spanish restaurant where we had some tapas.

And, you know, it was like we were kind of experiencing a little bit of, you know, Spain. And we were chatting and we really hit it off. We drank. We danced. We danced really close. And we kind of ended up going back to my place. And we didn't have the ultimate fun, but we could have some fun. Okay.

Okay. You know, we had some like pillow talk and, you know, talk about hopes and dreams. And, you know, but then I was like, hey, before this goes any further, maybe, you know, we should end the night here and you should get going. Well, it seems like it was going well to get to that point. Yeah, we had great chemistry, great conversation. And I felt like there was definitely attraction on both parts. So I'm not really sure. I don't know what's going on.

Was there anything that happened on the date that could have been kind of a clue? Well, a couple times when we were dancing, I kind of like, I kind of like redirected him a little bit, you know, because his rhythm was kind of off. And I mean, I was polite about it, but. And then, you know, I guess a couple times back at my place, I was kind of like giving him a little bit of direction, you know, in the bedroom, so to see. I mean, good for you, though. Yeah. I don't know would that be a turn off to a guy? I don't know what he's like.

Those guys that I know say they like that. I mean, I know I do. I appreciate it because I'm like, it's your stuff. I don't know how to use it. Right. I thought guys like having like, you know, women say, hey, this is what I want kind of thing. But I don't know. Maybe that turned him off.

Like, I honestly don't know because I thought we hit it off so well. I mean, the alternative to the people liking it is the like, oh, now I'm like less of a man because I couldn't do it by myself. And so if you make me feel less than, then I'm not going to feel good in this situation. I always feel like more of a man because it's like I'm listening. Tell me where. I mean a listener. That's a good dress, and you shouldn't be rewarded for listening. I'm really confused, you know.

Yeah. I figured, you know, we were even talking about like, oh, we can't wait to go out on another date together. Like that conversation came up. And then, you know, now it's like, okay, just straight ghost. Like, I don't know. Brooke is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named DJ. So in a second, we're going to call him. See if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

But before we do that, Brooke, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Just basically, I met a guy on Hinge and we hit it off really well. We bonded over travel. We both saw I've gone to Spain, went and had a great dinner, had a wonderful time together. Definitely got a little heated and... In a good way. Yeah, heated in a good way, not like arguing. That's funny.

Steamy. Yeah. All right. Are you ready for us to call him? Yes, I'm ready to find out. out what's going on. Okay, here we go. Hello.

Hi, man. Speak to DJ, please. Yep, this is him. DJ, hey man, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, DJ.

The whole show is here. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How's it going? Pretty good. How are you? Yeah, I'm good. Yeah, I'm great.

Have you ever heard of the Jubal show before? Yeah, I don't listen. I'll be honest. So I'm a little thrown here. But, yeah, I've heard you guys. Well, if you guys. Well, if you don't listen, I'll tell you, we do a segment on the show.

It's called the first date follow up. That means if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Uh-huh, okay.

Okay. Is it Brooke? Yes, it is. Yeah. That was quick. This is a very intentional. Is this an intentional ghosting then? No, no, I mean, I feel bad.

I mean, it's intentional in the sense that, like, I don't think there's anything there moving forward. But I, like, I wasn't meaning to be, like, rude or whatever. I just, I think, I think I just kind of, I guess I moved on. I probably should have, I don't know. I always, I'm not very good about that part. I should have been more clear with her or whatever, but I, yeah, I just didn't. You're just not interested? I mean, there's no specific reason.

Oh, no, I mean, she was great. I just, um, it was just kind of disappointing because I, uh, Oh, it's awkward. I'm kind of, I guess I'm kind of old fashioned because I, like, I'm, I'm really looking for, like, who I'm, like, somebody I'm going to marry, you know what I mean? So, like, it just became clear that, like, where she's probably not going to be that person. And so I was just kind of like, well, just kind of. Why, though? How do you know that?

Well, she's, like, I'm looking for someone very specific, like, in my head, like, just I've, I really wanted to, okay, so I really wanted to, okay, so I really want to. wanted to marry somebody who's Spanish. Like I just have this dream of like getting married and Spain to a Spanish person. And then like I thought she was Spanish and she's not. She's like German or something. So. Wait. Okay.

Did she say she was Spanish? Like what made you think that she was? Like all my algorithm stuff that I put in on the app is like looking for a Spanish person. And like she was even like it was like Spanglish. She's been to Spain. She looks Spanish. Me. I just, it's my.

It's my fault. Like, it's my fault because I went back and I looked more closely at her profile. And, like, she has a picture of herself with the cross, like, no, no Jesus. You know what I mean? Protestant. Uh-huh. Oh. Okay.

And so, like, that's the first to me off because I really need, I really need to marry a Spanish Catholic. That's very specific. Yeah, that is. How do you know she's not, like, did you ask her or did, I don't know, have you seen her family tree? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

I did actually look her up. Like I looked up the name and I was like oh it's German like that's like as white as you can get okay okay I mean I guess if that's what you want and you're not willing to settle for anything but a Spanish Catholic woman yeah I mean there's so many things I don't know about my life but that that part I have to get out you know sure thank you for being honest with us I appreciate that and that and DJ now I have to let you know that Brooke is actually on the phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. So you, we hit it off.

We had a great time and you basically ghosted me because I'm not Spanish. Yeah, I'm sorry. Or Catholic. But yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah. And you just assume that I'm not Catholic. Okay. Sorry.

Yeah. Okay. I mean, just, you know, the cross. Like I like like so remember I was talking about just the Grada familiar and you can actually get married there but like somebody one of one of the two people has to be Catholic and so like I'm looking for somebody who's Catholic. I'm hitting it off all the conversation that we had the great time that we had. Okay. It was such a good time. Okay.

You know what? You were an amazing. Yeah. No, I'm just like you should know like it was you did nothing. It's my fault. I apologize. Like I misunderstood. And I like you're an amazing

Oh you're misunderstood more than you think But that's okay because um the joke's on you because I actually am Spanish Oh my grandfather on my mother's side is from outside of Madrid Plot twist yikes I'm not all German I do have German but but that's okay no problem I mean if that's true we should oh my god No one's day DJ would you like to go out with Brooke on another date we'll pay for it

it? Yeah, if you'll pay for sure. I mean, yeah, I mean, I mean, I could probably, um, we should try. I mean, we did hit it. We had a lot of chemistry to think about it. Oh, we did. Yeah, that's, that's unfortunate for you. Um, yeah, hard pass on the second date, but thanks, guys. I appreciate it. Not after finding out how superficial you are. I, here's the thing. I'm willing to admit when I'm wrong. And I was wrong. I was wrong. I was wrong. I, I, I, I, you're right. It was superficial of me. And maybe,

um, maybe I'm just afraid to open up, you know. You know, and think, this is a, this is a strategy. You would just give me another shot. Like, let's just give me another shot. And then, like, I think, I think, I think you'll see that. Yes, we do,

we do have a future. Oh my God. I'm definitely not interested anymore. But here's, but, but, but, but, the thing. I was wrong. It is you. It is you because you are Spanish.

And you could, I mean, you could, I don't know if you're counting. You could be, you could convert. And then just the pictures would be so beautiful. Like, just imagine the pictures. Oh, no. I'm Hamza. And I'm Martin. And we're the host of Out of Character.

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