First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - First Date Follow Up: He Thought His First Date Went Great… Until She Revealed What He Was Doing

Episode Date: September 11, 2026

Tyler thought his first date with Krista went great, but when she suddenly started ghosting him, he had no idea why. He assumed it might have something to do with an awkward moment at the end of the night—but the real reason is WAY more ridiculous. Find out why a little hot sauce, a first date, and one very questionable move completely killed Tyler’s chances at a second date on this hilarious First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Solita on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Tyler is on the phone today for a first date follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Christopher. us. So in a second, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Tyler, why do you think you're getting ghosted? If I'm honest with, I think it's because I actually called her mommy at the end of our date. You called your date mommy.

Spicey. Like, M-A-M-I, Mommy? I mean, not in a creepy way. It wasn't a mommy in a creepy way. It was, I mean, it was mommy. I don't know. Look, the date was actually great. We went to dinner and had drinks.

We laughed a lot. I definitely thought we were going to see each other again. But at the end of the night, Crystal ordered us an Uber because my phone, he was almost dead. And when I went to shut up, I went to Christmas like, thanks, man, thanks, Krista, but somehow what came out was, thanks, Mom. And, yeah, so obviously she started laughing and I was embarrassed,

but instead of just letting it go, I tried to correct myself, and that's when I something else said, But I mean, I mean, thanks, Mommy, which is so much worse. Yeah. Yeah. So she just stared at me and then just, like, started laughing even harder. And I spent the entire Uber right explaining that I don't call women mommy, which is apparently a sentence that only makes you sound more like a guy who calls women mommy.

Yeah. Yeah, if you're sitting there just over explaining the fact that you don't normally call women mommy, it makes it sound like you do that. You do, yeah. Exactly. And I really couldn't get myself out of it. And so, but she said to me when I got home, or when she got home, sorry, but

when I tried asking her out again the next day, she doesn't say anything. I haven't heard from her since. Okay. The mommy thing really does. It could have been it. Because whether you call her Mommy M-A-M-A-M-I or mommy, like, M-O-M-M-Y,

like that's an issue either way. I'm sorry. Maybe you'll recover. Yeah, I mean, it feels pretty tough, but I figured it was worth a shot. Tyler is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Krista, so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

and maybe get him a second date. But before we do that, Tyler, why don't you refresh our memory on why you think you're getting ghosted? Yeah, I accidentally called her mom. I tried to correct myself when I called her mommy, and that's probably, and then I didn't say anything cool after that to make it for it. So you just think that you called her mommy,

and that was too much for her. And I just left it as mommy in the lurch. And I tried to unexplain myself and it made it sound worse. So here we are. All right. Okay. Well, I'm in a dollar phone number right now and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. Here we go.

Hi, may I speak to Krista, please? This is a show. This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Krista. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal.

What's up? Hi. How are you? I'm okay. Did I run something? No. Well, maybe. I don't know.

It depends how you look at it. But we do a segment on the show that's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody. Okay. Any idea who would email us? Well, the last date I went on was with a guy named Tyler.

Great. That's who emailed us. Would you mind telling us why you're ghosting him? He's very curious. Oh, well, did he tell you about how he kept secretly putting hot sauce on my food whenever I wasn't looking? Wait, what? No, he did. He was putting hot sauce.

That's what this is about? Stop it. No, he did. Hey, Krista, that's Tyler. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, my gosh. Oh, my God. Tyler.

You're putting hot sauce on her food without her looking? What are you doing? Yes. Yeah. Chrissy, you seriously ghost me over hot sauce? Yes, yes, because it was my food and you just, like, wouldn't leave it alone. And I know that you carry a little bottle of hot sauce and we're like, you know, this food needs help. But that doesn't mean that you can be putting, you know, food.

Like, you're like, dosing my food with hot sauce. And I mean, like, I just, like, I mean, I'm not even joking. When I went to the bathroom, I came back, my food is spiced here. You admitted to it. But then when I asked you about it again, after I'd, like, turn to look to the waiter and ask them for something, you were doing it again. And you, like, I mean, you act like you were doing me a favor. Look, it's not that, look, okay, for real, the first thing, though, is you said that you liked the food afterwards.

Like, I wasn't poisoning anything. It was hot salt. You're defending this. Thank you. Exactly. Oh, this is actually better. Like, after the first time, she said, oh, this is actually better. So the second time I thought I had established permission, you know, I was improving the meal for, I was giving her a better experience.

but you definitely did not you may have improved the food but you did not get permission okay not overtly not implied and yeah like sneaking the hot sauce into her food yes she said it tasted better the first time yeah the first time was a little bit of a risk

but I was like you know what she kept saying it needed help I think the food was just a little bit bland so you know I splashed a little bit on there she saw it I admitted to it so I put a little bit more because it needed a little bit more. I didn't get to put all of it that I needed to put on there. And I mean, she got a good result. I don't understand.

Yeah, but it's just like not normal to just put something on somebody's food without asking, especially for a date. Like we have no, we have like not even established a rapport, okay? And the fact that you're arguing that just it was like, okay, because it tasted better in the end. Like you're, you're messing with somebody's food. She got, you have IBS. Yeah, she could have nominated to do that.

I mean, but nothing bad happens. I feel like you just got to get used to the fact. around me, things get elevated, you know? Things get elevated. Oh, Tyler, I'm seeing a flag and it's getting brighter. I mean, but, Krista, you admit it was better, though, right? Wasn't it better? Yeah, I admitted that it was better, but, like, you can't just be, like, retroactively

saying that, oh, but it improved your food. I would find that I, like, literally was, like, tampering with your food on our first date and expecting a second date from it. I just, no. Would you like to go out with Tyler again? We'll pay for it. We'll make sure that he doesn't bring any secret hot sauce or anything. Or he gets consent.

No. Yeah, or he gets consent before he splashes hot sauce on your food. You're saying no? No, I'm sorry. It was, you need just. No. It's a no for me. It's tampering with somebody's food and then telling,

and like gaslighting them into saying like, yeah, but it was better afterwards. You even admitted it? And then it says, uh, no. I mean, okay. So what's your address? I can just ship you a mini hot sauce model so that like next time whenever you go on your next date and the food's not up to par

you can just like sprinkle a little bit on there. Remember, because now I'm not allowed to help anymore, you know, so I mean, you could take it over. That's what you took away from that. Oh, man. I mean, I'm just trying to make some of my life better. I don't know what you want to get hotful. Your heart's in the right place.

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