First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - First Date Follow Up: She Ghosted Him After a Wild First Date… But There’s a Shocking Reason Why

Episode Date: September 28, 2026

Shane thought he had an incredible first date with Carolina after meeting her on Instagram. They flirted, played games, hit it off—and things got VERY interesting before the night was over. Then, without warning, Carolina disappeared and left Shane wondering what he possibly did wrong. Now, three weeks later, The Jubal Show calls Carolina to find out why she ghosted him. Her explanation reveals that this first date may have been part of a plan all along—and Shane has absolutely no idea what’s coming. Find out the shocking reason behind the ghosting, dating revenge, and bizarre first date in this unforgettable First Date Follow Up! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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and maybe get him another date. But first, Shane, how long has it been since you heard from her? It's been probably like three weeks. Okay. Have you reached out to her in that time? Yeah, like maybe four or five times. That is a definite ghosting. I don't think that's why he's going.

I said tell him that. He knows. Tell us about your date. I'm sorry, Shane. Yeah. So I actually met her on Instagram. She just slid in my DMs and apparently we had gone to the same college together, but I didn't know her while we were both there. But we chatted for probably a few weeks and then we met up at this bar.

It had arcade games in it. We played pop a shot and ski ball and stuff. It was cute. What really, what really attracted me to her was that she was competitive about it. I love that and a girl. But we did that, had some drinks, had some snacks, and it was a great time. Like a lot of flirting, a lot of touching going on. We talked endlessly.

We laughed. Like, it really seemed like perfect date. Yeah. I mean, the only thing that I can think of is that we both Uber there. And then after the date, we both went in our respective Uber's, you know. But before that, she pulled me in the alley and we made out. like pretty intensely and it escalated into like this weird dirty talk I mean she told me to tell her that I was a piece of what she yeah she made me do this

little strip tease and she was filming this and you were okay with that it was weird but something about it was kind of hot like I was kind of into it. She kept asking me if I wanted more, and obviously I said yes. And then on a dime, it just completely stopped. Because your cars came, or just all of a sudden she's like, okay, I'm done now? No, it's like the switch was just turned off. And she thanked me for the night.

She gave me one more kiss. And then she asked me if I knew what I did. And I didn't know how to answer that. I don't know if it was some kind of like kinky buildup thing. Yeah. But that was it. I mean, that was the last time I talked to her. So you know you did something.

He did a strip tease. Maybe that did something to her. I don't know. I have no idea. It was so bizarre. Yeah. Okay. And you've texted her and she said nothing to you.

Yeah, absolutely nothing. Well, try to figure it out for you. Shane is on the phone. phone and Shane is getting ghosted by Carolina. So we're about to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date. But first, Shane, why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina? Yeah, so, um, met on our Instagram.

We went out, I had a great time in our arcade bar. Um, afterwards, she had me do like this weird kinky stuff in the alley. And I was pretty into it. And then she just suddenly stopped and I just suddenly stopped. stopped and I have not heard from her sense. Okay. Are you ready for us to call her? I would want to know it's new. Yeah. All right. Here we go. She was so laughing. Sorry.

Hi. Hey. Hey. Is this Carolina? Yeah. This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. My name's Jubal. How are you? Hi, I'm Nina. Hi and I'm Victoria. Hi. Do you listen to the show? I do actually, yeah. Do you have Any idea why we're calling you today? Um, not really. Okay. Have you heard a first date follow up before?

Um, yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, that's why we're calling you. We got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Okay, okay. His name is Shane. Oh, my God.

Really? Yeah. Shane emailed us and told us about your date, and he said it's been three weeks since he heard from you, and he wants to know if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him. Oh. Um, okay. Um, I am ghosting him because I got what I want from him. It wasn't, um, oh my God, I can't believe you actually called you guys. It wasn't, um, it, like, was not a real date for me.

It wasn't a real date. What does that mean? Okay. So I was literally just on Instagram. You probably told you that. That's how we, we met. But, um, I was scrolling and I saw him and I recognized him because he, he, screwed over my sister in college. Oh, how so? My older sister, Elena and him, were together, and he was a total d-b-b-de-h. Just sleeping with anything that moved. Just mind her, making empty promises and all this crap. And she was so, oh, my God,

I've never seen her more heartbroken. It was ridiculous. This was in college? Mm-hmm. So you saw him on Instagram and set up a, date with him to get revenge? Yes. Oh.

So he never met you when he was dating your sister? Like he had no clue who you were? No, no. I told him that we went to college together. He just went to college with my sister and I wasn't even like in the picture. But I mean, he believed it. I guess he believed what he wanted to believe that a girl would want to go out with him. And yeah.

Okay. Does your sister know that you did this? She knows now. She didn't know before the fact, but I wanted to give it to her as kind of like a surprise. Because she's like fine now. I mean, she's over him because she's garbage. But I, and I wasn't even thinking about it. I just saw him on Instagram and I was like, oh, my God, I have to do this.

So is that why you filmed him doing all kinds of weird things in an alley? I was like, which part is revenge? Because it sounded kind of hot. Wow. He definitely seemed to think that it was because he was really into. it but I that was for yeah that was for the range I showed my sister the video and we were cracking up about it it was so freaking funny so it's a video like him doing a strip tease and him saying I wanted to make sure that I made him say that he's a piece of shit he thought that that was okay he thought

you were like you know that was your thing yeah that I was like degrading him or whatever or love like you. Oh. Okay. You really got to think twice for you. For real. No, anything. The next time someone pulls out their cell phone and Nally

and wants to film me doing weird things, I'm going to question it twice before I do it. He probably should. You know. Like, he made it so easy. He made it so easy. Thank you for being honest with us. Carolina, Shane is actually on the phone listening

and wants to talk to you. Oh, my God. Seriously? I honestly. I can't. I can't believe what I'm hearing. Are you serious? Yes.

Carolina, this is psychotic. After, like, you're just not really wanted to talk after what you did to my sister. This is just like, if you heard someone I love, like, seriously. That was years ago. You are seriously crazy for doing this. Oh, my God. You're the one who would do whatever a girl tells you in an alley, so I don't know. I'm a person now.

The fact that you did this whole thing. It's absolutely psychotic. Okay. Seriously. You're going to record me like that. Who else has seen this video? Oh, my God. Literally just me and my sister, calm the f*** down.

Why should I believe you? No, honestly, Carolina, I should get a lawyer. You're the one who was so willing to do all this stuff in the alley with me. Like you didn't take any convincing. Yeah, because. I thought I was on a real date. And it turns out that you're doing this revenge on me. This is absolutely crazy.

Whatever. You just can't take it. Don't dish it out then if you can't take it. Look, oh my God. I'm going to delete it anyway. I already filled my sister and I'm going to delete it after I show one of my coworkers. So just get over there. You'll be hearing from me.

Okay. I'm getting legal advice about this. I'm serious. I'm dead serious. Okay. I'll hear from you. on Instagram. I don't mean if you can do anything though.

What does you say? I willingly did a strip tease and now it's public? Yeah. Yeah. I'm sorry, Shane. I know that sucks. On both sides? I don't know what to say.

Yeah. Okay, I guess I won't need the video then. I'll just hold on to it in case I need to show it in court and it'll just entertain me until then. Oh. Yikes. Well, Caroline, would you like another date with Shane? We'll pay for it.

If you're paying for it, I'll just record him doing more stupid stuff. That's fine with me. You're going to hear from my lawyer. Okay, cool. You know what? I'm glad I cheated on your sister. Oh. So is that a no and second date for you guys?

Yeah, no way in hell. Yeah, I don't think so. He obviously doesn't learn from his mistakes. All right, then bye then, stripper boy. Lisa, tell them about our new show. We have a new podcast. It's called Don't Lie to Me. I'm Lexi Youanu.

We're two best friends, 22 years apart, but so close at heart. And I'm Lisa Di Giulio, the old one. which means we have wildly different references, occasionally different opinions, and at this point in my 50s, I've lived it all. Now in my 30s, being the founder of new shoes, good taste is my business. Listen on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Lacey Mosley, author, actor, stand-up comedian, creator, and host of Scam Goddess Podcast. The True Crime Comedy Podcasts all about robbery, fraud, and those who practice it.

Each week I bring on an amazing guest. Ooh, I scammed. What? I can talk to you for an hour. You're a generational yapper like me. That's why I had to make yapping a job. And now you can catch full episodes of my show on YouTube. Start listening to Scam Goddess on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

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