First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ghosts are REAL

Episode Date: June 30, 2025

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow up. Powered by the advocates injury attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Lucy is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude Follow-up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Lucy is on the phone today for a first day follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Josh. So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

a second date. But first Lucy, how long has it been since you heard from Josh? Hey, um, yeah, it's been about two weeks. It's a good amount of time. Yeah. I mean, I feel like we had such a good vibe and connection. I can't like let this go. Yeah. Did you try to get ahold of him in that time?

Oh, I definitely have. Yeah. Okay. When was the last time you reached out? I actually reached out yesterday. Then I'm attacked. But yeah, I haven't heard anything from them. Okay. Well, tell us about the date.

Well, um, okay. I know it sounds really wild, but, um, it honestly felt like it might be something from out of a movie. That's how like magical it felt. Um, we met in Vegas. Um, and I don't know, we just had a really great time. It felt like other worldly. It was, I don't know, we just had a really great time. It felt like otherworldly. It was, I don't know, it just felt like the universe kind of put us together. And he made me laugh like immediately. It felt like just connected to him. And we just like, we saw each other at the slot machines and just had a great conversation. And then he got my number and we text non-stop and

when I got back home he actually asked me out on a real date and I didn't even let him finish the sentence like I was like yes yes. So you guys met in Vegas and you live in the same city how amazing. Yes I know it really felt like it was meant to be. Okay, that's cool. Yeah, so, um, so we ended up going to this really like, vibe-y wine bar with fairy lights and and we shared like a charcuterie board and um, like held hands the whole time. And I don't know, like it really just felt like we were falling in love.

I know that sounds crazy, but it was amazing. Okay, and he was feeling the same way, you think? Oh my goodness, yeah. Like I felt like we were so connected. We were like, I don't know, it was just, it was off. I mean, he definitely was into me. Okay. Well then what happened?

Like was there anything off at the end of the date or even during the date I guess? Yeah, so I I thought everything was going well and I felt really like I wanted to be open and honest with him And so towards the end of the date I told him that I'm technically married Yeah, but like I'm really working on opening things up with my husband and... Did you say opening things up with your husband? Yeah. So like open relationship type thing?

Yeah, yeah. Like he already knows like I'm a free spirit and he knows like I'm very open-minded. I mean he loves who I am and so I, you know, I talked to him about it and he, I don't know, instead of listening and having a conversation, he just like felt very frantic and just left. Josh did. And yeah. So like he grabbed his jacket. He didn't even finish his drink and I haven't heard

from him since. So, we know why you're getting ghosted. Yeah. Well, I mean, yes, but I don't know, I just, I felt like I was being really transparent and I believe in honesty and obviously love and multiple kinds of love. And he said he really liked emotionally intelligent women. And I don't know I I thought that he would be at least willing to have a conversation about it so okay that's what

you want is to have a conversation about it yeah okay well we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if that is in fact the reason that he's ghosting you and try to get you a second date if you still want one, okay? Okay, that would be amazing. Thank you. All right, we'll get your first date follow up next. So in the last month, the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker Carlson, Candace Owens, Charlie Kirk and Ben Shapiro all combined. Conservative podcasts can have a major political impact, but the Mycelis brothers, three siblings

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First date follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, Lucy is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Josh. We think we might know why, but we're not sure. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and get her a second date. But first, Lucy, why don't you break down your situation again real quick?

Yeah, so I had a really great connection with Josh. We went on a date and I was honest with him and told him that I'm married, but I'd like to have an open relationship and I don't know if he just left so haven't heard from him since. All right are you ready to call him? Yeah. Okay here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Josh, please? Yeah, this is he. Hey, Josh, how are you?

This is a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Josh. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. What's up? What's up, guys?

I don't know. Nothing much. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have, but just in a minute. And I don't know what Not too much. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have, but just in a minute and I don't know what I'm doing on it. Well, we do a segment called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you, Josh.

Okay. Any idea who would email us? Vanessa, is it Vanessa? Vanessa. It's not Vanessa. It's Lucy and that's Lucy. She's actually on the phone and wanted to talk to you. So.

Lucy. All right. Vanessa. wanted to talk to you, so. Lucy? All right. Josh, who is Vanessa? I know I freaked her out by telling you I'm married, but are you going out with somebody else? I thought that we really had a good connection. Uh-huh. Okay, hold on, I'm still trying to process all this work.

So you thought I ghosted you, so you called a radio station to call me on the air? Is that what is happening here right now? Yes, I didn't know what else to do. So I called the radio station, like you've been ghosting me. So what would it, I don't know what to do. Okay, I'm going to break this down in a way that I, hopefully you can understand. Lucy, you casually dropped that you're married and you're planning to ask him for permission to date me. So you're asking your husband,

how do you think this was going to go? Like I, I, yeah, I do like you, but this is so messy. This is not how I operate. I know, but I mean, I, I was being really vulnerable with you. Like I felt like, I don't know, I felt like we reached this place and, and like, I was able to open up to you in that way. And, and that I want you to be in my life. I feel like something's really here between us.

And I felt like I could tell you the truth and we could like kind of work through this. Yeah, Lucy, I didn't sign up for a throuple, okay? I don't want that. I don't want that. I don't want that. Okay, like I don't, not a throuple, just me. Like I'm okay, I would still be married, but I would be monogamous with you. So you wouldn't be with your husband anymore. Is that what you're saying to me? Okay. I, well, I would be with him, but, but it would just be him and then you and nobody else.

That's not monogamous with me. Do you understand what's working? I know, but like, what is, I just, I feel like, okay, what if I let you date whoever you want, but then you're still my boyfriend? Okay, I'm going to refer back to the monogamous. Do you even know what that word means? I mean, this is bothering me. Can you tell me what it means? If you know.

What does it mean? What does monogamous mean? I don't know. No, no, no, no. Tell me like I don't know. What does it mean? I don't know what it means. So can you explain it to me?

Just tell me what it is. What does that word mean? Yeah. I mean, I think it's going to take more than like a conversation on the radio to talk about that. No, no, no, no. I'm just telling you to tell me one thing. You dragged me on the radio.

I just want you to define one word. What's monogamous me? What does it mean? Well, the definition, you got your phone there, Google it. You don't know. Yeah, I mean, I just feel like to me, it's being with my husband and then and then you with my boyfriend and then nobody else. That's great. Okay thank you. That's amazing. Cool. So chairs are beds too in my world.

Like I don't, you know. You can't just change the definition or word to suit your application. Do you understand that? Would you at least be willing to maybe like talk to me more about this? Absolutely Lucy. At this point I'm like fascinated with what's going on in your mind. I'll never talk to you from a romantic angle ever again or that's not happening. But I want to know I want to know how crazy you are. I'm being honest. I want to figure out what is going on in your head. I don't know that that's gonna make her want to talk to you. Josh would you like being honest. I want to figure out what is going on in your head I don't know that that's gonna make her want to try to see you. Josh. Would you like another date with Lucy? We'll pay for it. I don't know. Are you kidding like

Okay, I get that you think i'm crazy. It's a little unconventional. Um But I I just felt like you would maybe want to see like where our connection could go Like it might be worth, you know, exploring a little bit more. Well, you know, sometimes we think wrong. Wow. OK, you did say we so that. Yeah, OK, yeah, that's a hard no. There will never be a you and me. We as long as you have a husband.

OK, OK, well, Josh, I feel like it's really unfair that you think I should leave my husband for you. Oh, get disescalated. Yeah, I don't think you're getting another date, Lucy, but at least you got to talk to Josh. Yeah. Well, thanks guys. I don't know what to say.

You'll figure it out, I'm sure. And Josh, thank you for your time. Yeah, I still don't know what to say. You'll figure it out, I'm sure. And Josh, thank you for your time. Yeah, I still don't know what happened with all this. I'm, yeah. Yeah. Jubal's first date follow-up. On the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, I sat down with Jasmine Crockett,

Democratic representative of Texas. She's holding out the fort for her party in one of the most conservative states in the union. I think that ultimately, who will become the Democratic nominee for president will be someone that has been out there and has shown that they won't allow themselves to be punched and just say thank you. Like, they will punch back.

Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an iHeart podcast.