First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Hanna & Luke - He Ghosted Her After One Generous Move on the First Date

Episode Date: December 17, 2025

Hannah thought she nailed her sushi date—great conversation, laughs, and plans to hang out again. But after one unexpected move at the end of the night, everything went quiet. No texts back. No explanation. Just total radio silence. In this holiday countdown edition of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, a simple act meant to be thoughtful sparks an unexpected reaction—and a reveal that flips the whole situation on its head. What Luke heard after the date changes everything, and once Hannah joins the call, things get real fast. ______________Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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It's Chuck and Josh from the Stuff You Should Know podcast, and it's that time of year again when we knuckle down to do our annual holiday episodes. We collected our best past classic holiday episodes and compiled them into a 12 days of Christmas toys playlist that the whole family can enjoy. That's right. Maybe you missed it the first time we detailed the history

of Beanie Babies, Monopoly, or Yo-Yo's, and a whole lot more. So listen to the... 12 days of Christmas toys playlist on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, I'm Nora Jones, and I love playing music with people so much that my podcast called Playing Along is back. I sit down with musicians from all musical styles

to play songs together in an intimate setting. Every episode's a little different, but it all involves music and conversation with some of my favorite musicians. Over the past two seasons, I've had special guests like Dave Grohl, Lave, Mavis Staples, Remy Wolfe, Jeff Tweedy, really too many to name.

And this season, I've sat down with Black Pumas, Alessia, Kara, Sarah McLaughlin, and more. Check out my new episode with John Legend. I feel like, in a lot of ways, our careers are paralleled in some ways, but they just never intersected for some reason. I know. We should take it slow.

We're just ordinary people. We don't know which way to go. Listen to Nora, is playing along on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Who would you call if the unthinkable happened? My sister was y'all 22 times. A police officer, right? But what do you do when the monster is the man in blue?

This dude is the devil. He'll hurt you. This is the story of a detective who thought he was above the law until we came together to take him down. I said, you're going to see my face till the day that you die. Listen to the girlfriends, untouchable, on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at Advocateslaw.com. Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the 12 first-day follow-ups of Christmas as voted on by you. Yeah!

We count down all the way to the number one first day. follow-up that you voted on. Hannah is on the phone today for a first-day follow-up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Luke, so in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first, Hannah, how long has it been since you heard from Luke? It's been about a week. I texted him a couple times, but nothing, just radio silence.

Really? So did you feel like you were going to hear from him? Was the date good? No, no, it's so weird because he was texting me right after the date. Like, that was fun. We should do it again. Well, poof, absolutely nothing. Why don't you tell us about the date?

Oh, okay, so here's the deal. We went out for sushi, which I love. I thought it was a super solid start. You even let me pick out the restaurant, which was cool. I didn't think that a guy who doesn't like raw fish would suggest sushi, but cool. We ended up ordering way too much food. It was kind of a mess. We were both just like cracking jokes about it.

especially when he nearly flung a piece of sashini across the table trying to use the gymnastics. Yeah, it was cute. So afterwards, we went for a walk, which was really sweet. It was chill, low-key, and it just felt like we were on the same wavelength, you know? Yeah, flinging sushi and, you know, sweet conversation. So why do you think you're getting ghosted then? Oh, man, honestly, I don't know, because I thought it wouldn't really.

really, really great. There was just like something about him. He was so funny, but maybe I messed up when I paid for dinner behind us back. The bill was just way more than we expected. And I had ordered a really fancy socky and a lag queue advertiser without even digging about it. And I felt bad. So when he got up to use the bathroom, I just went ahead and paid for the whole thing.

So when he came back, I told him it wasn't. a big deal. I'd marry you. That doesn't sound like a reason to ghost you at all. Right. I mean, I can afford it, but he seems like kind of irritated. He kept saying, you know, I could have paid for that. And I tried to explain that it didn't mean anything.

I just felt guilty for ordering the expensive staff, like, unconsciously. But maybe he thought that I was implying that he couldn't afford it or something. I didn't really need it like that. I was just trying to do something nice, but no, I'm wondering if it, like, came off totally wrong. Well, did he say thank you? Did, like, aside from the fact that he's like, I could pay for it too, was he appreciative of it? Yeah, no, he did. It just, like, it just, like, shifted the vibe, like, a little bit.

But, like, not enough to, like, we still were planning on hanging out again. We both had talked about how it was fun. So, I don't know. Maybe it's one of those weird old school type of things, you know, where. It feels like a guy's got to pay or something. Or maybe he didn't even have the option because you did it behind his back too for whatever reason again. Like Jubil said, I would marry you.

Right. I mean, a girl who can take care of herself. What's their not to like? Right. You need a date a new school dude who use you for everything your word. Jumel. Phrase differently. You look for a poll cleaner?

If you're just joining us for today's first date, follow up. Hannah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Luke. We're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Hannah, why don't you refresh our memory on your date? Okay, we went out for this super fun sushi date, but I ended up paying at the end because I thought I'd order two extensive things. So I'm worried if that's why he disappeared. Okay. I mean, I don't know.

I could see some guy being like, I don't want to go out with you again because he wouldn't let me pay. I could actually see that happening. Because he's probably like if he's thinking like, okay, well, what do I have to bring to the table or like somehow feeling bad about it? I don't know. We'll see. You ready for us to call him? Oh, here we go. Okay.

Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Luke, please? Hey, Luke, who is this? Hey, Luke, how are you? you. This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. What's up? How are you?

I'm sorry. Is it like a prank or something? No, it's not, actually. We're calling you for a different reason. Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah. Yeah. I just, I didn't expect you to call me. Okay. Well, we're calling you today because you're ghosting somebody and we do a segment on the show call the first eight follow-up, you know, where if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would have emailed us about you? I am guessing this is about Hannah, right? Yes. You've got correct. Congratulations. You've won nothing so far. Are you ghosting her? I'm not like

ghosting her intentionally. I don't know. know. The date was super fun. She's super cool, but it was, it was, honestly, it was just something that happened after. Okay. So you are ghosting her intentionally. She said she texted you and you didn't call her back. So, um, yeah. So, uh, yeah, here's, okay. Okay. Okay, but why? Yeah. Uh, so, uh, the deal is, uh, so, uh, you know, after our day, It was really good, and my buddy, Andrew, so I was telling him about it. And, you know, I was staying, so she paid for the meal, and I, you know, behind my back. And I don't know, I just thought it was kind of weird, so I'm telling him about it.

And he actually seen a picture of her, and I showed him a picture, and he just started cracking up. And it turns out that he went out with Hannah, too. Oh, okay. you don't want to go out because of that no no no no it's not it's not only that it was that she did like the same exact thing with him they went to like a steakhouse and got all like this expensive stuff and like behind his back she paid without telling him and and then he was saying that like happened a bunch of times and he and he said in his words that by the end he felt like she was treating him like some sort of boy toy that she could like you know control with her money oh okay

and you don't want to be a boy toy is that what she's doing though or is that just i mean i don't know it's like nice that she wants to treat you maybe not every single time but do you think that she was making you feel like a boy toy at all luke when you were out with her i mean i'm not gonna like jump to that conclusion but it's like it felt weird you know You know, like, it just felt really weird. Oh, wow. So because I'm too generous, I'm getting ghosted. Casey forgot, Luke, that's Hannah.

Hannah's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Ah, oh, Hannah. Hey, how are you doing? Oh, hi, Luke. I'm sorry, I didn't realize I was making you feel like my personal sugar baby. Seriously, look, I obviously had no idea that Andrew was your friend. Also, Andrew seemed like super okay with the fact that I was paying for a lot of things. I have a nice job.

He seems grateful. This is, this is to me. Yeah, I mean, that's Andrew, of course. You're buying something, but it just like sounded like a pattern. And I don't know, I didn't want to get wrapped up in this whole, like, you're paying for everything and I'm just along for the ride thing. I mean, that's not it at all. I'm just, you know, trying to not seem like a money-grubbing woman myself. I have a nice job.

So I wanted to get what I wanted to get without feeling guilty. So what? Isn't that a nice thing that I could take care of myself? Yeah, but I mean, like, you know, I can take care of myself too. And it just, it feels weird that you're just paying for everything. I don't know. It just feels really weird. And I don't, I don't know.

It just like you do it behind my back. Cool game. Well, that's fine. I'll find somebody who's hot and proud to be with a woman who can also take care of them. But wait, Hannah, what is it about paying for your men every time you go out with them that's, like, so important to you? Like, what is it about paying behind their back and, like, doing it every time that you like? not doing it every time i just don't want to feel like i'm beholden to a man because i want really nice things and i'm not expecting anybody to pay for that when they don't really know me

yet you know but you know i mean this is so weird that you're missing out i mean you're just missing out you that you didn't even get to the part where i buy you clothes yet you know I want a man. I want a man who adores me, and it's secure enough to, you know, be okay with that. I mean, I could buy my own clothes. I could buy my own clothes. It makes me sound like I can't do this.

Well, I mean, you could really, really use a stylist and some new clothes because, man, that outfit was not really impressed me. But I'm done trying to impress someone who gets scared. scared off by a little generosity. Well, Luke, would you like another date with Hannah? We'll pay for it. I don't even need it off you. That's true.

We shouldn't pay for it. I don't think I could, you know, I guess survive a whole wardrobe overhaul to, you know, to refer to a pretty woman made. So I don't think so. All right. Well, no hard feelings, though. Good luck. Finding someone who won't spoil you too much.

Okay, baby boy. Have you ever listened to those true crime shows and found yourself with more questions than answers? Who catfishes a city? Is it even safe to snort human remains? Is that the plot of footloos? I'm comedian Rory Scoville, and I'm here to tell you, Josh Dean and I have a new podcast that celebrates the amazing creativity of the world's dumbest criminals. It's called Crimeless, a true crime comedy podcast. On the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm Stefan Curry, and this is Gentleman's Cut. I think what makes Gentleman's Cut different is me being a part of developing the profile of this beautiful finished product. With every sip, you get a little something different. Visit Gentleman's Cut Bourbon.com or your nearest Total Wines or Bevmo. This message is intended for audiences 21 and older. Gentleman's Cut Bourbon, Boone County, Kentucky. Cut Bourbon, please visit gentlemen's cut bourbon.com.

Please enjoy responsibly. Hey, I'm Nora Jones, and I love playing music with people so much that my podcast called Playing Along is back. I sit down with musicians from all musical styles to play songs together in an intimate setting. Every episode's a little different, but it all involves music and conversation with some of my

favorite musicians. Over the past two seasons, I've had special guests like Dave Grohl, Leveh, Mavis Staples, Remy Wolf, Jeff Tweedy, really too many to name. And this season, I've sat down with Black Pumas, Alessia Kara, Sarah McLaughlin, and more. Check out my new episode with John Legend.

I feel like, in a lot of ways, our careers are paralleled in some ways, but they just never intersected for some reason. I know. We should take it slow. We're just ordinary people. We don't know which way to go. Listen to Nora Jones is playing along

on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, everybody, it's Chuck and Josh from the Stuff You Should Know podcast, and it's that time of year again when we knuckle down to do our annual holiday episodes. We collected our best past classic holiday episodes and compiled them into a 12 days of Christmas toys playlist

that the whole family can enjoy. That's right. Maybe you missed it the first time we detailed the history of Beanie Babies, Monopoly, or Yo-Yo's, a whole lot more. So listen to the 12 Days of Christmas Toys playlist on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Who would you call if the unthinkable happened?

My sister was y'all 22 times. A police officer, right? But what do you do when the monster is the man in blue? This dude is the devil. He'll hurt you. This is the story of a detective who thought he was above the law until we came together to take him down.

I said, you're going to see my face to the dead. day that you die. I got you, I got you, I got you. Listen to the girlfriends, untouchable, on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. This is an IHeart podcast, guaranteed human.