First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Hanna & Luke: He Loved the Date… So Why Did He Ghost Her After the Check Arrived? 🍣💸

Episode Date: February 5, 2026

Hannah thought she’d found a great connection after a fun sushi date filled with laughs, flung sashimi, and plans to hang out again 😅🍣. But a week later—total radio silence 📵. On this First Date Follow Up, powered by Advocates Injury Attorneys Online at AdvocatesLaw.com, Hannah wonders if her generous move of paying the bill behind his back sent the wrong message.When Luke finally explains why he disappeared, the reason takes an unexpected turn involving a friend, a pattern, and a serious debate about money, control, and dating expectations 💳👀. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hey, I'm Jay Shetty, host of the on-purpose podcast. On a recent episode, I sat down with Nick Jonas, singer, songwriter, actor, and global superstar. I went blank. I hit a bad note, and then I couldn't kind of recover. And I built up this idea that music and being musician was my whole identity. I had to sort of relearn who I was if you took this thing away. Who am I?

Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the IHartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. Hannah is on the phone today for a first-day follow-up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Luke. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if they'll tell us why he's ghosting her.

But first, Hannah, how long has it been since you heard from Luke? It's been about a week. I texted him a couple times, but nothing. Just radio silence. Really? So did you feel like you were going to hear from him? Was the date good? No, no, it's so weird because he was texting me right after the date.

Like, that was fun. We should do it again. And now, poof, absolutely nothing. Why don't you tell us about the date? Oh, okay. So here's the deal. We went out for sushi, which I love. I thought it was a super solid start.

He even let me pick out the restaurant, which was cool. I didn't think that a guy who doesn't like raw fish would suggest sushi, but cool. We ended up ordering way too much food. It was kind of a mess. We were both just like cracking jokes about it, especially when he nearly flung a piece of sashini across the table trying to use the Jollics. Yeah, it was cute. So afterwards, we went for a walk, which was really sweet.

It was chill, low-key, and it just felt like we were on the same wavelength, you know? Yeah, flinging sushi and, you know, sweet conversation. So why do you think you're getting ghosted then? Oh, man. Honestly, I don't know, because I thought it went really, really great. There was just, like, something about it. I mean, it was so funny, but maybe I messed up when I, paid for dinner behind us back.

The bill was just like way more than we expected. And I had ordered a really fancy socky and Wagyu advertiser without even digging about it. And I felt bad. So when he got up to use the bathroom, I just went ahead and paid for the whole thing. So when he came back, I told him it wasn't a big deal.

I'd marry you. That doesn't sound like a reason to ghost you at all. Right. I mean, I can afford it. But he seemed like kind of irritated. He kept saying, you know, I could have paid for that. And I tried to explain that it didn't mean anything. I just felt guilty for ordering the expensive stuff like unconsciously.

But maybe he thought that I was implying that he couldn't afford it or something. But I didn't really need it like that. I was just trying to do something nice. But now I'm wondering if it like came off totally wrong. Well, did he say thank you? Did like aside from the fact that he's like, I could pay for it too? Was he appreciative of it? No, he did.

It just like, it just like shifted divide like a little bit. But like not enough to, like we still were planning on hanging out again. We both had talked about how it was fun. So I don't know. Maybe it's one of those weird old school type of things, you know, where it feels like a guy's got to pay or something. Or maybe he didn't even have the option because you did it behind his back too. For whatever reason again.

Like Jeeble said, I would marry you. right? I mean, a girl who can take care of herself. What's their not to like? Right. You need a date a new school dude who use you for everything your word. She won't. Hannah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Luke.

So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Hannah, why don't you refresh our memory on your date? Okay, we went out for this super fun sushi date, but I ended up paying at the end because I thought I'd order. too extensive things. So I'm, I'm worried if that's why he disappeared. Okay. I mean,

I don't know. I could see some guy being like, I don't want to go out with you again because he wouldn't let me pay. I could actually see that happening. Well, because he's probably like, if he's thinking like, okay, well, what do I have to bring to the table

or like somehow feeling bad about it? I don't know. We'll see. You ready for us to call him? Oh, here we go. Okay. Here we go. Hi, man.

Speak to Luke, please. Uh, is him. Who's it? Hey, Luke, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name's Jubal. What's up? How are you? I'm sorry. Is it like a prank or something? No, it's not, actually. We're calling you for a different reason. Have you ever listened to the show before?

Yeah, yeah. I just, I didn't expect you to call me. Okay. Well, we're calling you today because you're ghosting somebody. And we do a segment on the show called The First Day Followup, you know, where if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would have emailed us about you? I am guessing this is about Hannah, right?

Yes. Oh. You got it correct. Congratulations. You've won nothing so far. Are you ghosting her? I'm not like ghosting her intentionally. Uh, I don't know.

The date was super fun. She's super cool. it was it was honestly it was just something that happened after okay so you are ghosting her intentionally she said she texted you and you didn't call her back so um yeah so uh okay okay but why yeah uh so uh the deal is uh so uh you know after our day it was it was really good and uh my buddy Andrew, so I was telling him about it. And, you know, I was staying, so she paid for the meal, and I, you know, behind my back. And I don't know, I just thought it was kind of weird, so I'm telling him about it.

And he actually sees a picture of her, and I showed him a picture, and he just started cracking up. And it turns out that he went out with Hannah too. Oh, okay. You don't want to go with her because of that? No, no, no, no, no. It's not, it's not only that. It was that she did like the same exact thing with him. They went to like a steakhouse and got all like this expensive stuff.

And like behind his back, she paid without telling him. And then he was saying that it like happened a bunch of times. And he said in his words that by the end he felt like she was treating him. like some sort of boy toy that she could like you know control with her money oh okay and you don't want to be a boy toy no is that what she's doing though or is that just i mean i don't know i think it's like nice that she wants to treat you maybe not every single time but do you think that she was making you feel like a boy toy at all luke when you were out with her i mean i'm not going to like jump to that conclusion but it just like it felt weird you know

Like, it just felt really weird. Oh. Wow. So because I'm too generous, I'm getting ghosted. Jason, we got, Luke, that's Hannah. Hannah's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Ah. Oh, Hannah.

Hey, how are you doing? Oh, hi, Luke. I'm sorry, I didn't realize I was making you feel like my personal sugar baby. Seriously, look, I obviously had no idea that Andrew was your friend. Also, Andrew seems like super okay with the fact that I was paying for a lot of things. I have a nice job. He seems grateful. This is, this is to me.

Yeah, I mean, that's Andrew, of course. You're buying something, but it just like sounded like a pattern. And I don't know. I didn't want to get wrapped up in this whole like, you're paying for everything and I'm just along for the ride thing. I mean, that's not it at all. I'm just, you know, trying to not seem like a money-grubbing woman myself.

I have a nice job. So I wanted to get what I wanted to get without feeling guilty. So what? Isn't that a nice thing that I could take care of myself? Yeah, but I mean, like, you know, I can take care of myself too. And it just, it feels weird that you're just paying for everything. I don't know. It just feels really weird.

And I don't, I don't know. It just like you do it behind my back. Cool game. Well, that's fine. I'll find somebody who's hot and proud to be with a woman who can also take care of them. But wait, Hannah, what is it about paying for your men every time you go out with them that's, like, so important to you? Like, what is it about paying behind their back and, like, doing it every time that you like? I'm not doing it every time.

I just don't want to feel like I'm beholden to a man because I want really nice things. And I'm not expecting anybody to pay for that when they don't really know me yet, you know? But you know, that's... I mean, you're missing out. I mean, you don't... Yeah, honestly, you're just missing out. You didn't even get to the part where I buy you clothes yet, you know? I don't want a baby.

I want like a man. I want a man who adores me. and it's secure enough to, you know, be okay with that. I mean, I could buy my own clothes. It's insane that I buy my own clothes. It makes you sound like I can't do this. Well, I mean, you could really, really use a stylist and some new clothes because, man, that outfit was not really impressed me. But I'm done trying to impress someone who gets scared off by a little generosity.

Well, Luke, would you like another date with Hannah? We'll pay for it. I don't even need it. That's true. We shouldn't pay for it. I don't think I could, you know, I guess survive a whole wardrobe overhaul to, you know, to refer to a pretty woman mate. So I don't think so.

All right. Well, no hard feelings, though. Good luck. Finding someone who won't spoil you too much. Okay, baby boy. Oh, thank you. Jubil's first date follow-up. In the middle of the night, Saskia awoke in a haze.

Her husband, Mike, was on his laptop. What was on his screen would change Saskia's life forever. I said, I need you to tell me exactly what you're doing. And immediately, the mask came off. You're supposed to be safe. That's your home. That's your husband. Listen to Betrayal Season 5 on the I-Heart Radio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. It seems like just yesterday that the Two Guys Five Rings podcast was in Paris for the Olympics. And now we're heading to Milan for the 26 Milan Cortina Olympic Winter Games. I'm Bowen-Yang. And I'm Matt Rogers and we'll join athletes from 93 countries as Two Guys Five Rings hits the Italian Alps for the 26 Milan-Cortina Olympic Winter Games. Open your free IHart Radio app. Do we mention it's free?

search two guys five rings and listen now. Black history lives in our stories, our culture, and the conversations we still having today. This Black History Month, the podcast I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either. Digs into the moments, perspectives, and experiences that don't always make the textbook. Let me tell you about Garrett Morgan. Brough had to pretend he didn't even exist just to sell his own invention. Listen to I didn't know.

Maybe you didn't either. from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or simply wherever you get your podcast. Hey, I'm Jay Shetty, host of the on-purpose podcast. On a recent episode, I sat down with Nick Jonas, singer, songwriter, actor, and global superstar. I went blank. I hit a bad note, and then I couldn't kind of recover. And I built up this idea that music and being musician was my whole identity.

I had to sort of relearn who I was if you took this. thing away. Who am I? Listen to On Purpose with Jay Chetty on the IHartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.