First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Hazel & Trent - From Dance Floor Sparks to Ghosted: Hazel’s Surprising First Date Follow-Up

Episode Date: August 20, 2025

Hazel thought she found chemistry that could rival a movie romance after her unforgettable salsa night with Trent—complete with laughter, dancing, and a kiss she can’t stop replaying. But now he’s vanished. In this First Date Follow-Up, we call Trent to uncover why he’s ghosting her. The shocking twist will leave you speechless. Is it about marriage… or something (or someone) else? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Hazel is on the phone today for our first day follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trent. so in a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date but first hazel how long has it been since you heard from trent it's been about a week which is like killing me it's been so long when was the last time you reached out i texted him yesterday which i was like i wish i hadn't i so for our date we went to a salsa night and so yesterday i texted him i'm still waiting for our next dance and then i heard nothing and i was Like all night, I was like, no. Oh, that hurts. Thanks. It was always cute, what you said anyway. I thought so, yeah.

Yeah, it was an amazing date. Like, it was so fun. He planned it, and he's, like, an amazing dancer. So we went to this salsa night, and it was, like, there was, like, music and great lights, and he was trying to teach me some moves, and I'm not a dancer or a mover, and so I failed spectacularly. But I feel like it was an amazing date because he was so, he had such a good sense of humor about it and we were laughing about the fact that I was not a graceful dancer and like we were laughing

so hard my stomach hurt which I just feel like is such a good sign on the first date you know for sure what else did you guys do well okay so then after okay so all the like first dances happened like with like the teacher and stuff and then they played some slower songs and then during the slower songs he was like holding me very close which I appreciated more than I can say all right at the end of the night he did kiss me and it was like not just like you know I feel like I've been going on these dates lately on hinge where it's like these kisses are so weird at the end of the night and this is like a movie kiss you know and I like keep replaying it in my head it was so good and so I'm just like wait where is he like I just I'm like I wasn't lying to myself like the chemistry was there it was so

fun okay what could have gone wrong I know I mean that's what I've been like god like spiraling out about I feel like I've been, like, thinking over our whole conversation through the whole night, and I feel like at one point, like, we were just talking about, like, values and stuff, and I said I, like, don't believe in marriage. But he seemed, like, so fine about that, but I'm like, maybe that threw him off. Kind of, like, at the end of the night, he, um, I, like, went to kiss him again after our first kiss, and he, like, turned his head, and I, like, got the cheek, and I was like, oh, my gosh, rejected.

So I was, like, something, I knew at the end of the night, like, maybe something was off, but also, like, everything else was, like, so fun. that I just thought that I'm not crazy. Like that was an amazing date, right? So something changed. Yeah. Something changed. And I'm like, and I have no idea what it is because everything, I mean, he's like so great.

And like he's stupid handsome. And, you know, I just, I was like, he's really charming, but not like an overly, like, performative way. He was just like everything, we were vibing like we'd known each other for a really long time. And I just felt like I wasn't lying to myself. I don't think. Yeah. Well, that's what makes it so weird.

Jubal on like a first date, if somebody tells you that they don't believe in marriage and that's something that you want in your life, are you going to bow out after one? Yeah, probably. If I wanted to be, if I wanted marriage and they said they weren't down with it, probably.

I probably wouldn't waste my time with another date. Oh. It could be the reason why. Well, yeah. I mean, if that's what I'm looking for, you know, why waste my time? Okay. Well, we'll see if that is it.

We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if it'll tell us why he's going to sing you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay, perfect. Thank you. All right. We'll get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's me, Katie Couric.

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We had an amazing time. He's an amazing dancer. I am not. However, I feel like we were laughing all night. We shared like a spectacular kiss. And now I haven't heard from him in a week. I think maybe it's because I said that I don't believe in marriage. But at the time, you seem fine about that.

So I'm a little bit unsure about why he hasn't texted me back. I mean, I guess after our first date, it's a compliment no matter what, if that is what it is because it's like, I could see her. There's wifey and she doesn't want to get married. Bye. Maybe. I don't know. All right.

Are you ready for us to call him? Yes. Thank you. All right. Here we go. Hello. Hi. May I speak to Trent, please.

Yeah, this is him who's calling? Hey, Trent, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. What's up, Trent? I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Juble, how are you?

Yeah, it's a radio show. Have you ever heard of it? No. Okay. Well, I'll tell you. It's called The Juble Show. It's a radio show. And we do a segment on our show where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why.

It's called the first date follow up. And we got an email about you from somebody. Oh, okay. Are you ghosting anybody right now? This has got to be about Hazel. Yeah, it has to be. Yes, it is. It is about Hazel.

So Hazel emailed us. We talked to her about your date. It sounded really great. It sounded like you liked her. She liked you a lot. You had a hot kiss. Would you mind telling us why you're ghosting her? Oh, man, don't get me wrong.

We had an outstanding time. But to be honest, it was something else. Like we had this amazing dance teacher. And it was just like, Hazel was like infectious. with her. She kept telling me how beautiful she was and she kept like gawking at her and like she gives me butterflies and I was like

what is this? Like, it just threw me off. It felt like she was like into women. I mean, I don't know that I'm ready for anything like that and it was, I'm just confused. Like I thought she was way into this girl. Okay, so you thought that Hazel was

more into the dance instructor than you on the date? Is that why you're ghosting her? Well, she was definitely into me, but she was definitely onto the dance instructor. Like, in a way, I've never seen before. Like, I like when a girl looks at me of the way she looked at the dance instructor. So I was just confused. You feel me?

Okay. And that's the reason you're not calling her back? Yeah. But you didn't think, like, maybe go out with her again and try to figure it out? Or ask her? Nah, I don't know. It just threw me off, you know? And you just thought it was easier just to, like, walk away from the whole thing?

Exactly. All right. Well, thanks for being honest with us, Trent. And Trent, now I'll let you know that Hazel is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. Hi, Trent. Really? Oh, my gosh.

I, okay, wait, can I, am I allowed to talk now? Yes. Okay. Trent, no. I can't believe that's the reason. We had an amazing date. That was like the most fun I've had on a first date in so long. And I, like, you're ghosting me because I admired our dance teacher?

No It It really threw me off I do not like women like that Okay I wasn't trying to be judgmental or anything It's just I don't know if some

Some women are into women like that No I mean I love women I think they're like Incredible like beautiful creatures And our dance teacher was like An amazing woman Like she was like Grateful and strong and like

stunning but I want to see this dance teacher Yeah it sounds like you You see how she's describing her now? But, yeah, yeah. I just had never seen a woman into another woman like that. But I was like excited by her because I was like, oh my God, like when I said the thing about butterflies, that was like, I'm having butterflies up watching her dance because I was so excited like about the idea that like, oh my God, like what if one day I could dance like that and like dance? You're such a good dancer.

I was like maybe one day I'll be like her. And I was so excited about you and like the idea of dancing with you. Well, Trent, would you like to go out with Hazel on another day? We'll pay for it. You know, that would be great, but right now I have to decline. Really? Why? Well, you see, the thing is with that dance teacher, I kind of asked her out and we're going out.

Are you serious, Twed? You did say she was so beautiful. I mean, I think I was into her just as much as you were. when did you even talk to her like they slid into her DMs after our date no no after you that weird little kiss you gave me at the end

and went off I went back and you know we started talking and we had a little heart to heart and I just one thing led to another and I asked her out and here we are wow wow wow tread

I mean I'm not gonna lie that this hurts but well she's giving me butterflies now so wow okay well I'm not going to lie this definitely hurts but I agree that

she was an amazing woman at least someone is going out with her so the few trends the best elect to both of you honestly man where do you guys take these dance glasses that because I'm dying to know Jubil's first date

follow up so in the last month the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker Carlson, Candice Owens, Charlie Kirk, and Ben Shapiro all combined. What happens when three brothers take on right-wing media and start winning? I find out on the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric. We just want people to live their lives and be happy and be able to enjoy it without some, you know, lunatic screaming in their face every three seconds. Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Currick on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's start with a quick puzzle. The answer is Ken Jennings' appearance on The Puzzler with A.J. Jacobs. The question is, what is the most entertaining listening experience in podcast land?

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Take a listen. Sue and I were, like, riding the lime bikes the other day. We're like, we! People ride bikes because it's fun. We got more incredible guests like Megan in store, plus news of the day and more. So make sure you listen to Good Game with Spice. Sarah Spain on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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