First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - He NEVER gets ghosted in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: April 22, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".The guy in today's First Date Follow Up says he NEVER gets ghosted so he has no idea why it's happening now! Can The Jubal Show help him find out and will he get a second date!? Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. Sasha is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and he's not getting a call back from a woman named Mandy. His email says pretty much the standard stuff.

I don't know why she's not calling me back. It did say one thing. It said, I almost smashed. Smashed? But then got stopped. What? Oh. So, sorry that happened to you.

Blocked? Yeah. Sorry that happened to you, Sasha. Yeah. Aw. Before we get into things, how long has it been since you heard from Mandy? Been a couple weeks. How many times have you tried to reach out to her since?

I mean, you know, every other night. Every other night? What? Yeah. Every other night. That's a lot. So has she responded to you at all? No. That might be a bit much. has she responded to you at all? No.

That might be a bit much. Well, what did you guys do for your date? First off, I just want to mention that she was a smoke show. She's really hot. I really wanted to hook up with her so I wanted to make it a... So you didn't really care about like dating her, dating

her? You're just trying to go out and hook up? Yeah. That's fine, man. I think I'm young. I think I deserve to have a little fun. Was she aware of this? Yeah, I'm pretty sure. I mean, I'm pretty intentional about how I speak to girls.

As long as you go into it being honest, then I don't see anything wrong with that. If that's what you want to do, that's what you want to do. But you should definitely not try to play it off with something else. Yeah, I mean, I'm not saying it in that way because I think it's really sterile. I'm really just flirting a lot.

And, you know, I'm showing sexual interest. And I think the woman should get the clue. Yeah, no, I totally agree. Okay, wait, how did you meet her? Tinder. Okay, yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, so she should have a clue. Yeah, she should kind of know.

Exactly. All right, well, what did you guys do? I took her to the beach, and I know chicks love picnics, so I did a little picnic thing, and I figured beach would be perfect because I don't want to show off, but I kind of do. I have a really nice body.

I go to the gym a lot, and I want to show that off, so. You took her on a picnic so you could, you know, give her the gun show, show off your muscles a little bit. Yeah. And did she seem into them? Yeah, she kept making, you know, sexual comments.

What was she saying? She didn't want me to turn her on in public like that, you know. Oh, wow. She said that? Yeah. All right. Okay. So she was definitely, it seemed like, down.

And she was into what you were into, just looking for a, just looking to hook up. Yeah, I mean, it seemed like, down. And she was into what you were into, just looking to hook up. Yeah, I mean, it worked. We went back to her house, and we were messing around a little bit. But we didn't have sex. We both took a few shots of alcohol, and then we just started messing around. And then she just got kind of weird and uh she started saying that she has work early in the morning and that she kind of did this thing

where she's kind of like you know not really looking at me and kind of like acting different and being like oh really weird, what do you think happened? Nothing. Yeah. I mean, I don't really know what happened. We were just messing around and then she just got weird. So she said she had to go to work and I'm guessing you left at that point. Yeah.

And there's nothing to do after that. Did she say anything about calling her again, going out again, meeting up again? She said something about talk to you sooner or something weird like that. Yeah, that doesn't scream once. Yeah, and I'm pretty bummed about it because I think that we had good chemistry and we'd have a lot of fun together.

Alright, you just want to finish what you started, huh? Basically. Let's see if we can get that done. All right. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and try to figure it out on your first day follow-up, okay? Okay, thanks. Yep, we'll do it next. It's the Jubal Show.

In the middle of a first day follow-up, and on the phone with us is Sasha. Sasha emailed us because he's not getting a call back from a woman named Mandy. They met on Tinder, and Sasha, there's no shame in his game. He says that he's just looking to hook up with people, and Mandy also knew that when they went out on a date they went on a picnic went back to her house messed around a little bit but then all of a sudden she told him that she had to go to work early and kicked him out and she hasn't talked to him since and he doesn't know why and Sasha you swear you didn't get weird no she's not calling you back and we're gonna call her right now see if we can figure it out. You ready? Yeah.

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mandy, please? This is she. Mandy, how are you? This is The Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. Mine's Alex Fresh.

Mine's English Evan. And The Jubal Show is a radio show, and now we're on the phone with you. Okay. I mean, I've heard of you, but why are you calling me? We do a segment on the show called First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And we got an email about you

from somebody who does listen to the show, probably more than you. Okay. His name is Sasha. Yeah, we went out. We know that. What we don't know is the reason that you're not calling him back.

So Sasha emailed us and he told us a little bit about your day. He said that you guys met on Tinder, went to, uh, when I had a picnic and then went back to your place and started messing around a little bit. And then all of a sudden you said you had to get up early for work and then you told him to kick rocks. Yeah.

Okay. Yeah. Well, I mean, if you want the truth, um, well, he told us that he's like super hot and in shape. Is that true? Yeah, I mean, he really was like really, really good looking. I mean, if we're going to be honest, we really didn't talk that long and tender. And it was really, for me, going to be pretty casual, like a hookup.

So that was kind of my intention. So then what happened? Yeah. Like, I can't believe you took him back over to your house. Yeah, after one day of talking? I mean, he was really good looking. We were flirting, you know, there just was

chemistry there. I mean, if he closed his mouth more, it actually would have been better. I mean, honestly, the conversation wasn't that great. But I just, you know, was wanting to have fun. I wanted to have a fling, you know. I just wanted to have a fling. And is that what ruined it for you, the conversation? No, it didn't ruin it for me.

I mean, because I knew, you know, what I wanted. And so we went back to my place and we were messing around I mean the kissing was good I just I don't embarrass him but I mean his arms are like amazing like his biceps it's like I mean he is a fit big guy. I mean, this is like everything you picture, like on the cover of a Harlequin romance novel, I swear. It was just like so good looking. I mean, it was all physical. Then why not hook up with him?

Well, until his physical, well, it wasn't very big. Oh mean it was like um fun size and like little snickers bar and that's oh my god snickers bar so you're saying he's big everywhere except the place where you were hoping no yeah i was like it's so bad That's got to be super disappointing. You think somebody's so hot and then it's just like, well. It was like, I mean, it was just like bad. Sorry to hear that. If it's that bad, I'm sure Sasha's aware of that. Or maybe not.

Maybe he doesn't know. We could tell him. He doesn't know now, though. What do you mean well i mean he knows now because he's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you unless he's not oh my god sasha are you still there yeah i'm still there um hi sasha i didn't i didn't tell me that you were on the phone i'm i am so sorry sasha is this a problem that you know you have no it's not what i mean are you serious yeah it's not a problem i mean i don't i don't know who you've been sleeping with but maybe uh you just don't know that good sex isn't about that so i don't i don't know

oh so you're gonna play the card that it's how you use it no i mean, you can play cards, but, you know, it's based on fact. So that's, you know, women based on emotions, men, we base it on fact, and that's just factual. You can message hundreds of the girls that I've been with, and they can tell you exactly.

Maybe they're scared. Hundreds of the girls. I think that might be an exaggeration, too, now, after hearing about your downstairs. All right, bro. Virgin bro. It sounds like you might be slightly below average. Well, I've never gotten a complaint before, so I don't know.

Okay. Well, no one's going to actually say it to your face. I mean, nobody wants to be mean. I mean, they know that you know. If a guy had a real small one like that, would you tell him if you knew that you weren't going to date him for a long time or would you just stop talking to him? I would ghost him.

I've done it plenty of times. Right, but you wouldn't tell him. You wouldn't be like, hey, you have a real small one. That's why I'm not talking to you, right? I'd ghost him. Yeah, because they don't want to be mean to you. And it's awkward. Sasha, that's probably why. You know, and I know it's an awkward conversation to have. I'll tell you how you can tell though. I think based on my experience that it's an awkward conversation to have. I'll tell you how you can tell, though. I think, based on my experience, that there's a code word for it.

If they don't think it's big and they don't want to tell you and like you ask them about it or they feel like they need to share about your stuff. Has anybody ever called it perfect? Yeah. Yeah. Usually that means it's not big enough. How do you know that, Jubal? I don't know. It's a joke I used to do on stage. It used to work. It's not big enough. How do you know that, Jubal? I don't know. It's a joke I used to do on stage.

It used to work. It's not working here, obviously. Nobody's ever complained, and you never even got a chance to see it in its full capacity, so I don't know. Yeah, I didn't have to see it because I felt it. All right. Well, I'm going to ask a question anyway.

Mandy, would you like to go out with Sasha again on another date we'll pay for it I'm gonna say no no don't wanna give it another shot and see if full bloom is more than what you

no no I'm good alright well sorry Sasha thank you for being honest with us

and Sasha yeah man I'm sorry it doesn't sound like you're getting it oh okay her loss yeah well actually I already lost your number so yeah bye guys being honest with us and Sasha. Yeah, man, I'm sorry. It doesn't sound like, Oh, okay. Her loss. Yeah.

Well, I actually already lost your number. So yeah. Bye guys. Thanks. All right. Well, thank you.

The Jubal show on demand. Hey everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and

Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.