First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - He Said “I’ll See You Soon”… Then Ghosted After the Hookup
Episode Date: February 19, 2026In this dramatic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Danny thought she had the perfect mini golf date — flirty banter, laughs about exes, and even staying the night. So why did Ma...x suddenly disappear after saying he’d see her again? Was it something she joked about? Did bedroom chemistry fall flat? Or is there more to the story than either of them expected? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Danny is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.
So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if they'll tell us why he's ghosting her.
But first, let's find out about the date.
Danny, how long has it been since you heard from Max?
It's been about five days.
Five days?
Okay, okay.
Yeah, it doesn't feel too bad.
How many times have you tried to hit him in that time, though?
Twice.
You tried to hit him?
You know.
That's why you're getting close.
Good word.
Hit him on that, Ellie.
You just hit him up a couple times, though?
Yes, I have.
I've hit him up a couple times.
I've sent him a couple texts and nothing.
Well, let's go backwards.
Tell us about the date.
How did that go?
Okay.
Well, actually, we went mini golfing.
I thought it was kind of cute.
Yeah.
You know, something fun, low pressure.
Things were going great at first.
We were laughing, joking around, a little flirty.
And it was all good.
Then we started talking about X's, but not super serious or anything.
You just mentioned X never like to do anything fun like mini golf.
So I thought it was funny to clown on them a bit.
to make him feel better, I was like,
your ex sounds super lame.
I bet I'm way more fun and probably more attractive.
No one's definitely leveled up.
Okay, well, definitely showing him confidence.
Right.
How did he react to that?
Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.
He laughed and we kept having fun, flirting, and I mean, everything was good.
I mean, it went so well that we ended up, well, we hooked up.
So clearly, he didn't seem bothered by it.
Yeah.
Okay.
I mean, I think it would be weird if he was super bothered by like, hey, don't you ever speak ill of my ex.
Okay.
Well, then that sounds like a good thing.
How did that, how did that end?
Did you guys like, did you leave that night or did you stay over?
I mean, you know, he's a great guy.
Like, he's funny, chill, easy to talk to.
I haven't had a date go that smoothly in a while.
He's just got this laid back vibe.
But there's something deeper there.
I just, I didn't expect him to ghost me after everything seemed so good.
You know, after I stayed the night.
Okay, so you did stay over.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
So after we hooked up, we were just lying there, and I might have kind of joked about
his ex again, you know, like, I bet your ex wouldn't have done this at Minigoff.
I thought it was funny, but now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think it was
as hilarious as I did.
I mean, I'm just trying to make him feel good about it, like a confidence boost.
But now that I haven't heard from him, I'm wondering if I crossed the line.
I mean, it was just a joke.
How was it when you say goodbye to him in the morning?
It was good.
We kissed goodbye and you said, I'll see you soon.
Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Maxa.
So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she still wants one.
But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind us about your date,
quick. So we went mini golfing, which was really fun. And we joked around. We were very
furry. Um, we talked about our exes, but like not like anything real serious. And, you
know, I kind of made a joke that I'm probably more fun than your ex. You leveled up. I'm
probably more attractive. Just kidding. And I mean, it must have been good because while we
hooked up, um, and I haven't heard from him in five days.
and I've tried to contact him a couple times.
I mean, we kiss goodbye the next morning.
He said, I'll see you soon.
And it sounded like we're going to get back together.
All right.
Were you ready for us to call him?
Yeah, I am.
All right, here we go.
Hello.
Hi, man.
Speak to Max, please.
Is he?
Max, how are you?
This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Max.
I'm Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
And my name's Jubal.
How are you?
I'm doing good.
How are you home?
Great.
Have you ever heard of this show
before or listened?
I've heard of it, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Okay, sweet.
Well, guess what?
What's going on?
You are the star of the show.
Yay.
Yay.
All right.
We do a segment on the show that's called the first date follow-up.
That's where if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to get you on the phone and find out why you're getting ghosted.
So somebody emailed us about you.
That's why we're calling.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
Do you know who would email us?
Maybe have an idea.
You want to throw out a guess?
Is it Danny?
Yes, it is Danny.
I want to clap again.
Congratulations.
She emailed us.
We talked to her a little bit about your date, and she's really curious.
She wants to know why you're ghosting her.
She said she thought everything was great.
I mean, look, we definitely had a fun time, like for sure.
She's super fun girl.
I mean, I had high hopes because, you know, we were joking around and, you know, seemed like a great match.
But, you know, I'm big on chemistry.
And, you know, when we got to the bedroom, it just, I didn't feel that spark.
You know, like, it wasn't bad.
It was, didn't click for me.
Wait.
So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it?
I mean, look, the date was a blast.
But when it, you know, it came down to it, there's just.
There's no connection in the bedroom.
And chemistry is just really important to me.
So you didn't enjoy it.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Are you saying I'm bad in bed?
Max, that's Danny.
She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Are you?
Are you, I don't know.
I never have any complaint.
My ex even told people I was the most adventurous he'd ever been with.
Are you sure it wasn't you that was off?
No, no, I'm not.
I'm not saying you're bad.
What are you saying?
I'm just saying that we, you know, didn't have that spark.
Like, well, did you think it was amazing?
I mean, it was fine, but it was the first time.
I mean, it's never mind-blowing the first time you get to know each other, right?
I mean, it was with my ex.
First time was great.
What?
Oh, my gosh.
But your ex was lame.
And I'm awesome.
And honestly, I think we both deserve a redo.
I can do better.
And I'm sure you can do.
Are you calling him that in bed?
Yeah.
So he wasn't great either.
Well, I'm just saying it's never great the first time.
I mean, seriously, I was nervous.
It was our first time.
There were a lot of nerves involved.
Yeah.
No, look, I get it.
I mean, I just, you know, it's got to be.
be undeniable for me. You know, I just, I'm not saying that you're not. The first time? I'm not super
attracted. I will. You're telling me, you're telling me that every time you've had sex
for the first time, it's just been impeccable. I doubt that. Well, I think that, I think that you know
the first time. If it's like, you know what I mean? There's, I've definitively had it happen where I,
I knew that I was like way into this. I mean, you haven't even.
seen all my moves like the waka.
The what? The what?
Your move. The waka.
Okay.
I love that you named your moves.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah, because it's good. And you haven't even seen that yet.
I don't know if I want to see the waka.
Oh, trust me. You definitely want to see the waka.
I'm very curious what the walker is.
It sounds dangerous.
It's not. It's fantastic.
Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Waka?
Would you like a second date with Danny?
We'll pay for it.
I feel like you got to do it for all of us, Max.
All right.
Yeah, I'm down.
I'm down for a second time.
Yeah.
If for anything else, I have to experience the Waka.
Oh, you'll love it.
You'll love it.
Please let us know how it goes.
Be sure to take a week off a work after.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
Well, congratulations.
Danny got another date.
And Max,
good luck.
God bless.
God's sweet.
In the middle of the night,
Saskia awoke in a haze.
Her husband, Mike, was on his laptop.
What was on his screen would change Saskia's life forever.
I said, I need you to tell me exactly what you're doing.
And immediately, the mask came off.
You're supposed to be safe.
That's your home.
That's your husband.
Listen to Betrayal Season 5 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Over the last couple years, didn't we learn that the folding chair was invented by black people because of what happened in Alabama?
This Black History Month, the podcast, selective ignorance,
with Mandy B, unpacks black history and culture with comedy, clarity, and conversations that
shake the status quo.
The Crown Act in New York was signed in July of 2019, and that is a bill that was passed to prohibit
discrimination based on hairstyles associated with race.
To hear this and more, listen to Selective Ignorance with Mandy B from the Black Effect
Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
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I'm Ben Higgins, and if you can hear me, is where culture meets the soul.
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And if you've ever felt like there has to be more to the story, this show is for you.
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2026 Winter Olympic Games.
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