First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - How can the sound "ahhhh" ruin a date!?

Episode Date: October 28, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".How can "ahhhh" ruin a date!? You'll find out in today's First Date Follow Up! Deshawn thinks he scared Leah away because he's clumsy. The Jubal Show calls Leah to find out the truth about Deshawn! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First day follow-up. Sean is on the phone for a first day follow-up today and he met the girl that's not calling him back at the grocery store. Ooh, romantic. And he doesn't know why.

Before we get into everything, Sean, how long has it been since you talked to, what's her name, Leah? get into everything, Sean, how long has it been since you talked to what's her name? Leah? Yeah, Leah. Okay, how long has it been since you talked to Leah? About two weeks now. And how many times have you reached out to her since your date? I mean, about

four times, I would say. Okay, that's normal. Normal amount. Yeah, that's not bad. That's not too much. Sometimes we hear people say like, oh, I reached out every day for 20 times. Yeah. Yeah, it just threw me off, that's normal. Normal amount. Yeah, that's not bad. That's not too much. Sometimes we hear people say like, oh, I reached out every day for 20 times. Yeah, it just threw me off. That's all. Yeah. OK, well, before we get into your actual date, you said you met at the grocery store. How'd that happen? Yeah, well, you know, I'm in, you know, eating healthy, a lot of organic food and stuff like that. So I was in there, you know, you know, looking at certain things. Um, and she

approached me, you know, and when she approached me, you know, we ended up starting, you know, we started talking about, you know, different organic food and, you know, what certain things are good for and stuff like that, you know, just a general conversation about eating healthy and stuff like that. And, um, yeah, from there we just, you know, decided to, you know, go on a date. We just hit it off from there. We decided to have, you know, something simple, like, yeah, from there, we just, you know, decided to, you know, go on a date. We just hit it off from there. We decided to have, you know, something simple like we were going to go out for coffee, take a walk. So we set that up. And, you know, I figured, you know, not too much, you know, something simple, especially for a first date, you know.

Right. So we go on a date. We have the coffee. We take the walk. Everything was, like, perfect. Everything was like perfect. It was just, you know, effortless. It was just so like natural and cool. We even did some TikToks on the way home and everything.

We had a lot of fun. It was real cool. That's cool. By the way, you can follow the show on TikTok at the Jewel Show if you want to. Oh yeah, I got you. Yeah, I'm going to definitely check that out. All right. So you guys did some TikToks together.

And, I mean, that sounds fun. Like, you guys are obviously joking around and having a good time. Exactly. And it sounds like you had a lot in common with the food and the organic stuff, you know? Yeah, it was just perfect. That's why I'm so confused, because it was just natural. It's like everything aligned and just fell into place perfectly, you know. I didn't understand.

I was thinking maybe, you know, because on one of the TikToks I tripped and almost fell. I'm thinking maybe she thinks I'm clumsy or I don't know. She doesn't want to settle down with someone whose TikTok game is weak, a lazy TikTok. Yeah, I doubt that's it. At the end of the day, I let her do most of the talking towards the end. So maybe that was an issue. No, that's definitely not an issue because girls like it when you ask them questions and let them talk. Yeah, that's true.

And English Heaven knows. Yeah, I know. Because he's got one girlfriend and lost her virginity like a week ago. I've been in the game for at least a year. I mean, in my experience, English Evan is correct on that, that listening is better. Alex, you're a female woman.

That's probably right, right? Like on a date, like a dude that's just like talking too much and not listening to you is a turnoff. It always is. Here's a question then. If you feel like maybe you didn't talk enough, can a guy also not talk enough? Yeah, I mean, it needs to be like a normal

back and forth conversation type of thing. Yeah. Like good listening and good talking on both ends. Right. I mean, yeah, that's really all I could think of because everything else was just perfect. So I'm thinking maybe I didn't talk enough. Maybe I let her talk too much.

Maybe it's because I tripped in a TikTok video. I mean, that's what it's gotta be has to be right i was thinking yeah maybe because i tripped or i didn't talk enough and that's that's all i can think of everything else because i i don't know what happened sounds like you caught yourself some feelings my friend yeah i did all right well maybe we can catch you another date then we'll uh play a song and then come back and right. Well, maybe we can catch you another date then. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if we can figure out why she isn't calling you back. If it's a TikTok trip or if it's the fact that you were a little quiet at the end of the day.

Did you guys kiss or anything at the end of the day? I don't remember if you said that or not. Yeah, yeah, we kissed. Okay. Well, that's good too. On the lips? Yeah, yeah, on the lips. Nice.

Wow, good for you, man. And it wasn't part of a TikTok challenge? Like it was like you guys wanted to kiss, you weren't just doing it for the video? I think it was a little bit of both. Alright. Okay, well. A little bit of TikTok with it too. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get your first date follow-up, okay? Alright, cool. Alright, we'll do it next.

It's the Jubal Show. I actually do think tripping or not being very good at a TikTok video could be a deal breaker for people nowadays. I mean, if you're 15. Deshawn is on the phone for a first date follow-up today, and he's not getting a call back from a woman named Leah. They met at the grocery store, and they kind of went out and got coffee and went for a walk.

He said it was really great. He's actually really into her. You can tell effortless conversation. He said they even filmed some Tik TOK videos together. And the only reason that he thinks he's not getting a callback is because maybe in one of the videos he tripped and that was kind of weird or foolish looking or whatever. I doubt that's the reason. He also said that maybe he was a little too quiet at the end of the day and she was doing most of the talking. So maybe it didn't seem like he was into it. They did kiss, but it's been, how long has it been again, Deshaun?

Two weeks. Two weeks since he's heard from her and he doesn't know why. So we're about to call her right now and see if we can figure it out. Okay. Oh, appreciate it. All right, here we go. hello hi may I speak to Leah please speaking who's this

this is Jubal from the Jubal show it's a radio show and this is Alex from the Jubal show and this is English Evan from the Jubal show and it's a radio show. Cool. Did I win something or something? Well, maybe. I don't know yet. We'll find out. We do a thing on the show and it's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up not calling them back, they can email us to get you on the phone and try to figure

out what happened. Oh, gosh. Okay. And you went out with a guy named Deshawn recently. Yes, I did. Yes, you did. And Deshawn said it's been two weeks since your date and you haven't responded to any of his phone calls, text messages, nothing.

And he's trying to figure out what happened. And we are wondering if you would be willing to tell us so that we could pass the message along to the shop. This is so strange. Yeah, we went on a date and it was fine. That is a good review. Yeah. If I were on Yelp, I wouldn't go to that restaurant. It was fine. It was fine. No is a good review. Yeah. If I were on Yelp, I wouldn't go to that restaurant. It was fine.

It was fine. No wonder you didn't call him back. I don't know what you want me to say. Well, I mean, okay, it was fine, but that doesn't sound like it was really good then, right? It was good. Did you like him? I did like him, and we really hit it off when we first met. Um, that's why it was such a bummer when it kind of started to get weird at the end. Well, what happened?

What'd he do? Um, well he, we started talking about Tik TOK and, um, he, then he like started making us do all these videos and I was just like, it was just really repetitive and I wasn't really into it. And then he wanted to do one of those like kiss challenges. And just, and every time he said something, he would like do, like,

like stick out his tongue and do that. And then like dab. And it's like, oh, I'm really into TikTok. Huh? He told us that you guys did TikTok videos at the near the end of your day. And he thought that that was fun.

He thought you were having a good time. I was for like the first two. And then like the next five was like, okay. So it was more him just wanting to do TikTok. Yeah. I don't know. It didn't feel like he was there for me anymore it felt like he was just trying to build content with me how old is he oh 28 i can't remember okay felt like he was 15 yeah what the heck yeah so probably too old to

be sticking his tongue out when he's talking and And you could tell when he was dancing, like doing these TikTok dances, he was like really into it and making all these like faces. I don't know. I think he's meant to be a TikTok star, not my boyfriend. Wow. Okay. All right. He thought it was because he tripped while doing a TikTok video. He thought that could have been one of the reasons or that he was too quiet.

That was actually a really endearing moment. That was like one of the moments that I did think was really sweet. Because it was authentic. You hear that, Deshawn? The trip was actually kind of cute. Leah liked that. Wait, what? Oh, yeah.

Deshawn is listening to the phone call and wants to talk to you. Hey. Oh, my God. Iwn is listening to the phone call and wants to talk to you. Hey. Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. Hi. Oh. Yeah. At least I figured it out.

At least I got the answer now. I didn't know. I thought the trip was the problem. I didn't know. No, the TikTok was the problem. But I thought you liked TikTok. I thought we were on the same page. I did like it,

but I don't want to do that on our first date like over and over. It just, it was too much for me. But I did really like you and I had fun up until then. And when you were contacting me for a second date, I'm like, I don't want to make TikToks again. I mean, we don't have to make TikToks.

I thought you liked TikToks. That's why I, you know, I thought we were both into the TikTok thing. Yeah, but like, even when you're not filming TikToks, you like stick your tongue out and like do these TikTok things. And it's just like, why do you do that? I mean, yeah.

I mean, I don't know. I thought you liked it. We don't have to do any more TikToks. No, we're adults. I want to do adult things on dates. I don't want to make TikToks and do these kiss challenges. My granddad still plays PlayStation. I don't think it's the age limit

to anything. Okay, well, make TikToks with your granddad, I guess. Well, actually, I have done a few with my granddad. He loves me. All right.

Well, Leah, I need to ask you the question. I think I kind of know where it's going, but would you like to go on another date with Sean? We'll pay for it. Well, Leah, I need to ask you the question. I think I kind of know where it's going, but would you like to go on another date with Sean? We'll pay for it. I'm going to say no, but

it was lovely meeting you, Sean, and I appreciate it. It was nice meeting you, too. I'm sorry TikTok, you know, got in the way of us. I thought it was bringing us together, Matt. Torn apart by TikTok.

You're going to meet a girl that loves TikTok. Maybe you'll meet Addison Rae. Oh, I wish. Ah. What was that? That's the sound that he always makes. Ah. Yo, what is that, though?

Deshawn, what are you doing? Can you throw it up? I stick my tongue out and I go, ah. Ah. Okay. All right. All right, well, we'll look for you on TikTok then. Yeah, you'll follow me up.

I'm about to make one right now about heartbreak. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. It is catchy. Look, everybody's doing it. Ah.

See, it's cool. See, it's cool. See, it's cool. Jubal's First Day Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next

Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee

and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team

for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, Tune in and join the conversation.