First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - How did an "enchanted night" end up with someone ghosting?

Episode Date: October 28, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Sammara is on the phone phone for a First Date Follow Up becuase she went on a date with a guy named JP, but now JP is ghosting her! According to her email, it was one of the best dates she had ever been on, and just amazing in general, and she even said that it was like an 'enchanted evening'! They went to a food truck festival but if it was so enchanted, what went wrong??Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow-up. Samara is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she went out with a dude named JP, but now JP is ghosting her, and she doesn't know why. And apparently, the date was amazing, at least according to her email.

Samara, you said this date was one of the best dates you've ever been on. It really was. I had such a good time. It was like an enchanted evening. Oh, wow. Oh, wow. Okay. Enchanted, huh?

Yeah. We met online and he had this great idea to go to like a food truck festival. Oh, God, I pooped my pants. And I'm really into food. I love trying different things. And it was like a farmer's market, but with a whole bunch of different food trucks. So we got to try all kinds of things.

It was so fun. Yeah, that's cool. Okay, that's a good date. Yeah, and honestly, I don't get out that much these days. I've been like busy with work and I thought it was such a cool idea. And so I was really excited, and I was excited to meet him.

I thought he was cute. And, you know, I just, I also think it's cool, like, when someone comes up with different ideas. And you also said that other than just being able to eat a bunch of fried food from food trucks going out with him, he was also a really good date? He was also a really good date? He was. It was so sweet that he brought me flowers, and guys rarely do that anymore. So it was really sweet. Did it seem like he felt the same way?

Yeah, it did. I mean, like, for example, he was so nice, and he could tell that I was kind of, like, getting tired of holding the flowers, and so he joked, well, I could give them to some other girl. And I was kind of like getting tired of holding the flowers. And so he joked, well, I could give them to some other girl. And I was sort of surprised. Like what?

And then he handed them to a little girl and it was like the cutest thing. Oh, wow. Okay. I'm surprised you guys didn't hook up at the end of the night. I mean, he's doing everything right. I kind of want to sleep with him. Yeah, even my ovaries are on fire. Well, we made out

a little bit and we bonded over certain things like we both love Adam Sandler movies. I don't know who wouldn't, but we do. And we both love kids and we were like people watching and we had just such a great time. And so, yeah, we made out a little bit at the end of the night. We like

closed down the place. They told us we had to leave because the gates were closing. Oh, wow oh wow okay shut down the food truck fest yeah i lost track of time i'm telling you we had so much fun i mean anything that i'm searching for in a man he had it i mean he was polite and cute sweet and funny he walked me to my car. We made out. I mean, I just, I thought he was great. He was like the perfect guy. Okay. So Mr. Perfect isn't calling you back now. And you do, I mean, what do you think happened? Well, he said that he really wanted to see me again. And, um, you know, that he, I, and he even texted me right after saying he can't wait until the next date. Oh, yeah. I've texted him three times and he hasn't responded.

Like nothing at all? Well, I don't I mean, I hope this isn't the reason. But at the end of the date, like I wonder if he's ghosting me because like I look in the car mirror and I saw that I had a huge piece of parsley in my teeth and we had been making out. I mean, surely it wasn't that. I mean, I hope not. I mean, if he's a real germaphobe or he's super grossed out by things in people's teeth, maybe.

I mean, people do have weird things. Once they see it, they're like, they're done. Maybe he's been in the shower since your date scrubbing himself off because he thought that was disgusting. Yeah, I mean, other than that, I just just i can't think why because it was pretty much a fairy tale okay all right well we'll see if we can figure it out for you then we'll play a song come back and call him and try to see why you're getting ghosted with your first day follow-up next right in the middle of your first date follow-up if you're just joining us samara is on the phone

and samara had a fairy tale date with a guy named JP. And JP's ghosting her now, and she has no idea why. They ended up going to some sort of food truck festival. She thought that was really cool because it was a different idea. And it showed that he put some effort into the date. He also showed up with flowers. And Samara said a lot of guys don't show up with flowers. Definitely a romantic dude.

And then at one point, he went the extra mile to be a super cute dude. And Samara was getting tired of holding the flowers. So he told Samara, when he first told you, I'm going to give these flowers to another girl. What did you think? Were you offended at first by that? Well, kind of.

I was like, what? You're going to give them to another girl? And then I saw what he meant. He gave them to a little girl. And that was very sweet. That is super cute. Yeah, that's super cute. Now he's not calling Samara back, and Samara has no idea why.

She thinks it might be because at the end of the date, after they were making out, she noticed that she had food stuck in her teeth. But it was, like, right there in the front where you can see it. Okay. All right, we'll see if we can figure it out. We're about to call him right now and see if we can find out why he's ghosting you and see if we can get you another date with JP. Here we go, I'm going to call him.

Hello? Hey, message to JP, please. Yeah, who is this? Hey, what's up, please. Yeah, who is this? Hey, what's up, JP? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. This is Alex. This is Christian Grace.

Now, this is Bennett. Okay, I've heard your show before. My friend talks about you guys sometimes, but I don't listen to it. Well, look, I'm calling you today. You sound like you're busy. Hopefully, you have a few minutes to talk to us because we do a segment on the show called the first date follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

And you recently ghosted somebody and they have no idea why. So they emailed us to see if we could find out from you why you're ghosting them. Do you know who it would be? I mean, I've only gone on a couple of dates recently, so I think I have an idea. Okay. Is it Samara? Yes.

You guessed it. It is Samara. I kind of figured, man. Man, like, I really don't know why she's confused about this all. You don't know why she's confused that you're ghosting her? Yeah, like, I'm kind of confused that she's confused. Like, I'm not calling her back. Do you want to know the answer?

Yeah. Hold on. She said the date was amazing. She said it was like a fairy tale. She said you were super sweet and that you even said something about seeing her again whenever you guys said goodbye. Yeah, the date was amazing. I was so excited and so looking forward to it until, like, the thing. And I'm just like.

What's the thing? All right. All right, fine. I'm not calling Samara back because her meathead boyfriend beat the out of me in the parking lot. Wait, what? Are you serious? Yeah, man. It's bullshit.

Like, I walked her to her car. It was so sweet. We made out. It was amazing and then what i was walking to my car some this like raging roid guy comes running down the street and he's screaming about me giving flowers to this to his girl and he said like stay the away from my girl and oh my gosh are you serious yeah he's calling me a pervert and like, like, before I knew it, he punches me in the face. And he starts, like, kicking the shit out of me.

Oh, my God. And he walked away like nothing happened. Damn. I thought I had a broken rib. So, yeah, I'm not interested in talking to Samara. But, like, yeah, no. No thank you for that. But are you okay?

Yeah, so sorry that happened. Yeah, I had to take two days off from work, man. My ribs are still bruised. I can't breathe that good. Did you call the cops? No, because, like, what are they going to do about it? They're not going to do nothing about it. I mean, they might arrest him.

I don't know. All I knew was I was not talking to Samara ever again. You know, she is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. So you might talk to her one more time right now real quick. Oh, no,

I am not interested in talking to her. No, wait, please. Can you, can you hear me out? Because I don't know

what you're talking about. I don't have a boyfriend. Is your ex crazy? No, I don't. I have no idea who that was. You have no idea.

No, JP, I don't. I have no idea who that was. You have no idea. No, JP, I don't. Are you still there? I promise you. Then tomorrow, who beat the shit out of me? No one just walks up to random strangers in the parking lot and just beats them up saying don't touch my girl. So what the fuck is that? I honestly don't know. I haven't

even had a boyfriend in years. I mean, what did this guy look like? Come on, you know what he looks like. He was big. No, I don't. And he was way stronger than me, if we're being honest. Well, that does sound scary, but I don't know who this guy was. This has nothing to do with me.

I don't have beef with anyone. So who else is going to walk up to me after I'm done making out with you and says, don't touch my girl, and then he was mad about the flowers. He was so angry, and I'm just like, you're the only person I've given flowers to, so what is going on right now? Look, I swear to God, I don't have a boyfriend. I don't know who beat you up. I'm really weirded out about this. I just can't believe it happened.

I don't know who that was. It's awful. I can't think who beat you up. I'm really weirded out about this. I just, I can't believe it happened. I don't know who that was. I just, it's awful. I just don't, I can't think who it was. Wait, wait, wait. I was not the only one you gave flowers to, remember? You also gave my flowers to that little girl, remember? Oh. What does that mean, though?

What are you saying? Well, maybe it was her dad. Maybe he was the crazy guy. Oh, my God. That was her dad maybe he was the crazy guy oh my god that was her dad and like that's why she was calling me a pervert oh yeah that makes sense you said he was calling you a pervert that would make more sense than an angry boyfriend if the dude if you gave flowers to his daughter to be not to be a nice guy and then obviously he must have thought something else, right? Oh, no. How old was the girl? She looked like 10,

don't you think? Oh, God. Oh, you definitely look like a total creeper then. Oh, no. Wow. Are you guys for real? Like, this is all

like that kind of a misunderstanding? Yeah, because I don't have a f***ing boyfriend. Whoa. And this is all kind of like a crazy misunderstanding. it was very crazy

this is insane i wonder if that dude like followed you for the from the time you gave you because you gave samara flowers samara actually thought that was really when we talked to samara earlier she thought that was really sweet that she was you know getting tired of holding the flowers that you brought for the date so you were like let me give them to another woman and you gave them to a little girl like how long from that point to the end of the date was it? I don't know. It was kind of like towards the end of the night. So just like, I don't know how, like I wasn't keeping track of time, but it was a long time. It was a long time. Come to think of it, Samara, I think there was a dude standing by the fence when I was walking you back to a car. Do you remember that guy being there? I do remember

somebody being there, yeah, but I didn't really pay attention. But I guess he must have followed you. Yeah, that's the dude. Oh. Oh, my God. What a psychopath. So he must have been waiting outside for when you guys left,

thinking that you were giving his daughter flowers like that. If I were you, I'd still be scared he was following. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not over this right now. You didn't deny it or anything? You're just, like, taking the I were you, I'd still be scared he was following me. Yeah, I'm not over this right now. You didn't deny it or anything? You're just taking the beating? Yeah, exactly. Because you were thinking that you were on a date with his girlfriend, not that.

So you're like, what? I'm sorry. You're crazy. I've never been beat up before, so I'm just very confused about what was happening in the moment. Oh, wow. What a bad miscommunication. So now that you know just very confused about what was happening in the moment. Oh, wow. Alright. What a bad miscommunication to have to deal with.

So now that you know Samara doesn't have a boyfriend and it's not the guy that beat you up and almost broke your rib, would you like to go on another date with Samara? We'll pay for it. Yeah, but Samara, I would love to go on a date with Samara, but don't expect any flowers.

The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show,

and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.