First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - How does this go from the best date of his life, to not getting a call back?

Episode Date: January 27, 2023

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".There's a guy on the phone who is not getting a call back after having one of the best dates of his life. Why isn't he getting a call back? Maybe it's because he did something he shouldn't do after having one of the best dates in his life! You will find out what we are talking about in this First Date Follow Up!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow up. Zayn is on the phone today for a first date follow up and Zayn isn't getting a call back from a date he went on

with Roseanne. And I think that they should definitely be together because Zane and Roseanne, Roseanne just goes together. That goes together perfectly. Blows right off the top. What's up, Zane? Hey, guys. What's up?

All good. Before we talk about your date with Roseanne and try to figure out why you're getting ghosted, how long has it been since you talked to Roseanne? Oh, man. OK, so the date was like a few days ago, I would say like four to five days ago. And I've been texting her and I actually called her once too, but it doesn't go straight to voicemail, but like she just lets it ring. And then I text her and she has like the settings where like, it's, I can see when she reads it. And so I thought at first,

maybe she's busy, you know, at work. Or I don't know, maybe she's, like, with family or something. But I sent another text, you know, two days later, and then that one just went, like, it didn't even tell me if she read it or not. So I'm assuming if she just didn't open the text or if she changed her settings. But I'm kind of, like, you know, wondering what happened. Yeah. Did the notification say read to either one of them? But I'm kind of like, you know, wondering what happened. Yeah. Did the notification say red to either one of them?

Yeah. The first two times that I text her, it said red. And so I called her that same night. You know, I didn't want to seem like, you know, weird or anything. But so I let a few hours pass. And that night I ended up giving her a call before I went to bed, like around 10. And it just rung. Like, so she didn't ignore my call. She just maybe didn't see it or or she's

ignoring it but doesn't want to let you straight up let you know she ignored it yeah or maybe she just has like you know the do not disturb feature so maybe she just didn't even see the notification because sometimes i put that on but who knows tell us a little bit about the date then yeah so it was an awesome date guys you know i went out with her we went to like a local bar and you know the kind of bar where you know you have an arcade you know delicious food you know they brew their drinks there so we had a few beers we played a bunch of arcade games and by the way she's really competitive so that was that was a lot of fun like we were constantly laughing you know i i feel like everything went really great you know i we have a lot in common you

know she likes to laugh you know she has a beautiful smile by the way and you know we kind of had this like good competition vibe going you know while playing and we were just kind of like talking about the most random things i wasn't shy i can tell she wasn't shy nothing was awkward she's outgoing she's really nice okay she's educated i mean she's stunning you know out of all the girls that i've you know been dating here and there she's the only one that i can't get off my mind you know i've been kind of going back to that date and wondering like okay why isn't she texting me back? Or should I even text her back? You know? So I've already texted her twice and I called her once. So I thought about you guys. I'm like, let me call them because

I mean, I don't want to tell my friends. I don't want to sound like a total creep or anything like that. So yeah, here I am. Pretty soon we'll find out if you made the right decision calling us so um why do you think she's ghosting you then is there any possibility anything in your mind that you think could be the problem you know what i there's only one thing that i could think about when the bill came i offered to pay of course you know so i take out my debit card and my card declined because i have a passcode like a security feature on my on my card where I have to actually go into the app and I have to manually unlock it so I was having such a great time that I forgot to do that and so the lady comes back and she said it in front of her

she's like you know sir you know your card. Do you have another card? And so I really quickly went onto the app and I unlocked it really quick and I asked the lady to run it again. And it, you know, everything was good after that. Okay.

Yeah. So maybe because you got your card declined, she's not calling you back. I mean, that's the only thing I can think of. All right. Which would suck

if that's the reason. Yeah. Yeah, it would. She didn't say anything, right? You said she was just on her phone acting like she didn't hear? No, she didn't say anything. I think she kind of joked like, do you want to play another game? And so we went

to play another game. But, I mean, it would suck if that's why. I mean, I hope not because man, I'm telling you, we had amazing chemistry. It's very rare when you go on a first date and it's like corny as it sounds, like love at first sight. Like that's how I feel. Okay, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

Play a song, come back, and then call her and get your first date follow-up next, okay? All right, thanks. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Zane is on the phone. And Zane is in love with Roseanne. Is it okay to say love, Zane? Yeah, it's okay. I mean, she's not listening or anything like that. Alright. You know, he really liked Roseanne.

They went out to a bar. They had a lot of fun. He said a lot of nice things about her, but she's been ghosting him now, and he doesn't know why. He thinks maybe the reason is because on the date, his card was declined. It was declined because he has a security feature on his phone that he has to unlock. He

forgot to do that and he thinks maybe that Roseanne thinks that Zane has terrible credit and never wants to see him again unless she's a bill collector and then she's collecting a bill from Zane. And that's the only thing you can think of, Zane, is that the credit card thing. There was nothing else awkward that happened? I mean, nothing that I can think of. I mean, I did go to the bathroom but, you know, itane, is that the credit card thing, there was nothing else awkward that happened? I mean, nothing

that I can think of. I mean, I did go to the bathroom, but, you know, it didn't take that long, but no, no, nothing really that I can think about, guys.

Maybe it's a deal breaker for her people who go to the bathroom. We'll find out right now, okay? We'll get her on the phone and see if we can figure it out. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Roseanne, please?

This is she, this? Hello, Roseanne. How are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. This is Victoria from The Jubal Show. This is Bennett from The Jubal Show. And Christian Gaisen from The Jubal Show.

Yeah, I know all of you guys. Is this a joke? Somebody who went on a date with you that you're ghosting and they want to know why you're ghosting them. I know what this is about. Yeah, it's a first date follow-up. So you know how that goes. If you go out on a date with someone and end up ghosting them,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. And do you have any idea who could want us to get a hold of you? I don't know if I feel super comfortable talking about this. I just would rather say this is just part of the past because I'm not really interested at all. Who do you think it is? Zane. Yes, his name is Zane, yeah.

The date was that bad where you don't even want to talk to us about it? I mean, you know, the date was great. It was really fun. He took me to a cool place, and we played games, and we were having, honestly, it was like kind of a made-in-the-movies kind of night.

That's what he said. He did he said he loved it he said it was probably the best date he's been on in a long time like he had a lot of nice things to say about it and about you yeah yeah i mean i mean it was why do you sound surprised that he would say that i guess it's because i i i'm thinking that because of the reason why i don't want to talk to him anymore. It's like because, you know, his phone like throughout the day was just binging or pinging or zinging all night long with Tinder notifications. Oh, you know, and I didn't say anything about it. And, you know, I understand it was the first day. And but I just would have thought

maybe he could have turned his notifications off like maybe during a date and it was just a distracting turn off I mean that just shows he's in high demand or it shows he's a player yeah but it got worse oh oh how well because after date, I was telling my ride or die about Zane. And crazy thing is Zane matched with her on Tinder after our date. Oh, what? And she wasn't making it up or trying to stir. I don't have one of those, you know, BFFs that's like trying to to start drama or anything so she actually took a screenshot of it and she sent it to me and i could see that it was after our date it was the night of our date like i you know obviously i didn't go

home with dane um we had a small small little kiss but he's matching with people and he DMs her and it's trying to go out with her after our date that same night. Oh, nice. Yes. That does not fly. And it's just like, really?

You're, this is such a great date. And, uh, and then, but you're still trying to go out with another girl after our amazing date. It's like, oh, no, dude, you are shady AF. Was it the fact that it was just another girl,

or is it the fact that it was your best friend? I mean, both. It doesn't matter. I'm glad it was my best friend. I am so glad it was my best friend because I know about it. Had it not been my best friend. I am so glad it was my best friend because I know about it. Had it not been my best friend, I would never know. So I'm really, really...

Being honest, Roseanne, also, I need to let you know that Zane is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. I don't. He's actually... Oh, God. Oh, God. Hi. Hey.

Yeah, so much for our great date you are kind of scummy i'm not saying take you know it's just a first date we had you don't have to delete your app but it's like it couldn't have been that magical if you're still tindering and and wait so your friend's name is michelle no it's shelly so did you do this with a girl named michelle too that night oh okay so i can see okay hold on hold on i can see where you're coming from and you have really great points to me not answering the question and i just want to let you know that that doesn't let me let me just explain That doesn't change the fact that I had a really good time and we had a really good time. You know, before somebody, before a guy settles down, he likes to keep his options open.

And it was our first date. But I'm sure that if you give me a second chance that I will be open to deleting the app so that I am not. You are a walking cliche. And I really, really advise you just you get some kind of get checked out, man. I gotta go. So things would have been different if my phone would have been off, you know, like, like, that's just because you saw it. But if you would have never seen it, you would have still been getting to know me, which I think you're still you're still this guy. And I'm so glad I know that you're this kind of guy that you can like have this amazing day. You couldn't have

been thinking about me too much and too hard because you're, you're swiping on all sorts of rando girls, like, you know, this Michelle, and you also messaged my friend and that's what I really saw, you know, so this is you at your core and it just, I don't know, it stinks. And I, I, I, you know, I'm going to unsubscribe from this drama. So. Well, I haven't asked if you want to go on a second date with him. Yeah. We're not even done yet.

Wait, hello. Did you, did you hang up? Hello? I did not hang. Nope. I didn't hang up on you. All right. So what was that word did you hang up? Hello? I did not hang, no, I didn't hang up on you. All right, so what was that word that you called me? A cliche?

Can you spell it? Why? Because I'm Googling what it means. Oh, my God. It means that I am not going out with you. So, bye. She hung up. Saying, yeah, be careful about who you DM after dates, man.

This just sucks. Like, damn, like, next time I'll know to just, you know. I'm not getting married or anything, but I thought we were. Damn, this just sucks. I'm like, I don't know. And her friend, she doesn't know this, but her friend actually like replied to me and she was like, hey, so I don't know if she knows that or not. I'll probably just hit up her friend now. Go for it. The Jubal Show on demand. in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in

some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests

to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences. Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network,

iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.