First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - How many women is this man ghosting?

Episode Date: December 7, 2022

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Debbie is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and Debbie is getting ghosted by a dude named Landon, and she has no idea why. Sad. Debbie, before we talk about your date and try to figure out why you're getting ghosted, how long has it been since you heard from Landon? Um, well, it's been about, uh, like two weeks.

Okay. How many times have you tried to reach out to him in those two weeks? Um, I sent him a couple of text messages, but I'm not, like, being really pushy about it. Okay. So, and he hasn't responded to you at all? No. No, he's not. Alright. So, and he hasn't responded to you at all? No, no, he's not. All right.

Well, tell us a little bit about the date then. Why, uh, tell us what happened and then tell us why you think you might be getting ghosted. Well, um, I don't know. Like I'm not, I'm a bit of a shy girl. Like I don't like being crowded public places. So we took the date to like a little bit of a more like quiet atmosphere to get coffee and that in his car at the park to kind of just people watch and talk and that was about it sounds pretty chill yeah sounds very chill did it seem like there were sparks flying everywhere yeah the conversation

was really good i mean i felt like we had good chemistry we We had a lot in common, like our majors in school were the same. And yeah. What was the major? Well, we both studied psychology and then also he was talking about marketing was something he was considering as a double major. He's already changing to it, I guess it was. Okay.

Actually, I double major in marketing as well in psychology so like mental health is something we've bonded over it's like something i find really important so did landon nice well that's good yeah landon's like really hot i mean he's like actually the tallest guy i've been out with in a while. Oh, yes. Okay. Yeah, you know, it's just like he's really hot, and I've had, like, a bunch of, you know, bad run of dates, and I think Landon was, like,

different, and I just, I hope to see it go somewhere. But now he's ghosting you, and you don't know why at all? No, I mean, I have, like, some inklings about it, but I'm not sure. Tell us. Yeah, what are have like some inklings about it but i'm not sure tell us yeah what are some of your inklings i think that maybe i felt well i just spilled some of my coffee in his car so i think that could have been a thing um i also felt like i i just i talked too much

okay so you say you're shy though so you think you talk too much okay so you say you're shy though so you think you talk too much yeah it's like a nervous tick i just kind of like over talk or over share i don't know it could be bad or just like he's out of my league physically i mean he's like super hot so okay well see i always say that to people whenever people say somebody's out of their league i'm like no they're not they went out with you so that exactly you're in the same league. They obviously, if they're not in your league or they don't feel like they're in your league, I don't even think that's a thing. But if they feel that way, then they're probably not even going to be out with you.

Yeah. I mean, he seems like super nice. So I don't know that he's like superficial in any way. I spilled coffee in my car about two weeks ago and it is the strongest smell ever. Like, how did he respond to you spilling coffee in his car? Like, his car was

somewhat cleaned up. It could have used a vacuuming or a wipe down, but I mean, I didn't make it any better. Alright. And did he seem like he was upset about it? Like, how was his attitude about it? He was, like, chill about it.

I mean, he had, like, spare napkins from, like, a drive-thru in his glove department, so I had, like, just taken out a few and, like, wiped it down myself. Or he, like, kind of was, like, trying to help me get it off, too, but it wasn't really something major that, like like I needed help with. Okay. All right. So seems like everything went good and he just hasn't talked to you at all since the date.

Yeah. No, he's totally ghosted me. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and then call him and find out why and see if you even want another date when you do find out why. And if you do, then we'll try to get you another date in your first day. Follow up next.

Okay. All right. Thanks guys. Ghosted by landon bummer their date was i mean you talk about crazy first dates action um they just met at a coffee shop and then sat in his car and drank coffee and people watch which actually sounds pretty fun yeah chill and she said the date went great he smelled good. They have a lot of common interests. She thought he was awesome, but now he's ghosting her. It's been two weeks and she doesn't know why.

She thinks it could be maybe that she talked too much because she was nervous or the fact that she spilled a little coffee in his car and he might love his car more than he'll ever love Debbie. Yeah. We're not sure. We're going to find out though. Debbie, you ready to call him and see if we can figure out why? Yeah, let's find out. All right, let's do it.

Here we go. I'm going to dial his phone number right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Landon? Yeah, this is him. Who is this? Landon. What's up, man? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name's Jubal. My name is Bennett. I'm Christian Gray Snow.

I know who you guys are. I'm Victoria. You do? We're all here. Yeah, no, I listen to you guys all the time. What's up? Okay, great. Well, that's exactly what you're supposed to do with a radio show is listen, so that's good. Have you ever heard us do a first-day follow-up before? Yeah, of course.

That's why we're calling you. We got an email about you from one of our listeners. Really? Yeah, really. Any idea who it could be? Yeah. No, man. I go on a lot of dates, so it's hard to pinpoint.

Hold on. Your voice, like so it's hard to pinpoint. Hold on. You sound really familiar. Yeah. I feel like we've called you before for something. Yeah, you have. Yeah, I'll be honest. You have. Really? What?

Oh, wow. I know that we've called you before. I knew it. Is this like a listener just wanting to get on air? Yeah, are you just trying to get on the air or something? No, no, no, no, no. Okay, guys, can I be honest with you? I would love it if you would be, yeah, please. All right, so I'm not trying to be on the air right now,

but this is kind of weird that this is happening again. I mean, yeah, you should probably play the lottery. What are the odds? You, but this is kind of weird that this is happening again. I mean, yeah. You should probably play the lottery. What are the odds? You must go on a lot of dates. Not only must you go on a lot of them, you obviously ghost them too. I don't think you're ghosting that many people. Yeah, I mean, it's very common to do that, so I'm just

doing what everyone else does. Kind of playing this game. I said that wrong. It's not so much of a game. It's just I don't really know the person that well to, like, spend a whole conversation of, like, oh, I'm not interested. It's like they get it. You know, they get it.

Well, this person didn't get it because they want to know what's up. Yeah. Yeah, that's true. Well, who is it then? I mean, I guess there probably could be a lot of options. It's somebody named Debbie. Okay, okay, yeah. Yeah, I know who you're talking about.

Yeah, she's a cutie. Why are you ghosting her? It has nothing to do with her personally. It's just, well, I guess it kind of does. I mean, I was trying to hook up that night, and she wasn't. And so, yeah, it was really, it really that simple, to be honest, guys. So you didn't call her back because she didn't put out? I mean, when you say it that way.

I mean, I just said it as it is. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, you could say that. And this is kind of weird, but I got to be more careful because this has happened to me before. And Landon, that's not my real name. What? So last time we called you, you weren't Landon? So you lie to the girls you date then about your name?

Yeah, yeah. Okay, I got it. You are an infomaniac, and you aggressively date to get laid and then move on. And you use different names to cover up your messiness, but you should probably consider other people's feelings in the long run. Okay, Christian, can you stop saying it that way? I can't, and I won't. What's your name then, Landon?

Don't worry about it. Honestly, I don't even remember the name I used last time. But if I like the girl, I'm going to give her my name. It's just that, you know, I have three or four dating profiles and, like, I don't remember, to be honest. But you're not even giving them a chance to, like, get to know them. Like, literally, you're just going on one date and after that one date, you're like, it's not going to work. I'm just going to ghost them. No, I gave them a chance.

It's that one date. I gave them that one date. Yeah, and Debbie, yeah, yeah, yeah. She was cute. Honestly, looking at her photos right now, I would talk to her again. I'm sure you would. You would, yeah. Well, she's on the phone listening.

You probably already know that because you're now a professional at the first date follow-up. Debbie? Actually, I forgot about that, but yeah. Yeah. Like, what the... What? Who are you even? I, like, I'm

so pissed at this. Like, what a waste of time. This is this going nowhere. And then you just like had me thinking all along, like I was the problem. Like you're clearly the problem in this situation. Yeah, no, I hear that. I hear that. And, and I'm sorry that, you know, I made you feel that way. Um, I know that like, you know that if you gave me another date, we could probably talk about it more and see where it goes. You know what I mean?

No. No way. You just copped using a fake name. This is the second time we've called you for a first date follow-up. You have multiple dating profiles, and you're trying to get Debbie to go back out with you. You essentially lied to her

the entire time you were on a date. You didn't even tell her your real name. She's obviously interested if she got you guys to call me, so I'm showing interest as well. That's all I'm saying. There's a difference in interest and getting closure. Yeah. Yeah, like what the, I don't even know what to believe.

Like you told me you went to school for marketing. Are you even in school right now does like online training count oh my god that's the biggest fraud wow no i cannot go on a second date with a psychopath sorry good. Good for you, girl. Psychopath. I don't know why you think I'm a psychopath. This is the 21st century dating world. So I don't know what you're talking about. Yeah, no, you can go on dates with people and like have a date and try again without being like a total fraud. Okay. I hear you. So, so you want to go on another date again? Is that what I'm hearing?

No, I definitely don't want to go on another date. And I think we've definitely taken up enough of these people's time. Let me ask officially, Debbie, would you like to go on another date with Landon? We'll pay for it. Or whoever he wants to be that night. No, no. He can find someone else to ask one and done again again so no thanks guys thanks all right well peace you know if you ever board on a friday night you know what

dude let it go she's not gonna go out with you my god you'll see all right okay well maybe we maybe we'll call you next week Landon I'm sure on another one of these or something on your third first day following see you next time

bye alright he hung up that's crazy I want to find the one that he was in before find out what name he used then

I just pathological liar alert that's all I know Debbie yeah guys yeah well there you go that's your answer you used I just, pathological liar alert is all I know. Debbie? Yeah, guys. Yeah, well, there you go. That's your answer.

I don't know what he is. Yo, you dodged a bullet there, girl. Block him on everything. Yeah, well, I guess if he hits me up again, I'll definitely reach back out to you guys and let you know. Thank you. I'd love to talk to him again. The Jubal Show on demand.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to the hottest party in professional sports.

I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party, your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club. Welcome to the Party with Tisha Allen is an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Welcome to the Party, that's P-A-R-T-E-E, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.