First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Is he too much of a party boy for a second date?

Episode Date: May 22, 2023

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Amir is on the phone today fro a First Date Follow Up and he is getting ghosted by a girl named Celest. It has been a little over a week since their date and now he wants to know why he is getting ghosted!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow-up. Amir is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Celeste. What's up, Amir? Oh, my God.

Thank you for taking my call because I am so confused right now, bro. I have no idea what's going on with this girl. Oh, my God. Thank you for taking my call because I am so confused right now, bro. I have no idea what's going on with this girl. Oh, my God. Thank you for getting ghosted. Otherwise, we wouldn't have content right now. I appreciate it. I mean, yeah, I guess it's a win-win, sort of. Hopefully, we can help you out.

How long has it been since you heard from Celeste? Like a little over a week or so, and that's what's so confusing. So here's the thing. We had a great date. She told me she likes margaritas so i knew there was like some little mexican restaurant next to where i live so i was like let's go over there uh we start you know having some drinks there um it's like it turns into like karaoke at 8 p.m i guess i did not know I had no idea but I'm not deterred by that either but like I didn't want to leave you know we were having a good time and like in the day I did say that I was the lead

singer in a band in high school and you know I had to kind of back that up so I did karaoke and I went for it dude I did Bohemian Rhapsody I hit those notes I was like like I went for it I was pretty torn up and she liked it she laughed we had a good time she ended up doing karaoke with me it was cute like we did um Summer Nights uh by Grease or the musical Grease or whatever you know, I love that song. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was really cute. I mean, I don't know the words, but I had a good time. Victoria's going, you know the song goes,

Summer lovin' happy, oh. Summer lovin' happy. So fat that one. Strongly. Yeah. Okay. You can hum it with confidence, though. It's a pretty good song.

It pops, you know. But, I mean, that's what I'm saying. We just had fun. We just had drinks. We did karaoke. And, you know. But, I mean, that's what I'm saying. We just had fun. We just had drinks. We did karaoke. And, you know, at the end, I was a complete gentleman. I called her an Uber. I kissed her on the cheek.

And, yeah, she texted me when she got home. It was a nice text. It had a kissy emoji at the end of it. I mean, a kissy emoji. And now I can't even get a text back. So, I don't even know. I mean, that sounds like quite the adventure. What a fun it. I mean, a kiss emoji. And now I can't even get a text back. So I don't even know. I mean, that sounds like quite the adventure. What a fun date. I know. Yeah, that sounds like a lot of fun.

Yeah, but I'm racking my brain of what I did wrong. All I can think of really is my Uber ratings a little low because my friend threw up one time in the car. But that's really it. Did you tell her about the uber rating

so maybe i don't know maybe the uber driver told her like that would be a little bit of a flag i mean if i'm being honest the uber rating would not determine the fact that you called me an uber would give you points in my my opinion yeah victoria's easily um impressed how did she seem though like was she having as much fun as you How did she seem, though? Like, was she having as much fun as you were? Did she seem like she was into you? But that's the thing. Okay, not only did she text me and send me, like, with the kissy emojis and stuff, like, the whole date was nice.

Like, she was super playful. Like, when we got food at the restaurant, like, she actually got a meal. Like, she wasn't, like, self-conscious or, like, anything. And, like, I don't know. She's know she's super smart and god she's beautiful and like she was just a really fun time like i don't see like how we didn't vibe in any sort of way like i'm just really having a tough time thinking of how it went wrong she's got that energy he's like so excited yeah yeah you really liked her, huh? Dude, it can't get out of my head, dude.

I really don't know what happened. Okay, well, definitely want to help you out, man. You know, you need a karaoke partner for life, I would say. I mean, you need a karaoke partner for life no matter what. If it's Celeste, I don't know, but we'll find out. There's a Grease 2. We got to learn the songs from that one.

You got a lot of songs. Maybe all this future planning. I don't know. All right, man. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and find out why you're getting ghosted next. OK. Awesome. Thanks.

Yeah, man. You should first follow up after this. Hey, Amir. Yeah. Can you sing a little Summer Lovin' right now before we do the first date follow up? Oh, man. The one song I said I didn't know. Okay.

Oh, wait. Sorry. Bohemian Rhapsody. Oh, see, that song's a lot longer also than I thought initially going into it. Karaoke, you kind of only remember like one or two bridges. Yeah. And then you just go in and you're like, oh, that Galileo stuff isn't until like four and a half minutes in. Give us a Galileo then, Amir.

Galileo! I was belting it. If you missed it a few minutes ago, Amir was going for it. He is getting ghosted by Celeste. We're about to call her and find out why and hopefully get him another date. Real quick to refresh everybody's memory, Amir, tell everybody about your date with Celeste. Yeah, we went to a nice little restaurant down the street they had a karaoke night it was it was an awesome date dude like we were having a ton of drinks we were having a lot of good laughs we did karaoke together we got some dinner called her an uber

still racking my brain trying to think of where it went wrong I'm still thinking that uh my friend Steve throwing up in the uber three years ago really scared me over with that rating. But other than that, I don't know. It was a good time, man. Okay. Well, dollar phone number right now. See if we can figure it out and hopefully get you another date. You ready? Hell yeah. Let's do it. Hell yeah. Let's go. Okay, here we go. I'm going to call it right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Celeste, please?

Yes, is it Celeste? Celeste, what's up? How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Celeste. My name is Nina. I'm here, too. Hi, I'm Victoria.

Hi. Hi. It's an awkward party. It's a party. So there's three people on the phone with you right now. too. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. It's an awkward party. It's a party. So there's three people on the phone with you right now. Hi. Hi, everyone. Okay. We do a segment on our show called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone

and end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. So we got an email about you from Amir. Oh, okay. And he said a lot of really nice things but he's wondering why you haven't called him back and why you're ghosting him after your date oh well um you know honestly we just got too drunk you know i i love margaritas, but, like, I don't love being wasted. And I feel like Amir is too much of a party boy for me. You know?

Yeah, like, after we had margaritas and honey started ordering Long Island iced teas. Like, I don't even know who drinks Long Island iced teas. I did when I was 21. Yeah. Yeah. Last time I drank Long Island iced teas, it was a bad night. It's always a bad night. Honestly, we really did have fun, but like, I just don't remember most of the night because of all the shots that I took with him.

And I was so hung over the next day and that's just kind of not how I roll. So like, I don't know. Okay. So you just decided not to reach back out to him because you don't want to get wasted again. I mean, yeah. I just feel like he's moved a little fast for me, you know, with the partying. It's just, you know, not my jam.

Party, party! Yeah! Did that! I've been that guy a lot. Yes, you have. Yes, I have. Nina knows. I have taken care of you.

Nina has. I've had girlfriends who have had to take care of me, and they did not dig it's not awesome yeah they didn't think it was sexy i was like what are you talking about i peed all over myself last night in the car you also weren't like really good and easy going with anything you'd always put up a fight yeah so not the best example anyway um celeste is it a thing where maybe you both could i mean you just see it as you guys wouldn't work? I just, yeah, I just don't think it's going to work. Like, it's just not my vibe. And, like, honestly, he's really great, and he's really attractive. And, like, he has a really good voice, which is surprising.

But, like, I just feel like, I don't know, we're not going to be compatible. Well, thanks for being honest. Yeah. Well, yeah, yeah sorry that's all right i'll be honest with you now amir is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh oh wow this is sorry this is awkward yeah hey super awkward for me too actually so uh damn yeah i don't know i thought i thought we were having a good time maybe i needed a little too much liquid courage or whatever because uh like it was the first date or whatever but like

yeah i don't know that's how i roll i like to get down okay so does that change your mind amir that you feel like she just won't be able to keep up with you or are you still into it i think it's pretty lame reason to not even like text me back like it's not like i intentionally got like too drunk or anything i thought we were just both having a good time you know good spirits whatever but like but like at the end of the day like i guess not because that was just a whack answer so it's like i don't know if there's any like party girls out there right now looking for a party boy like Paul May. You're like, that's what's up.

Victoria just perked up. Sorry. I guess you can't get upset. This is just a bunch of honesty just thrown around right now. Celeste, do you feel better about your decision? I mean, yeah, I feel fine about my choices. All right. All right.

All right. But be honest. Was I a good singer for real, though?'t i crush bohemian rhapsody be honest with everybody right now please i'm being honest you really did like i was not we're all being honest so does that mean you'll go out with them again so let's just let's would you like to go on another date with amir we'll pay for it. I mean, you do sound impressed. I mean, he's a great singer, but, like, I just don't think so. I'm so sorry.

I just don't think so. It's just, you know, I just can't keep up. And, like, it's just not my vibe. You know, though, I do have a friend, Jessica, who like is a total party girl. Like she can, you know, drink me under the table. Like she's that's her total vibe. And I think she'll totally appreciate the Bohemian Rhapsody. And like, if you want her number, I will give you her number.

That's funny. Jessica's like, cool, I'll take your sloppy seconds so no date with celeste amir but would you like to meet jessica i mean sure you'll still pay for it if you guys go out oh then hell yeah dude that sounds awesome let's go well congratulations amir you sort of got a second date yeah for real yeah I feel good yeah this is a victory after all you know what I got told I was a good singer today and I ended up

getting a date with a non fuddy duddy so I think this is going to be a win win you probably should be careful before you get that girl's number you better be nice to me because I have the phone number. I have the power here.

I was just kidding. I was just kidding around. We're having a good time. We're all best friends. Okay. Okay. Amir, let us know how the date with Jessica goes. Good luck.

If you get a date. Absolutely. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.

We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and In Your Ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors, it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now. Plus, you'll get special content just for podcast listeners, like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF. And me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives

dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.