First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Is Joseph getting ghosted because of his relationship with his sister?

Episode Date: September 22, 2023

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and he's getting ghosted by Mia so we're going to see if we can find out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still wants one but first, Joseph, how long has it been since you heard from Mia? Well, I mean, it's been a couple weeks now and i'm getting kind of worried you're getting worried is there a reason why you feel worried like about her or about how she's ghosting you mostly it's about like how she's ghosting me it's it's been a little while and it went so well this was one of the best days i've ever had it seemed so promising

we actually we had we were settled uh we were set up for dinner in a movie and we were talking for so long at dinner that we ended up missing the movie like that was great you know yeah you missed the whole movie well no i mean we were able to get in it's just it's been it we ended up uh missing the the opening so it was just it felt really good you know talking to her now tell us more about it what did you guys talk about why you know do you feel like it was so great oh well i mean uh we went to a pizza place because she had said in a previous conversation how much she loved pizza and i was like oh great this is kind of casual but also kind of like uh you know sort of a dinner so a little more than just like coffee it was great we ended up talking about our careers

you know our families uh we seem to be on the same wavelength you know actually we both mentioned that we wanted to check out a museum that we had been looking at and maybe we could do that sometime and I was like oh good okay so like second date right there it's kind of built into it i just felt really promising did anything happen on the date where it's kind of like an obvious sign of why she's not on you back uh i've got i'm not gonna lie i've got an idea of what might have happened Uh, see, uh, well, we were, uh, while we were out, uh, I saw my sister and, you know, my, my, my sister, uh, is married and I go over to dinner with her and her family every once in a while. So I can see my nieces and nephews. about how I probably shouldn't talk about my love life, you know, around like the kids right now, you know, just until things get kind of settled. Because that way, you know, it'd be kind of awkward for them.

And when, you know, I saw it out, I was like, oh, no, this is kind of awkward. This is kind of weird. How do I act in this situation? I wouldn't be surprised if that was a little confusing. Wait, so you didn't talk to your sister? No, no. i just was like oh god what do i what do i do here and it probably it probably kind of upset how i how i spoke to to me as well did you tell me that it was your sister who was there or that you knew each other or anything like that no i was afraid it was going to make things even more awkward.

I was like, oh God, if I just kind of play this off, let's not even make a thing out of it. It's one of those, the bigger the thing, the more weird it gets. I'm not going to lie, I'm not sure I did a great job at that. Okay. It sounds like it was kind of weird. Yeah, it sounds awkward.

Yeah. Alright, well, we'll see if we can figure it out. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay, thanks. All right, we'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next.

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Online at advocateslaw.com. We're in the middle of the First Date Follow-Up, and if you're just joining us, Joseph is on the phone. He's been getting ghosted for like two weeks now and doesn't know why, so we're about to call the girl that he went out with. Her name is Mia, and see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date.

But before we do that, Joseph, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mia? Sure. Mia and I had a great time. We went to a pizza place. We talked about setting up a second date at a museum. Uh, we actually were talking for so long. We almost missed the movie. Uh, I'm not sure why she hasn't gotten back to me after like a couple of weeks. I'm a little worried that it's cause I was a little awkward when I saw my sister out, but I'm not sure. Okay, well, we'll give her a call right now and ask her why she's ghosting you and see if she'll tell us and then maybe

get you another date. You ready? Alright, let's go. Alright, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mia, please? This is her. Hey, Mia, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Mia. The show's here, too. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh. Hi. Hi. How show's here, too. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh. Hi. Hi.

How are you doing today? Good. Okay, so what's the show? It's a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. We do a segment on our show called The First Day of Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them they can get they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them and we got an email about you from joseph oh oh oh yeah yeah

yeah yeah i definitely went out with a guy named joseph okay great well joseph said you you've been ghosting him for like two weeks now, and he wants to know why. He thought things went really well, and he liked you a lot. Well, it actually did start off really well. We went and had pizza, and we had a lot of things in common. We were laughing. We were even planning on going to a museum for the next date but then we went to the movies and he is clearly not over his ex because we saw his ex there and he was acting really weird he showed no affection to me

it was very awkward and then after the movies we rushed out of there and so that is why because he's not over his ex how do you know that was his ex did he say that he didn't say that but it was like he looked over at her he was acting really strange it just it felt like it was his ex I mean you kind of just know that's his ex, you know? It was awkward because he like stopped touching me. He stopped. I mean, who else would it be, you know? Could it be like his sister or something? Well, why would

his sister care if he was touching me? That is a very fair point. But sometimes what we think is happening isn't always happening. Possibly. I mean what was that his sister i don't know let's ask him because joseph is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh my god okay oh wow hi no yeah you were acting really weird with that girl it definitely felt like that was your ex you had your hand on my lap and then when you saw her you took your hand off and it was just

very distant it was very awkward yeah believe it or not that actually is my sister. That's your sister. Yes. We have an agreement that I don't talk about my ongoing romantic relationships for a little while here. Definitely not around my nieces and nephews. And it's kind of that. A couple of them are like, oh, God, it's, like, not time. I don't really want to, like, introduce you to family on a first date. I was so sorry. I did not handle that well.

Yeah, that was, why didn't you just say something or text me afterwards? I mean, we rushed out of the movie theater what yeah Joseph you didn't play this right we just rushed it out and then like it just felt very awkward I mean if you kind of explain which is kind of weird that you don't want to talk about your relationship but I I guess sometimes you don't I mean it was our first date I got I guess I got that like you don't, I mean, it was our first date. I got, I guess I got that. Like, you don't want to, you know, introduce to the family, but that was really weird. You didn't say hi to her or, or even say anything to me. Did she say anything? Yeah. Right. Yeah. No, I just kind of wanted to leave the situation. I was really thinking, I was like, oh, good. I'll just kind of get out of here. I'll play it off cool.

I very clearly did a terrible job of that. Yeah, you did. I mean, yeah, it was very comfortable. And then all of a sudden you saw her and it was night and day. You were affectionate and then nothing um joseph you kind of turned into a red flag i'm really sorry you're so sweet and i really wanted this to work out for you but you can't just run away from a situation that's uncomfortable every time something's not cool for you you can't just go oh let's go oh my god that's funny that was so unprepared for it

sure i know some habits but i mean on a first date meeting family i can you just say it's your I mean, that was so unprepared for it. Sure, I know. Stuff happens, but... I mean, on a first date, meeting family, I can... You just say it's your friend. But yeah, your sister's obviously not going to be... But listen, if you're doing it in front of kids, you're just like, hey, this is my friend Bob. Oh. You know? Well, Joseph, you could have done that.

Next time. The next time. Yeah. Next time. Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation happen with Joseph? Because I think there might be many. He seems like an awkward... I mean that in a good way. Yeah. Next time. Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation happen with Joseph? Because I think there might be many. He seems like an awkward, like, I mean that in a good way. It's endearing.

Yeah. Would you like to go on another date with Joseph? We'll pay for it. How many siblings does he have? How many times will this happen? Joseph? If Zoe said it to his sister, I actually feel a lot better. It was a little weird.

You should tell me next time. But yeah, I actually had a really good time at the pizza place. And I would like to see that museum still. So I totally want to go out with you. Okay. So you run into his ex-girlfriend at the museum. Okay. Sorry, just kidding.

I wish you the best. Jubal's first day follow-up. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money. Workers have been feeling

the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?

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