First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Is Layla cheating on Ryan?

Episode Date: April 18, 2025

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You've been trying to hit her up? Yeah, I've been trying to get a whole lay left for a bit. We ended up spending a whole day together and I've just been trying to call and text without being overwhelming or anything like that. But I just can't seem to get any sort of response from her. Well, tell us about the date.

Okay, yeah, so the date was great. Like we planned to meet for lunch, but we ended up spending the whole day together, which I didn't really expect, like just like a quick little coffee at this cafe. But it just like kept, I don't know, like the date just kept going on and on and on. And so after that, we wouldn and like grabbed a couple of bikes and went for this ride by

the water and stopped and grabbed some snacks and, you know, while we're grabbing snacks and just like chatting and everything, you know, we're by the water. And she's just like, we started talking about seafood for some reason. And it's so weird because I don't like seafood. And she goes, oh, I don't like seafood. And she goes, Oh, I don't like seafood either. Why would anybody want to surf and turf and you can just do, you know, double turf? I thought it was so funny. It was just like, tell me about herself and her family and all this stuff. And like, I was like, well, you know, like, let's keep the

conversation going. Let's go grab some steaks. We'll go back to my place and just like cook some dinner together. And she's like, well, if we're getting ste. Let's go grab some steaks. We'll go back to my place and just like cook some dinner together." And she's like, well, if we're getting steaks, we should grab some wine. Like, okay. And that's what I'm saying. Like the whole day you just ended up building on each other. She was so cool. And I don't know, I'm not much of a Netflix and chill guy.

And so when she came over, she was like, hey, if you have Uno, I was like, yeah, do you play cards? And she's like, of course I play cards. And it turns out she's like really competitive. And so we played, like we ended up playing UNO and just like putting music on the speaker back and forth, taking turns and like felt, I know that sounds super cheesy, but it felt like a scene out of a movie.

Really fun. Yeah, it does sound fun. Did anything else happen? Ask your police. Like she spent the night. OK, but I will not like listen. We've been drinking. I don't want you driving

until you're like comfortable, but like you can take my bed and like sleep out on the couch. She's like, I don't know. I didn't want the night to end. This is a really good day. So what could have gone wrong? I don't know.

Like I'm worried I came on too strong because like I really hadn't felt like I connected with somebody like this. And she was just like, yeah, I know people go the term adventurous around a lot. But the fact that she was just like kept adding onto the date, it was just so fun. And like I was just I was gung ho. I was like, yeah, let's go for it. And then ho. I was like, yeah, let's go for it. And then I would suggest something like, yeah, let's go for it. So I know she was into it too.

I just can't figure out why. Like, I mean, I kind of have a theory. I just, I don't want it to be true. What is it? Okay. So like when I invited her back to my place, like it wasn't actually my place. I was house hitting for my boss. Oh, okay.

You think she knows that? No, no, she does not know that. There's no way. I, cause I just kind of like played it off. I know I wasn't trying to lie. Like I'm not, I'm not that kind of person. I was just like caught up in the moment. Like she's like talking about stakes and like,

well, let's go back. I was like, oh yeah, let's go back. And she was like, just, you know, I'll hop in the car with you. And I just kind of went on like, you know, auto mode. And I don't know, I'm just like, I didn't say it was my place or anything like that. Like I know my way around the kitchen.

I've like stayed in my boss's place before, but like, I don't know, like I'm worried. I don't know, maybe she saw like the mail or something with, and didn't have my name on it. I don't know, maybe she saw like the mail or something with, and didn't have my name on it. I don't know. So you just didn't say anything. Was it like a mansion? Yeah.

Okay. All right. Yeah, it's a really nice house. It's a really nice house. And like, I'm in a condo and I just, like the difference is so staggering. It's just, I just feel awful. Like I and I just like the difference is so Staggering it's just I just feel awful. Like I wish I just told her like hey, I'm house-sitting I don't know why I didn't say that. Yeah, right. Well, let's see if that is the reason We'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's go sing you and maybe get to

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Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Ryan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Layla, so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why and maybe get him a second date. But first, Ryan, before we do that, why don't you recap your date real quick? Okay, yeah.

So Layla and I went out. It was supposed to be a short date. It turned out to be like a whole day affair and I invited her back to my place to cook some dinner. She had us spending the night, but I was house-sitting at my boss's place. It wasn't actually my place. And you think she might've found that out?

I definitely, that's all I can think about. All right, are you ready for us to call her? Woo, yeah, yeah. Okay. Okay. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Layla please? This is Layla. How are you?

This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi Layla. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi, and my name is Jubal. How are you? I'm okay.

You listen to the show before? Uh oh. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay.

I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm Victoria. Hi, and my name is Jubal. How are you? You listen to the show before No, I'm so sorry. Did I win something? Well, I don't know kind of kind of depends on how you see it I guess we're calling you today because we do a segment that's called the first date follow-up That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them That person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

Oh, that's awful. And you got an email about you from somebody. About me? Yes, are you ghosting anybody? Oh my God, no. No, I've been ghosted. That's awful. I would never.

Okay. I mean, I've been out on like a few dates. No, I mean, and you haven't ghosted them. No, I mean, literally I've gone out on like two dates. There was like one really casual and then this other guy who I actually kind of dug, but yeah. Okay. Well, the email we got about you came from somebody named Ryan. Yeah, no, I know Ryan. I'm not. Does he think I'm ghosting him? Yes.

You're not ghosting him? No. Well, first of all, our date was like three days ago. And no, my phone died and then I had brought it to Apple. I actually just got it back today. OK, does he really think I'm ghosting him? Oh, my God. Wait, wait, wait, wait. So you're not you're not ghosting me then? Yeah.

Ryan is actually on the phone, wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh, Ryan. Hi. Hello. Hi. Yeah, hi. You're not ghosting me. Okay, great.

No, wait, why would you think that? I had a really good time with you. We went out just like a few days ago. I would never, first of all, I would never do that because I've been ghosted, but why would you think that I would ghost you? I had a really good time with you. I'm so happy that like I had a good time too.

I really did. I thought we connected and I just, I hope, I just hope I'm not coming on that like a crazy person been too strong. I just, you know, I was worried that I hadn't heard back from you. It felt like a week. No, it was three days ago and my phone died. Like no, I mean, it's not, this is weird, but we had a really good date.

That was a great date. That was a great date, right? The stakes were good. No, it was. They a really good date. That was a great date. That was a great date, right? The stakes were good. Yeah, no it was. They were really good, I actually was impressed. Yeah, me too. And you're a great Uno player. Like who would've thought?

Thank you. I thought that was a game of luck, but apparently it is not. You're very good at that. Thank you, I think so too. Okay good, I'm just so relieved that you're not ghosting me then. I've been in my head about that. No, I would never.

No, no. I'm so sorry. My phone died and... No, it's fine. I just, I was so worried because, you know, I was, I was actually house sitting for my boss and I just really thought that like, I don't know, maybe you thought that I was just trying to like squatter or lie about, you know, my, my, my, my, my situation. Wait, what do you mean?

How sitting that, that wasn't my house. That was my, that was my boss. No, no, no. And that was, that's like when, when you were asking about the car and everything, I was just like, oh yeah. I'm trying to like change the subject. That's wait, but Brian, that's like when you were asking about the car and everything I was just like oh, yeah I'm trying to like change the subject that's wait for Ryan. That's not my house Wait, hold on a second. You literally were talking about your couch You were like I bought this because I went to Tuscany with my sister

Well, and I just was inspired you literally were talking about sister and I just was inspired you literally were talking about okay oh no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no okay hold on hold on I mean yes wait now I feel like you're messing with me technically I don't live there you're right no but what's up with the cash like no but I did go to Italy and I got the cash that I want to have someday you see that sounds like you're trying to act like that's your place right

yeah yeah no I that's your place, right? Yeah. Yeah, no, that's weird. No, no, I'm not trying to lead you on. Like I'm not trying to lead you on. It is such a cool place. No, no, that's just you blatantly lying. No, I'm not. It's not a lie. It's not a lie.

It's not a lie. It's a technicality, right? But you don't live there. But no, but I do right now. You literally were talking about a cow. No, I do right now. No, that's. No, please.

I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I've just never pulled a gun. I know, but I do right now. Literally we're talking about a cow. No, I do right now. That's no.

Please. I've just never pulled a girl like you before. It's just, I could tell you like, this was somebody. Wait, Ryan. No, I'm sorry. No, gosh. OK, listen, I had a really good time with you. I enjoyed our date. I liked you.

It was a great date. But now I'm actually not sure. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't.

It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't.

It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. You blatantly lied about where we were. You would talk about the couch, the lamp. You even talked about the painting. Oh my God, no. Sorry. Red, black. Nope. Nope.

Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. I'll ask you now. Layla, would you like to go on another date with Ryan? We will pay for it.

Ryan, look, I had a good time with you. I think that you're nice, but clearly you've got some stuff that you need to work through But no, no, thank you. That's um, are you sure? Dude I could never trust you you literally were talking about items in a house that you don't live in so who are you? I don't even know because that's what I want to provide like I want to be able to get that and provide it for you Like and you're not even like gonna give me the chance. No Ryan. I mean, I don't want to give up No, I don't want to give able to get that and provide it for you. Like, and you're not even like going to give me the chance. Ryan, I mean, I want to give up. No, I don't want to give up. No, listen, listen, listen, listen.

I don't want to give up. I'm sorry. That's what I but I am the guy that you lie. But that's weird. You know, you're not you lately. Why? No, please, please, please, please. Just like begging, please go out with me just like one more time.

And I just want to make you an even better. Please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, I gotta go. This is ridiculous. But you're so hot. Oh god. Okay, thank you. I have to go. Jubal's First Date Follow-up We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices

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