First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Is she getting ghosted because she smelt like pee?

Episode Date: September 30, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Is a first date too soon to ask if someone is in to pee? This First Date Follow Up is a lot more innocent that it sounds and not what you think, but one of our listeners is getting ghosted after going on a First Date and it might be because of pee!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow-up. Tori is on the phone for a first date follow-up today, and she's not getting a call back from Kevin. Bummer.

And we're going to try to find out why and then get him on the phone and straight up ask Kevin, what's going on, Kev? And see if he tells us why he's not calling Tori back because she's tired of being ghosted by Kevin. Aren't you, Tori? Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. Tori, thank you for your email before we get into your

date with kevin and try to figure out why kevin isn't calling you back i'm not gonna stop saying his name like that until we get him on the phone and we find out if he's likable or not and if it's a good reason because i have your back tori how long has it been since your date with kevin it's been a couple weeks a couple weeks all right huh there's quite some time it is that's a long time a couple weeks since your date. And how many times since your date have you reached out to Kevin? I'm embarrassed to say. Like, I followed up, like, the next day and didn't hear anything.

So I followed up the next day, like, when I saw something funny. And then, like, a week passed and I reached out again. And then, like, a week passed, and I reached out again. And then, like, just now, once it hit two weeks, I was, you know, did a final. So, like, four times. Oh, wow. Oh, four times. Okay. And Kevin hasn't responded to you at all, huh?

No, which is, like, shocking to me because I felt like it went great. Okay. Well, tell us a little bit about the date, and then we'll see if we can figure it out before we give old Kevin a call. Well, it, like it started pretty great. I mean, we talked online for a couple of weeks, like, you know, got to know each other. And then we met for coffee. And part of the reason I was so surprised you didn't follow up was that we went from coffee to dinner and drinks. And so, like, it was a long day.

Was it supposed to just start just be coffee and then it turned into more? Yeah. Like it was just supposed to be coffee. And I think like we just really quickly were hitting it off and like talking about all kinds of things. And it was like, Hey, you know, we're hungry. Why don't we go get like drinks and dinner? That's a good sign.

That's a good sign when you show up to like, you know, just to have coffee. And then all of a sudden you're on a six hour date with somebody. So tell us about, you know, the rest of the evening with. Kevin! I don't know.

I mean, we talked about my cats and like my job and we like covered all the bases. It's just so strange. He would definitely be someone I'd want to bring home to my parents. Okay. So you liked. Kevin! You did, huh?

That's the home alone mom. Now I'm just searching the internet for Kevin's while you're talking. And I think I heard you saying it was a nice date and you want to bring him home to mom. But Kevin isn't calling you back. So what do you think happened? Is there anything you can think of? My only thought is like because I did talk

about my cats a lot and like he did ask about them a lot. Like I'm wondering if he's more of a dog person and he's like worried that I have a couple cats. I mean, I don't think

that's a reason to not call or text somebody back. He might be allergic. Well, why didn't he say that? Severely allergic. Didn't he say that? You wouldn't have to. Yeah.

He probably was just sneezing and his eyes were swollen shut. Like Alex is allergic to cats. Very. that you wouldn't have to. Yeah. Yeah. He probably was just sneezing. His eyes were swollen shut. Like Alex is allergic to cats. Very. If you went on a date with someone who had a lot of cats or who had cats. The cat wouldn't even have to be there. Yeah. No.

Really? Oh, wow. Was Kevin sneezing or anything on your date? Was Kevin? No. And I mean, that's a good point. Like I hadn't considered he could be allergic, but again, like there's clearly a lot he's not telling me that it seems like it went so well and I'm now getting nothing. Yeah.

Also, the only other thing I'm thinking, my phone was, like, ringing a lot. And I kept just immediately, you know, shutting it down. And eventually I put it, like, in my purse. But I noticed when my phone was ringing a lot, he would look down a lot and I was just sending it straight to voicemail. So you think he thought it looked shady? Yeah. So work kept calling and I was like panicking, like stop.

And so I was kind of making a face and I just kept sending the voicemail. And eventually I just told him like, sorry, it's work. But he kind of made a face like he didn't believe me. Oh, right. Maybe, maybe because you were panicking. He thought you looked guilty. He's like, why are you so nervous? Yeah.

Yeah, that would be an easy thing to think that, like, the other person is lying about. Yeah. I mean, I don't know. Maybe he thinks, like, I have a boyfriend who was trying to reach me, and I'm on a date with him, and I'm just, like, racking my brain for whatever could have been the issue. Yeah. I mean, we all do that. If we've been on a date and someone's ghosting us, we start thinking about everything, like, maybe they don't like my socks.

What do they do? It's got to be my socks. I had a hole in my sock, but I didn't even take out my shoes, but they know that I had that hole. That's what it had to be, what it is. All right, well, we'll try to figure out for you. We'll play a song, come back,

and then call him and ask him why he's ghosting you right after this, okay? Okay. First day follow-up next. Right in the middle of your first day follow-up, if you're just joining us, Tori is on the phone, and she's not getting a call back from Kevin.

Yep. And I'm going to say his name like that until wei is on the phone and she's not getting a call back from Kevin. Yep. And I'm going to say his name like that until we get Kevin on the phone and ask him why he's ghosting Tori. Because we don't support people ghosting our listeners. Unless we call Kevin and find out he listens more than you, Tori, and then, sorry,

we'll take Kevin's side. Yeah. True. Alright, so anyway, Tori met Kevin on Tinder. They went out for coffee and that coffee turned it into more of a date. They went from there to dinner. She said that she thought he had a great time. She even said that he's a dude that she'd like to take home to mom. That's a big statement.

Yeah. Like you liked him a lot, right, Tori? Yeah, I really did. Yeah. And now he's not calling her back and she's wondering why. So we're about to get him on the phone. The only thing that Tori can think of is that she has cats and maybe the dude doesn't like cats. Also, her work was trying to get a hold of her during the date and she kept sending the call to voicemail.

And it was a while before she told her date that it was work calling. So it looked like her phone was blowing up and she kept sending it to voicemail. So she thinks maybe it looked like she had a boyfriend or something that was trying to get a hold of her. Because boyfriends don't like it when you're on dates with other dudes most of the time. She thinks that that looked kind of suspect and maybe Kevin thinks that she's shady. All right. Other than that, Tori, that's it, right? Yeah, that's all I can think of. All right. Well, here we go. I'm going to dial this phone right now and see what we can figure out for you. Hello? Is this Kevin? Yeah, this is Kevin.

Who's this? What's up, Kevin? Nothing. Who is this? Kev? Should I call you Kev Dog? Okay. What's going on?

Who is this? Hang up on me, Kevin. You sound like you're on the verge of hanging up on me. Don't do that. Please, Kevin. I don't know who this is. Kevin, this is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show.

This is Alex from the same show. This is Christian, also from the same show. This is Bennett from the same show. We're all from the same show. We are. It's The Jubal Show. What's up, Kevin? All right.

So, like, I'm on the radio right now? Yes. Surprise. Yeah. And I'll be on a podcast later on, too. Uh-huh. Congratulations. Lucky you. You want to tell people hi? It's your later on too congratulations lucky you you want to tell people hi it's your big chance shout outs you want to give i don't know what to say right now

why am i on the radio you're on the radio because one of our listeners emailed us and asked us to call you okay i'll tell you one thing and then we'll see if you know who it would be, okay? We do a segment on the show and it's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and go, Hey, Kevin, why aren't you calling them back? So you recently went on a date and you've been ghosting somebody and they're wondering why and we want to get the answer.

That's why we're here. Okay. Yeah. I was going to say the only date I've really been on lately was with tori is it tori you are a smart man kevin ding ding it is it's tori it is tori yes guess what it's tori yes what it's tori why are you ghosting tori oh my gosh okay so she wants to know why i'm not going out with her got it yes she does kevin and so do we. And so do the literally tens of people listening right now.

Okay. I mean, I feel bad embarrassing her, but what did she tell you about our date? I mean, first of all. She said that she thinks she's pregnant. Oh, my God. Surprise, again. That one's not me. I don't have to worry about that one.

Okay, no, she didn't tell us anything like that. She said that you guys met on Tinder, you went for coffee, and that coffee turned into dinner and stuff, and she thought you had a great time. But now you're not calling her back. We asked her what she thinks the problem could be, and she said that, one, she has cats, maybe you don't like cats. The other thing was that her phone was blowing up, and it was work, she says, trying to get a hold of her. But she was sending the call to voicemail a lot, and she said that it looked like you thought maybe that was shady, that she was sending the call to voicemail a lot and she said that it looked like you thought maybe that was shady that she was sending somebody else to voicemail like a boyfriend or uh nah man so so let me uh you had it right with the first one those cats you know i'm sitting there on this date and i can smell something that just smelled pungent it

was gross and as she's talking she's mentioning that she's had three cats and that they pee on stuff at the house. And that's when I kind of put two and two together and I'm like, oh my gosh, this chick's clothes are covered in cat urine. Oh my God. Yeah, she smelled like cat pee so bad. Oh, cat pee is a horrible smell too. It's the most potent smell. It's so bad. It's the most potent smell. It's so bad.

It's the worst. I used to have a cat. Oh. And I got a cat because they don't like people. And I figured, cool, like I have a pet, but I don't have to really take care of it. Take care of it. But I got a people cat and it would get mad every time I go out of town and it would always pee in my bags because I go out of town a lot.

If I didn't have it out of the room when I was packing, I would literally turn around and it would be peeing in the bag looking at me like, enjoy the flight now, mother. Oh my gosh. So that's why you're not calling her back because she smelled like cat pee. Yeah, I don't want that around me. I don't want to smell like cat pee. I don't want her to come over to my place and then that place smells like cat pee. And I don't want her in my car and then the car smells like cat pee.

I'm good. Her place must be disgusting. It makes me gag thinking about what she must be living in. Same. All right, well, thank you for telling us why you're not calling her back, man. Appreciate that.

Also, I should have been honest with you from the beginning and tell you that Tori is actually on the phone listening and she wants to talk to you. Yeah. Oh, gosh.

Hey, Kevin. Hey. Just for your information, I'm very clean and I didn't smell like cat pee. Jeez. Yeah, you did. My sinuses are still bleeding.

Oh, my God. Yeah, guess what? I did make a comment that my cat peed on something, but it was a joke. And I guess you were too busy thinking I smelled like cat pee to be paying attention and know it was a joke. And you're just an idiot. Okay, well, how do you explain the cat pee then? You're the only person around that reeks like cat urine. Explain yourself.

Yeah, what's up with that? For your information, I already knew I didn't smell good because I got new perfume and it smelled awful and my roommate made a joke that it smelled like cat pee. You need to get your money back. Okay, well, if it smells like cat pee and it looks like cat pee, it's cat pee. It's not cat pee. I put on this new perfume and my roommate told me it smells like cat pee and it looks like cat pee, it's cat pee. It's not cat pee.

I put on this new perfume and my roommate told me it smells like cat pee. And I did take it back. It's not cat pee. Did your roommate tell you it smelled like cat pee before your date? No, she told me a couple days later. And so I was really embarrassed because I was like, oh, crap. I think I wore that on my date. And obviously I did.

So Kevin thinks I smell like cat pee. Maybe it was just a perfume and then like she has cats that's what like you thought it was well how am i supposed to know that it's not cat pee you have three cats it reeks like cat pee you're telling me stories about how your cats peed on stuff how am i not supposed to think that you're covered in urine yeah that's what i told the woman at the store. Like, I was like, it smells exactly like cat pee. Like, it smells good in the bottle. But when I put it on, I didn't even realize until my roommate said cat pee. And then I was like, oh, no, that's exactly what it smells like. No, but like, I'm really clean.

And this was super embarrassing. Now I want to prove to you I don't stink. Well, let me just ask, Kevin. Now that you know that it's not cat pee that Tori smells like, it was just really bad perfume that smelled like cat pee that she took back. Would you like to go on another date with Tori? We'll pay for it. Listen, I'll give it another shot.

But if you show up smelling like cat pee, I'm going to know that it's the cats and not the perfume. She already told you it was the perfume. Okay, well, congratulations, guys. You did it. Yeah, have fun on your second date. You got another date, Tori. Yay! I will not smell like happy,

and it will be wonderful. I'm looking forward to it. Aw, good. Smell you later, Tori. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs,

friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.