First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jackson & Amanda - I’m Just Gonna Eat
Episode Date: June 13, 2024➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get... roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/ Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/ Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/ Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Jackson is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted from a date he went on with a woman named Amanda.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Jackson, how long has it been since you heard from Amanda?
It's been a few days.
Like long enough to know you're getting ghosted days, or is this like you had the date last night?
No, like, you know, it's been three days.
Maybe three and a half.
Okay.
What makes you feel like you're being ghosted?
Well, I mean, we went on this great date, right?
We went to the same place that we both wanted to go and run a try.
And I mean, it was really nice.
And, you know, we had three courses, wine and dessert.
It felt really awesome.
You know, it was really romantic, easy.
Amanda's beautiful. And she ate all her food it was so cute you know and i mean i just i thought this would be the start
of something great but i just haven't you know i mean i've written her you know i walked into
her car i wrote her afterwards and said you know you know i'll hear from you and i thought she
would write me back and she never wrote me back.
And I kind of want to know what her problem is.
So you said what to her?
I'm sorry, I hope to hear from you.
No, I said, you know, it was a great day, and I hope to hear from you.
When we left the date and then when I texted her, I said,
it was a great night last night, and she didn't respond.
Well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Well, I mean, i was 15 minutes late i mean i had to take my dog out and i was apologetic about you know like i kind of mismanaged
my time and she teased me about it a little bit and i thought it was a joke but i don't know maybe
you know first impressions are tough you know maybe she seemed like she understood and got over
it but maybe she didn't so when arrived, was she kind of cold shoulder?
Like at that point, was she cool with you?
You know, somebody shows up 15 minutes late, you're kind of mad or annoyed, I should say.
But that's valid.
And it's the first time.
So then was she like, so anyways, tell me what sign you are.
Or was she more like, can we just order?
She made a couple jabs, but she didn't, you know, she got over it quick.
Okay.
It felt like she got over it quick.
I feel like that's fair.
Yeah.
How'd the rest of the date go?
First, you know, we had three courses, you know, wine and dessert,
and we discussed, you know, the food, and we discussed, like, you know about the food and we discussed like you know travel and we like to be both like to travel we both like this you know like like wanted to go to
italy and um you know i mean it was like a it was pretty good like we had a really good conversation
it was a long night i mean i thought it was really good so you felt like she was engaging with you
and asking you questions and stuff like that absolutely i didn't i walked her to a car at
the end so i feel like, you know,
it wasn't like she wasn't put off.
It wasn't awkward.
Did you put her lips on your lips at the end?
Why do you say it like that?
I did not.
I was a gentleman.
Because if he did it the way Jubal said,
then that would absolutely be why he's getting posted.
True.
So no kiss?
Did you guys hug at least?
Yeah, we gave like a half hug.
Oh, that's not a good sign.
I'm not going to lie.
Every time I've half hugged a guy, it kind of resulted in me never talking to him again.
You must be like in a rush or you're like on your way somewhere.
But on a rush, that's not a good sign.
I feel like it was a good ending.
Even though it was a half hug, it felt good.
Okay.
But now she hasn't talked to you in a few days and you want to know why you're getting ghosted.
So play a song, come back, and then we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay?
Excellent.
Thank you so much.
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Jackson is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted by Amanda,
so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date.
But first, Jackson, why don't you remind us about your situation?
Well, I met Amanda, and we went out on a great date.
And after thinking about it and talking to you guys, I feel like we had a really good time.
And I really don't know why she's not getting back to me after a few days I wrote her.
And she just didn't text me back at all.
And I feel like she should have.
It was definitely a good time.
What was the last thing you said to her on text?
I said to her, I had a really good time last night and I thought,
you know,
she would have gotten back to me.
Okay.
Well,
you ready for us to call her and see if we should tell us why she's ghosting
you?
Absolutely.
Here we go.
Hello. I may speak to Amanda, please. Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Amanda, please?
This is she. Who's calling?
Hi, Amanda. My name is Jubal, and this is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.
Yes, the show is here. My name is Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Hi.
Hey, hi.
Oh, you know the show?
Yeah, yeah. Oh, that's cool.
I'm actually calling today because you went out on a date with somebody and now you're ghosting them.
Okay.
I might need more info.
Well, you know how we do the first date follow-up on the show where if you go out on a date with somebody, you ghost them.
They can email us to get you on the phone and ask why.
We got an email about you from a guy named Jackson.
Aww.
Okay.
I love that we're laughing about this.
Was that a good date for you?
He doesn't know why, I guess.
No, he does not.
That's crazy that he has no idea why.
Okay, so it should be obvious?
Yeah, I would say, like, okay, this is nuts.
Okay.
Yeah, so let me preface.
The restaurant was fantastic, and the food food is fantastic and that was good.
The company was not
good. He seemed
to have a different perspective on it.
That's weird because
he spent the entire
night just hitting on the server.
I have no idea why he would be
confused. What? He was hitting
on the server? Obviously.
Huge. I checked out five minutes in oh i was like no i'm good the food's good and i just focused on
my food and getting you know a good meal out of it and that was it but i checked out five minutes
in because instantly he was like oh you're so gorgeous and like he's like, oh, your hair's so pretty. And like, oh my gosh,
I love the color of your nails.
What?
Yeah, no joke. He was making jokes
about feeding her.
What?
And he was like, oh, you want a bite of this?
And like, I can feed you.
Oh, yeah.
He commented on her legs at one point.
It was sick. That is a little bit awkward
and a huge red flag but yeah uh yeah tell me about it like the fact that he doesn't know what's going
on it just blows my mind that's just kind of funny i mean that's blatant yeah like i mean in front of
me he was just like he was like instantly she walks up and he's like he's like oh hey
you're gorgeous and then he just like
every time she came to the table
there was something else like he talked
about he was just like oh this
is her like it's almost as sweet as
you are and blah blah blah
that's also kind of like rude
like you're on a date with someone else
did he say that stuff to you too was it just like
how he communicates with women or was it her specifically?
No,
like there wasn't even like a,
you look nice.
Like there was like none of that.
It was all in the waitress.
I was,
I was flabbergasted.
Like,
okay,
well thank you for telling us.
Also,
I don't know if you forgot,
but Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you or maybe find
out who the waitress is and talk to her at the same time. I don't know, but.
Oh man, I'm like, what is that about? Like, I, there's no way.
I wasn't that, like, you made it sound like I was really elaborate.
Like I've always, you know, just talk to, you know, you know,
treat your servers, you know, awesome.
And you can give them great compliments because they can do bigger servings
and better pours. And I mean, you know, better treatment all around around it's like a win-win and that's what i was doing and i
and i just i don't think i was like you know like into the serpent of the waitress so much
like that's teaching you you're pleasing thank you sir not like give me your legs
well she had nice legs. What?
That's not really... So you were hitting on her.
So if she hadn't had nice legs, then you wouldn't have complimented them?
Because I feel like you should compliment her legs no matter what her legs look like,
if that's just strategy you're going for.
Well, she had nice legs, but it wasn't...
I mean, it was just something to say to her.
It wasn't like I was hitting on her.
If no matter what, if you say to a woman, you have nice legs that comes across as hitting
on.
Yeah, for real.
Like, I mean, cause you're complimenting like her looks all the time.
You could have like, if you were doing that, you could have said like, oh, you're so nice
and thank you.
And you're so helpful.
And like, you know, you could have said like, I like your nails, not like, oh, your nails
are so beautiful.
And I love that color. Like, you know what I mean? Like you could nails, not like, oh, your nails are so beautiful. And I love that color.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, you could have just been like, oh, would you get them done or something?
But no, like you're hitting on her because you're talking about her looks to her.
Every time she came to the table, like that's not like that's not getting extra stuff out of it.
That's not what you're talking about.
Wow.
I didn't really realize you were the jealous
type. I'm not really into that.
What?
I'm
just not into rude
people. Let me
remind you that you're the one that
wanted me so bad that you're willing
to go on the radio and do that.
It's all good because I was
really so good to that girl,
I got her number, and, you know...
What?
So you were hitting on her, then, if you got the number.
Have you tried the number?
Because I got it fake.
Amanda, you're impossible.
Well, I would love to ask.
Amanda, would you like to go on another date with Jackson?
We'll pay for it.
There's never a chance in this world
that I would ever do that.
Yeah, that's totally okay.
It's your loss, Amanda.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I guess I'm just going to have to
take the L on that one for me.
I'm so sad.
Jubal's First Date Follow-Up.
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