First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jackson & Camryn - Love Bombed

Episode Date: January 1, 2025

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. We'll see you next time. Did you know that 70% of people get hired at companies where they already have a connection? I'm Andrew Seaman, LinkedIn's Editor-at-Large for Jobs and Career Development. And on my podcast, Get Hired, I bring you all the information you need to, well, get hired. Landing a job may be tough, but Get Hired is here for you every step of the way with advice on resumes, networking, negotiation, and so much more. Listen to Get Hired with Andrew Seaman on the iHeartRadio app, networking, negotiation, and so much more. Listen to Get Hired with Andrew Seaman on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you like to listen. You don't need

another podcast. You've got too many already. But if you're looking for one that actually changes something, a way to take control of the chaos and find meaning, well, then maybe the one you feed is for you. I'm Eric Zimmer, and I bring real conversations with real people to help you feed the best part of yourself. No hype, no fluff, just wisdom that works. Listen to The One You Feed on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First day to follow up. Power powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com Jackson is on the phone

today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Cameron. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first Jackson, how long has it been since you heard from Cameron? It's been a few days. I have no idea what's going on.

Okay. How'd the day go? I honestly think the day went pretty well. We just went to go get coffee at like this

local coffee place and we were having a lot of fun like just like, you know, just over coffee that we just had to go somewhere

to get breakfast too and so we got some bagels and then from a place that actually she had heard about somewhere to get breakfast to. And so we got some bagels and then from a place that actually she had heard about from her friend. And then we went for a walk and then we had a good time.

We even ended on a kiss. Well, is there anything that happened in that time that you think might be kind of the reason why she's not hitting you back? I mean, I've been thinking about it and I feel like because at one point during the day, you know, it was going well, but at one point, I

talked about my ex for like a minute. She did ask about my ex, any ex I had, and like how it ended, so that's why I don't know if I would do it. You just started crying and brought her up out of the blue?

No, nothing like that. i didn't bring it up like voluntarily like that like she asked but i wasn't sure if like maybe i went in like too deep about it and i just i basically talked about that how like we were just not a good fit um she broke it off and uh you know just like not really like a great relationship and maybe that's why i feel like I'm getting ghosted here. Like I'm just, I'm afraid of like, this might be another one of those relationships. And I'm hoping not because like I said, first date, great time. Did you call your ex crazy? No.

Okay. I remain as civil as possible, you know, about it. That can always be a tough one if someone's like, yeah, they're just nuts. They're just so crazy. All of them are crazy. Every single one I've had. Right. And we're supposed to see that

as a big red flag. Yeah. So I was just wondering. I mean, yeah, that's basically it. Did you talk about your ex before or after you guys kissed? It was before.

I only mentioned it for like a minute. And that was it. It's not like I, it wasn't like it became like a minute. And that was it. It's not like I, it wasn't like it became like a big topic of conversation throughout the date. Did you kiss her or did she kiss you? We both kind of just like leaned in and kissed each other.

It was a moment. Yeah. Did she eat too many bagels and have to run home? But that wouldn't explain why she's ghosting. It's been only a few days. Maybe she's not ghosting. She's just trying to figure it out. Yeah, I'm just trying to figure it out. Like I said, things

were just going well. Maybe it was the clone I was wearing or something like that. I hope it wasn't that. Were you wearing terrible cologne? No, I'd say it's a pretty good brand. It wasn't anything like, you know, like Axe Body Spray or like A.R.D. or something like that. Honestly, Axe smells delicious.

Axe is good, actually. Yeah. It really is good. I'll get up in those pits if you got Axe on, but this is not me. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Sounds good. All right. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. OK. All right.

Come back to your first day. Follow up next. Hey, everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr. and Charlemagne the God.

We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up jackson is on the phone and jackson is getting ghosted by cameron so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one before we call her though jackson why don't you catch us up on your situation basically i went on a date um with this girl named cameron and it started out as coffee but then we ended up getting breakfast and then it turned into taking a walk and then it actually ended with a nice kiss. This all happened on the first date and it went really well, in my opinion. And you haven't heard anything from her since?

No. And you think it could be because you talked about your ex? Possibly, yes. All right, you ready for us to call her? Yes. Okay, here we go. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Cameron, please? This is Cameron. Hey, Cameron, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi Cameron, I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Oh my God. What's up guys? What's up? Oh sweet, sounds like you. Did you learn something? Maybe, I'm not sure yet. It sounds like you at least listen to the show though. So thank you.

Yeah, I love it. What's up? Oh my God, I'm so excited. What's up is that we got an email about you from somebody because you're ghosting them. This is a first date follow up. You know, the segment that we do that if you go somebody, they can email us and ask why you're ignoring them. Yeah. I've heard it before.

Okay. Well, who do you think would email us? Oh my God. No way. Jackson. Yes. It is Jackson. Oh my God. Would email us. Oh, my God. No way. Jackson? Yes, it is Jackson. Oh, my God. He really liked your date and is confused why you're ghosting him.

Oh, my God. I'm so embarrassed right now. Are you ghosting him? No, I wouldn't even call it ghosting him. Oh, my God. You're not ghosting him? I wasn't really ghosting him, but I mean, after this, I might. No, don't let this influence that.

Well, why aren't you talking to him then? Oh my God. I'm so like overwhelmed. Okay. I'm not really ghosting him. I mean, we went on a date, like one date, a couple of days ago, like three days ago. Okay. I don't know.

Oh my God. I'm just so like, I just don't believe it. Okay. Honestly, he was really cute. We went for coffee and we were hitting it off pretty great. We had breakfast. I just felt like he got very clingy. And like before the afternoon, by the afternoon,

and like he was already telling me he loved me. Oh, on the first date? On the first date. It was a long morning, but still. It was just like we were at the park. It was just too much in one day, I think. And that was probably the reason why I haven't called him because I didn't say I love you back. He said I love you?

Yeah, was it I love you or like I love this or I love talking to you? Was it really I love you? Listen, it was just supposed to be coffee, you know and we started like really being very charismatic and very charming and then all of a sudden, I don't know he was just like very

like flattering and oh you're beautiful and then I love your hair turned into, I heard I love you you know and I don't want to sound conceited, but it really was too much. You know, like super clingy. Well, on a first date to say I love you.

That's kind of scary. Oh no. Oh my God, Jackson. I'm so sorry, dude. You did say that. Oh, that's right. You know the first date follow-ups. Yes, Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi.

Hi, Cameron. I didn't say I love you. Yes, you did. No, no. I was saying, like, I love your shoes. You know, I was complimenting you on your shoes. No. Listen, we were walking, and you literally, like, looked into my eyes,

and you were like, I think I love you or something like that. You literally said that. No, no, no, no. I was complimenting you on your shoes and in like your boots. I was just talking about like the things that I love about you. And I thought things were going so well. I mean, I didn't think I was, you know, I didn't mean for it to sound like that, but I wasn't saying, like, I love you, you know?

Yeah, and that right there is just weird. Like, why do you love my shoes and, like, my outfit? It was just, like, the things you love about me, like, how can you love anything about me? You don't even know me. You don't know me. Okay, well, the thing is, I thought we were having a really good time throughout the day and, you know, just adding more things to do.

And I was really enjoying that. I loved all the things about you, like, you know, with your personality and how easy to talk to. And I can understand why you might think that would lead to me saying, like, I love you. But I didn't specifically say I love you. I didn't say that. Oh, my God just stop saying that just stop saying that it's like really creeping me out

you said it like 70 times I'm sorry I will say that then next time I'll say it I'll meet it but do you see what you're doing you're like making me uncomfortable stop saying i love you this is probably why your ex left you oh okay why are you bringing my accent to this

please don't do that okay i was not saying i love you okay i think sometimes people react to the word love differently uh you know for some people it's a scary word for others it's a comforting word so maybe this is kind of where you guys are on different pages. And some people can say it freely. Some people can't. Cameron, would you like to go on another date with Jackson? We'll pay for it. I mean, I would say I'd love you if I knew him, but I don't know him.

That's not fair. And vice versa. I mean, again, I don't think I want to go on a date with someone who's going to fall in love with me so quickly. I was just saying I love your shoes. I love your personality as well. I wasn't saying I love you like that in the way that you're saying. I'll tell you what, if you agree to a second date, then I promise I won't use that word ever. But you see what I mean? You sound so clingy. Just like, oh, I don't know. use that word. Ever. God.

But you see what I mean? You sound so clingy. Just like, oh, I don't know. I mean, it sounds kind of nice. He just really likes you. He likes you,

though. Okay. I don't know. Maybe. What do you guys think? I think you should give it another shot. Yeah,

he is kind of nice. Okay. Well, there you go, Jackson. You got a second date. Jackson, scream out. I love it. Good luck, you guys.

Love you both. Good luck. Thank you. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid.

Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives

dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Did you know that 70% of people get hired at companies where they already have a connection? I'm Andrew Seaman, LinkedIn's Editor-at-Large for Jobs and Career Development. And on my podcast, Get Hired, I bring you all the information you need to, well, get hired. Landing a job may be tough, but Get Hired is here for you every step of the way with advice on resumes, networking, negotiation, and so much more. Listen to Get Hired with Andrew Seaman on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you like to listen. You don't need another podcast.

You've got too many already. But if you're looking for one that actually changes something, a way to take control of the chaos and find meaning, well, then maybe the one you feed is for you. I'm Eric Zimmer, and I bring real conversations with real people to help you feed the best part of yourself no hype

no fluff just wisdom that works listen to the one you feed on the iHeartRadio app Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts