First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jackson & Farrah - Book Fished

Episode Date: August 6, 2024

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ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Jackson, how long has it been since you heard from Farrah? Oh, man, it's been, uh, I think a few weeks. Have you reached out to her? Yeah, I've been texting her, but... Oh, you have been texting her? Yeah, I've been texting her. I just... This doesn't normally happen to me, so I'm just

kind of like... You don't get ghosted often? No, it's one of those things almost where it's like, you know, when you can't have something, you want it even more. All right. It usually happens for me, when you can't have something, you want it even more. All right. It usually happens for me. So I don't, I don't know why. Did you want her when you thought you could have her?

Like, how was the date? I gotta say guys, it was, it was pretty damn perfect. Like, I don't, I don't really know what else should have gone better.

You know, so we were doing the whole thing, you know, apps, texting, blah, blah, blah.

And then finally it came time for a face to face. And she suggested this coffee shop, you know, so we were doing the whole thing, you know, apps, texting, blah, blah, blah. And then finally it came time for a face-to-face and she suggested this coffee shop, you know, the safe coffee date. We'll see how it goes. And it went really well. We had a ton in common. You know, we were talking sports. We were talking cars. I'm a pretty big fan of cars.

So it went well. And then, you know, with that, it was kind of like, all right, coffee went well. Maybe let's roll this into a happy hour and then dinner and just kept on going. Like, went to some really, really cool, like, swanky spots. And then the date was over. We had a, I'll say, a very nice kiss. You had a nice kiss. What did she say after it? Was it was she like oh i can't wait to see you again yeah i mean yeah you know now i'm like hyper analyzing it like okay what exactly did she say but she was like i was like yeah we should

like definitely do this again and she was like yeah and i was kind of trying to pin her down i was like okay like when you know hey you free next like friday and she's like, yeah. And I was kind of trying to pin her down. I was like, okay, like when, you know, Hey, you free next like Friday. And she's like, uh, yeah, uh, I might be, let me know. So, you know, it's like, I don't know. I don't know. The whole thing was kind of weird, but I don based upon the vibes we were having. And again, like that kiss, like it was on point. Like I felt like this, this, that was a, that was a, there will be a second date kiss. Did anything weird happen on the date? Like awkward? I've been pouring over it. I mean, like the only thing, so I, again, I like cars. I drive like this really, it's pretty sweet.

This is vintage Alfa Romeo. And she kept on getting frustrated because she had this really nice green dress on and it kept on getting caught, uh, when she was getting the door and, you know, going from place to place coffee going to happy hour, going to dinner and it just kept on getting caught. Like I kind of snapped at her because she kept on touching things too. So those are the only things that like, I really, like not, like not snapping, snapping,

but you know, she was, you know, picking at this thing on the dashboard and I just got that thing refinished and quite a bit of money on it. So I just was like, well, you go like chill. I mean, that couldn't do it. It depends how you snapped, you know? Yeah. That sounds like it could have definitely been a turning point. I mean maybe but i don't know come on we'll play a song come back and then call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you

still want one okay thank you all right we'll play a song come back get your first day follow up next hey everyone it's katie couric well the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're just joining us for today's first day follow-up, Jackson is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Farrah. So we're about to call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Jackson, why don't you remind everybody about your date with Farrah? Yeah, we went to this really cute coffee shop. We were talking cars. We were talking sports. We were talking jobs.

You know, she's super successful. I'm super successful. Like, it just, everything seemed to align. And then we went into a happy hour. Then we went into dinner. I was driving her in my car. And this nice vintage Alfa Romeo and yeah, I don't know. I mean, we had a great

kiss at the end of the night, but I did kind of snap at her because she kept on fiddling with my car, which I can't stand. But other than that, like it was great. I thought for sure this was second. There's definitely going to be a second date. I forgot to ask you this

in the first part. Was that snap at her towards the end or earlier on in the date? It was kind of towards the end. Okay. Towards the end. Okay. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Farrah, please?

This is she. Hey, Farrah, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Farrah. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Hi. Hi. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have. What is this all? We're calling because we got an email about you. About me? Yes.

Okay. We do a segment on our show called the first date follow-up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from someone who you've been out with and now you're not talking to. Oh, no. Oh, yeah. I can say it like that.

Who do you think it is? I think I remember. Was his name Jackson? Yes, Farrah, it is Jackson. He told us about your date, and he's curious why you're ghosting him. I mean, so the date was fine but after marinating on it and like how everything went to be quite honest he's a little bit dumb um yeah all he talked about was his car and which is fine but then I thought maybe we could have more of an

intellectual conversation but that just didn't happen and what really intrigued me about his dating profile and his dating app and whatnot was um on his profile he had pictures of himself with books and you know he looked like he was really well educated and I thought great we can have a conversation about our favorite authors what we're reading and it was like he couldn't even name a book and it seemed like he had never like even read before just like the way he pronounced some things on the menu I was like oh and you know he's he's a nice kid. He does have a nice car, but I just feel like his quote unquote success is just things that he's purchased, like he hasn't worked for it or earned. Like I have my own startup career. I'm working hard for it, you know, and it just sort of seems like things are handed to him.

And there was definitely a disconnect on that aspect. Did you feel that way the entire date? Because he did mention that you guys were in three different locations. Yeah, so we started off at the coffee shop and then we decided, okay, it's going really well. We'll do happy hour dinner and everything. And I guess during the happy hour dinner is when I really started to think, okay, maybe this isn't going to work. Because coffee, I gave the benefit of the doubt. We're just meeting face to face for the first time. It should be, you know, we're both a little bit nervous, but then when he like got a

little snippy with me in the car, I was like, Ooh, that's, that's a little jarring. So, I mean, yeah, it was, I don't think it's a thing. Would you like to be sure? What do you mean? Well, what I mean by that is Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Farrah. Oh. Oh.

Uh, hi. Hey, how's it going? I'm doing really well uh how are you i am dumbfounded uh by everything i just heard you heard everything i mean i'm sorry that's harsh but if you wanted to know the reason why I ghosted you, that's really the honest truth. Well, I mean, you know, I'm a big boy. Yeah, I get paid the big bucks for a reason. Like, you can just tell me these things. You don't have to just, like, not text me back for two weeks.

I mean, I'm busy with my company and just hustling and everything. Well, are you? Yeah, I work very hard. Like, I showed you a picture of my house. Like, that doesn't pay for itself. Like, are you sure that's not your parents' house? No, I'm sure that's not my parents' house. Yeah, that's mine. I mean, that's not your parents' house? No, I'm sure that's not my parents' house. Yeah, that's mine.

I mean, that's the point. You base your success on your material things, things that like you could just purchase. Yeah, well, I mean, how else do you measure it? I mean, I can put a hand on my house. Like what? Like what else do you even measure success by? Yeah, I mean, it goes deeper than that. Okay, so if they're not houses, like I look at the zeros. measure success by. Yeah. I mean, it goes deeper than that. Okay.

So if they're not houses, like I look at the zeros in my bank account and I feel pretty darn good about that. I mean, it goes deeper Jackson than material objects. Like you don't just base success off of that. Yeah. I travel though.

Like, you know, I, even like any of my buddies were on this travel, though. Like, you know, me and, like, eight of my buddies were on this yacht in, like, the Mediterranean. It was f***ing amazing. Like, I genuinely do not know what you're talking about.

That's just it, Jackson. You just mentioned the yacht in the Mediterranean. You're not getting it. Alright, like, fine. I've been on a yacht in the Caribbean. I went snorkeling and scuba diving for like three weeks last month in, you know, in Australia. Like, I don't know. What else do you want? I think you need to take a yacht to the Bermuda Triangle and not come back.

Well, now that you said that, Farrah, would you like another date with Jackson? We'll pay for it. You know what? I'm going to pass on that second date. However, I do have a friend that I feel like he would click with because they have the same type of delusions. So I feel like they would get along just great. I'll take it.

Oh my gosh. Successful first date follow-up. You guys can text each other and work that out. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews

and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy or wherever you get your podcasts. In just a few minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC.

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