First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jackson & Lauren - Are Nuggets Red Flags?

Episode Date: February 27, 2024

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where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Lauren is on the phone for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jackson.

Lauren, before we get into all the details of your date, how long has it been since you heard from Jackson? At this point, it's been two weeks two weeks okay and on a scale of one to ten how hot is jackson because i've never seen a not hot jackson oh yeah that's the thing he is he is hot and that's why i'm also disappointed oh okay i probably should have brought that part up my bad let's hear about it lauren how did you meet Jackson? What was the date like? Yeah, I mean, the date was nice. We went to a restaurant.

We had an appetizer, then our meal. And I thought we had a really good time. I mean, we both have, like, similar hobbies and, like, are very healthy and fitness-oriented and, like, have a passion for that. So that's always nice you know like if one person is like only eats steak and fries and the other person eats salad making dinner can be challenging so it's just nice to have similar passions and things to do together I just really can't figure out what's happening and like why I'm being ghosted. Is there anything that happened on the date that you can think of? I'm thinking maybe there's something that I said

because like I mentioned that I was a nurse and he said his sister is a nurse and like maybe he was worried that we'd be connected or he wants someone that like doesn't have like a connection to his sister and his family i don't i'm not really sure how did your date end like did you guys kiss was there tension i mean yeah i mean we kissed there was no tension like the conversation flowed and we haven't we had a lot of fun and from what i thought um and again i guess i'm here and so i guess i was talking more about like that physical attraction tension you know what i mean

like you just you like wanted each other and they could tell yeah i mean i definitely think it was there i maybe he was being polite or but you know we just kissed there wasn't anything more so did he say he was gonna call you he's yeah he said he would call he said he was just yeah that was a nice date like that's it so i assumed there would be a call she just said yeah that was a nice date yeah um it doesn't sound super romantic-y, if I'm being honest, Lauren. But that is mixed messaging. Yeah, that wasn't a good date, and then let me make out with you real quick.

Yeah, I mean, still, yeah, you guys did kiss and stuff, right? Oh, yeah. Okay. But now it's been two weeks. Oh. I mean, I would want to know what happened, wouldn't you?

Yeah, I would too. I mean, I'd probably forget, but... Okay, I wouldn't. It just really seemed like he was just like, the conversation flow forget, but... Okay, I wouldn't. It just really seemed like he was just, like, the conversation flowed. He asked questions. I asked questions. He was like, yeah, I'm going to open a book. Like, even sharing, like, vulnerable things about challenges he's faced this year with his job and, like, how he overcame them.

And it was really, like, honest and a nice conversation so so yeah we both um love to hike and both um really enjoy like working out in the mornings like he was like yeah i'm an early bird and i love working out in the morning and i was like me too because like you know you don't want somebody who's also uh who's a night owl and you're an early bird that's just like not gonna work so um yeah it was just like those little things that i was like oh okay like all the signs were lined up pretty compatible yeah okay well we'll see if we can figure it out for you then we'll play a song come back call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and then maybe get you another date if you still want it okay that would be would be great. Thank you. All right. We'll get your first day follow-up right after this.

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And before we call him, Lauren, why don't you refresh everybody's memory and tell them about your time with Jackson? Yeah, we had a lovely time. We had a lot in common. Like both really love fitness. Like both work out in the morning. He's an early bird eat healthy you know we just had a really nice date and he said that he had a nice time so i figured i'd hear back and it's been two weeks and i haven't heard back all right cool well we're about to

call him right now and see if we can figure it figure it out for you maybe get you another date here we go. Hello? Hi, man. Speak to Jackson, please. This is him. Hey, man. What's up?

How are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show. The Jubal Show has a few people on it, by the way. I'm Nina, and I'm one of those people. Hi. Hi, and I'm Victoria. I'm another one of those people. Hi. Hi, and I'm Victoria. I'm another one of those people. What's up? Nothing much.

I'm just a little starstruck. I love the show. Oh, all right. Well, thank you, man. Have you ever heard a first-day follow-up before? I have, yeah. What do you think of them? I'm assuming I'm in one now. Yes, you are, Jackson. Jackson, we got an email about you, man.

Is it from Lauren? What'd you do, Jackson? Yes, it's from Lauren. I figure. It was the last date I was on. So what did Lauren have to say? Well, she had a great time, Jackson. She said you guys even had a nice little kiss at the

end you guys like to work out and stuff but she's kind of confused why haven't you hit her up yeah she was right the the date was great very conversational she's easy to talk to um she's beautiful uh on both inside and out which is important uh she's a really good person. She's a nurse. I got a sister who's a nurse, so that was kind of cool. We got to talk a little bit about that. So here's where things kind of broke down for me. We went to a nice restaurant, not a super nice restaurant, and we go to order, and she orders off the kids' meal. And she's ordered chicken fingers and fries, and she had talked about how health conscious she was and how important it was to her. And for her to get chicken fingers and fries, it kind of just went, maybe she's not as health conscious, and I kind of need someone who's health conscious.

Have you heard of a cheat meal? I'm just saying. You're going to chicken finger shame this girl. Sometimes a girl just needs her chicken fingers and fries. I've never heard of chicken finger shaming before, but I like it. Yeah. No, it's not. I mean, I'm not trying to shame anyone and fries. I've never heard of chicken finger shaming before, but I like it. Yeah, no, it's not. I mean, I'm not trying to shame anyone for it. I'm really not.

Part of me is like, if you're going to cheat, cheat with something good. Chicken fingers and fries. I'm like, you're a nice restaurant. I'm sure they have some really good cheat meal. Chicken fingers and fries. It's all fried food. And if this is what she eats all the time, then I can't do that. I can't, it has taken way too long for me to, to, to get into shape. Uh, I grew up a really big kid. Um,

I was a really big adult for a long time. And my heaviest, I was at 362 pounds. I'm five foot six. So that's, that's huge. And now I've had to really cut out everything for health. You know, I got to the point where the doctors are like, we can't even prescribe you medicine, your liver and everything is so bad. It's so fatty. We got to get you to lose weight. So I really can't be around it. It's kind of like an alcoholic. Right. Or a former smoker and all that kind of stuff. Yeah. I can't be around that because then i will eat it and i will get back into those habits and i i just can't you liked her though i did she's a really cool person i'm like one time with the chicken fingers you don't want to

say if maybe you know you go out another time and then she makes another questionable food choice in your opinion if this was a one-time thing you know she's like no this is just cheap no i normally am really really great then yeah that's that's great and and and that's my bad for not conveying or you know communicating my issues i just i just kind of panicked well well let's see let's talk to her about it because she's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh yeah hi oh yeah yeah of course she is hi yeah so seriously you're ghosting me because i have like one cheat meal i don't have a cheat meal often and maybe i should have qualified it but like yeah chicken fingers is something that i crave when i have my cheat meal and this is like the first time in two weeks I get it you have your background and your history and you're careful and you don't want to go down a

slippery slope but like wow you didn't even give me a chance to explain myself you just like nixed me no and you're absolutely right to be fair I didn't know it was a cheat meal I am you know it's a date I don't I don't know. I just thought and you're right. You're right. I should have. I should have asked. I should have. I should have kept talking. I shouldn't have to explain myself like on what I'm ordering. I'm not asking. I have my own autonomy. You're absolutely right.

But I don't have to explain to you why I don't want to be with somebody who's going to eat that kind of food i won't ask you to eat i'm not i'm not trying no but you should like clarify at least sure but if somebody okay so i don't and let's just say i'm not a hunter i don't like guns i don't like that and somebody is i find somebody who dates they don't have to justify why they hunt i just know i don't want to be a part of that so you don't you're right you're absolutely right you don't have to justify you don't have to say anything explain to why you eat those fingers you just compared a hunter to a chicken finger eater it's the same point but why don't you at least text her back then at least say hey man like i'm not in the chicken finger style like i can't honestly i just or, clarify. Like, you mentioned that you're into health and fitness.

Is this how you, but, like, I'm a little confused. You ordered chicken fingers. Like, I really do, like, maybe clarify. Like, I noticed you ordered chicken. Is that normally how you eat? Or is that where you, like, have a little cheat meal? I guess I would have gotten a little more luxurious. You're right. I should have. I'm admitting I messed up gotten a little more luxurious.

You're right. I should have. I'm admitting I messed up on how I handled it. But I didn't. I feel very tough to the curve for something so small. This was a one date. This wasn't like we're dating for six months. And I'm like, you know what? You had chicken fingers, so we're out.

You had chicken fingers, and he's out. I know. So yeah, that one time on a first date is pretty quick. I mean, you're allowed to choose however you need to, I guess. It's just, it does feel a little silly, especially since you said she was so wonderful and beautiful and all of those

things that feel like they would outweigh chicken fingers and fries. And see, you guys are making it about the chicken fingers and fries. It's not about the chicken fingers and fries it's not about the chicken fingers and fries for me it's about the one time if you've ever had that was a one-time thing i mean he's right we're being a little bit hard on him especially since that is a big hard no for him that's fine i don't know lauren are you willing not to eat chicken fingers around

the sky or do you want to live your life how you want to? Absolutely. Oh, you are. We can respect that. I wish I would have known and so like maybe moving forward we have more conversations. Jackson, would you like to go on another date with Lauren? We'll pay for it. I would love it. I would love it. If you want to give me a second opportunity to communicate better

that'd be great. It's not. Yeah, well, and I will keep my salad with you and my chicken fingers on my own. All right. Congratulations. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone.

It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me,

Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day.

Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.