First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jacob & Ava - Popcorn Bowl

Episode Date: October 18, 2024

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Jacob is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by Ava, so in a few minutes, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jacob, how long has it been since you heard from Ava? Oh, man. It's been at least a couple weeks. Okay, have you tried to reach out to her during that time? Because it's kind of a while, right? Yeah. Yeah, I tried

to play it cool. I think last text I sent her, I was like, well, we met at a coffee shop and so last thing I told her was like, hey, I'll see you. I'll see you, dude. I'll see you I'll see you dude I'll see you back in our spot and then she didn't respond so I'm pretty

sure she's ghosting me I haven't called because I felt like that was a step too far but I'm running out of options so did y'all actually have a first first date like was it at the coffee shop or did y'all just like randomly meet at the coffee shop? Yeah.

So there's actually like this coffee shop kind of just in the neighborhood. It's not too far. And I go there all the time. And that's actually the first place where I met her because I ended up seeing her like three times in one week. So this one day we kind of started doing a little small talk and then we actually were like, well, hey, let's meet here on purpose one, you know, next time. So that was like maybe our first day, but it wasn't like a full day. It was more like a little casual thing. Okay. And then did you guys do something after that?

Yeah, we actually did. we really were enjoying the conversation with each other so i invited her to like come to my house because we both like reality tv shows so i was like oh well i've never seen love is blind she hadn't seen it either so let's say oh let's go to my house grab some popcorn and some snacks and we can just binge the whole show together. She was a little, you know, a little hesitant on the going to my house thing. So I'm hoping that's not what pushed her away. But it did take a little convincing, but she did actually come over. I was going to say, bold move for a first date to invite somebody to your house. Okay, I like the confidence.

And how'd that go? Normally, so it actually ended up going really well because when she came over, I had all her favorite snacks. I was ready to go. I know she loves popcorn, so I had popcorn. She likes Hershey's, so I had Hershey's.

We just had a bunch of snacks. We could just sit and watch this show. We ended up having a lot of fun clowning on people and rooting for the people that we really thought were going to, you know, really find love. And we even drank a little wine, too, and got to know each other. So was there like a connection with the two of you? I felt like there was a connection.

I mean, it was the best date I've ever had, hands down. And like, I'm really hoping that we can have more okay so what do you think could have gone wrong like why would you be getting ghosted man okay so I think we would take a break in between the different episodes and it was between I think maybe episode two and three. You know, we just kind of took a little time to get to know each other, right? We just kind of talk and whatever. And halfway through that, I just, I told her,

I was like, this is the best date I've ever been on. And I'm really glad that I didn't have to spend a lot of money. Wait, you wrote that part too? Yeah, see, I was just saying, I was really glad that I didn't have to break the bank for us to have a good time. And then she started to get all fidgety

and kind of wanted to leave after that next episode. I was joking pretty much, but I'm hoping she doesn't think I'm cheap. Okay. Yeah. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. And maybe get you another date, okay?

Thanks. Yeah. All right. Play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Ugh. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists,

especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. him another date but before we do that jacob why don't you catch us up on your situation okay so i met ava at the coffee shop up the street um we both like reality tv so she came over to my house so we could binge watch love is blind but i told her i was real happy we had a date that wasn't expensive and now i think she might think i'm cheap i'm just trying to think about how that would go. Oh, man, this is the best day ever. I'm so glad I didn't spend any money. Yeah.

How special do you feel as the person that's on that date? No offense. I'm just trying to, like, you might be on to something. Yeah, it might be the reason you're getting ghosted. Are you ready for us to call her? I sure am. All right, here we go. Hello? hello hi may i speak to ava please this is her hi ava how are you my name is jubal i'm calling from a radio show it's called the jubal show hi ava i'm nina also on the show hi and i'm victoria

oh wow how are you oh hi hi. I'm doing good. You ever listen to the show before? Yeah. Okay, cool. We do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Do you know who would email us? The only person that I've been on a date recently was

this one guy, but that's probably it. And what was his name? Jacob. Okay. Well, guess what? Guess what it was. Jacob emailed us and told us about your date. Says that you're

ghosting him and he has no idea why. Would you mind telling us? Oh, goodness. told us about your date says that you're ghosting him and he has no idea why would you mind telling us oh goodness um like i have really bad luck when it comes to men um you know our date was kind of cool it was cute and stuff uh i just have really bad luck when it comes to guys so you know i started liking him a little bit bit and we were watching some of the shows and, you know, caught feelings a little bit. And, you know, I just felt like it's probably easier for me to just stop talking to him. What happened? Everything was good. We were watching.

I think it was called Love is Blind. And, yeah. I think it was called Love is Blind. And yeah, so, you know, it was nice and cute at first, but you know, they go to start talking about what they do and don't like in certain people. Now I'm looking at Jacob like, okay, what qualities I don't like about him now, but then I like him, but I don't really know where it's going. Okay, was there something specific that you didn't like about him?

There was like a situation to where, where he did invite me over to his house. It was the first day, which I went out on a limb to do. Everything was cute. Everything was, you know, fun and stuff like that.

He just started playing around a little bit too much. And I think that he just tries too hard. So it kind of was a turn off. How so? I'm not, you know, I like touchy-feely and stuff like that. But I don't really like someone to, you know, just jump your bone. I'm a 50-50 kiss type of person. What does that mean?

Did he try to jump your bone? Well, I think that when we were eating popcorn, I think he was trying to hide something from me with the bowl. Oh. me with the bowl oh oh oh well good for you Ava like not in that way but like he was

very happy like it's kind of creepy it's creepy but kind of a compliment I've had that power over men but you know it was my first time over there and we were just supposed to be watching TV and stuff like that so then it's like oh you're like that right now

and you're hiding it with the bowl of popcorn that I'm sticking my hand in oh that is weird that's very weird like did he like it? I mean I would assume so is that so now i stood up i don't know i mean i just seems like you're trying to get into popcorn and it's just like that that would be weird okay i don't know what to say with with that situation so it yeah that's

i don't know either like do you want like would you have wanted him to tell you or is it yeah i mean as a guy, I don't know what I would do. Either just try to hide it like he did. You can't always control it, right, Jubal? No. Sometimes it has a mind of its own, you know? I don't think he hid it really well, though. I don't know.

No, he didn't. It was a pretty big situation going on. That could be. So that's why you're not calling him back? Oh my gosh, Ava. It was a pretty big situation going on. That could be. That could. So that's why you're not calling him back? Oh, my gosh. Ava. A little scared.

All right. Well, thank you for being honest. And Jacob is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, goodness. Jacob. Hey, Jacob. Oh, man. I'm so sorry about that.

Oh, my God. I mean, look, I'm sorry. I didn't even, I was trying so hard. Well, that's probably the best word. I can tell, yeah. I'm sorry, Jacob. This is awkward. I didn't want to make things weird or awkward.

That's why I was trying to, like, maybe make it not as obvious. I probably made it way worse. I just, I really, really like you. And I love having a conversation with you. I can tell. You're a tumor and all that. I was asking you why the popcorn kept falling on the floor. And you were like, oh, I don't know. I didn't know what was going on

down there. Then you didn't tell me what was going on, so it kind of freaked me out a little bit. I was just like, okay, is he getting like that because we're watching these ladies on TV or is it me? No, definitely.

It's definitely the beautiful lady I had in my house. You know, look, I'm really sorry and I hope that's not, I hope that won't keep us

from being able to go back out. I just really like you. Maybe I'll, I'll, I'll do something where we're not sitting down next time.

Like a FaceTime baby. For me to hide it. Can you give him some advice Jubal? Cause I, I understand that something where we're not sitting down next time. Like a FaceTime baby. Can you give him some advice, Jubal? I understand that this is awkward, but I don't know how Jacob comes back from this clearly. It's kind of a compliment to you, Ava, but it's also like what happened? I don't know. Yeah, it comes off a little

lesbian. Tape? What? I'm not sure. David, would you like to go on another date with Jacob? We'll pay for it and give him another shot. Hand the tape. He doesn't sound like he's creepy. It just sounds like he really likes you.

Yeah, if he's able to double tape it down, I might be willing to go on a date with him again. Oh my gosh. Well, I'm heading to Staples. Alright, well cool. Congratulations Jacob, you got another date. Thank you, Ava. Have fun guys. Thank you.

Thank you. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.

More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too. Be more you this year. And find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation.

So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job.

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