First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jade & Ty - Does He Still Love Baby Mama?

Episode Date: May 30, 2024

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Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Gade is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Ty. So we're about to help her out, see if we. Jade is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Ty. So we're about to help her out, see if we can get him on the phone and find out why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date. But first, let's find out about the date.

Jade? Hello? Hey Jade, how long has it been since you heard from Ty? It's been four days, which might not sound like a lot to some people, but that's a lot for me Okay, because you've just never gone four days without hearing from somebody Yeah, I feel like people just typically get back to me pretty quickly. So I'm feeling really insecure about it

How many times have you tried to reach out to him in the four days? Did you try it all? Well, no, because when we left off he said he would call me So I felt like it might feel desperate to text again. All right. So tell us a little bit about your date then. The date was really awesome. We actually met a while back, like almost probably almost 10 years ago through mutual friends.

And I thought he was really cute, but like nothing really went down at the time. But we recently matched on hinge and we did like a cute little walk date and we had some coffee and it just felt really natural. I love walking. It's so nice. Yeah, it was really sweet and cozy and I just felt like I don't him for a long time, which I guess I do, but like, I felt a deeper connection, you know?

And we even like extended the date spontaneously, which I feel like is always a good mutual sign. Oh yeah, that is. Yeah, we went out to like a sports bar and we got some snacks and stuff. She did actually have to like dash because he has a daughter and she had texted or maybe the baby mom had texted about like the daughter being sick. So he did have to dash which I didn't mind to totally get the responsibility of being a parent. But after

that, you know, I wanted him to know that I had really had a really awesome time and felt so comfortable with him and I was interested in it going somewhere. He texted me, you know, thanking me for my understanding and I was like, yeah, no problem. I hope your daughter feels better soon. I want to do this again. And he was like, cool, I'll call you. And that's kind of where it's been for the last four days. So he said he'd call and he didn't.

And maybe things got wrapped up with this kid. Yeah, yeah, maybe. I just feel like call is really specific, like intention to follow up. And so I'm definitely freaking out a little bit. Did anything happen on the date? Like other than that call, was there any awkward moments? Was anything said that could have made things

a little bit weirder? Like, you know, was there any flags? Uh, I don't think there were any flags. I mean, again, like he did leave really abruptly and I ended up paying the check. But again, I totally didn't mind. It seemed like a genuine emergency. Okay. So that's not like his, like he goes out and he's like, whoops, my kid's sick. Thanks for dinner.

Yeah. The worst scam of all time. But what if it is also a scam? He goes out and he's like, whoops my kids sick. Thanks for dinner Worst scam of all time. But what if it is also a scam? Well, yeah Do we know for sure? He's a dad thing. I've had happen on a date. So But do we know for sure that he's a dad? I'm pretty sure just cuz like we have mutual friends and whatnot. And so I've heard about the child before the date so okay pretty sure it's a real kid okay is there any I mean anything else that you can think of that might be a reason that he's ghosting you I don't know I mean maybe if he just like changes minds and you're maybe I'm just like totally crazy and really thought it went well and he was like, oh my god, get me out of here and he's trying to be like polite about it.

I feel like sometimes people think it's nicer to ghost, which I do not agree with. Okay, well we'll try to figure out for you. Play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay? Okay. All right, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow up next. Kelly Harnett spent over a decade in prison for a murder she says she didn't commit.

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but her girlfriends too. I think I have a mission from God to save souls by getting people out of prison. The Girlfriends, Jailhouse Lawyer. Listen on the I heart radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts If you're just joining us for today's first day and follow-up Jade is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Ty we're about to call him see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date. Before we do that though, Jade, why don't you refresh everybody's memory

about your date with Ty? Yeah, Ty and I actually met a while ago, never really got together, we matched on Pinch, went on a cute walk and even chose to extend the date for lunch. He had to run because his daughter was sick, which was no big deal for me. But we left off with him planning to call me and now it's been four days.

So I'm just wondering if maybe something changed his mind or yeah. Well, and you did end up paying for the date. So we need to make sure it's not a scam. Just to get a free day. You ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay, here we go Hello hi man speaks of tie, please Speaking tie. What's up, man? How are you? This is a jubil from a radio show called the jubil show

Yeah, and the whole shows here. My name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? Hey there. I'm doing pretty good. Did I win something? Not sure yet. Do you ever listen to the show? I Have a couple times have you ever heard a first-aid follow-up? No, I haven't caught it The first-aid follow-up is a segment we do on the show where if you go out with someone and then you end up ghosting them,

that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So you are currently ghosting somebody. Do you know who that is? Am I ghosting anyone right now? No, I haven't. I can't think I'm ghosting anybody right now. Have you gone on any dates recently?

I went on a date just like a couple days ago with a girl that I actually kind of really enjoyed, but I think it would be way too soon for her to even like, I guess, her. Have you messaged back to her? I'm actually a dad and I got a kid that's been sick. She knows that my kid was sick because I had to leave the day.

And we spoke the following day. I said, I'm gonna call her back. But my kid's not in the best condition. My baby mama is also sick. I'm taking care of my kid and working from home and you know, just treading water. Oh wow, super dad. We're talking about Jade. Is that who you're talking about?

Wait is it Jade? Because I would not want to have left her feeling like that because I did have a great time with her and I definitely do want to see her. I've just haven't been able to come up for air at all these past three days. Wow Jade probably would like to know that. Hey Ty Jade's on the phone and has been listening. Hi. Oh wow. Hey Jade.

Hi. How are you doing? Not the greatest, but okay? How are you? Oh, you know, taking care of a sick kid and trying to keep up with work. Just getting by right now. Yeah, I didn't know what happened, so I where, you know, I really had an amazing time and I actually would love to see you again. It's just, uh, I got a kid and I got to make sure she's okay. And, uh, her mom's also sick.

So she's been with me since that date. And that's the reason that you haven't heard back from me. The mom's been with you? No, uh, my daughter's been with me since that date and that's the reason that you haven't heard back from me. The mom's been with you? No, my daughter's been with me. Taking care of the kid. We're just good co-parents. We're friends. I don't mind getting some extra time with my daughter. Yeah, I guess when you said I'll call you, I just kind of thought you would call me sooner and since I didn't know what was going on, I definitely was wondering if maybe like,

yeah, you change your mind or like things aren't wrapped up with your daughter's mother and was you totally fine? I just would rather know the truth than like hanging out wondering. I'm so sorry that you felt that way, babe. rather know the truth than like hanging out wondering. I'm so sorry that you felt that way, babe. Uh, that was not my, uh, intention at all. It's just, uh, I've just been really just busy with my, uh, daughter and getting her well and the plan was to give you a call because, you know, I think it's probably just a cold and yeah, it's probably just gonna be a couple

more days and, uh and then you can have my full attention. That's kind of where I wanted to be was more available. I didn't want to schedule another date and then have to bail last minute because I want to be respectful of your time. Oh, that's sweet. Boring. Okay. You know why I think this is sweet? I think it's, no, I think that Jade's feelings are super valid. I know four days doesn't seem like a long time, but if something goes really good, you

can't help but question things about yourself. So, and especially if you're dealing somebody with kids, like, can I ask you if it's about me or is this about you? Because I kind of understand, but I can't help but feeling a little bit insecure. You know what I mean? So this communication is actually really sweet. Yeah, I'm like, I, I get, totally get that and I'm now like a little embarrassed about I'm not showing insecure. I think it's normal.

Ty, would you like to go on another day with Jade? We'll pay for it. I would love to see you yet. Great. Okay. All right. So then you can say, I'm just kidding. That's not right. You have to go to your kid. Always my bad. Yeah. I would love to see you again. I guess, um, I just want to make like 100, 1000, 1 million percent sure things with you and your daughter's mother are like totally over no chance you're moving

on. Yeah, I think, uh, you can rest assured on that fact. We're pretty much just, you know, platonic friends. We're good co-parents, but there's definitely not a spark like the one that I feel with you. She's super hot, but. You got another date. Honesty is really happening. Jubal's first date follow up. Join I Heart Radio and Sarah Spain in celebrating the one year anniversary of I Heart Women's Sports.

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