First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jade & Ty - Does He Still Love Baby Mama?

Episode Date: May 30, 2024

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which might not sound like a lot to some people, but that's a lot for me. Okay. Because you've just never gone four days without hearing from somebody? Yeah. I feel like people just typically get back to me pretty quickly. So I'm feeling really insecure about it. How many times have you tried to reach out to him in the four days? Did you try at all?

Well, no, because when we left off, he said he would call me. So I felt like it might feel desperate to text again all right so tell us a little bit about your date then um the date was really awesome um we actually met a while back like almost probably almost 10 years ago through mutual friends um and I thought he was really cute but like nothing really went down at the time um but we recently matched on hinge and uh we did like a cute little walk date and we had some coffee and it just felt really natural i love walk dates they're so nice um yeah it was really sweet and cozy and i just felt like i'd known him for a long time, which I guess I do, but like I felt

a deeper connection, you know? Um, and we even like extended the date spontaneously, which I feel like is always a good mutual sign. Um, yeah, we went out to like a sports bar and we got some snacks and stuff. Um, he did actually have to like dash because he dash because he has a daughter and she had texted or maybe the baby mom had texted about like the daughter being sick. So he did have to dash, which I didn't mind. I totally get the responsibility of being a parent. But after that, you know, I wanted him to know that I had really had a really awesome time and felt so

comfortable with him. And I was interested in it going somewhere. He texted me, you know, I wanted him to know that I had really had a really awesome time and felt so comfortable with him. And I was interested in it going somewhere. He texted me, you know, thanking me for my understanding. And I was like, yeah, no problem. I hope your daughter feels better soon. I want to do this again. And he was like, cool, I'll call you. And that's kind of where it's been for the last four days.

So he said he'd call and he didn't and maybe things got wrapped up with this kid yeah yeah maybe i just feel like call is really specific like intention to follow up and so i'm definitely freaking out a little bit did anything happen on the date like other than that call was there any awkward moments was anything said that could have made things a little bit weirder? Like, you know, was there any flags? I don't think there were any flags. I mean, again, like he did leave really abruptly and I ended up paying the check.

But again, I totally didn't mind. It seemed like a genuine emergency. OK, so that's not like he goes out and he's like, whoops, my kid's sick. Thanks for dinner. That would be the worst scam of all time. But what if it is also a scam? Like he goes out and he's like, okay, whoops, my kid's sick. Thanks for dinner. Yeah. That would be the worst scam of all time. But what if it is also a scam? Well, yeah.

Do we know for sure he's a dad? That's the worst thing I've had happen on a date. But do we know for sure that he's a dad? I'm pretty sure just because like we have mutual friends and whatnot. And so I've heard about the child before the date. So I'm pretty sure it's a real kid. I hope. Okay. we have mutual friends and whatnot and so i've heard about the child before the date so okay pretty sure it's a real kid okay um is there any i mean anything else that you can think of that

might be a reason that he's ghosting you i don't know i mean maybe if he just like changed his mind and you're maybe i'm just like totally crazy and really thought it went well. And he was like, oh, my God, get me out of here. And he's trying to be like polite about it. I feel like sometimes people think it's nicer to ghost, which I do not agree with. OK, well, we'll try to figure it out for you. Play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one. OK? OK.

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Jade is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Ty. We're about to call him, see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date. Before we do that though, Jade, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Ty? Yeah, Ty and I actually met a while ago, never really got together. We matched on Hinge, went on a cute walk, and even chose to extend the date for lunch.

He had to run because his daughter was sick, which was no big deal for me. But we left off with him planning to call me and now it's been four days. So I'm just wondering if maybe something changed his mind or. Yeah, well, and you did end up paying for the date. So we need to make sure it's not a scam just to get a free day yeah you ready for us to call him yeah okay here we go hello hi man speak to ty please oh this is ty speaking ty what's up man how are you this is jubile from a radio show called the jubile show yeah and the whole show is here um my name's nina

hi and i'm victoria how are you hey there uh i'm doing pretty good did i win something not sure yet do you ever listen to the show i have a couple times have you ever heard a first date follow-up no i haven't caught it a first date follow-up is a segment we do on the show where if you go out with someone and then you end up ghosting them that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them so you are currently ghosting somebody do you know who that is am i ghosting anyone no i haven't i can't think i'm ghosting anybody right now have you gone on any dates recently i went on a date just like a couple days ago uh with a girl that i actually kind of really enjoyed but uh i just i think it would be

way too soon for her to even think i ghosted her. Have you messaged back to her? I'm actually a dad, and I got a kid that's been sick. She knows that my kid was sick because I had to leave the day. And we spoke the following day. I said, I'm going to call her back. But my kid's not in the best condition. My baby mama is also sick.

So I'm taking care of my kid and working from home and you know just treading water oh wow super dad we're talking about jade is that who you're talking about wait is it jade because i would not want to have left her uh feeling like that because i did have a great time with her and i definitely do want to see her. I've just haven't been able to come up for air at all these past three days. Wow. Jade probably would like to know that. Hey Ty, Jade's on the phone and has been listening.

Hi. Oh wow. Hey Jade. Hi. How are you doing? Not the greatest but okay. How are you doing? Not the greatest, but okay. How are you? Oh, you know, taking care of a sick kid and trying to keep up with work.

Just getting by right now. Yeah, I didn't know what happened, so I kind of just thought maybe you weren't that into me and didn't know how to say it. Oh, no, hon. I'm just kind of in a unique place where, you know, I really had an amazing time. And I actually would love to see you again. It's just that I got a kid and I got to make sure she's okay. And her mom's also sick. So she's been with me since that date.

And that's the reason you haven't heard back from me. The mom's been with you? No, my daughter's been with me. The mom's been with me. Taking care of the kid. We're just good co-parents. We're friends. I don't mind getting some extra time with my daughter.

Yeah, I guess when you said, I'll call you, I just kind of thought you would call me sooner, and since I didn't know what was going on, I definitely was wondering if maybe, like, yeah, you change your mind or, like, things aren't wrapped up with your daughter's mother, which is totally fine. I just would rather know the truth than like being hanging out wondering. I'm so sorry that you felt that way, babe.

That was not my intention at all. It's just, I've just been really just busy with my daughter and getting her well and the plan was to give you a call because you know i think it's probably just a cold and you know it's probably just gonna be a couple more days and uh then you can have my uh full attention that's kind of where i wanted to be was uh more available i didn't want to schedule another date and then have to bail last minute because uh i want to be respectful of your time. Aw, that's sweet. Boring. Okay. No, I think it's sweet. You know why I think this is

sweet? I think it's, no, I think that Jade's feelings are super valid. I know four days doesn't seem like a long time, but if something goes really good, you can't help but question things about yourself. So, and especially if you're dealing with somebody with kids, like, can I ask you if it's about me or is this about you? Because I kind of understand, but I can't help but feeling

a little bit insecure. You know what I mean? So this communication is actually really sweet. Yeah, I'm like, I totally get that and I'm now like a little embarrassed that I'm not feeling insecure. I think it's normal. Ty, would you like to go on another date with Jade? We'll pay for it.

I would love to see you, Jade. Great. Okay. Doctor on call. so then you can stay. No, I'm just kidding. That's not right. You have to go to your kid always. My bad. Yeah, I would love to see you again.

I guess I just want to make like 100, 1,000, 1 million percent sure things with you and your daughter's mother are like totally over. No chance you're moving on yeah i think uh you can rest assured on that fact uh we're pretty much just you know platonic friends we're good co-parents but uh there's definitely not a spark like the one that i feel with you uh she's super hot but but we're honestly just friends. Well, congratulations, Jade. You got another date. Honesty is really happening.

Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?

Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers. So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters.

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